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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Raymond Peters, 84 years old, born on September 7, 1938, and passed away on December 21, 2022. We will remember him forever.

In lieu of flowers, family and friends may make a donation to the Fisher House Foundation, which helps military families stay free of charge while their loved one is in the hospital.  Please visit: Fisher House Foundation


Viewing
Wednesday, December 28
2-4 & 6-8 p.m.
The DiCostanzo family owned
Lakewood Funeral Home
6250 Highway 9, Howell, NJ 07731

Final Gathering
Thursday, December 29, 2022
10:30 a.m.
The DiCostanzo family owned
Lakewood Funeral Home
6250 Highway 9, Howell, NJ 07731

Funeral Service
11 a.m.
The DiCostanzo family owned
Lakewood Funeral Home
6250 Highway 9, Howell, NJ 07731

Burial
Atlantic View Cemetery
49 Forest Ave., Manasquan, NJ 08736
December 21, 2023
December 21, 2023
Missing you every day...and today that much more. Hard to believe it's been a year since we've said our good-byes, but I know your spirit is with us always.  We continue to celebrate you and honor your legacy as best we can! Love you, dad!
December 21, 2023
December 21, 2023
Hi Ray. It's difficult to believe that a year ago today that we all were deeply saddened by your sudden and unexpected passing. It is rather ironic that we lost you on the first day of winter- the darkest day of the year. However you left us with light to shine in the darkness. Knowledge, gifts and great memories of which many came from Christmas time each year. Our attention and gratitude will focus on these positive marks that you have left on our lives. Thank you Ray! Merry Christmas to you in the new realm in which you survive whatever that may be!
December 21, 2023
December 21, 2023
Dad,
It has been a year since we said goodbye and not a day goes by that I haven’t thought about you. I feel your presence so often. I am trying to fulfill your wishes and I hope I am making you proud. Love and miss you always. Toni
November 7, 2023
November 7, 2023
Just wrote a little letter to Elly, since the 5th anniversary of her passing was this week...and of course, it sent me to your page. This has been a tough year without you. Some days I feel fine and others, so incredibly sad. We haven't made much movement on your home or belongings yet...sorry for that, but it's hard to let go. Plus you have A LOT of stuff! haha! We want to do right by you and your lifetime of work and belongings, and it makes it difficult to part with "things", but we will do our best to make you proud. Know that you are loved and missed so very much. I am hoping you are enjoying some great motorcycle rides and revving those classic car mufflers! 
September 7, 2023
September 7, 2023
Happy Birthday, Dad! I miss you every day, and especially feel the loss today. What brings me joy is knowing you are celebrating with all of our loved ones above and probably taking a motorcycle ride with your long time friend, George Garo!  We will be toasting to you today and keeping your spirit alive! Love you!
September 7, 2023
September 7, 2023
Happy Heavenly Birthday Dad. I miss you here on earth. I know I talk to you every day but just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you even more today. Love you always and forever.
Toni
September 7, 2023
September 7, 2023
Raymond, today is your birthday where your life began. It is a special day because without it your children would not exist and my mother and I would never have known you. I am remembering you more often this week and today in particular. Grateful describes how I feel to have known you in many ways. Your birthday always also reminds me of Grandma Peters whose birthday is September 17th. 2 years ago we celebrated your birthday here at my home with song, food, drink, family, friends and a very nice birthday cake! Last year you celebrated your birthday with your new hip replacement which was done on September 6th. Today you celebrate your birthday with those family members and friends who have passed before and after you...and still- with those of us here as we continue to remember and to celebrate your life. Happy Birthday Ray!
December 28, 2022
December 28, 2022
There are a few people that I know who bring back memories in my Life and Ray is one of those wonderful people, As a kid I remember he and bob coming into my fathers shop in Jackson and seeing him in these photographs with his RED JACKET pumps jacket on that he must have gotten from my grandfather RL sr. Brings back even more. I am not just writing this for myself, but for my Father and grandfather who would be doing it had they still been with us. He's been a blessing to me and my girls in the last couple of years. we will miss your dad very much.. He sat with my girls while I was working and tod them great stories about their grandfather and great gandfather....God Bless you all
Michael, Victoria and Allie Slattery
December 28, 2022
December 28, 2022
Ray and Elly were an integral part of the Vintage Automobile Club of Ocean County. For more years than I can count, Elly provided delicious chili for our annual car show. Ray delivered Elly and her chili every year in their 1956 Chevy Nomad. Ray was gregarious in nature, but not really outspoken. He let his smile do the talking. He was King of Muffler Rap.
December 27, 2022
December 27, 2022
I am happy to have known Ray! He always helped me with my car whenever it gave me trouble and spoke up for me as he most always helped others whenever they needed it. Ray was a good “Pop” to my children, Matthew, Brienna and Chase. In some ways he was a father figure to me and for these things I am forever grateful to him.
December 27, 2022
December 27, 2022
Dear Jessica, Andy, and Toni.
Our condolences. Sorry for your loss.
Love
Bob and Barbara Baxter
December 26, 2022
December 26, 2022
I am grateful to Ray for having been a positive role model and a stepfather to me in ways that some will never have benefit to know in their lifetimes. On June 6th 1979 my mother Eleanor and I were seated at the back of a Greyhound bus at the Lakewood NJ bus terminal bound for Boston, Massachusetts. A red pickup truck parked near the bus. A moment later Raymond Peters was calling to Eleanor to get off the bus and for us to come with him to his home. After some strong coercion Eleanor agreed. The bus was emptied of luggage until hours was found and then it was placed into the back of the pickup truck. I was seated between Raymond and my mother Eleanor and we traveled to Ray's house in Howell. Moments later we were standing in his dining room and I was looking at Toni, Andrew and Jessica excited at my new life to start. This was the beginning of a 44 years long relationship that was developed with Ray who would be role model, friend, employer and stepfather. 
December 26, 2022
December 26, 2022
I'm so sorry for the loss of your father. My heartfelt sympathy to Jessica, Andy, Toni, and the entire family at this difficult time.
December 24, 2022
December 24, 2022
I’m so sorry for your loss. I only met your father once, but know how he felt for his children by the evidence of his work, wonderful, loving, talented, and caring children.
December 24, 2022
December 24, 2022
Andrew, we hope you and your family find peace in knowing your dad was kissed by angels❣️ our deepest heartfelt condolences. Our arms are tightly around you. Love always, Mike and Joni ❣️
December 24, 2022
December 24, 2022
No words can express the loss of a loved one. I grew up with you all. We all were in the Howell High School Band together. Andy was one of my best friends since we were in the same graduating class during HS. But my deepest sympathies are to everyone in the family. May you cherish the memories of your father and forever carry him with you. May GOD comfort you through this period and hold you all close in his arms. - Sincerely, Sheryl Mellott

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December 21, 2023
December 21, 2023
Missing you every day...and today that much more. Hard to believe it's been a year since we've said our good-byes, but I know your spirit is with us always.  We continue to celebrate you and honor your legacy as best we can! Love you, dad!
December 21, 2023
December 21, 2023
Hi Ray. It's difficult to believe that a year ago today that we all were deeply saddened by your sudden and unexpected passing. It is rather ironic that we lost you on the first day of winter- the darkest day of the year. However you left us with light to shine in the darkness. Knowledge, gifts and great memories of which many came from Christmas time each year. Our attention and gratitude will focus on these positive marks that you have left on our lives. Thank you Ray! Merry Christmas to you in the new realm in which you survive whatever that may be!
December 21, 2023
December 21, 2023
Dad,
It has been a year since we said goodbye and not a day goes by that I haven’t thought about you. I feel your presence so often. I am trying to fulfill your wishes and I hope I am making you proud. Love and miss you always. Toni
His Life

Raymond “Ray” Peters

December 24, 2022
A beloved father, grandfather, and friend to many, Raymond “Ray” Peters of Howell, NJ, passed away Wednesday, December 21, 2022, with his family by his side. Born in Engelwood, N.J., he was one of three children born to the late Henry and Helen Peters.

Ray grew up in the Freewood Acres area of Howell Township and graduated from Lakewood High School in 1957. He enlisted in the US Army in 1961 and became a member of the newly formed 11th Air Assault Division at Fort Benning, Georgia, which combined light infantry with integral helicopter transport and air support. During this time, Ray was deployed to Germany and taught South Vietnam soldiers to rappel from helicopters.

After his military career, Ray returned to Howell, where he built his life and started his career. As a licensed master well driller, he started his own business “Ray’s Well Drilling and Service” in the mid 1970’s. Ray operated his business until the age of 81, when he retired.

Ray's greatest joys were spending time with his family, riding his Harley, and driving his 1956 Chevy Nomad.

He is predeceased by the love of his life, Eleanor Wernerspach, his sister Rosalie Pepe, and his aunt Helen Loeb. He is survived by his children, Toni Baldanzi (Stephen), Andrew Peters (Michael Roche), and Jessica Nathan (Scott); his stepson Vincent Wernerspach (Rebecca Slutter); six grandchildren, Alexander Baldanzi, Joseph Baldanzi, Cooper Nathan, Matthew Wernerspach, Brienna Wernerspach, Chase Wernerspach; as well as his brother, Robert Peters.

Visitation will be Wednesday, December 28th from 2-4 PM and 6-8 PM at Lakewood Funeral Home, 6250 US-9 Howell Township, NJ 07731. A prayer service will be held on Thursday, December 29th at 11 AM followed by burial at Atlantic View Cemetery, Manasquan. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Fisher House Foundation, which helps military and veteran families stay free of charge while loved one are in the hospital.  https://fisherhouse.org .

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