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His Life

Ralph (Butch) Heinman

December 26, 2013

Born on December 26 1046 to Ralph F. and Violet Lola Heinman, grew up in independence mo born at the Independence sanatarium Hospital. went to a One room school for a while out off of 24 hiway then attended Ft. Osage high school before going to wentworth Military school in lexington mo where he graduated and attended one year of college before quiting school when his mom passed away in May 1965 . Started working at Armco steel on june 5 1965 and worked there till he retired on Sept. 1999. We met in in the summer of 1964 one time then again started dating in may of 1965 till april of 1966 was engaged in july 1965 then broke up till april 1968 after he returned home from a 2 year term in the US Army where he was stationed in germany most of his time. On June 1 1968 we was married and lived 37 wonderful years together before he passed away. Butch Lived life his way and we enjoyed doing things together for the whole 37 yrs. He had 2 sister, his sister dutch he adored so much. His mom and him was very close. We had 2 kids shelly and Johnny which was his life. and he had several nieces and nephews he loved dearly. He had his first heart attack in 1977 and then as the years went on he had several more with his 8th attack being his last on Sept 4 2005. Butch loved feeding his birds and watching them every night eating. he had a best friend that was like a brother to him Stan Gilliland they was more like brothers then just friends. Butch was cremated and is buried in my back yard with a beautiful memorial built by my kids I feel so close having him out there where I can look at his grave EVERY morning when I get up and get my coffee I look out and see him there. He will always be m one and Only true love and will always be with me till we are together again. My love for him will never die and my name will never cnange I was Ralph William Heinman (Butch Heinman) wife for 37 years and will always be his wife till the day I die. this year would of been our 45th wedding anniversary which I still celebrate having the Heinman name for 45 yrsÂ