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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Raymond Tomczak, 80 years old, born on March 28, 1928, and passed away on February 17, 2009. We will remember him forever.
March 28, 2022
March 28, 2022
Happy Birthday Pop!!
Wish you were here to have the birthday bash of a lifetime. Missing you today and everyday.
Love you
February 17, 2022
February 17, 2022
Hi Dad. Well, Sal bought it to my attention that today marks 13 years you've been gone. He thinks of you all the time, as we all do. but, with him, it's different. Although you gave him a hard time at times, he looked up to you so much, I know he was and probably still is very torn up inside that he couldn't get back from his training in time to see you one last time. I know it plays on his mind, and it shouldn't. you would have wanted him to finish, that's how you were. And I love you for that. He just needs to find PEACE with his decision. I think at times, like this past Valentine's Day, How you always expected candy from me, and I never knew what to expect from you, make me so sad and lonely. You were always there for me, no matter what, and I thank God for giving me to you and Mommy. Please keep watching and guiding us. Love you forever and a day, Denise.
August 22, 2021
August 22, 2021
Hi Dad, just thinking of you as summer nears the end. All those beautiful vegetables you enjoyed growing every year, and sharing with everyone. I keep having visions of you and Mommy in the back yard for some reason. Your Backyard was the greatest space for all of us. Did so much stuff out there. Missing you and those days terribly. All my love, Denise.
June 9, 2021
June 9, 2021
Hi Pop. Guess you know by know, you have another visitor. Cathy left us May 29th. It's been a real mess down here lately. I'm so sick and tired of some family members. all the crap that goes with it. Had you or Franny been here, At least I would have somewhere to go and pour my heart out. Just feel so damn lonely all the time. no one calls, no one visits anymore. getting old is no fun. missing you so much. love you.
March 28, 2021
March 28, 2021
Happy 93rd Birthday Pop. The Angels are singing up a storm with all you guys up there. I sometimes forget your gone, and think of what to make you for dinner. I just did that Friday, grabbed chipped beef. Jeanine will be enjoying it, hopefully. This Easter would have found you going back and forth constantly to church. The sad thing is, the churches no longer are welcoming all the time anymore. you sometimes have to make appointments to go for anything important. I'm missing you an awful lot, Franny shouldn't be there with you and Mommy, But, We had to let her go. So very sad here without her. Love and miss you every day of my life. Happy Birthday Dad. Love Denise. I will Always Love and Miss you.
February 17, 2021
February 17, 2021
Hi Dad. it's been 12 years since you left us, so much has changed, so much has stayed the same. Today is Ash Wednesday, you would have been to church at the crack of dawn this morning getting your ashes, and waiting for mass to start. it doesn't work that way anymore. Our Church doesn't really hold any masses these days. so much with the Church has changed . You would be horrified. Love and miss you more each day. Love Denise.
January 26, 2021
January 26, 2021
While I know this is your spot, Pop, I just want to make sure you Know Franny is up there looking for you. Nearly a month without her, hurts so bad. 60 years with her by my side, hurts worse than I could have imagined. I never thought I would ever be here without her.Still every day is a struggle. Make sure she watches over us like she always promised. I know she's in good hands now, you and Mommy wanted her back. But, it still breaks me. I will forever thank you and Mommy for bringing her into my life. You are forever missed and loved every day. Take care of Girlie. All my Love,
September 21, 2020
September 21, 2020
Grandpop Tomczak was born in Russia, Jan, 6, 1892. He worked as a laborer with The United States Coast Guard.
April 13, 2020
April 13, 2020
Hi Pop. What a year this turned out to be. you would never would have believed it. But, we're all trying to do the best we can. No family for Easter, what a heart breaker. No big dinners, no one to cook for. Empty baskets sitting idle, nothing in the windows. But, You really would not have been able to handle the Church situation. Saddest thing ever. Not being able yo hug any of the children, not being around all our family and friends. But, Blessed for a new day. Praying this blows over soon. Please look after us. Love and miss you so much.
February 17, 2020
February 17, 2020
Another year without you, Dad. Things are really hard without you. You left, and nothing was right since. Nothing. On the bright side, we are expecting a new baby soon, Tori and Michael will welcome their lil girl soon. so, That's definately something to look forward to. Not much of a winter going on. Your coal frame would have done very nicely this year. Jake is preparing to make his Holy Communion. Gabrielle, your little Gladiola, will be turning 30, Becca married the man of her dreams, Jackie purchased her house, Dawn had 2 strokes, My relationships are very fractured at the moment, I'm just so tired of fighting for my sanity anymore. I love and miss you, Now, and Always. Girlie.
February 17, 2019
February 17, 2019
God saw you were getting tired, and a cure was not to be, so he put his arms around you and whispered, '' Come to Me ". With tearful eyes we watched you, as you passed away. Although we loved you dearly, we could not make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating, Hard working hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best. 10 years and it still feels so new. Just talking about what you would have given us girls for Valentines Day. Your presence, humor, and love are felt every day. Love Denise.
September 24, 2018
September 24, 2018
Hi Pop ! Just wanted to let you know Jeanine gave up a kidney to your son. She seems to be doing very well. I hope you and Mom continue to keep an eye on her as she recovers. Talk to you soon. All my love.
July 31, 2018
July 31, 2018
hey pop, it always makes necy so happy to see someone’s stopped by so here i am to fill you in on the latest 411! so, we are getting ready for back to school and my liam is turning ONE ALREADY! i can’t believe it, i don’t want to believe it either. Olivia starts kindergarten in 5 weeks!! i don’t understand where the time goes! makes me realize how important it is to constantly make the people around you aware how much they mean to you. the kids are getting bigger, i’m getting older. i will post pics for you to see. the family is growing and growing.. lots of weddings coming up and that always means babies will follow. crazy how many of us there are. i went back to work after debating with myself for a long time.. maybe losing my identity a little bit after becoming a mom. i’m struggling with trying to find balance.. really struggling. i’m trying to raise two humble humans, and still trying to make sure they have everything i can give them. trying my hardest to follow my mom but there are times when i’m just beside myself. i don’t understand how she did it, i want to be just like her. i think we are all struggling a little these days. necy is struggling even though she’s everyone’s favorite girl and she always has a smile on her face. love her so much. i think she really just misses you and grammom dot. she is lonely and i think she feels forgotten. she loves seeing her little grands but life happens and some times there aren’t enough hours in a day. we all love her so much, and i know she sometimes feels like she’s taken for granted. maybe you could just remind her how important she is to us and i seriously can’t imagine my childhood without her.
July 22, 2018
July 22, 2018
Hi POP. JUST MISSING YOU A LOT TODAY, THE DREAMS THAT KEEP COMING, I DON'T KNOW IF THEY MEAN SOMETHING, OR IF I'M GETTING READY TO VISIT YOU AND MOM. I JUST DONT KNOW. I HOPE NOT, I STILL HAVE TONS TO DO HERE. BUT I DO MISS YOU GUYS TERRIBLY EVERYDAY. IT'S NOT EASY.
March 29, 2018
March 29, 2018
Hi Dad. I'm so lonely this week without you. I miss you very much. I just roam through your things and start crying. I remember your last weeks here, and I have to catch myself. I wish I could have changed things, I wish I could have done things differently, I wish, I wish. Nothing changes. I am just left remembering your last words to me. Always and forever. Love Denise.
February 17, 2018
February 17, 2018
Pop I can’t believe 9 years has past since you left us. I love you and I miss you everyday.
January 19, 2018
January 19, 2018
JUST sitting here crying because I miss everyone so much. Richard, your anniversary is tomorrow, so I won't be worth the room I take up. I miss you every day. I met some new friends today, I hoping to get a lot of pictures from the family. Is John behaving himself, he's new to this, so treat him right. Dad, the goon goo Eagles are in the playoffs, I hope they make it. Mom, YOU HAVE LEFT SO MUCH UNSAID AND UNDONE WHEN YOU LEFT US, I will soon try to get it right. I love and miss you all. Linda better have quit smoking. Is my Baby as beautiful as I dream her to be? We have a few new cuties to honor., If i can figure out what's wrong with my printer thing. Sal has a new lil man, Levi! He looks like a thinker in the making. beautiful. Your Gladiola has a lil guy, Liam, he's really a ham. Michael has a new lil guy, Austin. he's a character. Mia remembered the day we had her at the memorials, she laughed because she let you push her baby's stroller. I love that she remembers you, Your her Yeah, Yeah, Yeah Poppy FOREVER! aLL MY lOVE. dENISE.<3
July 23, 2017
July 23, 2017
Hi Dad. Just thinking of all the birthday gifts I would get from you. How I miss them. I'm kinda feeling sorry for myself today. Some day's I feel so sad without you. I'm a big girl I know. But A big girl that always had her Dad. Sad or lost.... I'm caught between the two at times. I guess i'm selfish. I want to hold the hand that held mine always. I know you always made secret promises not to see the mistakes I made. For that I am forever indebted
to you. When Mommy left, you were all I had, I guess I took advantage of that. Missing you always.
June 18, 2017
June 18, 2017
Hi Dad. It's an odd kind of day for me today. I watched your grandson's yesterday as they played with their children, I was so proud, and I know you must be also. I miss the days playing cards in the kitchen, or trying to figure out a puzzle you gave me, or tried writing down new recipes with you, but I had the most fun driving you around. lol. Everyday something was new to you. To say I miss you would be an understatement. My heart has been broken for many years now, But I always feel you around me. Please Dad, Don't ever leave me. Till eternity.<3
March 28, 2017
March 28, 2017
I'm not going to be able to visit you today. The rain is in the way. Just know I'm always thinking of you. Not much has changed since your last birthday. Except for the addition of little Milo. What a beautiful child he is. Jake would be just like having salvie around. He's very helpful with everything. Mia talks of you often. And the trips we would go on. Laci is a firecracker. She would be your biggest challenge. I love to tell them stories about you. I love remembering stories about you. I know you would rather be here having stock's pound cake , but hopefully mom's baking you something wonderful. Love and miss you. Happy birthday.
September 5, 2016
September 5, 2016
Hi Dad, just thought I would drop by and say Hi. I miss you terribly. Sundays are always tough for me, I loved making you breakfast after mass. I just really miss you.
March 28, 2016
March 28, 2016
Happy birthday Dad. Would have loved to do something special for you today. I would love to say something meaningful to you today, I would love to show you so many things today, but most of all I would give anything to be able to hug you one more time. Happy Birthday Dad. You are greatly missed by all.
December 27, 2015
December 27, 2015
Hi Dad, well, christmas came and went again. I see no joy in it anymore unless the grandchildren pop in. very soon no one will be coming. I still grieve for you, and all that you meant to me. With everyone growing up, and moving on, you were my ray of sunshine. I wish I could just tell you how much you meant to me again and again so you never forget. always in my heart. love and miss you.
September 23, 2015
September 23, 2015
Pop I do believe you would probably be the happiest person in Philly right about now. wish you were here
September 23, 2015
September 23, 2015
Pop, the Pope is in town. I would have loved to travel to see him with you by my side. thinking of you always.
February 19, 2015
February 19, 2015
Wow I didn't know about this until now. It is really awesome to see pics of Uncle Richie and Pop. They're always on duty watching over us.
February 17, 2015
February 17, 2015
Hope you and Aunt Dorothy are up above looking over everyone, and say hi to my dad for me and let him know I miss him everyday. I want to let Denise, Jeanine, Mary that I am thinking of you on this day <3
February 14, 2015
February 14, 2015
Happy Valentine's Day to you and Mom.Hope you have planted her a pretty garden of flowers. I love and miss you both so very much.I miss bringing you your chocolates and balloons. Sometimes I could cry most of the day thinking of goofy stuff you did. Miss that so very much.love always and forever,
May 28, 2014
May 28, 2014
Dad, I salute you today and every day. Not only are you gone and missed daily, But remembered honorably for the service you gave to keep us free. Wish this wasnt always so hard to do. I love you.
April 18, 2014
April 18, 2014
This is beautiful, just simply beautiful. Thank you for the walk down memory lane. Sadly, I saw a lot of pictures that made me cry, then smile. Rest in peace Ray, Dorothy, and Richard.
March 31, 2014
March 31, 2014
thanks necy, sometimes we all get cought up in everyday, but memories never leave us. Of all of us you and pop have had the funniest craziest and happiest of days  one of my all time favorites was your custom tinsel. love ya forever pop and missiing you
March 29, 2014
March 29, 2014
What a beautiful tribute, just wanted to let you know Denise that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
March 29, 2014
March 29, 2014
I just went through the pictures and listened to the music and am now relecting of all the memories. Just to know two people got together and created a wonderful family. Even though we do not all agree all of the time just know that you are all loved and are always my family. Thank you for this beautiful page.
February 27, 2014
February 27, 2014
My Dad always loved his kids and grandchildren.He would be so proud of them all now. miss you very much Dad. Love Denise
August 10, 2013
August 10, 2013
Thinking of you a lot lately, Dad. Not sure why. It never seems to get any easier.wishing I could just hug you and Mommy just one more time.Missing You both more with each passing day.
March 28, 2013
March 28, 2013
Happy Birthday Dad. There are no more "just another day" days for me..Today is very important because it's your birthday. Just because your not here any longer, does not mean your big day is not celebrated. It's the perfect time to reflect past birthdays. You would wake up in the morning all ready to celebrate through out the day, needing a nap or 2 in between miss you Dad.
February 17, 2013
February 17, 2013
Hi Dad. just sitting here thinking of you on the 4th anniversary . So much has changed and nothing has changed. you wouldn't even think it was the same neighborhood anymore. Myself and the rest of the families are learning how to go day to day without you here, but it is never easy.,never. Our love for you keeps growing dad. missing you so very much..loving you always.
December 24, 2012
December 24, 2012
Tonight is a familiar kinda night.So much familiarity around me. Remembering how my moms house would smell with the gravy simmering all day, the cookies being made, pop and Eddie making the worst egg nog ever. after the kids went to bed, we went to Sam Boyce's to pick up the toys that had been on lay away..most times we used a couple of wagons to get them home, even in the snow. Blessings.
December 16, 2012
December 16, 2012
by now my dad's gifts would have arrived for us. it was always a big secret what he would have gotten us, even the ones in their 50's would get a surprise. we weren't allowed to know about these secret gifts, but I had to wrap them. he trusted me not to spill the beans. I miss those gifts so very much, because so much thought always went into them.it always made him smile. my heart hurts.
November 23, 2012
November 23, 2012
Hey Dad, well we are learning to get through holidays without you and mom in them anymore. We dont like it one bit. From the minute I put our turkey in the oven till I put the last plate on the table, I have you and mommy on my mind and in my heart.I miss Richie and Pauly and Linda too, but you were our fixture. I did however, have a wonderful time remembering all our past holidays.<3
August 31, 2012
August 31, 2012
I love you pop you will forever be missed. Love always the big one the other one and Anthony and all of your great grand children.
August 31, 2012
August 31, 2012
Hey pop, I wish you were still here to watch your children and their children grow. It brought me to tears to hear the hospital say its almost time for you to go. It has been 3 years since you have passed and the times before that will forever last. Oh how you made us laugh and smile even if it was for a while. Those moments are forever here and I know you are watching so I shed no fear.
July 24, 2012
July 24, 2012
Hi Dad. Well another birthday passed without you. I really miss the crazy gifts you would get us. Poor magazines may have went out of business with your passing.I always loved and kept the cards I got from you, I loved how you would sign them. Funny how things seem to matter so much more now. I wish I could have hugged you one more time.You really did mean the world to me. Missing you.
July 2, 2012
July 2, 2012
Hey Pop! Even though I don't live at home anymore I noticed that you've been following me around. Your flowers are everywhere, even across the country in Kansas. Crazy, I know. Its nice to know you're with me. Especially being so far from home. Missing you everyday. I'm sure you already know that we're having a baby, congrats on being a great grandfather again!<3 Love, Gladioli
June 30, 2012
June 30, 2012
Not a day goes by that some sort of memory doesn't comes flooding back of you Dad. There have been days when I find it hard to finish things because you are on my mind. You had a way of making us laugh that was all your own. And at times I just think of you and have to smile because of one of your corny jokes. I remember the strong person you were all your life. Missing you every day.

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March 28, 2022
March 28, 2022
Happy Birthday Pop!!
Wish you were here to have the birthday bash of a lifetime. Missing you today and everyday.
Love you
February 17, 2022
February 17, 2022
Hi Dad. Well, Sal bought it to my attention that today marks 13 years you've been gone. He thinks of you all the time, as we all do. but, with him, it's different. Although you gave him a hard time at times, he looked up to you so much, I know he was and probably still is very torn up inside that he couldn't get back from his training in time to see you one last time. I know it plays on his mind, and it shouldn't. you would have wanted him to finish, that's how you were. And I love you for that. He just needs to find PEACE with his decision. I think at times, like this past Valentine's Day, How you always expected candy from me, and I never knew what to expect from you, make me so sad and lonely. You were always there for me, no matter what, and I thank God for giving me to you and Mommy. Please keep watching and guiding us. Love you forever and a day, Denise.
August 22, 2021
August 22, 2021
Hi Dad, just thinking of you as summer nears the end. All those beautiful vegetables you enjoyed growing every year, and sharing with everyone. I keep having visions of you and Mommy in the back yard for some reason. Your Backyard was the greatest space for all of us. Did so much stuff out there. Missing you and those days terribly. All my love, Denise.
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August 24, 2020
I have discovered that my Grandparents were both born in RUSSIA. Grandpop Casper Tomczak was born in 1893. Grandmom Catherine was born in 1896. Date of Death to come soon I hope.
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March 28, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday Dad. You always loved your birthday, could eat the cake yourself. I miss those celebrations so much. I have very little these days, But, the memories always flood back of what we all DID  HAVE. Very grateful for the time I have had with you. These days of storytelling are beginning to fade. I don't want that to happen, ever, but, my memory is not what it used to be. And no one wants to jump on the band wagon. I will see you again, and memories will flood back effortlessly. Take care of our Babies. Forever my first love. 
January 30, 2020
This song is one of my very favorites, It reminds me of My Dad and my Son. My Dad always had me pump up the volume in the car when this came on. When Sal was getting married, I choose this song because of the meaning it had for me. Sal and his Pop were extremely close, And, I visioned my Dad instilling these values in him. I hope we served him well.

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January 30, 2020
It's so hard to do a tribute to a loved one, when you are unable to find photos. I'm am currently searching through some books with Franny, hoping to find the perfect ones. Please , by all means, if you have any photos you would love to share, I would lovingly accept. I can't keep up with all the kids, great nieces and nephews, significant others. etc, SO, a little help would be wonderful.

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