Happy Birthday, Ray. Rest in Peace..

Happy Birthday Uncle Ray. You are always on my mind and forever in my heart ❤️
Steven XO

Happy birthday Uncle Ray!! Miss you and love you so very much❤️

Hi uncle Ray. It's hard to believe it's been 10 years since you were called home. It goes without saying that you are missed more than you could ever know. Please watch down over us and keep us safe. Love and miss you.
Steven XO

Hi Ray, 10 yrs today, 9 for George (6/1). Amazing how time just flies by!! Rest in Peace Ray. Kisses to Mom, George, Tom,Lil & Sid, Cousin Sis and her husband Joe, our father, Pop (can’t forget Pop) and anybody I forgot). Boy pretty soon we’ll have our own little colony up there!!! Save a place for me!!!! Love Cass

Merry Christmas Dearest ,Another one in the books. Total chaos was the rule of the day! I think as the kids get older they goofier they become.Oh well It is most probably me. I have very little patience. Please give everyone a kiss and hug for me. Love you and miss you with every passing day. See you soon!

Happy Birthday Dear Heart, I miss you soooo much. Not much has changed around here. Marcia is doing really great! Love you more than you can imagine. I will write to you soon.

Happy Birthday, Ray. Love and kisses to all the family up there with you. Rest In Peace. Love Cass

Happy Birthday Uncle Ray !! I miss and love you !!

Happy happy birthday Uncle Ray!! Miss you !! ❤️ so wish you we’re still with us!!

Good evening Love of My Life, time just keeps marching on. Today is our 34th anniversary! Just think we would have been two old farts wandering around without a clue!! Now there is just one and I do that lots. I try not to go outside too much because the weather has been beyond hot. Between the rain and the 90+ temp it is just easier to stay in! Even the dogs don’t stay out very long. I’m not sure who annoyed the weather gods but they need to apologize. I really don’t have much to say other than Happy Anniversary and I love you very very much ! UWMA

Happy Fathers Day Uncle Ray. Love you. Steven

Rest in peace Uncle Ray. You were always so funny. This side of the family misses you.

Good evening sweetheart,another year in the books. It has been a long long year. I just got back from spending a month with Marcia,Roger,Lindy and Coop. My beloved sister had two strokes and literally scared the hell out of me. She is doing great now and the doctors are happy with her progress. She was very fortunate to have little or no effects from them but it was certainly an eye opener.Every one else in the family seems to be okay at the moment.I know one thing for sure,I sure do miss you! Every year it gets harder and harder on this day  to face the next day,month and year without you. Who ever said it gets easier with every passing year lied their ass off! It truly gets worse and worse. Please tell everyone “hello”for me. I love you and miss you bunches. UWMA

Good evening sweetheart, I am so sorry I am late writing to you. I have not been feeling well and Christmas was a real drag for me. I’m better but still not up to my usual. I hope your Christmas was better than mine. Did you celebrate with Lil,Sid and Tommy? I don’t really have a lot to report from here except that I miss you and love you more and more.Please take care of yourself and tell everyone I miss them. I love you so much. UWMA

Happy Thanksgiving Darling,I have your turkey leg waiting for you! I fixed dinner today and it takes me longer and longer every year. It was pretty good if I do say so. It was a small group this year just Chris,Karen,Connor,Tyler and myself. There are enough leftovers for eating for two weeks! Well I’m exhausted so I am going to go to bed. I love you and miss you. UWMA

Beautiful photo gallery of a amazing uncle. Time moves on but the pain never goes away. As always thinking of you today Uncle Ray. Love Steven

Happy Birthday, Ray. Gosh, 77!!!! You’re catching up to me!!! Hi to everyone up there with you. Please try to locate my George, Ray, he’s probably wandering around up there somewhere!!!!! Love Cass

Happy Birthday Dad. We love and miss you so very much! 

Happy Birthday Uncle Ray, love and miss you so very much XOXO

Hey Old Man!!! Happy Birthday! Sure wish you were still here to bug me when I don't have make up on. It's the little things, ya know? Still in our hearts and on our mind. Love and miss you!

Good morning love! Just wanted to wish you a very very Happy Birthday!!! Wow 77 today. Not much has changed since I last wrote to you. Thanksgiving is right around the corner so I have to get my self together and start decorating the house. Every year I get older and it gets harder to decorate. I just wish you were here to help me. No I just wish you were here period. I miss you so much. Well I’m going to get my self together and start my day. Please tell everyone I said “hello” and give Katie and Bailey a big kiss from me. I love you. UWMA

Happy birthday Uncle Ray !! Miss you everyday!! ❤️

Good evening love, I am just lying here watching of all things Family Feud on t.v. I haven’t written to you for a while so here I am. There really isn’t anything going on. I am getting ready to go to New Smyrna,Florida with Marcia,Lindy,Anne and Elizabeth my cousins. It’s our somewhat annual girls time together. We have a lot of fun for about 5 days then go home to reality! I have already started Christmas shopping. Every year the list gets longer. Well I am going to close now. Tell everyone I said hi. Love till the end of time. UWMA

Thirty two years ago today I married my best friend,confidant and lover. As I look back on that day I can say with no reservations it was the best thing I ever did. We certainly had our ups and downs, definitely more ups over the years and I wouldn’t trade them for anything. The only thing I wish is that you here were now for all the changes that have happened since you left. You are now a great grandfather of three, the newest A.J Jr. Anthony is a father now. The baby looks the spitting image of Anthony! Raymond is doing wonderful in college and loving every moment of college life! Connor is doing well and has a significant other. He hasn’t made up his mind what his major will be but he is working through it. I guess I have rattled on long enough but I just wanted to catch you up on some of the news. Happy Anniversary Love and I will write to you again soon. Please give everyone my best. UWMA I love you forever and a day.

Hi Uncle Ray, it's hard to believe it's been 8 years since you were called home. We all miss and love you so very much. Please watch over us and keep us safe. Please give mom and dad a hug for me and tell them how much I miss and love them.
Steven XO

Can’t believe it’s been 8 years already since you passed. Seven this month for George and 6 for LIL this month too. Time has a way of getting away from us down here but it’s a fact of life. Rest In Peace, Ray and hugs for all up there, especially my Husband.

Good morning sweetheart, another year in the books. Not the way we imagined it but apparently we were wrong. You were right when you kept saying something bad was going to happen because we were too happy for it to last! Boy were you right. For all those that spend their lives fighting about the small stuff let this be a lesson. One just never knows when the end will happen! I love you and miss you more than ever. Please give hugs to the gang and keep a place for me at the card table! UWMA

Merry Christmas Uncle Ray!!❤️

Merry Christmas Uncle Ray, miss and love you XOXO

Hi Sweetheart, Merry Christmas to you and the others with you. Another one in the books. I still miss you as much as ever.No one can get together because of COVID so it will be very strange celebrating without family around. Everyone is good here,no signs of the disease in the house yet. Very depressing to say the least. Usually the best part of the holiday is getting together with everyone. Maybe next year will be better. 2020 has been a real downer, I can’t wait for it to be over! Please tell everyone “hello” for me and give the pups a great big kiss for me. I love you so much

Happy Birthday Darling! I can’t believe you are 76 now. Are you celebrating with your family? I wish I could be a part of the festivities! I miss you bunches. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of you. Since the last time I wrote to you we lost our sweet boy Bailey. For the first time in my life I don’t have a dog to take care of. In fact I have no one to take care of and I’m not happy about it! He died the last part of October. He couldn’t climb the stairs anymore and had trouble letting me know when he wanted outside. He was a sweetheart until the end. Look for him, I’m sure he’s up there somewhere playing with Kate. Nothing else much is going on. Thank heavens the country had the sense to vote “The Donald “ out of office”. He nearly destroyed this country. Joe Biden won finally!!! Well sweetie l’m going to close for now and I will talk to you later. I have to go start decorating trees. Love you and miss you sooo much!

Happy Birthday Uncle Ray. I miss you so very much. Please give everyone a hug for me. 
Love Steven

Happy Birthday, dear brother. Rest In Peace. Hi to Mom, my beloved George, Lil & Sid and Tom. Speaking of Tom, hope u two are not raising hell up there like you two would do when you were kids!!!!! Love Cass

Happy Birthday Uncle Ray!! Oh how I miss you!! Enjoy your birthday in heaven!! What a card game you will be having!! Please tell everyone I love them and miss them more than words can say!! Love you!!

Good afternoon my love. Just wanted to wish you a very Happy Anniversary! Today marks 31 years. Wow and people didn’t think it would last. I have to admit the last 7 years have been less than wonderful but the first 24 were great! Oh well all in good time we will be together again. Please give everyone a hug for me and UWMA . Love you forever

Hi Love, Just wanted to wish you a very Happy Fathers Day! You were a wonderful Dad to your two and four legged kids! Bailey asked to send you a kiss from him. Enjoy your day and tell Sid “hello.” Love you bunches. UWMA

Uncle Ray, there is not a day that passes that I don't think of you. So hard to believe it's been 7 years since you were called home. Please watch over us and keep us safe. I miss and love you
Steven XOXO

Rest In Peace, brother Ray. Lots of memories. Love Cass.

Miss you every day Uncle Ray!! Love you!!❤️

Good morning sweetheart, I can’t believe its been 7 years since I last held you,kissed you and talked about everything under the sun! The world has changed so much since you left that I honestly don’t think you would like it. I know for a fact that you wouldn’t like the president. I just hope that the country survives him! Bailey is still hanging in there but I don’t know for how much longer. Same for me. I miss you so much. Life just doesn’t mean as much without you here to share. Well love I’m going to bed. I love you and miss you , UWMA

Happy Easter Uncle Ray !!!
I love and miss you !!!
Steven ❤

Happy Easter Uncle Ray!! Love you and miss you!!

Hi Love, just needed to drop you a line. This has been possibly the worst ten days of my life since you left me. Joe next door died last week. He had been unwell for awhile and he finally couldn’t fight any longer. He and Connie have been married for around 70 years. Now the other bad news. I had to put our precious little girl to sleep today. She just couldn’t get over whatever she had. She too had been sick for quite awhile. Katy was so sweet and smart. She is in a much better place now. Be on the lookout for both of them. Heaven is getting pretty crowded up there! Please tell everyone hello for me and take good care of Katy until I get there.I love you and miss you so much. UWMA

Merry Christmas Uncle Ray,

It goes without saying that we miss you so very much. I hope you had a good Xmas in heaven with Mom and Dad and all our loved ones that have passed. Love you Uncle Ray

Your nephew Steven XOXOXO

Good morning Sweetie and A belated Merry Christmas! I hope you had a great day with Sid,Lil and Tommy. It was crazy here at the house! People in and out just a little more chaos than I’m use to. I’m getting too old for this!! In the end though it was a great day minus the fact that the most important person in my life wasn’t there. I received some wonderful and unexpected gifts.Soon I will start dismantling the house and make a promise to myself not do it again next year! Oh well it keeps me busy. The dogs made it through but this will probably be their last Christmas. They will be fourteen in about days! It weighs heavily on my mind because it is one more link to you that will be gone. I love you and miss you so much. UWMA

Happy Thanksgiving Darling! It’s very late but I was cooking all day and when I finally could walk away I fell asleep instantly! No excuses I know but that being said dinner was good. I am soooo sorry. I hope yours was great. Did you get your coveted drumstick? I hope you spent it with Lil,Sid and Tommy. I’m sure there was a great card game involved! I have to finish decorating the house today and tomorrow. I have one more tree to put up then I’m pretty much finished. Thank heavens! Every year it gets harder or the house gets bigger!! Pick one. You know how I am about decorating! Oh well, time to get up and get this finished. Love you ! UWMA

Happy Birthday Uncle Ray, time moves on but the pain and sorry that we feel never stops. We miss and love you so very much and wish you were here with us. Please give a hug to mom and dad for me.

Love Steven

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD. WE MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH.  LOVE JOHNNY, TANIA, ANTHONY AND RAYMOND

Happy Birthday! Found myself looking for birthday cards yesterday for Lindy and found several I'm sure you would have appreciated. You know with that sick sense of humor we shared! Hope it is wonderful for you. Please hug all our family that is with you. Love you and miss you!
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