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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Raysa Alcivar - Cardenas, 39, born on March 22, 1969 and passed away on April 27, 2008. We will remember her forever.

March 22
March 22
happy birthday my beautiful tia, i miss you immensely and i just wish you were here with us to celebrate…but i know you’re upstairs w grandpa partying like rockstars, hahah! i adore you, happy birthday again shining star <3
March 22
Happy birthday, Rere. I honestly haven't thought too much of you the lately, but during mass for you and dad today with mom, it hit so hard how much you are missed. We were so lucky to have you even for a brief time. I know you are proud of all our crazies (even if they don't always make the best choices... but neither did I, and you always loved me) I will forever remind them of their amazing mom and tia. We love you always
April 27, 2023
April 27, 2023
I miss you so much prima <3 thank you for always helping me find the light. You would love my husband so much, he recently bought me the Ty Beanie Baby “Bones” you had gotten me when I was little. It sits on my desk at work everyday. I love you and one day we can dance around and travel together again Xoxox
March 22, 2023
March 22, 2023
Happy Birthday in heaven Ray Ray !!
I wrote you a story . I hope it brings a smile to your face ♥️
March 22, 2023
March 22, 2023
Happy Heavenly Birthday my beautiful Angel love u forever❤️
March 22, 2023
March 22, 2023
Happy birthday my beautiful angel ❤️ I miss you so much and know you are smiling down on us dancing today to celebrate your heavenly birthday. I love you and thank you for always bringing me a smile and calm by visiting my dreams when I need you most. Xoxoxo
March 22, 2023
March 22, 2023
Happy birthday sister. You are remembered every day. Seeing all the kids grow, we always remind them how spectacular you were.
Love you Rere
March 22, 2022
March 22, 2022
Happy birthday beautiful angel. Miss you everyday. All your advice and strength you gave me. Hope you're having an amazing bday. Love you Rere
April 27, 2021
April 27, 2021
13 years sometimes feels so long ago and other times it feels like you were with us a day ago. There are so days and moments I feel like I need you and all your funny comments. I will always let everyone know all the spectacular pieces you were. Thank you for teaching family always first.
March 22, 2021
March 22, 2021
My Angel in the sky
The lord took you too soon from us
But we all knew he had different plans . They’re isn’t a day one of your memories doesn’t come up in our house of all the funny and silly things you always did !! Lol
Love you
March 22, 2021
March 22, 2021
Happy Birthday in heaven Ray We often speak of you and all the beautiful memories we shared . We love and misss you dearly . Keep protecting your love ones especially your mom through this new journey of hers without your dad 
March 22, 2021
March 22, 2021
My sweet prima happy birthday <3 I celebrate you today with so much love. Time has never made it easier but knowing that you are one of the reasons I find the strength to keep chasing my dreams gives me life. I carry a heart of love and kindness because thats always what you taught me- and a bit of mascara to help. You would love my honey bee, we talk about you often. Cheers to you, I miss you. See you in my dreams soon xoxox
March 22, 2021
March 22, 2021
Happy Birthday my beautiful sister hope you’re celebrating with all our loved ones love you forever my missing piece ❤️.
March 22, 2021
March 22, 2021
Still feels like yesterday. We still tell your stories and how you mastered being gentle yet strong. I know you're happy seeing we have found each other and building memories like you always taught us. Love you always Rere.
April 27, 2020
April 27, 2020
A beautiful young lady who left this earth too soon. God bless her always, her memory is eternal. ❤
April 27, 2020
April 27, 2020
My beautiful friend, you are missed but not one day goes by without love. Fly, dance and sing from the heavens above.
April 27, 2020
April 27, 2020
Wow how time flies Raysa i feel like it was yesterday!!! love you and always miss you !!!
April 27, 2020
April 27, 2020
Wow 12 yr anniversary in heaven Ray but not a day goes by we don’t think of you. Yesterday I was thinking of how you would sing that eminem song , my name is because of Jesus always playing his Rap Music ..lol
We love you and miss you dearly ♥️
March 23, 2020
March 23, 2020
Happy Birthday my love my missing piece forever your known to my daughters as Tia Angel forever in our heart !
March 22, 2020
March 22, 2020
Happy Birthday Ray Ray !!! May you be eating all the yummiest of cakes in heaven we all know you loved your sweets .
Thinking of you today and always ♥️
March 22, 2020
March 22, 2020
Happy birthday my sweet cousin. I think of you often and so many of our special memories that I am blessed with to cherish forever. I will be dancing extra today and always for you. I love you and miss you so much prima <3
March 22, 2020
March 22, 2020
Rere, there are constant reminders of you. Reliving beautiful memories of how spectacular you were with Lauren and Sammy and then with Pete are so bittersweet. If only, they could truly understand the amazing person you are. Thank you for everything you thought me.... about life. Happy birthday. Love you
April 28, 2019
April 28, 2019
Grandma become an angel 2 days ago I know you are so happy to see her and that give me peace love you both forever in my heart
April 27, 2019
April 27, 2019
Ray, another year has passed and the pain remains the same . I have to say that seeing Lauren this week and spending time with her fills our hearts with happiness ♥️ We miss you always . Thank you for blessing us with Lauren and Sammy and giving us a piece of you. You’re forever my favorite Angel !
March 22, 2019
March 22, 2019
Happy 50th Birthday my angle I will be celebrating tonight with you by my side forever in my heart❤️
March 22, 2019
March 22, 2019
Happy Birthday in Heaven Ray Ray .
We love you and miss dearly . 
They say you shouldn’t questions God’s will but losing you makes very difficult to understand . May your Birthday in heaven be as beautiful as you !
❤️“ Losy Losy “
April 27, 2018
April 27, 2018
It’s been 10 years we have been living without they say time heals all wounds. I don’t believe it I think we have all just learned to live with the pain. Spoke to your daughters today they were getting ready to go to the ball. I’m sure you’re really proud of how beautiful and smart they are. RIP my beautiful sister love you eternally ❤️!
April 27, 2018
April 27, 2018
10 years Rere... sometimes seems like you just left to be with dad and other times feels like 50 years ago. We still laugh and tell the kids stories about you. You were simply amazing and unforgettable. I know right now there are situtations you wouldn't be too happy with but I know you're at peace your beautiful girls can here about their wonderful mom from us too. Even til the every end you were the strength of us. Love you always.
April 27, 2018
April 27, 2018
Dear Ray Ray ,
We love you and Miss you dearly , 10 yrs since we lost you seem very recent In my heart because it still hurts so bad
March 22, 2018
March 22, 2018
Happy Birthday In heaven Ray ! We love you and miss you dearly ❤️
March 22, 2018
March 22, 2018
Happy birthday my beautiful Angel will be blowing out my birthday candles with my girls and with you by my side love you forever!
April 27, 2017
April 27, 2017
You, I miss you so much. Everything thing about you my beautiful cousin. I keep our moments in my heart and these days I find myself closing my eyes picturing myself running up to you so often. I know you are always with me though eyes open or closed. I love you forever and always <3
April 27, 2017
April 27, 2017
9 years ago today you became our angel we miss you dearly and remember you every day waiting for my girls to get alittle older to start telling them all about you.

Love you with all my heart my beautiful sister,
Rayda
March 22, 2017
March 22, 2017
Happy Birthday in Heaven Ray . My Heart is always heavy when I think of you, I will Forever miss you and keep your memory alive in my house  Love you always , Losy Losy
March 22, 2017
March 22, 2017
Happy birthday my angel I'm so glad to have my girls and I tell them about you I love you to the moon and back
April 28, 2016
April 28, 2016
It's been 8 years and not a single day goes by that you don't pop into my mind several times a day. I so wish you were here during this time in my life to give me advise and guide me. I love you with all my heart my beautiful sister.
April 27, 2016
April 27, 2016
Not a day goes by that I dont miss you 3. You left us too soon, but the lord had a plan for you and i can only respect it. There's so many milestones that I wish you could see me pass, and so many mistakes I wish you could've helped me learn from. But i know you're watching me from above helping me through what you can. Lauren misses you so much, and so does Dad. He talks about you all the time, how the smallest things reminds him of you, and how everyday me and Lauren start to look so much more like you... im glad i have wonderful memories to hold onto. Rest in Peace Mom, I love you so much.
March 22, 2016
March 22, 2016
Happy Birthday my angel of all the times in my life since you've been gone I must say that now is the one I mostly wished you were physically here to experience this time with me. I can't wait to drive my girls crazy with all our stories and our beautiful memories. I love you forever my gorgeous sister!
March 22, 2016
March 22, 2016
Happy birthday my dear angel. Was at working when midnight struck and I wished you were here to give you birthday kisses and hugs. Almost everyday I share a private moment with you. I remember you are keeping dad until we're all together again. You're memory will live by sharing all our stories with the kids. I just wish they could understand how incredible and stunning you truly were. Love you forever
April 27, 2015
April 27, 2015
Hard to believe it's been 7 years you gave us nothing but great memories and that's what keeps me going Iove you!
August 14, 2014
August 14, 2014
I've written so many diary entries to you and spoken to you on many days but I have never written to you on your memorial and shared my memories with everyone and I feel like now more than ever I should. Raysa I can't put in words how much I miss you. When God took you away I finally understood the true meaning of God taking the angels from our lives. I try everyday to be a good person, sister, friend- everything because of the person you were. I remember so much with you and I'll never forget. There's so many days I think it would be so easy to just give up on pushing my way through school or just the little things life throws my way but then I hear you in my ear telling me to keep pushing and be strong the way you were for everything in life. Time and time again I close my eyes and re-play the trip to Peru we took when I was so little. I remember us getting bumped to first class with Continental and how my eyes lit up when they brought me that banana split and you telling me it was okay to eat it- while there just experiencing so much and learning about the less fortunate parts of the world with you and learning a lot about family and being there for one another. I thank god everyday for all the memories I have with you and wish I could have many more but I know your still here with me my guardian angel. Im working towards finishing school with Tourism as my major, how I fill with joy when I see a butterfly following me around on each trip I take and how I can't wait to finish school to continue to take you traveling with me. I love you forever and always <3
April 27, 2014
April 27, 2014
It's been 6 yrs since your gone and you are always
on my mind. I still live my life through your eyes.
Part of me went with you, I love you!
April 27, 2013
mi querida sobrina raisa...que tanto te queremos en un dia como hoy se nos fuiste de este mundo pero dejaste un amor y carino tan sincero que nunca te olvidaremos,aquella humildad tan grande y aquel amor nunca se puede olvidar mi sobrina aunque pasen muchos anos siempre te recordaremos ..q .d .e .p . ...para siempre te seguiremos amando siempre hasta que nos iremos de este mundo
April 27, 2013
April 27, 2013
On a day like today on a Sunday morning 5 years ago you became an angel. We all miss you and you have never been forgotten. I know you're in a better place looking after us.
Love you my beautiful sister
March 22, 2013
March 22, 2013
Happy Birthday RayRay ! Not a day goes by that something doesn't remind me of you & brings a smile to my face. i always tell the boys how wonderful you where! i tell them that you are always watching over them like you did with me =(' I know how much you would of loved them and spoiled them like you did with Ally . we miss you & love you very much ! Jaiden,Jorden, Ally, Rosy , Zues
March 22, 2013
March 22, 2013
Happy Birthday Rere, we miss you more as time passes. And my admiration for has only grown 100 times now. I know you give me strength. I really have no idea how you could have so good...you were just too good for this place!!!. I love u forever <3
March 22, 2013
March 22, 2013
Happy Birthday in heaven, growing up, I remember how we would rush to see who would be the first to wish the other a happy birthday oh my how I miss that
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March 22
March 22
happy birthday my beautiful tia, i miss you immensely and i just wish you were here with us to celebrate…but i know you’re upstairs w grandpa partying like rockstars, hahah! i adore you, happy birthday again shining star <3
March 22
Happy birthday, Rere. I honestly haven't thought too much of you the lately, but during mass for you and dad today with mom, it hit so hard how much you are missed. We were so lucky to have you even for a brief time. I know you are proud of all our crazies (even if they don't always make the best choices... but neither did I, and you always loved me) I will forever remind them of their amazing mom and tia. We love you always
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March 22, 2023
Happy Birthday my beautiful tia, not a day goes by that i don’t miss you. I wish you were here to see how well the girls and i are doing, i know you’re always watching (along w abuelo) but i just wish i could hug you today, and watch you blow out your candles, and eat oreos with you, LOL. It’s funny bc i was in the mood for oreos earlier today, you gave me my first one, and i’ve loved them ever since. (now that i’m thinking back to that, i’d like to think that was a sign) So today we eat oreos in your memory♥️ i miss you immensely, please keep watching over me and guiding me. Happy birthday, i love you so so much my angel

Sweet talk

March 22, 2023
So I wanted to share how much I miss you but most importantly Happy Birthday in heaven ♥️ Ray Ray you left a reminder of the memories we now have because of you . So here’s a story.  I remember one day I went looking for Alyssa because you and Rayda would come grab her the minute you would walk in the door . So you came home from Chelsea , alyssa was still a baby. I remember few hours past by , I go downstairs to the basement  Alyssa was in the middle of you and rayda eating a bag of candy and watching tv all three of you had  smiles from ear to ear . That  wasn’t the funny part , the moment I went to grab her she started screaming bloody murder .  Not much has changed these days Alyssa still comes home with bags of candy or sweets like it’s Halloween lol  every time I go in her room and I see empty candy wrappers the first thing I think about is Raysa & Rayda lol if you know me I’m not a sweets person  
Love you and miss you dearly 

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