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Dear Pops,

April 23, 2021
Not only have I lost a grandad but a father too and that’s what you were. I use to say you are my two in one.

As a young girl growing up without my father. You seamlessly stepped into play and took on both roles. You were everyone’s daddy and popsie and it really didn’t matter to you because you were there to serve. I couldn’t be ever more grateful.

There are so many memories I could share, yet the most treasured ones with you are those we shared back home in Jamaica. Of that; my childhood memories with you are tinged with humour, laughter and of course your sternness. You could be quite strict when there was a need. Only to protect and steer us in the right direction. A great example of a great father and a leader.

You taught me first hand the secrets of what a good cook ought to be. Those moments of us near the hot coil fire outside, whilst I watch and help you cook the best manish water soup and so much more, I’m yet to find one as good.

I would watch and spend countless hours with you in the kitchen. One thing was for sure, no one could trouble your pot. Then you would say wash up Lis. That wasn’t your most favourite thing let’s just say, haha.

It made me happy when you visited us here in the UK, in having the opportunity to return the favour of cooking for you. You then said, “cho man she learn from the best”. I’m glad you were made proud. 

You were always the first up in the early hours of the morning, drinking your cup of coffee whilst sitting out on the veranda. This was one your favourite things to do; whilst humming to one of your favourite old time tunes. Then pondering what you were going to cook for us that day. 

Your forever and soothing smile was infectious and captivating. If you weren’t happy with something you would let it be known straight away. I loved that about you. Nothing bothered you. You never looked sad or grumpy nor were you worried about a thing, you were always at such peace. Even to the very end of your life’s journey with us. This is what as given me great comfort. These are only a handful of reasons why you are missed.

Your words weren’t always much, yet you had the biggest heart and the kindest soul. It showed in everything you would do. The real treasure of a grandad.

Never before as such a blow been struck in our midst. You were a wonderful patriarch who guided and sheltered us and will continue doing so with the trademark you have left in our hearts. Though your gone to rest- I’ll forever reflect on the wonderful and joyous times we’ve shared. You were our calm rock in the rapid currents of our life’s. Though I remain at peace in knowing you are resting in the Heavenly Realm Of God.

You were sent to serve us all for a time and we are so blessed and honoured that God choose you for us. Our world has been blessed beyond measures. 

You will forever live in my heart, life will not be the same without you. Missing You❤️

My Pops

April 17, 2021
Dearest Pops

The weekend was our time to catch up and you always made me laugh. You were always jovial and you love to tease,  you would say “ you girls are getting old “ and I would say “ not as old as you “ 

I always had something to tell you and you always had something to tell me. I miss our conversations; I’m great full  for all the beautiful memories you have left us with. 

Sleep in eternal peace my beloved father ❤️

My dear Uncle Eutie

April 17, 2021
When I think of my Uncle I think of him with great fondness and how he used to make us laugh! He was a great cook and a funny guy! We looked forward to his visits to England, as we could guarantee that there would be a big family party and he would be in charge of making the biggest pot of stew peas! We miss you Uncle, but we have our great memories of you in the UK! Love always 

BEST DAD EVER

April 17, 2021
Dad you never know how much I love and miss you, our conversation was so short but sweet and I always feel good and the laughter it just make me feel so sad that we can’t do that anymore. You were the shining light in our life and now it seem so dark, I miss you so much but I know you’re  close  and I try to be strong because I know that’s what you would have said. 
Even though you in another part of the world whenever we get together it was joyful, amazing and we cannot forget who the master chef was , It’s going to take sometime for me to come to terms that you’re not here, I am struggling.
Going back to my younger years and yes I was an hand full and I was summoned by you  I remember my heart was beating because I know I’m in trouble, but that was never the case, you spoiled me and the rest of my sisters , what can I say you were the best dad and the memories we shared always be in my heart
love you always Dad

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