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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Ramon Selbi, 33 years old, born on May 16, 1978, and passed away on December 3, 2011. We will remember him forever.

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Linda Collins
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
Hey Ramon damn u been on my mind non stop lately. Really wish you were here right now I can go for one of our long talks. Ik what you would say but not the same I love ya n miss ya cuz.....I can not believe u are gonna be gone 10 years next year I will be in AC to celebrate promise u that.....
nichole ann
May 15, 2020
May 15, 2020
happy birthday uncle ramon. i miss you so much. i wish you were here, but this year you have grammy to spend it with. ❤️ thank you for watching over me and being the best uncle ever i love you
nichole ann
May 15, 2019
May 15, 2019
happy birthday uncle ramon ❤️❤️❤️ loving sharing my birthday with you and mom ❤️ miss you so much
nichole ann
June 6, 2018
June 6, 2018
hey, i wish you were here right now, i know you’re the reason im able to do this, you’re watching over me and helping me get through this, i love you and miss you so much❤️
nichole ann
May 16, 2018
May 16, 2018
i love you Uncle Ramon, happy birthday ❤️ i can’t get you off of my mind, until we meet again ☹️☹️..
Felicity Snyder
April 27, 2017
April 27, 2017
Hi dad.... I really wish I would of got the time to get to know you!!! You probably no this but you are a grandfather! I had a baby boy named Dylan December 26th 2014 he is my lil mini me! I wish you would of been about to meet you! He would of loved you! I do think of you here and there even tho I don't really know you but god took you before I even got the chance to get a relationship with you. He had better plans for you but I don 't like it no matter how much I don't like it I have to live with it. You will forever be in my heart!
Anna Selbi
December 3, 2016
December 3, 2016
Ramon,
Wow it's been five years since you have be gone. How time flies by but everyday that goes by, you are still in my thoughts and heart. The pain of not seeing you or hearing your voice anymore still aches in my heart. But I not only cry sad tears now. Sometimes I think that you are were you want to be. Not hurting or suffering anymore. And you are with Mickey and Unkie. Wow I sure miss you all. Love you Always. Sending hugs and kisses
Linda Collins
December 3, 2016
December 3, 2016
I can not believe it has been 5 years now. I miss you more and more every day. I was looking at your phone the other day I miss your late night text messages. Love ya cuz
Linda Collins
November 8, 2015
November 8, 2015
Hey ramon u been on my mind a lot u always r around this time of the year I will be going to Atlantic City to celebrate you again this year no worries. Life is so fucking weird since u been gone it has been spinning out of control but standing still i can't explain it but I know u would understand what I mean. I am so pissed that u left ramon damn u boy.......I love u n miss tho
Tessa Collins
March 28, 2015
March 28, 2015
I look on here a lot but ik I never say anything because I know that you know I could never forget about u and I still cry. I try to think about all the good things like my family and friends say but it just makes me more sad because it makes me realize that your not here anymore but something it feels like you are. There a part of my heart that is just yours and on one elses. And I love you sooooo much and I will miss you until the day I die and see you and give u a big hug. I hope you are happier and pain free now. You made a lot of people happy. Love you and miss you uncle Ramon.
Linda Collins
December 26, 2014
December 26, 2014
Hey cuz merry Christmas a day late but you know you were on my mind the whole day anyway. Guess what you became a pappy today omg ramon congrats. Well I love you and miss you so damn much wish you were here so bad you can not imagine how much the girls miss you I don't think anyone really knows how close you were to them but one thing I realized over the years it don't matter. All that matters is they have the memories in their hearts forever love ya cuz congrats again.......
Linda Collins
December 4, 2014
December 4, 2014
Well it has been three years since you have been gone yesterday had its ups and downs. I was sober for the first time on the third since your passing and I am not sure if I will be again! I miss you like crazy I am not sure if I will ever really be over losing one of my best friends people say it gets easier in time that is a lie you learn to live life without that person but it never gets easier. Well Ramon I love you until we meet again know that you are on my mind always. Love ya cuz
christine Selbi
December 3, 2014
December 3, 2014
we will never forget him cant believe its three years
Tessa Collins
November 6, 2014
November 6, 2014
So I miss you a lot and I know that you are in a happy place now. I look at this website almost everyday. And I wounded did some people forget the you were alive. It's like everyone forgot all about you. I know that your gone but to this day I still cry. It so hard to know and except your gone. I just wish I could just give you a big hug and say I LOVE YOU! There is no one that can ever take your place I know your still here. I still remember when my mom told me you were dead. I didn't when what to do I just cried and cried she tried to tell me now your health and free from pain and now you don't have to live in fear that your going to leave us. But anyway I love you and you are in my heart. O I'm doing a report about you. Well bye see you soon maybe this is all a dream. And we all wake up from.
Sammii Collins
June 7, 2014
June 7, 2014
Hey uncle mon,
          I hope you know not a day goes by that I don't think about you, you're the best man I was lucky enough to call my uncle. As the days go by and I grow older I can't help but to wish to tell you how good something is going, or how much I wan finish a amazing day with my amazing uncle, as something crazy happens I wonder what you would've done, as I do something not so smart I wonder what you would have said, I know you love me and your always looking down on me, I know you will always have my back even if your protecting me over the stars, in the high heaven. You are my inspiration to do good sometimes. I love you
    With  Love,
            Sammii
anna selbi
May 16, 2014
May 16, 2014
Happy Birthday Brother!! I miss you more than you know. I love you
I was not suppose to get old without you. My only birthday wish is that you are ok and would be able to tell me that!! I love you
Linda Collins
May 16, 2014
May 16, 2014
Happy birthday cuz love and miss you so much. Fly high cuz see you again some day until then you will always be in my heart and
thoughts.
Tessa Collins
May 16, 2014
May 16, 2014
Hey uncle Ramon happy birthday. I still miss you a lot. I hope you are happy and heathy up in the high sky.
anna selbi
May 16, 2014
May 16, 2014
hey there brother, I tried to be happy today. I know you wouldn't want me to be sad. but it's just not the same. when we were younger we would fight about sharing our birthday and what I would give now to have that!! I love you!! happy birthday. love your sister
anna selbi
May 16, 2014
May 16, 2014
Happy Birthday Uncle Ramon. I hope they are giving you cake up there.<3 I just wanted to say that I really miss you, and I hope your ok. I wish you were still here right now. Well I'm having a little princess, her name is Eva. I know she would've loved you so much. But even though your not here right now, I will make sure she knows how much of a wonderful uncle you were to me, and what a great person you are. Well, at least I know I got a Angel above looking over her. I really miss you, and I really love you. I'll see you soon<3 Happy Birthday Love Always, Lexi<3
anna selbi
May 14, 2014
May 14, 2014
Hey there bro, I miss you so much. our birthday is coming up and it is so hard. me and ashley love the fact that the three of us could say happy birthday the same day! the girls and I miss you everyday. and talk about you often. I love you so much. it still is hard to believe you are not here. I wish I knew you were ok. always in my heart love,your sister Anna
Linda Collins
April 21, 2014
April 21, 2014
Hey cuz,
      Yesterday was Easter and the girls were still looking for you to walk in the door. I talk about you all the time it is funny growing up there are not too many memories that you are not in. I miss you so damn much Ramon I wish that we could go back to that day and change it. I know everything happens for a reason I just do not know what the hell this reason could be no matter how hard i try. Anyway cuz love ya till the end of time fly high...........
Tessa Collins
April 16, 2014
April 16, 2014
I still can't believe you are gone over 2 years. And still get upset when I even think about without crying. :( :(
Anna Selbi
March 7, 2014
March 7, 2014
Ramon,
I think of you everyday. sometimes it is hard to come on here because it hurts so much. I still can't believe you are not here. I know that you know it's tough on me know but please watch over the girls for me. Thank you for being the best brother I ever had. also Thabk you for the feeling I got recently from you that you know I will finally be happy. I love you. you are sadly missed and always in my heart. I love you
your sister Anna
Tessa Collins
March 3, 2014
March 3, 2014
People tell me think of happy thoughts about you but every time I do it just reminds me that you are now died and that we can't do them ever again. To this day I still brake down into tears when I talk about you or think of you. Yes I miss you like hell and i just don't know what to do anymore I love you with most of my heart the rest is my mom dad and sisters but any way i will love and cry untell i see you face to face again
Tessa Collins
December 31, 2013
December 31, 2013
i can't believe that it is almost a new year and how it still seems like it all just happen just yesterday it does not feel like a new year is coming. well love you and miss you a lot <3
Linda Collins
December 25, 2013
December 25, 2013
Ramon,
       Merry Christmas It Has Been A Very Hard Season For Me. You Have Been On My Mind Miss You Like Crazy I Know You Know All This Already Tho. I Need A Favor Can You Please Bring Peace To Tessa Please She Still Breaks Down She Just Misses You Like Hell. We All Do I Hope You Are Enjoying Your Christmas Up In Heaven Tell My Dad Meet Christmas And Everyone Else. I Remember The Christmas That You Stayed With Us Because You Were On The Run And You Woke Me Up Early Calling Me The Grinch Because I Did Not Want To Wake Up Lol...Anyway I Can Go On And On Forever But Just Know I Miss You And Love You....  
                 Love Ya Cuz,
                             Linda
Anna Selbi
December 24, 2013
December 24, 2013
A brother is someone you love to hate for his silly pranks, he plays on you and the way he irritates you continuously throughout the year. But a brother also protects you in time of need and stays with you through thick and thin. At this Christmas I want to tell you how special you ,and how much I cherish your love and care. With you brother we shared many beautiful memories, recall all those Christmas memories,we spent together and how much we enjoyed opening our presents and having the Christmas feast! Merry Christmas Ramon
Love Always, Anna, Barry, Lexi,Ashley & Mom

p.s Tell Mickey & Unkie
Merry Christmas, and we miss them and love them!!
Anna Selbi
December 24, 2013
December 24, 2013
As kids, we lived together, We fought, we laughed, we cried.
We did not always show the love, that we both had inside.
We shared our dreams and plans, and some secrets too.
All the memories we share, Is what bonds me now to you.
We grew to find we have a love, that is very strong today.
It's a love shared by our family, that will never fade away.
You are my brother not by choice, but by the nature of our birth.
I could not have chosen a better one, you are the best on earth and heaven! I miss you, think of you often and always in my heart!
All my Love, Anna
Tessa Collins
December 12, 2013
December 12, 2013
Sometimes I try to forget you a little bit but does work you are on my mind a lot
Linda Collins
December 3, 2013
December 3, 2013
Hey Cuz,
       I Don't Have To Tell You That You Have Been On My Mind And We Are Down In Atlantic City Celebrating Your Life The Way You Would Wan Us To You Already Knew That. I Can Not Believe It Has Been 2 Yeats Already Sure Does Not Feel Like It At All. I Swear you Said My NameYesterday And I Can Not Believe How Much I Miss It. Miss Ya And Luv Ya Cuz Hope You Found Peace....
Anna Selbi
December 3, 2013
December 3, 2013
Ramon
It has been two years since you have left us. Although we cant see you or hear you voice.Your presence is always around us:) You are thought of often, missed everyday! And always in our hearts!!! Tonight I will celebrate the wonderful brother you are with sharing memories of you with Lexi,Ashley,and Barry! We all love you!! Love Always,
                   Your Sister Anna xoxo
Anna Selbi
December 2, 2013
December 2, 2013
Ramon
      As I lay here getting ready for bed. I thought of you as I often do. Then I realized tomorrow will be two years:(wow it still don't feel real. I miss you so much! You were the best brother anyone could ask for!You are always in my thoughts and forever my heart!!! I Love you Ramon hugs and kisses love your sister Anna
Linda Collins
December 1, 2013
December 1, 2013
Hey Cuz Me And Sharon Are On Our Way Down To Atlantic City To Celebrate You Again Miss You Every Day Gonna Be Two Years In 2 days. Love You Cuz....
Anna Selbi
September 2, 2013
September 2, 2013
Hey there bro
It has been a while since I wrote. I think if you everyday. I miss your multiple phone calls. How time flies by. I hope you found peace. I need you to be my angel and watch over me. I need that now more than ever! Well know that you are in my thoughts and heart always.
I love and miss you! Love always, hour sister
Linda Collins
June 27, 2013
June 27, 2013
Had another dream about you don't remember everything bout it but know u were there. Woke up waiting for ur call miss u like crazy hate that you are gone not fair or right. Love n miss u everyday cuz............
anna (selbi)curtier
May 16, 2013
May 16, 2013
RAMON,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! I miss you so much. It really is not the same without you. I miss you so much. I will write back again soon. I loveyou bro
Love your sister Anna
Jenn Bettinger
May 16, 2013
May 16, 2013
Happy Birthday Lovebug!!!! Love and miss you so much. Everyone misses you. I think about you everyday and love you so much. Love Jenn/Boobear. The kids and Zoey miss you and say happy birthday.
Linda Collins
May 16, 2013
May 16, 2013
Happy Birthday Ramon, I hope all is well up there tell everyone I said I miss them and love them. Not a day goes by still that you are not on my mind how is it possible to stop thinking about someone who use to talk with me everyday. We had many fights along the way but I know you were always there no matter what. Luv ya cuz linda
anna (selbi)curtier
April 28, 2013
April 28, 2013
Hey there bro,
Just dropping by to tell you we have been thinking about you a lot lately. Alexis is going yo 8 grade prom soon. Wish you were here to see her. Life will never be the same without you. Know you are always in our thoughts and forever in our hearts.
Love Always, Anna, Barry, Alexis, and Ashley xoxo
anna (selbi)curtier
March 31, 2013
March 31, 2013
Ramon,
just dropping by to say happy Easter.I hope you mickey and unkie are having a wonderful Easter. I love all of you and miss you dearly..
love always, Anna
xoxo
Linda Collins
March 31, 2013
March 31, 2013
Happy Easter Ramon been deamin bout ya again miss u like crazy. Still can not believe that you are gone feels like a dream still think you are gonna call or walk thru the door lookin thru the girls baskets for cummin to eat. It is weird how life has changed since you have been gone n yet some things are still the same. miss ya n luv ya, Linda, Billy &girls <3
anna (selbi)curtier
March 23, 2013
March 23, 2013
Hey Ramon,
Just wanted you to know I am thinking about you. I hope you are celebrating mickey's birthday. Tell him we said Happy Birthday!
Love Always,
Anna xoxo
anna (selbi)curtier
March 18, 2013
March 18, 2013
Hey brother just wanted you to know we have been thinking about you. We miss you so much. All our love
Love, Anna &Barry
anna (selbi)curtier
February 10, 2013
February 10, 2013
Ramon,
Just droping buy to let you know that I am thinking of you! I miss you everyday ! I wish you were here to see how big the girls are getting.we all love you forever in our hearts. Tons of hugs and kissers
Live Always,Anna, Barry,Lexi,& Ashley
anna (selbi)curtier
January 3, 2013
January 3, 2013
Ramon,
    Just stoping by to say Happy New Year! And let you know you are in our thoughts. Its been a year and one month today since you left:( I still cant believe it. There is not a day that goes by that you are not in our thoughts. Our memiores with you we think of often and talk about! We miss you so much! Love, Anna, Barry & girls
Linda Collins
January 1, 2013
January 1, 2013
Well ramon happy new year can't believe it is 2013 miss u ever day still can't imagine my aphone ringing n it ain't u drives me crazy girls say miss ya n happy new year to............love ya ramon always n forever
Sammi Collins
December 6, 2012
December 6, 2012
i cought myself thinking about u again. its the frist christmas season without you.it brings back alot of memories.i miss u lots.i still rember selling choclate bars and girl scout cookies.its not the same without you here. sometimes i come home wondering if your here. i miss your lectures u gave me and lexi.i love and miss you times a thousand..i hope u like the giant x-mas tree in heaven
anna (selbi)curtier
December 3, 2012
December 3, 2012
So its been s year without you and still seems like yesterday. I was woken up from a bad dream and lived that nightmare all over again.you are missed everyday! You are still alive in my heart. I love you my brother please don't ever forget it!  Love. Always Anna
P.s Barry & I are going to spread some of your ashes at the dolphin stadium! We love you all our love xoxo
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Linda Collins
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
Hey Ramon damn u been on my mind non stop lately. Really wish you were here right now I can go for one of our long talks. Ik what you would say but not the same I love ya n miss ya cuz.....I can not believe u are gonna be gone 10 years next year I will be in AC to celebrate promise u that.....
nichole ann
May 15, 2020
May 15, 2020
happy birthday uncle ramon. i miss you so much. i wish you were here, but this year you have grammy to spend it with. ❤️ thank you for watching over me and being the best uncle ever i love you
nichole ann
May 15, 2019
May 15, 2019
happy birthday uncle ramon ❤️❤️❤️ loving sharing my birthday with you and mom ❤️ miss you so much
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December 5, 2011
by Linda Collins

My story of Ramon wow well it starts young finding diasour bones with ramon me and anna lol.  To everything in between no matter what happened i knew ramon would be right there helping.  He was so much more than a cousin  he was like a brother a uncle to my kids in their eyes he did no wrong they know he did but that did not matter they knew the real ramon.  Who drew pics for them and took them uptown and helped sell candy bars with them.  right up to the end he made sure to tell me he loved his family and he was a good uncle to his real nieces and the adapted ones just as much.  He was taken from us way to soon but will live on forever in our hearts. We love you Ramon so much see ya again someday you better be right in the front.   Love ya Rambo

 

my twin

December 3, 2011
by anna selbi

Here is a story about my brother Ramon.He was not always perfect and made many mistakes.But those are the memories I will not remember.The memories I will remember are the brother who was loving caring and sometimes a pain in the butt. We grew up together and he was always there for me. There was alot of good in him. He was a typically brother like all my friends as we were younger. And let his friends like me. But would hurt anyone who hurt me.He is the only person who knows how our lives were.I am glad he is my twin.His life was taking to soon but now he is in a better place where he is not suffering.He is my angel.He loves my girls dearly and when the demons werent inside him he was a wonderful uncle to them.Ramon I will never forget all our good and bad times but threw both we got through it. You will live on in all our hearts....Tell the family we love and miss them. Well my brother until we meet again know you will always be in my heart. And will be missed everyday. I love you

                                                               Love your sis,

                                                                   Anna

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