It was a shocker when my husband (your son) woke me up to the sad news of your demise.
Hmmmm, an Elephant has fallen I said with tears flowing down my eyes.
My husband’s father, my beloved father-in-law, had passed from this world into the presence of Christ.
My grief goes deep. We have lost someone who is irreplaceable, someone who has guided and formed our lives in ways that cannot be numbered. His absence will be acutely felt for the rest of our lives.
You raised amazing children: If you know Barrister Grace Ajayi, Brother David Ajayi, Isaac Ajayi, Faith Amos Ajayi then you can attest to this fact.
I cannot thank you enough for the nurture, training, and examples you provided your children with as they grew, so much of who they are is because of your influence.
I cannot quantify the unconditional love, spiritual and practical encouragement, and unwavering support from my precious father-in-law. I will miss you tremendously especially those your early morning prayers I always woke up to but I rejoice in knowing that you have now entered into the greatest worship service of all time with your creator.
I did not have the chance to say the word “Goodbye” to you Daddy, but I am comforted to know that this is not truly “Goodbye", this is simply “See you later.”
Good night Grandpa as you are fondly called by me.

Daughter in Law
Tolulope Ajayi

It is so hard for me to say goodbye to you Pale, our Daddy, Uncle, My great Teacher and Mentor. Pale, I am heartbroken and sad that you left us so soon especially now you supposed to sit, crossed your legs and enjoy all that you have worked for. Your journey on earth was adventurous and decimated with your earliest experiences and struggles. This is no doubt transcend to the way you felt about life generally. You thought us especially me in particular that the only way to a successful life is Hard work, Determination, Faith in God and most importantly, to be independent but always trust in God Almighty. Pale your words of encouragement still sinks inside of me and remains my guide forever. I must confess, towing the lines of your experience and sailing along had really shaped me and my perspective about life generally. Pale are truly a great man, a strong man and a soldier to the core, even after retiring you still remained resolute with affirmation till your last moment. You are indeed an example of a hard working father, you planted seeds and ensures they were nurtured to maturity. You touched lives, gave out from the little you had to people far and near. My only regret is that you are not here to rip what have sow and enjoy the fruit of your labour but who are we to question God and his supremacy. We, especially the entire Ogedengbe's family will forever miss you. May your soul find rest in the Lord till we meet again.  Feyi Robert Ogedengbe

I still can't believe you're gone. It feels like just yesterday we were laughing and talking, and now you're gone. I miss you so much.
Uncle Raphael was a kind and loving man.
He was always patient and understanding, and he always made me feel loved.
As I got older, my uncle continued to be a source of support and guidance. He helped me through some tough times in my life, and he always offered me sound advice. He was a true mentor, and I am so grateful for his guidance. He was a truly special person. He had a big heart, and he always put others before himself. He was a loving husband, father, and uncle, and he will be deeply missed by all who knew him. Rest on my beloved Uncle a.k.a Akowe mummy mi.

As I received with rude shock the sad news of the untimely death of your wife Mrs. Titilope (my cousin), so I was when I heard of your sudden transition to glory.
This affirms that death is an inevitable end of every mortal which is not by choice but comes when it will.
You both ran a good but very short course which we would have loved you lived longer, God cannot be questioned for calling you when he did.
However, you lived a short and eventful life.
You will sorely be missed. May your souls rest in peace . Goodnight.

JOHN OLUDASE

Today, as I reflect upon the life of my beloved father, I am overwhelmed with gratitude and love. My dad was not only a parent but also a guiding light, a role model, and a true inspiration. His presence in my life has shaped me into the person I am today, and his legacy will forever live on in my heart.
My dad was a man of unwavering strength and integrity. He faced life's challenges with courage and determination, always leading by example. He taught me the importance of hard work, perseverance, and never giving up on my dreams. His tireless efforts and sacrifices will forever serve as a reminder of the incredible lengths he went to provide for our family and ensure our happiness.
Beyond his dedication to his responsibilities, my dad had a heart full of love and kindness. He was always there for us, offering boundless support, encouragement, and a listening ear. Whether it was celebrating my successes or comforting me during difficult times, his presence provided solace and a sense of security. His unconditional love gave me the confidence to believe in myself and the strength to overcome any obstacles that came my way.
Some of my fondest memories are the simple moments we shared together. From studying together in preparation for my exams to engaging in deep conversations that lasted late into the night, those times were filled with laughter, warmth, and an unbreakable bond. His wisdom and guidance were invaluable, and I cherished every opportunity to learn from him.
My dad's legacy extends beyond our immediate family. He touched the lives of many with his generosity, compassion, and willingness to lend a helping hand. He was a pillar of strength, and his impact will continue to ripple through the lives of those he touched.
Although my dad is no longer physically present, his spirit lives on within myself and my siblings and all those whose lives he touched. I am forever grateful for the love, support, and guidance he bestowed upon me. As I navigate the journey of life, I will carry his memory as a beacon of light, guiding me through both joyous and challenging times.
Dad, you may be gone, but your legacy and the love you shared will live on forever. I am blessed to have had you as my father, and I will honour your memory by living a life filled with the values and principles you instilled in me.
Palee. You will always be loved, cherished, and deeply missed.

My family and I extend our deepest condolences to Barr. Grace Ajayi and her family during this difficult time.

Listening to your daughter recount memories of your time together and your time on earth gives us the confidence that though you are no longer with us, your spirit lives on through the love you shared and the indelible mark you left in the hearts of your family and everyone who came in contact with you.

May your legacy on earth inspire us to live with kindness and to cherish the precious moments we have with our loved ones.

Rest In Peace, Sir. You will be dearly missed.

Rest in peace, Sir, until we meet to part no more.


Kim Thomas

I believe in his legacy as reflected in his children, he has departed in body but will be a guardian in spirit. I see his reflection in his children majorly in Isaac... May his soul rest in peace. We love but God loves you more...

My daddy , my pale , my old boy it is with tears in my eyes that I write this tribute, never believed I would be doing this for you this soon, we had so much to talk and sort out but you left too quick, I thought you will be with us much longer but alas Gods will prevailed and I cannot question it. I miss you so much, your words of advise, the early morning calls, that giggle when you want to request something from me and the way you call me ‘mummy mummy’ , you protected us with everything, you were an amazing dad in your own unique way, I love you and I truly miss you.
I will always make you proud and try to do all that will make you happy with me.
Spending your last days with you in the hospital was priceless and I would hold tight to your memory forever.
Keep sleeping in peace until we meet to part no more. ❤️

I had the honour to co-habit with one of the sweetest soul as a neighbour. Meeting and getting to know Grace, Isaac and Faith has been an awesome encounter. Just know that you bore a goodly heritage and for that alone, you have done well. May your soul find rest in the bossom of the Lord. Rest on Daddy!

Oldman of life....I remember many things, many events, many memories and all I wish for now is more time to create more memories  but it will forever be a wish while we take solace in the comfort the Lord brings always. Continue to rest in Peace "Palee"

I was shock when i had the news of your demise,that Daddy military police has left us as we use to call you but who are we to question God
We will surely miss you sir
Sleep well in the Bossom of the lord still we meet again on the last day

Although the news of your demise came as a shocking news... Time could heal but not erase the memories we have of you Daddy. Continue to Rest in Peace.

I have deliberately avoided to write about "Baba Soldier" as fondly called by sundry when he was with us in body. This is due to the fact that I am yet to grasp the fact that he has departed to glory. I still believe like just one of his many travels when he would say "baba, I just want to go to Lagos to visit your children" and he would return. So, does it mean the only opportunity to see him again is in heaven? This is most painful to me even though I have tried to hide this under the strength that I should not be seen weeping or crying . The truth is that, I weep blood in the inside. How would I suddenly forget someone who was a source of inspiration, support and encouragement? How would I forget a worthy representation among the church elders both at the Province and at Regional level? How would I forget someone who was quick to support the work of God financially and in kind? How would I forget someone who would say: baba, you cannot be carrying sand and I will be standing? His departure is devastating!

I remember, I visited him when he was not in the church and I was informed that he was strong. After, as I was going, he wanted to give me money to buy fuel which I rejected. If I had known that would be the last time we were to enjoy such compliments, I would have collected the money / gift.

Daddy, Ogedengbe Raphael Ajayi, you left a vacuum just too wide for anyone to easily fill. The church, The Redeemed Christian Church of God, Gloryland, Agbaluku - Arigidi Akoko can never forget you in a hurry for the footprint you left behind in the service of the Lord which you demonstrated in church attendance during midweek and Sunday services; your numerous testimonies to appreciate God vis-a-vis offering and tithe payment. Honestly, I have no doubt in me that you are preserved for that glorious day.

Rest on soldier of the Most High. Ka sun layó! Ka pade layó!!

Your Pastor,

Wole Oluwasuji
Gloryland, Agbaluku Arigidi, Akoko Ondo State, Nigeria.

This world is nothing but a stage where everyone is a character and having performed our role, we shall exit the stage but your demise is a surprise because you did not alert us that your role has been completed. Who are we to question the director of not extending your role. Adieu old soldier.

Yes this world is not our home. We are just passing through. And since Late Ajayi (Grandpa) has passed through, May the Angels welcome him through heaven's open door in the name of Almighty Lord, Amen.
I beseech Almighty Lord to overlook his shortcomings and grant him Paradise, May the
Good Lord give the family the fortitude to bear the unbearable loss, Ameen
Continue to Rest In Peace Grandpa.
Alhaji Kotun-Olufunmi, Babatunde

The fact that "Old Boy," as we used to call him, is no longer among us still seems like a dream to me. The grief of not having him around is tremendous, but the fact that he is sleeping in the presence of God Almighty is our sole solace. Although he led a happy life and finished his course, his loving memories will live on in our hearts forever. 'Old boy' had a good sense of humour, a strong personality, and was always ready to help or listen . He is frequently my go-to person for me personally when I am in trouble with the authority; all it takes is a phone call for him to get me out of trouble. I'll miss you, Daddy, but I know we'll meet you in heaven on the day of judgement chanting hossana to the Most High. We love you but christ love you the most. Adieu!!

A day I wish never came,a day I wished wasn’t in the calendar, it was a black Wednesday. It was the day the man I love and respect most passed on.
Oh death,how could you have come this early, death came and stole my Bami, my counselor, loving father.
Bami, your transition to the new abode left a void in us that no one can ever fill, After a brief illness, we sadly say goodbye to an icon, though you weren’t perfect but in your little ways you brought joy to me and to the entire family.
I would have loved for you to stay longer with us to see you enjoy the fruits of all your endeavors but the decision of God is supreme.
A bold and fearless man.
I will choose to always remember the smiles and the excitement in you and also your favorite slogan “God is alive” God bless you” even though it hurts to never hear you call me mummy again.
Bami, to the world you were just one person, but to me you are an amazing dad.
Bami, as we bid you Goodbye May the light of God brighten your path to eternal rest in Jesus name. I love you always


Adieu Bami
Tribute to my mom
Mummy I miss you so much everyday….. your gentle guidance has immeasurably influence all that I have done, all that I do , and all that I will do.
Your sweet spirit is imprinted on all that I have been,all that I am, and all that I will ever be. Though you left me too early but you ensure I feel your presence everyday through my siblings. I can’t question God but I’m most thankful that I came through you mummy. I love you always mummy.


Adieu mummy❤️

Although your passing was a rude shock, we are glad that it was a restful sleep in the Lord. We had privileges of sweet fellowship with pleasant memories. You have done your bit and your children are glad you did. Personally, I am honoured by your respect and openness, whenever we are privileged to share and pray together. And going by the last of these opportunities, I am not sad at all, but do rejoice in the Lord. I am confident that we shall soon meet at the river side. Goodnight Uncle Raphael!