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This memorial website was created in loving memory of Richard Adelman. He will be dearly missed and forever held in our hearts.

A memorial service was held at Granite Links Golf Club in Quincy, MA on April 17 at 3:30 p.m. We are very grateful to all who attended and shared in the celebration of Rich's life. It was a wonderful, music-filled memorial to a man we all loved and miss greatly.  

The family has requested that any donations in Rich's honor be directed to The Rhythmic Arts Project (www.traponline.org), an educational organization focused on empowering and enriching the lives of disabled individuals through percussion-based music.

Please leave a note, add a picture, video, or a song.  Our family is comforted by your warmth and stories of Rich.

June 15, 2014
June 15, 2014
HAPPY FATHERS DAY RICH! Thank You for helping raise two wonderful sons! They are Great Dads Babe, you should be very very proud of our boyz to men! Missing You Today!
April 22, 2014
April 22, 2014
Richard was the master of tempo. Never rushing or dragging.
April 5, 2014
April 5, 2014
Hey there Janice and kids...sure can't believe it's been two years already for Rich ! I know it will always be hard for you all but he IS that spirit in the sky!! And that soul will always be with you!! love, lynne xxoo
April 2, 2014
April 2, 2014
Janice, Erik, Zac and your ever growing family....It is hard to comprehend that Richard has been gone for 2 years....What a wonderful Guy and a plus to our family!!! We were blessed to have gotten to know and love such a beautiful & wonderful loving & talented man!!!! Richard you are so very missed xoxo
April 1, 2014
April 1, 2014
I Will plant flowers For You Babe! Miss YOU Rich- my Heart aches; Spirit is Full...HEY YOU!
February 15, 2014
February 15, 2014
VALENTINE"S DAY without You Rich WAS NOT GOOD. Missing You
January 2, 2014
January 2, 2014
HAPPY 2014.....Missing my TRUE COMPANION. Has been 21 months since Richard passed. An Adelman was born 11 days ago...Winter Solstice 2013 brought us Sophia Bliss Adelman @8AM CST...LET THERE BE LIGHT..xo Sweet Sophia
November 16, 2013
November 16, 2013
Hey Rich; Have connected with many friends from our "early" years. tis good but also takes me back to When We Shared with each of them. Wow I miss you, I miss Us I miss what we had together..Wishing for FOREVER with You...MISSING You Rich xo j
October 31, 2013
October 31, 2013
THEY WON! YOUR SOX DID IT RICH!! At Home, Beautiful Indeed Babe!
October 30, 2013
October 30, 2013
Your SOX could win IT ALL tonight @ home...Yep World Series Fenway Pahk...Not since 1918 a Series win at home Right! Let's Go Red Sox I Want This FOR YOU Richard Lee..Loving You from Earth Babe xo
October 15, 2013
October 15, 2013
Hey janice and kids! It is so wonderful you have kept this fantastic site up in richards memory. .He still lives on in so many lives. Most of whom do not even know each other! What a special guy! ! Love you all and keep the faith! Luv, lynne
October 13, 2013
October 13, 2013
HAPPY BIRTHDAY RICH...SORRY THE SOX didn't win the first game for you!! HEY tonight.. the 13th your 67th they will play! We Got This Right .  Picturing You drumming..AND loving that..I miss you Richard ...Happy 67th Birthday My Love. xo.from me
October 13, 2013
October 13, 2013
"Rich was a friend that everybody wanted. His gentle personality and caring was always there. He was a great musician, but more he was the glue is any band. I knew him at Castle Music and I will always cherish his friendship in those days with Jon Edwards, and Rick Lilljequist and Stuart, and all the boys in the Shanty. God Bless his memory and a warm hello to Janice... RB
September 4, 2013
September 4, 2013
Missing YOU Babe! Eric's Birthday; B&E's SILVER Anniversary how SWEET!
Happy Rosh Hashanah My Life's Love....SHALOM
June 17, 2013
June 17, 2013
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY BABE! Dad to Our Two Amazing Sons..Thank You! Am with Eric and Beautiful Family; Missing You So Much..xo Rest My Love j
June 14, 2013
June 14, 2013
Wishing you were physically present Babe. Our Family's celebrating Beautiful Times...MISSING you so much..wishing You could be present for OUR children&grandchildren; Talked with "The Rabbi" tonight; WoW he didn't know you left our Earth That's tough stuff! xo Ya know
May 25, 2013
May 25, 2013
LOVING;MISSING&WISHING I COULD SHARE ALL THIS WITH YOU BABE!
April 16, 2013
April 16, 2013
Our 48th Anniversary is today! Remembering our simple wedding ceremony The Chinese Justice of the Peace, few family members present 1965 and Richard's family being Jewish, mine Catholic was then unacceptable!
We Knew we Were "True Companions" and What an Amazing Journey followed eh Rich? I MISS YOU with ALL My Heart, Thank You Love for Being an Amazing husband!
April 7, 2013
April 7, 2013
Rich my soul brother, possessed a sensitivity and tolerance for people which reflected in his music. whether it was Van Morrison, Bill Evans, Jose Feliciano, or Nina Simone Rich's diverse love of music transcended into his love of life.
April 1, 2013
April 1, 2013
My Tribute; A BEAUTIFUL MAN left us All Too Soon! Left this Earth Too Early; as He Gave So Much..WAS One Special HumanBeing Few&Far Between(as the saying goes) Richard Was A RARE BIRD! He WAS my Special Life Partner, Forever Missed/Always Loved WOW BABE 1 Year Whew Cryin On Earth Rich! xo
April 1, 2013
April 1, 2013
I was just thinking about Rich this morning, remembering how he turned me on to the joys of rhythm. One example was the drumming of Ziggy Modeliste of The Meters, on that great record "Hey Pocky Way." Ziggy gives the groove a lift with an extra little beat. Richard loved it, and I've loved it ever since. Now it's 2013, and Ziggy is coming to Bonaroo. Rich was way ahead of his time.
April 1, 2013
April 1, 2013
Playing with Richard at the beginning of my life as a working musician taught me essential things about music; his friendship at the beginning of my adulthood taught me essential things about how to live. He was an older brother to me, and he and Janice welcomed me into their family at a time when I very much needed that. He lives in me, as I know he does in others.
April 1, 2013
April 1, 2013
It is great that you are keeping Richard's memory alive. I have always thought of him as being a really kind person and I loved playing with him.
April 1, 2013
April 1, 2013
Rich was a good man in many ways. His death is such a great loss and just as great a loss is what dies inside us living with the void.
I think Rich would think that while you keep focused on the closed door of his life you may not notice the ones that open.
Rest in Peace Rich.
April 1, 2013
April 1, 2013
Rich, I cannot even begin to express my gratitude for everything that you brought to all of our lives. Thank you especially for raising Zac to be such a kind, patient, and loving man, just like his father. I see your gentle spirit in him every day. You are so loved, and we miss you too much for words. Please help us all to stay strong and model our lives after your resilience and humor.
March 1, 2013
March 1, 2013
Tonight tis 11 months since Richard physically left this Earth. I missed sharing our birthdays together. Am missing THAT smile, his incredible gentleness and caring...Am grateful for our Amazing family & Fantastic circle of friends..Thankful Rich is my Angel and I Know He is with me everyday; I feel his presence. Just Wish we could share Hugs. Loving sweet memories of You-Us
February 14, 2013
February 14, 2013
HAPPY LOVE DAY MY VALENTINE. Tis OK here Babe; our two Beautiful Boyz 2 Men made sure Mama felt LOVED...We done Good Adelman..They are Amazing. Outstanding sunset Whew multi-colored beautiful experience! Am crying "those" Happy Tears Rich..STOKED...Thank You Love WOW
February 1, 2013
February 1, 2013
February 1st, 2013,10 months ago my Love you left here.This New Year on Earth I strive To Be Still....Be Free....To Go Explore!...I will use new awareness to Become more in rhythm with the Flow of Life, more in Harmony with it's Song..these are my goals please be my guide Rich Lovingly j
January 24, 2013
January 24, 2013
RICHARD LEE ADELMAN, an Amazing DAD!! Hey Rich Zachariah celebrated his 38th B-Day..WOW OUR BABY(sorry Z) I KNOW you are With us I So Miss You. You were a Fantastic Father & have 2 Beautiful adult sons! Let them Feel your Presence in their lives! Keep Them Safe Babe...i love you; forever..
January 1, 2013
January 1, 2013
Almost 2013 here in SoCal and Just Sayin' Nothing Is The Same! Remembering OUR Ringing in New Year on Cape with dear Friends Rich So much laughing, lots of Great music, stories shared...I Am Alone(my choice) ringing in 2013. Shared time with Liz earlier All Good. I Am sad at heart; confused in mind and Dark in my soul! 2013 will be A Year Of Changes My Life's Love..Thank You for BEING
January 1, 2013
January 1, 2013
I had known Richard over the years since he played with The "Beaters" as a fellow drummer he was someone I respected as did everyone. I had lost touch and .... when I broke my neck, there he was. Richard was completely supportive, he offered advise and understanding. Later when I started The Rhythmic Arts Project, there he was again! Always thoughtful, always kind, always Richard.
November 6, 2012
November 6, 2012
I remember so many wonderful times, hanging out, sharing great times. Rich was our Best Man at Bryan's and my wedding. Our marriage didn't last, but our friendship did and all the great memories of being together and making music together dance through my mind and heart as I write this. Love, hugs and light to Rich, Janice and all the family. Love you all and I cherish the memories
October 17, 2012
October 17, 2012
Janice, Eric, and Zach,

My condolences to you and your family on the passing of Rich. We spoke two weeks before he passed and as always he exuded such a positive spirit about everything. Always welcomed me when I was around and will miss him... He will be with you by your side forever now. Be well.
October 14, 2012
October 14, 2012
Happy bday rich! Double digits! May you keep your loving wife and kids and their kids safe from where you are, you will always bemissed!luv ya, lynne
October 13, 2012
October 13, 2012
HAPPY 66TH BIRTHDAY RICHARD; FOREVER MISSED, ALWAYS IN MY HEART! MISSING YOU LOTS xo
October 13, 2012
October 13, 2012
Hey Janice,  Happy Birthday to Richard, Hope you are doing well,
How about asking Richard to tell Diane to do some lights and alarms for us too! Love ya girl and think of you lots!
June 25, 2012
June 25, 2012
Richard's Amazing Spirit is with me now...I feel him; I acknowledge& Thank him. I am NOT afraid..and believe me Rich is NOT subtle...Lights, smoke alarms HE IS WITH ME& making sure I KNOW. Loving YOU and so Grateful SHTIX! RAVE ON BABE!
May 22, 2012
May 22, 2012
Janice, Eric and Zac,
I was taken back by Richards passing and deeply saddened. Richard was a good friend and a pleasure to work with. I do regret drifting apart many years ago but I have great memories of hanging out, Gigs we played and places we toured. So many laughs. Working with him was such a pleasure he lifted every band and made me a better player.
I am so sorry for your loss. God Bless
May 21, 2012
May 21, 2012
I have decades of "memories, music" and stories.I could write a book about my time with RIchard but I only have so much space here. I'll tell you this, Richard truly had peace and love in his heart. He was the voice of reason! Simply put he was a truly good man in every sense of the word. Talented, soulful and kind. He lives on in my memory and in my heart.
May 21, 2012
May 21, 2012
I met Richard in around 1975. Having played with Bob Conti and having gone through 30 drummers on one gig, I learned what Bob was looking for in a drummer. Richard was playing with Jack Bone and me at a sleezy bar in West Covina. I recognized how great he was right away and contacted Bob, who immediately stole Richard from me for Donna Summer. He will be greatly missed.
May 16, 2012
May 16, 2012
Smell the Sea, Feel the Sky, FLY INTO THE MYSTIC...You ARE Home Babe....I WILL miss you Forever but Know you are with me SHINE ON SHTIX
May 13, 2012
May 13, 2012
Janiceeeeee,  Wow, I'm sitting here in tears. Thank you for being
two brilliant, shining souls in this world of ours!
May 3, 2012
May 3, 2012
Dear Janice, I was unaware of Rich's passing. I am so sorry for your loss and your families loss. Rich was a beautiful guy. More than a musician, he was a very very sweet guy and I was so sad to hear this. Bless you all. Please forgive my not knowing till today. He will be very missed by me.
April 18, 2012
April 18, 2012
Dear Janice & Family                                         my deepest thoughts are with you.I miss the times we had together.    Rich & I had some great banter about music & sports.               Everybody talks about the sports heroes "over priced athletes, thats all they are! You & Rich are my HEROES and will always be! Bless you
April 17, 2012
April 17, 2012
When I met Richard, it was a jam session disguised as a sound check for Martin Mull at a club in Atlanta. He became my favorite drummer in about 4 seconds, and my best friend soon after that. Looking back, I can see how much my life was blessed by knowing and hanging out with Rich. More than I knew at the time. I loved him, but then, I'm certainly not alone.
April 17, 2012
April 17, 2012
Janice, Eric, Zac,
I have taken this long to write because I still can't get my head around it. Only the good die young. Probably the most decent human being Olga and I have ever met. Hopefully he is walkin and runnin and dancin in a better place ! 
Love, Olga and Gene
April 16, 2012
April 16, 2012
Dear janice eric and zac my heart goes out to you all! I cant help but think of all the fun and good times there were whenever rich was around. He had a way about him that made you feel so special.a good man always has a good story and rich had many! Diane will be attending but I am going to have to catch up to you in n.c. Love you guys!!xxoo lynne
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October 2, 2018
  1. not so much a story but a thought..can't believe it is 6 1/2 years already! I still remember Janices' call..yes as your still beautiful wife has told you.. your family has grown and your boys are wonderful fathers and sons.. peace stay with you...xxoo

ELIZA LEE ADELMAN

October 13, 2016

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY OL' MAN!   70 Years Old HolyMoly Rich!   On September 29th 2016  Eliza Lee Adelman entered the World!  Our Family grows! She will hear all about her Papa from us.
Another Beautiful Adelman Female YaY Babe!

Missing YOU, Celebrating Your Life, Remebering All of YOU....My True Companion.
In Peace, With Much Love
           



 

"Way Back Then"

April 1, 2014

I have been thinking of you all day, although we had lost touch thru the years I have thought of you and Janice many times.  Remembering all the happier times we shared way back then.  I can still see, in my minds eye, your beautiful smile.  In my thoughts today, I was trying to decide which story to talk about.  Maybe all those Sundays we rode down to Nantasket Beach to the Surf for the Battle of the Bands.  Or the times "The Spinners" backed up the star performers at the Surf.  Then again, I could mention the great long weekend ride down to Chapel Hill, NC, what a great weekend that was.  We brought your drums to you in October of your freshman year at UNC.  My Mom and Dad drove the station wagon with the drums and some of us kids.  Brian drove the other car with the rest of the kids.  What a special time for us all.  

We will meet again someday, till then.    

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