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This memorial website was created in the memory of  Randy Cain who was born on August 10, 1956 and passed away on June 28, 2005. His loved ones miss him.He will be missed by every person who ever knew him. He was a man who asked for little but gave everything he had and was. 

August 10, 2017
August 10, 2017
Happy Birthday Randy. 61 years ago today the world was blessed with a good man. Your life was too short sweetheart and you are missed by us all every day. Something reminds the people who loved you everyday that you are still around us or of something funny that you did and it gives us a giggle. You were loved by all of us and i will always miss you. Xo
August 10, 2017
August 10, 2017
Happy Birthday Randy, forever remembered and loved and missed!
July 9, 2017
July 9, 2017
Happy Anniversary Randy! This year would have been our 40th anniversary but the universe had other plans for us. Your time was done and mine was to start over. The best thing you left me was our beautiful daughter. She also has started a new life and you would be so proud of her. I sure am. Love always and never forgotten. Xo
June 28, 2017
June 28, 2017
Today marks the day 12 years ago that we all lost you. You are still missed and always will be. Your humor and love and kindness are still remembered by me and all who knew you. Connie and I are still doing well and I like to think you are partly the reason for that. You would be so proud of the strong beautiful young woman she has become. Love you and miss you always. Xo
June 28, 2017
June 28, 2017
Bob and I are thinking about you today, as we often do. Time goes by, but our love for you never fades, and you will always be loved and missed.
June 28, 2017
June 28, 2017
Hi Daddy. I'm sure you're keeping an eye on things so as you can see I struggle to keep it together sometimes, it'll be easier to give up but I never do because you and mom raised me to be strong and resourceful. Even though I have my struggles you can also see I'm happy... truly happy with the choices I've made and with the direction my life is heading.
 I know you're proud of mom and I and we love and miss you very much.
October 31, 2016
October 31, 2016
HAPPY HALLOWEEN, your favorite time of year and our daughter is on a plane to Montreal for her work. it is still our favorite time of year.
August 10, 2016
August 10, 2016
Happy Birthday Randy! Today you would have turned 60 yrs old if you had not gotten sick. Life takes some strange twists and turns but im sure we will meet again. You are and will always be missed. Xo
August 10, 2016
August 10, 2016
"Happy Birthday Randy" Hard to believe it has been so long, and that today you would have been 60? Time will never change the memories of you that we will always hold dear. Forever missed by Judy and Bob!
August 10, 2016
August 10, 2016
Happy Birthday Daddy!! Everyday there is something that reminds me of you, I guess that's your way of letting me know you're here, thank you and I love you.
July 9, 2016
July 9, 2016
39 years ago we were married...11 years ago our beautiful daughter and i spread your ashes on the hills of your families farm. It was a short life together but a good one. Life is new for connie and myself. Our lives are good and we are getting strong together again. We still miss you . Xo
June 28, 2016
June 28, 2016
Hey Randy. I don't know what to say, except I still miss you. You will always be loved and missed by all. XO
June 28, 2016
June 28, 2016
11 yrs ago tonight you left us. We have all missed you but Connie had the hardest time. Our relationship is going well so far and she is healthy, happy and strong. She is very outdoorsy and you would be proud of her. She posted pictures of you both from years gone by on her instagram on father's day. I was glad to see that. I will call her today. I am happy with my life now. Miss you and probably always will. Love xo
June 28, 2016
June 28, 2016
You will always be loved and remembered, you must be so pleased that the two girls you loved most in life are now re-united..it is how it should be! With great love and remembrance...Sister and Brother Judy and Bob
June 28, 2016
June 28, 2016
I miss you so much. It seems like I miss you more every year. I have had some rough times and some really happy times during the last 11 years. I'm sure you've seen them all. Mom and I are happy I think
We are going to be ok and continue to be happy with the our new adventures now and with the ones to come.
I love you so much.
January 24, 2016
January 24, 2016
Well honey it finally happened. Our beautiful daughter finally wants a relationship with me again. I have missed her so much. Now maybe she will also visit here for you. Thank you. Xo
December 29, 2015
December 29, 2015
Hi honey. ..another Christmas had passed and i donated the tree we had to a family who didn't have one. ...felt good.  New years is coming and some things have changed others have not. Ruth wants a relationship with mom again. Connie still off the grid but she is beautiful and healthy and happy so i can live with that. David is having trouble. Watch out for both of them. Brad is fixing up the house and you would love it. I will never forget you. Love always xo.
October 31, 2015
October 31, 2015
Happy Halloween!!!! your favorite time of the year is here and our daughter will no doubt be celebrating up a storms as she does every year. Watch over her. xo
August 10, 2015
August 10, 2015
Happy Birthday hun! It's been a long time since I was able to say that to your face. You are still and will probably always be missed by your loved ones. You will always have a piece of my heart. As usual watch over our baby girl. She is happy and healthy and gets more beautiful every day. I check on her even though she doesn't know. I love her more than my own life. Xo
August 10, 2015
August 10, 2015
I think of you often, but never more than today, on your Birthday! You now have Rodney , mom ,and dad to keep you company, so you are not alone. I love you and miss you, and will hold you close in my thought.s.   Love Judy
July 9, 2015
July 9, 2015
Well today would have been our 38th wedding anniversary but instead it is 10yrs since i spread your ashes on the farm. You are still missed by all and even though my life includes a new love and husband it takes nothing from the many years we had. You were a special man and i loved you dearly. Watch over our daughter. xo
June 28, 2015
June 28, 2015
Well honey at 9:10pm today it will be exactly 10 years since your daughter and I said our last goodbyes to you. You are still missed very much by all that knew you and especially by me and Connie. She still is not talking to me, but she is healthy and happy even without us. Your strength and courage throughout your illness can never be forgotten. I wish that things had worked out different but there is a reason for everything. With your passing came an independence for me I never would have imagined and many do not understand. I know you would be proud of me. Watch over our daughter as usual. Miss you .xo
June 28, 2015
June 28, 2015
Can't believe it has been 10 years since you have left us, but will be forever in our thoughts and prayers. Love always Bob and Judy
June 28, 2015
June 28, 2015
Wow, 10 years has gone by fast!! I will always miss you and think about you Randy. Your passing confirmed to me that "life is short and the good do die young," unfortunately. Keep smiling down on us and give us a jolt if we're misbehaving...XXOO
June 21, 2015
June 21, 2015
Happy Father's Day, I wish our daughter or hope that our daughter would acknowledge you on this site just once. At least she is happy and healthy and riding her bike competitively. She always loved riding her bike growing up. Well maybe one day she will acknowledge you and come back to me. Love always, xo
March 13, 2015
March 13, 2015
Hey hun, well it looks like i will be married on March 28th, to Brad King. I know you would want this for me as long as i am happy and I really am. There have been some bumps but you know how that is we had them too. It is worth it and he loves me. I will not forget about you, we had too much history. As always keep watch over our girl. Love you xo
December 25, 2014
December 25, 2014
Merry Christmas Honey! Still no contact from our daughter, hopefully one day she will realize what she is missing. At least mom got a surprise from Ruth, she left a card for mom in the mailbox, its a step in the right direction. Love always xo
October 31, 2014
October 31, 2014
Happy Halloween! Your favorite time of year is here again. I will think of you today esoecially when I see steve our artist ...he loves halloween too. Love always. Xo
August 27, 2014
August 27, 2014
It's our daughter's 9th anniversary, tomorrow its 9yrs since your dad passed, I hope there is a way for you to bring Connie some peace since she has made it clear that i can't.  Love you xo
August 10, 2014
August 10, 2014
Happy Birthday sweet brother...loving you always and never forgetting.
    Love Bob and Judy xxx
July 9, 2014
July 9, 2014
Happy Anniversary honey. Watch over our girl, im doing good. Love you always, there is a special place in my heart for you. Xo
June 28, 2014
June 28, 2014
I can't believe it has been 9 yrs already. I still miss you so much and wish you were still with us. If you were here, Connie would still be in our lives as well. I know I will see you again and that time can't come soon enough for me. You will always be my favorite brother in law. Your replacement doesn't hold a candle to how special you were. Love you always,
June 28, 2014
June 28, 2014
Its been 9 years since you were taken from me. I still miss you very much. My life is different without you, but I have moved on and I know you are happy for me. I will always have you in my heart and keep watch over Connie, looks like she is happy and healthy but has strayed from her family. A lot like you did from yours but more completely. Love always. xo
December 25, 2013
December 25, 2013
Merry Christmas, honey. My life may be changing, but there will always be a special place for you in my heart. Love schnuckums xo
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Hi Honey, it is Christmas time again and unfortunately no daughter and now your brother has joined you and your dad. Margaret and the boys are ok. But now Marg understands things she didn't before I think. As usual watch over our little girl. I keep trying to talk to her but to no avail. I will let her know about Rodney. Also I am getting remarried to Brad. You told me that if the right guy came along don't let him go , you just wanted me to be happy and I am. I will always have a piece of my heart for you. xo
August 10, 2013
August 10, 2013
To-day you would have been 57..always my little Brother in my heart, not in stature. Every day you are missed by me and your family but that love never fades. You are in our thoughts always, but especially today on your Birthday.
August 10, 2013
August 10, 2013
Happy Birthday honey! Next week will be our little girl's birthday and i will send her a birthday wish even if she doesn't care. One day hopefully she will realize that she misses me as much as i miss her. As always watch over her.
Love always xo
July 9, 2013
July 9, 2013
Well today would have been our 36th wedding anniversary, so happy anniversary, You didn't get to spend much time in the new house but you enjoyed it while you were here. Your brother is having a rough time of it, so watch over him and as usual watch over Connie. She is happy and healthy and bicycle racing, I'm proud even if she doesn't know it. Love to you and her. xo
June 28, 2013
June 28, 2013
Wow! It's been 8 years and I still miss you so much. I love you bro-in-law.
June 28, 2013
June 28, 2013
It been 8 yrs honey since you were taken from me. I have accomplished a lot and lost a lot in that time. I miss you and your little muppet impression and sense of humor. I loved you a long time and still do. Watching you fade was the hardest thing I have ever done, but I don't regret giving you all that you wanted and letting you go with dignity. Watch over our girl . Love always, xo
June 28, 2013
June 28, 2013
Robin you are in my thoughts always. Didn't know Randy that well but he was awesome to talk to and a great neighbour. Sure do miss being next door. Hugs and Love Girlfriend
June 28, 2013
June 28, 2013
You are loved and always missed by me, Bob, Rodney and Margaret, because to know you was to love you. Our loss was Heavens gain! I paid respects to you at your special place, at the cabin. It remains peaceful and tranquil.
May 12, 2013
May 12, 2013
Hi Honey, another combination of Mother's Day and the hardest day for me .They came together again, May 12, the day that marked the last few weeks i had you and today another Mother's Day with our daughter not talking to me. Watch over her. I miss you still and I miss her so much. Your brother is not doing well, a matter of time and Margaret will be in the same boat as me. Love xo
February 14, 2013
February 14, 2013
Hi honey, Happy Valentines you always made it a special day. I miss you and was surprised to see your sister and brother left tributes to you. That was nice. As always watch over our girl. I will love you always. My life is busy and interesting. I think you would be proud of my accomplishments. xo
January 15, 2013
January 15, 2013
I hope that you, Mom, Dad, Eamonn and Mark had a fabulous Holiday Season, as Rodney, Margaret, Judy and myself had. I miss and think of you often. Sorry that we didn't spend more time together. Love You Always and Forever Bob
January 4, 2013
January 4, 2013
Forever Loved and Missed. I know you are so proud of Robin. Life is short and so precious, I pray the two girls you love endlessly will find their way back to each other...so you can rest in peace. Please extend my love to Mom and Dad. Love Always Your Sister Judy
January 1, 2013
January 1, 2013
Happy New Year , 2013 another year is here. Miss you and our girl. Love you both and as usual watch over her. xo
December 26, 2012
December 26, 2012
Well my darling, christmas is here and today is boxing day. We are going to mom's today, just wanted to send my love and tell you to extend it to your dad and aunt sharon. Keep an eye on our daughter , i miss her and you. My life is hectic but full of new possibilities and i love what i do, you would be proud of me. xo
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August 10, 2023
August 10, 2023
Happy Birthday Daddy! 67 wow! Still a young age. Hope you’re shooting guns and drinking whiskey!! Always loved and never forgotten.
August 10, 2023
August 10, 2023
Happy Birthday, honey! You were robbed of your future. We were robbed of a future all together.  Connie and I are strong and we think about you always.  We know you are watching over us.  We love you. I will always love you. ❤️
June 28, 2023
June 28, 2023
Hi honey. Connie is right today is better than last year. But we spent it together last year and that made it easier. We miss you and love you.  I find myself talking to people about you, it is strange how it just comes up because of something they say.  I like telling people about you. Our daughter is an amazing woman that we can be very proud of.  Life is full of surprises but you are always with us.  Love always and forever. Xo
Recent stories

Randy my love.

June 27, 2010

He was the only man I ever wanted and he was taken from me by lung cancer that spread through his body.  He was a quiet man that was generally not very social, but when he decided to make you his friend that was it, you always knew he was there for you. He would do anything for anyone and ask for nothing in return.  Even while undergoing chemo, he was across the road helping to renovate a neighbors home with other neighbors. There are very few men with the strength, humor, character and determination that he had.  He was my hero and I miss him everyday.

Randy and his war games

June 27, 2010

He loved his paintball war games, granted he took them to the extreme.  He had smoke bombs , grenades, rocket launchers and he built with his friends, a tower ,fox holes and anything else needed to make it feel real.  He had the guns, ammo and all the gear and spent weekends away shooting his friends and getting shot at.  He loved it, even with the bruises, broken toe, and broken collarbone he sustained, he would never have given it up.

Randy's bottle collection

June 27, 2010

Randy spent years digging up,  cleaning up and then displaying his prize bottles.  He could look at a field that to anyone else look like just a field.  But for Randy he could tell by the way the land was that a homestead or maybe a barn had been there at one time.  He could go directly to the area he thought he might find something and start to dig.  Sure enough there would be bottles , nails, glasses, medicine bottles, etc.  He could tell you almost the whole life story of the people who had been there.  He was very smart and loved history.  Then he would clean everything up and put them on display.

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