- 54 years old
- Date of birth: May 23, 1961
- Place of birth:
Clarke Road, Penal, Trinidad and Tobago
- Date of passing: Jan 23, 2016
- Place of passing:
London, Ontario, Canada
|Let the memory of Ram also know as Betaboy be with us forever in our hearts|
"I really have no words , I don't think this has really sunk in that you are no longer in our lives. How easily you just slipped away."
"Just passing Da, i just was checking my email and for a second i looking out for am email from you. Gone are the days..
Stay safe wherever you are.
"What a crazy old world we live in eh!. Sometimes I forget you are gone, and then when it hits me , the weight is too much. I often think if I did enough?, did I help you out enough?, Did I support you enough?, did I spend enough time with you throughout the years?.. was it enough Da?, if it wasn't enough, I am sorry. Am sorry I wasn't there in your last minute, your last hour, your last day, your last week! .. Coz that's all the time i left you for and then you were gone. I hope and pray the time was enough, because I don't know, I wish I did. It just all feels like such a dream that one can never wake up from."
"I miss talking to Ram by phone and think of him very often.
What I admired most about him was his POSITIVE ATTITUDE. He never complained about anything and was always upbeat and very cheerful. The other thing I will always remember is how very much he loved his children. Rest in Peace Ram. God Bless."
Da, as we mark a year since your passing, it doesn't even seem that long. That dreaded moment plays over and over again in my head like a stuck record, and the moments that followed. Acceptance will come , it has to , because there is no going back. I often think of these chain of events, I would be lying if I say I did not, but then I think of all the other moments spent together , and I say to myself at least we had those times, and they were some times ! .. along with all your many journeys you took with all the people you met throughout your life.
So Da, as we remember you today and everyday , we remember all the times we talked, walked, had lunch ..dinner , and all the crazy stunts in between, and we smile, maybe a little tears , but that's okay because that just means we love and miss you dearly.
Rest in peace and your memories will rest with us forever.
"Happy New Year Da
how times flies eh.
There are so many things to say , but no words. Life is just life , we carry on."
"Merry Christmas Da .
From me and Kiran"
"Missing you alot Da..can't quite believe how fast the time is going. My body feels numb when i think about not being able to talk to you. May this candle guide you on your journey.missing you..
"Hello Da. Missing you alot. Hope you are enjoying God's grace as he called you home early. I hope your soul has found the happiness it has yearned for in Ryo. It's difficult not being able to call you or email you."
"Ram, remember the morning we had to go downtown to see the Immigration lawyer to start the process for you citizenship, thus your transplant.
It was the worst ice storm in London in a long time, branches down, wires crackling. Our taxi driver thought we were crazy to be put, but we waited so long for the appointment , we did not want to cancel.
We held hands and prayed we would make it safely, and that the lawyer would be there to see us.
We were rewarded for our bravery, the wonderful lawyer started that journey for you.
The journey back to the Mount was less eventful. We were so happy to go for lunch with the Sisters."
"Happy Father's Day da,
i keep wanting to pick up the phone and call , so accustom going about daily life and you just a phone call away, then i remember .
So, here's me calling just to wish you happy father's day and know that you are missed and remembered by many each and every single day.
lot's ah luv
"Happy Father's Day Da..we couldn't have asked for a better dad who always pushed us to be the best we could be and always looked out for us. Thank you for always being there for us. Although we were not together for many years we did not feel the lack of your presence in our lives. The values you instilled in us we tried our best to remember through each hurdle we faced so we could overcome whatever was in our way. We miss you Da. There will never be anyone like you in our lives. Hope to see you again..
Love Vaani x"
"just passing Da"
"remembering you da
looking at these photos I still can't believe that you are gone."
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