Rajive was a thorough gentleman, accomplished international executive, intellectual and curious polymath, and eloquent writer. Above all, he was a dear friend and colleague. He would record our get-togethers and reunions with a personal essay so that the event would come alive even for those of us who were unable to attend in person. We will miss him dearly.
Pasted below is a piece that he wrote in July 2016 - a small example of his inimitable writing style to savor and enjoy! Thank you Rajive.
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Tête-à-tête with Trivi
I vividly remember my last encounter with Trivi over a decade ago. On comparing departure plans after a memorable twenty fifth celebration at Joka, we discovered that providence had ordained our departure in a Singapore bound aircraft that would fly Trivi thereafter to SFO, and enable Akshay Bansal to alight at Changi to take a connector to Melbourne.
Serendipity had thus smiled, and an opportunity had presented for us tipplers to extend the twenty fifth anniversary celebration to our eventful journey home. We had alighted a ramshackle IIMC bus, piloted by an elderly gentlemen who appeared more sozzled than its worthy passengers. It weaved its way, through the crowded, Calcutta thoroughfare. Unmindful of the roller coaster ride, the three occupants passed on the bottle, oblivious of whether they were riding the said contraption in Disneyland or through crowded Calcutta The eventual destination at Dum Dum only mattered and till Singapore our world was bliss.
I recall staggering to the airport Silver Kris lounge (Trivi and I were proud members due to our travel status) ushering in Akshay B and grabbing a few more rounds of the elixir and then lurching to the plane . The rest is a blur till we bid tearful goodbyes at Changi.
Over the years I have marveled at Trivi’s frenetic pace of travel and his frequent trips to China and his valiant attempts to navigate the destiny of Nvidia. I therefore looked forward to the opportunity of touching base with him again at the India Habitat Centre in New Delhi.
Through the years the IHC has presented itself artistically, but a lost place of privilege and of intricately stratified classes in brutal social competition. It is the backdrop for middle-aged, middle-class people engaged in such suburban pursuits.
The Sixteen Entourage led by dear Swappy, Mayar and Charlie would have added weight and grist to the mill at IHC. They were instrumental with our presence, in Increasing the average age of all the customers at the bar, but more importantly the IQ , which in the hive of the intense upward mobility and showoff had been cast by the wayside by IHC members.
Notwithstanding the above, Thanks to Swappy, Mayar and Charlie under whose auspices this was made possible. Stellar folks who threw in their weight and reserved the exclusive verandah adjoining the bar, and ensured free flow of alcohol and food to fuel the evening proceedings to a crescendo. Duggs was sorely missed whose wisdom would have added to the repartee. It was also heartening to see Kenny working the room with a digital gizmo slung around his neck clicking at selfies, recording these timeless moments for posterity.
All my mates were there refreshingly unaffected. Vicky with his philosophical demeanor, the gracious hosts. Dear Gautam from Dubai whose presence provided the much needed gravity to the room. Vivek Chandra whose presence lit up the room and the big picture and small detail appeared equally important. Pradeep Mehra who keeps the vision of Management Education so alive and so animated that we might as well all be doing a refresher MBA. They were juxtaposed by Jugnoo who came and left early (please forgive the obvious innuendo).and old school mate Venkatesh (Lambu) who is now regaling the Tatas, presiding over their empire with dollops of creativity and acumen.
It was wonderful to catch up with Trivi and Anuradha, and thanks to Anu for all the time she spent with an awestruck Anantya (my son) and he certainly benefitted from her wisdom. It was great fun to get Trivi to critique my Mandarin accent, and much in the same vein, discuss GPUs, Artificial Intelligence, Advanced Neural Networks and our larger than life acquaintances that emerged from the tragic saga 'The Billionaire Apprentice'. On the whole, our narrative symbolized the battle cry of this august group : ' Long live the geeks'
The high point of the evening was an interesting speech delivered by Mayar on behalf of dear Chacha ( a video link from Calcutta would have made a significant impact) that voted for Srilanka sojourn by a show of hands . A valiant attempt to arouse enthusiasm among the proletariat.
And as the evening wore on the only thing we had in common was bonhomie, as I stood by the verandah and gazed outwards to take it all in.
But the windows were not big enough…..
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