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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Richard Artley, 49, born on August 28, 1963 and passed away on August 15, 2013. We will remember him forever.

On this site you are invited to share your thoughts of Richard as a memorial or in the stories area you can recount in greater depth specific events when Richard may have touched your life. 

August 31, 2023
August 31, 2023
I cleared up my office after vacation, old piles of paper going back to more than 25 years. I come across a sheet of paper with his name on it: 'ETech, phone back next week' with phone number. I remember him really well and so I look him up on google. I am very sad to get to know only now that he died 10 years ago. I met him when I worked at EPFL in Lausanne. I got to know him when looking out on what to do with my patent. We then once met by chance in the train to Lausanne. We had a such a pleasant long conversation. We had both interest in science, technology and arts. I appreciated his wide view on science and technology. 
August 28, 2023
August 28, 2023
It would have been Richard’s 60th birthday today. It’s been 10 years since he left us, which seems unthinkable. I miss you.
August 15, 2023
August 15, 2023
10 years already since you passed. You are still missed and so often remembered. Your knowledge and wit - how often do I still feel to pick up the phone and talk to you. You always had an idea on what next. Sending you love
September 22, 2022
September 22, 2022
Although Richard passed away nine years ago, we feel he is still with us.  He was a fascinating Member of the British Residents’ Association, introducing us to his Art and Scientific Discoveries, accompanying us to Art Exhibitions and joining us whenever possible in our BRA events.  Richard -  You have left us with wonderful memories.

Joanna Koch, N.E. Chairman of the British Residents’ Association
August 31, 2021
August 31, 2021
It's been 8 years now since you left us. It's still hard to accept you're not with us anymore. Rest in peace, big brother.
August 30, 2020
August 30, 2020
Dear Richard,

Think of you a lot these weeks as I hope to turn 50 in May 2021.
I have decided to celebrate already during Corona lock down or distancing by seeing friends and taking the opportunity to reach out to people I really appreciate.

Your death was sudden and still saddens me deeply. Miss you and sending love to you.
August 29, 2018
August 29, 2018
Happy Birthday Richard. Can’t really believe it is 5 years since you left us. Thinking of you as always and miss you. X
August 28, 2018
August 28, 2018
Happy Birthday Richard.
Most of all I remember your love for fun. Wonderful to read the tributes of family and friends. You touched so many with you original views and limitless knowledge. Mischa Bonn once described you as "Richard has a 360 degree IQ" as your interests ranged from art, music, sciences, language, dance, and more than anything: how things were made. You were truly fascinated by that.
This week I found your last Christmas letter you sent out to friends December 2012 expressing your hope to return to the UK and telling of the difficulties you had working at various companies in very difficult situations. So sad to read that in today's world the R&D is too expensive and investors prefer a next bit hit financially instead of fundamental research, and this is not just in your field. It is everywhere.
You keep inspiring me, and I expect many others too. Thank you for your warm heart and your incredible mind.
Miss you,
Marie-Jeanne
August 18, 2018
August 18, 2018
Dear Richard, You were an intrigueing Member of the British Residents Association. You brought new ideas, gave evocative talks, and were a colourful figure at our Events.  - I remember one talk when you traced the origins and journey of a silver decanter through destructive times in the US and then abandoned on the State Dinner Table in the Washington White House.  Many,  many years later you spotted it at a Zurich street market and were inspired to do this research. Thank you Richard for enriching our Association.
Joanna Koch, Chairman of the N.E. Region
August 17, 2018
August 17, 2018
I agree with Malcolm. Can’t believe it is five years already.
Missing you my cousin,
Daniel
August 15, 2018
August 15, 2018
Still thinking of you, Richard. Can't believe it's 5 years since your passing. I'll drink a toast to you on your birthday as always.
January 12, 2018
January 12, 2018
I was shocked to just discover of Richard's passing. We were in the same class for our first two years at WHGS but for many years up to that point my mother and I had purchased eggs from Richard's grandfather's farm. The only dogs I trusted for years were the standard poodles that lived there! Richard was a remarkably gifted student who maybe struggled a little on the social side at that time but who would have appeared to have blossomed as he matured, based on the pictures of him on here. I have to say that he is unrecognisable from the boy I recall. I send my belated heartfelt sympathies to all those who were close to him and assure them that through those of us who knew him his memory will live on. Sleep well, Richard.
August 29, 2017
August 29, 2017
Happy Birthday dear Richard.
Thinking of you this week in California and sharing your insight and creativity. You remain an inspiration. Wish you were here to enjoy the sunny beaches and wonderful summer.
August 29, 2017
August 29, 2017
Dear Richard,
Happy Birthday,would like to show you how large the kids are now.
And especially how well Valentina is doing, thank you for inspiring me during those endless periods of hospital tours with her.
Truly,mind over matter,mind says most.
We miss you
August 19, 2016
August 19, 2016
Miss you off course. Our on going dialogues. You are such an inspiration, so many great memories. Thank you
August 28, 2015
August 28, 2015
Dearest Richard, you would have been 52 today and I would have been calling you to catch up on your latest adventures and wish you a very happy birthday. I can't believe that it is 2 years since you left us. I have looked through all the photos here again and it has raised a smile and a tear. I miss you, and my thoughts are with you, especially today.
August 28, 2015
August 28, 2015
Dear Richard,
Same birthday as Goethe and this day Le Corbusier died. Great minds who set new standards and had influence on many ideas and people. You keep inspiring me. I have never met anyone like you. Your 360 degree IQ and look at the world was just amazing. You combined this mind with a big HEART.
Miss you especially today,
Marie-Jeanne
July 5, 2015
July 5, 2015
I was just reviewing my facebook friends, and saw that Richard's page was now "remembering". I worked with Richard at Avantium in Amsterdam. Workwise it was all a very turbulent time - but Richard would always bring a much needed sense of fun. Being the eccentric Brit abroad was of course his speciality. We last met up in Zurich a few years back. He will be sadly missed by those that knew him
August 20, 2014
August 20, 2014
"I am touched by two magical Murder Mystery evenings that Richard orchestrated at his wonderful Herengracht apartment in the late 1990s. The combination of eclectic international guests (in costume), wonderful food, amazing old vintage wines and the intrigue of finding the 'murderer' has left an indelible memory of Richard's sense of fun and generous spirit as a consummate host.'
December 9, 2013
December 9, 2013
I met Richard during this week in 2011, in Vienna. We worked together on a geothermal project and enjoyed a wonderful camaraderie even though we worked together for a relatively short amount of time. I admired and appreciated his brilliant mind and the precision and grace with which he navigated relationships as a consultant embedded in a large Austrian company.  He communicated with a truthfulness and authenticity which was disarming and clear. I am very grateful to have had the opportunity to know him; and, I wish to express my sincere condolences to his family.
November 21, 2013
November 21, 2013
A big thank you !

You inspire me to think out of the box, every day.

So much inspiration from our dialogues, ranging from sustainability, architecture, building communities, to breakthrough technology, opera, painting, asian art, Japan, English economy, a mix of it all and you name it.

Amazing insight and warm friendship - Your thoughts and ideas I hold dear. Thank you.
November 12, 2013
November 12, 2013
I knew Richard for many years and apart from the BRA and Cambridge Assoc meetings my most charming memory was at an antiques auction in Erlenbach, Lake of Zurich. An amazing coincidence! His knowledge was tremendously detailed about history and value of objects. We quickly agreed not to compete on bidding. We will always remember his charm and wit and laugh.
October 20, 2013
October 20, 2013
I knew Richard over eleven years in Switzerland through the BRA, though I live in Luzern. We would on occasion share a glass of wine, or meal, the last in the Baur de Lac hotel. Richard was a very kind & generous man, helping with patent questions for my Sister. With a great privilege that I helped him with a heavy item of Greek art, traverse the Zurich streets to his home. God bless him.
October 9, 2013
October 9, 2013
When Richard worked in Cambridge, at Scientific Generics, it was a company of eccentrics, extroverts, and extremely bright people. Yet Richard stood head and shoulders above most of them - many of the characteristics that others have reported at Discworld conferences were present to colleagues every day and his warm, generous heart was a fascinating counter-point. Much missed.
September 22, 2013
September 22, 2013
Richard was a dedicated member of the British Residents Association of Switzerland, giving us many memorable talks and guided tours, on the art world and its frauds, history, Tutanchamon, Dürer and much more . His depth of knowledge was fantastic. Yet he was equally at home as MC for social lunches or organising successful raffles. We miss you Richard, you live on in our memories.
September 17, 2013
September 17, 2013
I am one of Richard's cousins. I came to the memorial service at St. Clements yesterday, sitting next to my mother (who was married there many years ago). . It was very moving and emotional Particularly poignant were the words or remembrance spoken by Malcom and Ros and of course the personal message from Terry P.
He will be very much missed.
September 16, 2013
September 16, 2013
Today was the memorial for Richard at St Clement's church in Chorlton. The family would like to thank all those who were able to attend and who sent very kind messages of condolence. Richard was well remembered today and we hope this website continues to receive your thoughts and memories of him in the future.
September 14, 2013
September 14, 2013
On behalf of long-serving Discworld and Pratchett ezine 'WOSSNAME', newshound Alison and editor Annie Mac would like to add their condolences. It is plain from the tributes and photographs that Richard added great spirit and enthusiasm to the Discworld events and will be missed and never forgotten
September 7, 2013
September 7, 2013
Dear Mr. Fraser
Today I tried to call Richard, I am living at Zinnengasse, very near to his home. I am very sad about the News. If I can bei of any help to his parents etc., send an E-Mail. I miss him. Thank you. Anna Marie
September 4, 2013
September 4, 2013
I worked with Richard for a short while in Switzerland. (I am American.) Richard was so funny and fun to work with that I was always happy to see him. He also knew so many different and esoteric things; it made him a very, very interesting person to be around. I am very sad about his passing away. He has a warm place in my heart!
September 4, 2013
September 4, 2013
Richard was instrumental in the success of our Australian Discworld Convention 2011 Auction. He shared his knowledge and experience of running such events completely unselfishly. I really appreciated his practical advice and I know that the success we enjoyed was due to his mentoring. He will be missed, and not just for his auctioneering skills but also his amazing personal presence.
September 3, 2013
September 3, 2013
22 years of working together is a long long time to get to know someone. And yet, Richard managed to surprise me time and time again. With his knowledge, his way of looking at business, technology and innovation, but also with his big heart and always open mind. 22 years, my friend, and now you moved on. Alone. Best of luck, Richard.
September 3, 2013
September 3, 2013
I knew Richard via the Discworld cons of 2008 -2013. Richard was always good company and a good conversationalist, and I enjoyed several chats with him, including at NADWCon 2013. He will be missed.
Emily Whitten
Vice Chair, NADWCon 2009; Chair, NADWCon 2011
September 3, 2013
September 3, 2013
It's years since I last saw Richard but I remember him as being very jolly. One Wincanton event when I was dressed as the opera ghost I was unable to tie my bow-tie and was frantically asking if anyone knew how to do it. I was directed to Richard, who obliged. I recall him commenting that at least I didn't have one of the "ghastly" clip on ones. I am very sorry to hear that he has died.
September 1, 2013
September 1, 2013
Richard, or Sir Joshua Lavish as we knew him at Discworld Conventions, was the driving force behind the charity auctions at the events. His humour, intellect, charm, anecdotes and costumes were always guaranteed and his passing will leave a void which cannot be filled. Bless you, Richard. We'll meet again over a glass of good wine. MEG. Chairman, Discworld Convention 2006.
August 31, 2013
August 31, 2013
I met Richard when he lived in Cambridge, and we were in a few amateur stage shows together before collaborating to put on two stage adaptations of Discworld books in 1995/1996. Richard is definitely missed.
August 31, 2013
August 31, 2013
I knew Richard from his involvement with Discworld. He was a lovely person, forever smiling and cheerful whether dealing with the auction or introducing us to his father in the bar at the Hilton. He will be missed by so many of us. Bless you Richard.
August 31, 2013
August 31, 2013
Like many people here I knew Richard from Discworld conventions. Lovely chap and the world is a little sadder for his absence
August 31, 2013
August 31, 2013
I met Richard twice during Discworld Conventions, and bought him a drink. Such a lovely man, with a magnificent presence. I will miss him. My sincerest condolences to his family. Please know that he is very much in the hearts of many, many people.
August 31, 2013
August 31, 2013
i met Richard at discworld events over the last few years he was a wonderful man and a true gentleman too my condolences to his family he will be missed by all of us that had met him
August 31, 2013
August 31, 2013
I first saw Richard at the 2009 NADWCON banquet. No one could wear robes the way he did. And that voice! Had he given me an order I would have obeyed. Since then I have seen him several times in a suit or formal dress. To me, that appeared to be his natural wardrobe. We Americans don't know very much about royalty but when I saw dressed like that I felt that I was in its presence. RIP
August 31, 2013
August 31, 2013
Richard was a man of great character, great generosity, great love - he lived a great life
He will be missed by all who knew him
August 29, 2013
August 29, 2013
A true Gentleman.

Always a positive force, even in challenging circumstances. A great example for all of us to emulate.

Gone, but certainly not forgotten.
August 29, 2013
August 29, 2013
I had the pleasure of working with Richard on the charity auction at NADWCon in in July where his dedication and experience made things run very smoothly. He was also a great story-teller and he held groups of people spellbound as he told them of his life and work. The Discworld community has lost a true gentleman, we will not forget him. John Hicks, Chairman, Discworld Convention 2014
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Richard was a dear friend and I met him during his years in Amsterdam. He also became friends with my entire family and they all send their deepest condolences to the entire Artley family.
Richard has a special place in all our hearts.
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Happy 50th birthday today Richard - you are missed.
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Richard was such a huge part of the Discworld Conventions, they simply shall not be the same without him. He did so much for the con and so much for charity. We will remember him and miss him at cons, at gatherings and especially during the auctions.
Brian Nisbet
Chairman, Discworld Convention 2010 & 2012
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
I didn't know Richard well but had meet him briefly at various Discworld events and remember him for his flamboyant costumes and cheery disposition. Richard was responsible for the wonderful organisation of the Charity events at the Discworld Cons and we and the many charities he helped own Richard a debt of gratitude.
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August 31, 2023
August 31, 2023
I cleared up my office after vacation, old piles of paper going back to more than 25 years. I come across a sheet of paper with his name on it: 'ETech, phone back next week' with phone number. I remember him really well and so I look him up on google. I am very sad to get to know only now that he died 10 years ago. I met him when I worked at EPFL in Lausanne. I got to know him when looking out on what to do with my patent. We then once met by chance in the train to Lausanne. We had a such a pleasant long conversation. We had both interest in science, technology and arts. I appreciated his wide view on science and technology. 
August 28, 2023
August 28, 2023
It would have been Richard’s 60th birthday today. It’s been 10 years since he left us, which seems unthinkable. I miss you.
August 15, 2023
August 15, 2023
10 years already since you passed. You are still missed and so often remembered. Your knowledge and wit - how often do I still feel to pick up the phone and talk to you. You always had an idea on what next. Sending you love
Recent stories

Richards essay entitled 'Two sides of a Door'

September 1, 2017

 The day had begun wet, dull and gloomy. So Peter had decided to explore the old country house.  On the ground floor he went through one room after another, finding out all sorts of interesting things, like clocks, vases and ornaments.  He went upstairs and looked in more rooms.  He went down two steps, then up five more. A door was in front of him, ajar.  He walked past and found himself in a large, spacious, rectangular room.  All the furniture, except a wardrobe, was covered with white dust sheets, so it was the wardrobe which stood out.  Peter looked at it. It was a tall, squat, wooden wardrobe. It had panels in its doors and a large mirror on one large panel. Peter tried the door. It opened and the wardrobe was full of fur coats. Peter stepped inside. 

 He pushed his way past the coats to feel the back. But soon they ended and Peter found himself a staring out on a bright, gigantic world from the top of the hill.  There was a large forest to his left above which strange birds swooped and wheeled. To his right was a broad valley, crossed by babbling brooks and streams. Behind him were tall, formidable looking, snowcapped mountains. In front was a wide plain, a wood, some tall hills, and then the blue green sea, dotted with islands and crests of waves.

 Peter noticed that there was a stone  staircase leading down the hill, across the plane, over the streams on stone bridges, and behind the hills. It was covered by pictures of dragons and other monsters, as well as unicorns and creatures like fauns  and dryads.

 Peter went down the road, across the daisy covered plain, and over the bridges, until he reached a crossroads.  He stood in the middle and looks down each road. The first one, he knew, lead to the hill and the wardrobe, but he did not know where the other three lead – they were surrounded in mystery.  Peter wondered for a while and then chose the right hand road. He walked down it, gazing all the time at the paving, the butterflies, birds and flowers. The road turned and led towards the hills by the wood. Now Peter saw that the road lead to a rocky cave. By the cave sitting on a large boulder in the sunshine was a faun.

 The faun had an iced drink by his side, but when he saw Peter he jumped into the air, nearly upsetting his drink. "Hello!" he said. "Hello!" replied Peter.  There was a silence. Then the faun said: " Would you like to come down the mine?" "Yes, please", said Peter.  So they went down into the mine.  All the way the faun  was explaining that the road ran through the hills and to the palace by the ocean, and that they would see something that Peter would like. By now Peter had noticed that there was a strange radiance coming from ahead.  Then, as they turned a corner, Peter saw the reason and gasped. 

 The cave they were standing in was enormous, and looks more like a pleasant grove than a cave. There were trees laden with bunches of diamonds, rubies and other precious and semi-precious stones, and it was these that caused the radiance.  While Peter was contemplating the site, the faun  had taken two chests and was now putting diamonds into them. He gave one to Peter. Then they walked around the cave and looked at the jewels on the trees, until they came back to the place where they had started from. 

 Peter said he must go, taking with him his chest of jewels. He thanked the faun and they walk together back to the wardrobe. "Come agin to Belletonda", said the faun.  Peter said he would, said "Goodbye",  and stepped inside.  He pushed his way through the fur coats and stepped into the room. Next time he came he would meet the faun and go down the other roads in Belletonda -  The land on the other side of the wardrobe door. 

Lord Mayor's Essay Competition

September 1, 2017

This was Richard's account of receiving his prize for essay writing from the Lord Mayor, His essay was entitled 'Two Sides of a Door';

'Rachel Dyson, Tracy Kelly and I went to the Town Hall on the 5th June. We sat in the front row of some seats in the Lord Mayor's Parlour. An attendant announced the arrival of the Lord Mayor and the Lady Mayoress. We all rose. The Lord Mayor asked us to sit down. He said he would speak as he felt and showed us a book he had won 54 years ago. He asked us to pass it along and look at the fly-leaf.

Then he gave out the prizes to the four schools. He received kisses from the eleven girls and as I was the only boiy there I became worried. However, the Lord Mayor shook my hand instead. He asked us whether we wanted the book signed "F J Balcombe" or "Fred Balcombe". We all decided on "Fred Balcombe". Our book was the the Guiness Book of Records.

After the prizes had been given a photographer from the Manchester Evening News asked the Lord Mayor, the Lady Mayoress and the eleven girls and me to go on to one of the staircases to have our picture taken. He asked the Lord Mayor to hold his book while we looked over his shoulder. He took five photographs. Then we went back into the Parlour for orangeade and cakes. I looked at the Lord Mayor's chain and Tracy showed him her father's name in the Guiness Book of Records for 4 DSMs. It was an experience I shall never forget.'  

Murder parties in Amsterdam

December 14, 2013

Richard loved parties! "It is fun!" So we jointly hosted a few parties at his grotesque-style decorated apartment. The backroom of his 180 m2 apartment on Singel 56 in Amsterdam, was a the perfect setting for any party: A large dining table could easily sit 10-12 people, the 4,5 meter high ceilings covered in paintings, mostly 18 and 19th century landscapes and portraits, tigers on the floor, statues next to the big sofa.

Guests all dressed up for the theme of this murder: A 1987 stock market crash murder in Manhattan.  Girls with big hair, shoulder pads, bright make up and boys as Wall Street yuppies and their bosses.

Richard cooked a five course dinner and I asked if I should help but he had it all figured out, "O, it is easy, I make canapes, then a soup, we have beef, and then port and cheese, then coffee and chocolates." Easy, like that, he kept surprising me. All courses with matching wines of the wine auctions at Chambridge. He loved to buy wines at auction, 1954 ports, 1970-s Pomerol, wonderful bottles, one better than the other. He also danced the tango. All in one day, just like that.

He kept surprising everyone with his many talents.

Each guest played the role of their invitation, crashed stockbroker, photojournalist, bored wife in a mega penthouse etc.etc. And I remember, at the end of the dinner you had to raise suspicions, when Peter Biloen said: "I think I did it"

Half way the soup, the moustache of Per was in his soup, one guest more steady in his or her role than the other, we had such a special and fun evening.

 

I like to share this party memory as the holiday season is nearing, Richard loved to meet people, host parties, dance, attend parties and in so many pictures on this site he is in costume. He had a large pile of coustumes in his basement, that if you did not yet dress up you could find things in the box.

 

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Richard lived in Amsterdam from 2000-2002/3 in a large apartment Singel 56-Bel. He planned to stay for a few decades and was slowly renovating, part by part, room by room. In total 180 m2 over two floors, frontroom, backroom.

 

The paintings were good portraits, usually with an unknown sitter. He loved to solve the puzzle. Where, who, when.

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