Richard Adelman, (1946 - 2012) - ForeverMissed.com Online Memorials

Let us all celebrate Richard's spirit in our lives every day

65 years old
Born on October 13, 1946 in Brookline, Massachusetts, United States
Passed away on April 1, 2012 in Chapel Hill, North Carolina, United States

This memorial website was created in loving memory of Richard Adelman. He will be dearly missed and forever held in our hearts.

A memorial service was held at Granite Links Golf Club in Quincy, MA on April 17 at 3:30 p.m. We are very grateful to all who attended and shared in the celebration of Rich's life. It was a wonderful, music-filled memorial to a man we all loved and miss greatly.

The family has requested that any donations in Rich's honor be directed to The Rhythmic Arts Project (www.traponline.org), an educational organization focused on empowering and enriching the lives of disabled individuals through percussion-based music.

Please leave a note, add a picture, video, or a song. Our family is comforted by your warmth and stories of Rich.

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April 17, 2012

When I met Richard, it was a jam session disguised as a sound check for Martin Mull at a club in Atlanta. He became my favorite drummer in about 4 seconds, and my best friend soon after that. Looking back, I can see how much my life was blessed by knowing and hanging out with Rich. More than I knew at the time. I loved him, but then, I'm certainly not alone.

April 17, 2012

Janice, Eric, Zac,
I have taken this long to write because I still can't get my head around it. Only the good die young. Probably the most decent human being Olga and I have ever met. Hopefully he is walkin and runnin and dancin in a better place !
Love, Olga and Gene

April 16, 2012

Dear janice eric and zac my heart goes out to you all! I cant help but think of all the fun and good times there were whenever rich was around. He had a way about him that made you feel so special.a good man always has a good story and rich had many! Diane will be attending but I am going to have to catch up to you in n.c. Love you guys!!xxoo lynne

April 13, 2012

Rich was my not only my cousin but also my close friend, he was not just a rock star when he was drumming but even more of a rock star when he wasn't playing music,he was an amazing guy,sincere , caring , a one of a kind human being, I will miss him dearly, he had a big impact on Jess, Caryl and I , we love you and will miss you

April 13, 2012

Janice,
Our thoughts are with you. We only met you and Richard a few times through Roger and Liz, but Richard and you left great impressions. May your happy memories hold you close. Love to you and your family. Alice & Richard Snowden

April 11, 2012

I recently found a news clipping of the "Charades". Oh the flood of memories, Nantasket, the Battle of the Bands, the many practices and parties, but most especially the ride to Chapel Hill, NC to bring himself his drums. I can still see his beautiful smile. Janice and family, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

April 11, 2012

My uncle was a good man who lived a life filled with love, family and music. I will always remember the happy moments we spent together talking and laughing. I am lucky that I got to know Richard Adelman whose sense of humor and strength in life made me very proud to be his nephew. I will miss you!

April 8, 2012

Richard was such a joy to work with as well as being a great friend. When you hung out and talked with him, he always gave you his undivided attention. I will always remember the many gigs we played together, from touring with The Hues Corporation, and Donna Summer and Brooklyn Dreams, as well as all the local LA gigs.May God Bless the Adelman Family and keep you in his perfect peace.

April 8, 2012

Rich was kind. He was interested in his friends' well being. He always took the time needed for a chat. He loved his wife and sons, and worked hard to give them a decent life. He put me up when I was down. My heart goes out to his family.

April 8, 2012

So many good times and memories,I feel priviledged to have shared life and music with him,he didn't just play the drums,he played the song.A kind soul,I loved that guy.I wish the family peace and healing.

April 8, 2012

Rich had so much soul in his life as an incredibly warm and kind human being that also reflected on his wonderful talent as a pro drummer which many of us were fortunate to experience. I'll never forget how easy it was to be around him and his great grooves. Love and peace be with you.

April 7, 2012

Dear Janice and family, I was so sorry to hear of Richard's passing. I knew him from the "Steamboat Willy" days with Barry Michaud and Allen Estes. I always remember him calling his son with his thick Boston accent, "Come getcha suppah!!" Lynne Mirando and I will try to come up for the memorial, but even if we aren't able to get there please know our thoughts are with you. Fondly, Diane

April 7, 2012

My Dear Richard: What a lovely man, wonderful wife, many things to work out when first we met. It was fun getting to know you and push your butt to realize there was still a world out there after paralysis. DR. Rudnick said get you doing something and we sure did. That wonderful soft demeanor, so smart, patient, loving totally Janice and your boys. A great pleasure to know and love you.RIP

April 6, 2012

It was always a pleasure when we played together back in the day in LA. Unfortunately our lives diverged and we lost touch. My sincere condolences. I'm moved beyond words to see the joy in Richard's face in the photos. God bless you Richard for a life well lived.

April 6, 2012

way back in the early 70"s we had a band in boston called "steamboat willie"...richard was the only "veteran musician" in the band,playing also with jonathan edwards,and orphan.he truly taught me how to not take myself so seriously in this crazy business...a great drummer,a true friend,and a magical smile...you'll always be in my heart buddy.god bless!!!

April 6, 2012

We will forever cherish the day our family ( Fallon's) welcomed Richard into our lives when he married the love of his life, my cousin, Janice. You made our family a better family. You were a standout guy who was a loving husband, Dad & grandfather. We especially loved it when you moved to the Cape. Thank you for taking me to the Melody Tent as it was the thrill of my life. xoxo L & P.

April 6, 2012

He was my best friend, but in many ways, he could be every one's best friend. He really listened to & cared about others and was always there for friends & family to offer help, advice, and support.! A man with grace, subsance and a wicked sense of humor. As Marty Mull said, "A drummer is a musician's best friend".

April 6, 2012

To the Adelman family, I am so sorry for your loss, may he forever rest in peace. It was a pleasure spending many nights at your home, making us all feel like family, you always opened your home to so many of us. To Zac, my old friend, I am so sorry for your loss, please know on this holiday weekend our prayers are with your entire family. God bless..

April 6, 2012

To a great family-

Our thoughts and love are with you.

-Smith's

April 6, 2012

my condolences to all - my heart goes out to you! i was always so enthralled with all the great stories zac had about his dad. it was an honor and a pleasure to meet him and hang out in LA. as zac said - i hope he is now on the great drum stool in the sky, keeping the beat proper. much love... currie

April 5, 2012

What a blessing to get to know this wonderful, resilient man--and to share with him the joy of a happy marriage between our daughter Caroline and his son Zac. Richard, you will be missed; the legacy of your kindness, thoughtfulness and love of life and music will remain alive and well. We honor you, and thank God for your loving presence. We are holding you in light, peace and joy.

April 5, 2012

In our little band, some 53 years ago, Richard was clearly the best musician - and in addition he had the kind of magnetism that drew everyone's eyes to him and his great playing. In later years, Richard added to that talent a wealth of courage and warmth. He'll be missed a great deal, by many.

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I have been thinking of you all day, although we had lost touch thru the years I have thought of you and Janice many times. Remembering all the happier times we shared way back then. I can still see, in my minds eye, your beautiful smile. In my thoughts today, I was trying to decide which story to talk about. Maybe all those Sundays we rode down to Nantasket Beach to the Surf for the Battle of the Bands. Or the times "The Spinners" backed up the star performers at the Surf. Then again, I could mention the great long weekend ride down to Chapel Hill, NC, what a great weekend that was. We brought your drums to you in October of your freshman year at UNC. My Mom and Dad drove the station wagon with the drums and some of us kids. Brian drove the other car with the rest of the kids. What a special time for us all.

We will meet again someday, till then.

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