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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Richard Artley, 49, born on August 28, 1963 and passed away on August 15, 2013. We will remember him forever.

On this site you are invited to share your thoughts of Richard as a memorial or in the stories area you can recount in greater depth specific events when Richard may have touched your life. 

August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Like many people, I knew Richard from Discworld - the many wonderful costumes he had and the intricate characters he portrayed. I only spoke with him a few times & each time he was fascinating to listen to. I was looking forward to seeing Sir Joshua Lavish again, but will raise a glass instead to a real gentleman - RIP Richard
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Richard was such a larger than life presence at the Discworld cons. He did hard and meticulous work with the auctions and there will be a real sense of loss without him on so many levels. His costumes were always wonderfully memorable as was his humour. He will be missed.
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
I met Richard a few years ago at the DWCon in Birmingham and was shocked to hear he had passed away. He was a funny, intelligent and brilliant man and will be missed. RIP Sir Joshua Lavish!
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Dear Richard - today would have been your 50th birthday. We would have wished to be able to celebrate this with you. We, your work colleagues in Zurich, would have sung "Happy Birthday" - in "key L" - as you used to point out with a big smile at our birthday celebrations in the office.......We miss you. Take care where ever you are, and until later.....
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Although I have not seen you very much, I still feel the loss when I speak to Ros and Arron. My thoughts are with you all at this very sad time.you will always live on in the memory of all your loved ones. Happy birthday Richard.
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
I met Richard at a Discworld Convention years ago - he had a terrific costume, he turned out to be a lovely, lively, man that weekend. I helped him a bit at the last Auction. I looked for him at the Tribal gatherings at Wincanton as well. Always smiling, always happy to be there. I will look again this 'Hogswatch' and I will miss his company.
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
I worked with Richard on several technology market studies. He had great insight and perception and inspired the study team with his enthusiasm and boundless energy. Never a negative word from Richard; always a force for good. The world is poorer for your loss Richard.
Allan Matthews, University of Sheffield, UK
August 26, 2013
August 26, 2013
I'm Richard's younger brother. I have been contacted by friends and colleagues from many countries who have all offered condolences and tributes to Richard. This has been of great comfort to me and my family. I hope that sharing thoughts on this site will help everybody with coming to terms with this sad event.
August 26, 2013
August 26, 2013
I am Richard's sister and would like to thank all those people from around the world that have sent such kind words to the family at this difficult time. It is obvious that Richard has touched many lives and will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
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August 31, 2023
August 31, 2023
I cleared up my office after vacation, old piles of paper going back to more than 25 years. I come across a sheet of paper with his name on it: 'ETech, phone back next week' with phone number. I remember him really well and so I look him up on google. I am very sad to get to know only now that he died 10 years ago. I met him when I worked at EPFL in Lausanne. I got to know him when looking out on what to do with my patent. We then once met by chance in the train to Lausanne. We had a such a pleasant long conversation. We had both interest in science, technology and arts. I appreciated his wide view on science and technology. 
August 28, 2023
August 28, 2023
It would have been Richard’s 60th birthday today. It’s been 10 years since he left us, which seems unthinkable. I miss you.
August 15, 2023
August 15, 2023
10 years already since you passed. You are still missed and so often remembered. Your knowledge and wit - how often do I still feel to pick up the phone and talk to you. You always had an idea on what next. Sending you love
Recent stories

Richards essay entitled 'Two sides of a Door'

September 1, 2017

 The day had begun wet, dull and gloomy. So Peter had decided to explore the old country house.  On the ground floor he went through one room after another, finding out all sorts of interesting things, like clocks, vases and ornaments.  He went upstairs and looked in more rooms.  He went down two steps, then up five more. A door was in front of him, ajar.  He walked past and found himself in a large, spacious, rectangular room.  All the furniture, except a wardrobe, was covered with white dust sheets, so it was the wardrobe which stood out.  Peter looked at it. It was a tall, squat, wooden wardrobe. It had panels in its doors and a large mirror on one large panel. Peter tried the door. It opened and the wardrobe was full of fur coats. Peter stepped inside. 

 He pushed his way past the coats to feel the back. But soon they ended and Peter found himself a staring out on a bright, gigantic world from the top of the hill.  There was a large forest to his left above which strange birds swooped and wheeled. To his right was a broad valley, crossed by babbling brooks and streams. Behind him were tall, formidable looking, snowcapped mountains. In front was a wide plain, a wood, some tall hills, and then the blue green sea, dotted with islands and crests of waves.

 Peter noticed that there was a stone  staircase leading down the hill, across the plane, over the streams on stone bridges, and behind the hills. It was covered by pictures of dragons and other monsters, as well as unicorns and creatures like fauns  and dryads.

 Peter went down the road, across the daisy covered plain, and over the bridges, until he reached a crossroads.  He stood in the middle and looks down each road. The first one, he knew, lead to the hill and the wardrobe, but he did not know where the other three lead – they were surrounded in mystery.  Peter wondered for a while and then chose the right hand road. He walked down it, gazing all the time at the paving, the butterflies, birds and flowers. The road turned and led towards the hills by the wood. Now Peter saw that the road lead to a rocky cave. By the cave sitting on a large boulder in the sunshine was a faun.

 The faun had an iced drink by his side, but when he saw Peter he jumped into the air, nearly upsetting his drink. "Hello!" he said. "Hello!" replied Peter.  There was a silence. Then the faun said: " Would you like to come down the mine?" "Yes, please", said Peter.  So they went down into the mine.  All the way the faun  was explaining that the road ran through the hills and to the palace by the ocean, and that they would see something that Peter would like. By now Peter had noticed that there was a strange radiance coming from ahead.  Then, as they turned a corner, Peter saw the reason and gasped. 

 The cave they were standing in was enormous, and looks more like a pleasant grove than a cave. There were trees laden with bunches of diamonds, rubies and other precious and semi-precious stones, and it was these that caused the radiance.  While Peter was contemplating the site, the faun  had taken two chests and was now putting diamonds into them. He gave one to Peter. Then they walked around the cave and looked at the jewels on the trees, until they came back to the place where they had started from. 

 Peter said he must go, taking with him his chest of jewels. He thanked the faun and they walk together back to the wardrobe. "Come agin to Belletonda", said the faun.  Peter said he would, said "Goodbye",  and stepped inside.  He pushed his way through the fur coats and stepped into the room. Next time he came he would meet the faun and go down the other roads in Belletonda -  The land on the other side of the wardrobe door. 

Lord Mayor's Essay Competition

September 1, 2017

This was Richard's account of receiving his prize for essay writing from the Lord Mayor, His essay was entitled 'Two Sides of a Door';

'Rachel Dyson, Tracy Kelly and I went to the Town Hall on the 5th June. We sat in the front row of some seats in the Lord Mayor's Parlour. An attendant announced the arrival of the Lord Mayor and the Lady Mayoress. We all rose. The Lord Mayor asked us to sit down. He said he would speak as he felt and showed us a book he had won 54 years ago. He asked us to pass it along and look at the fly-leaf.

Then he gave out the prizes to the four schools. He received kisses from the eleven girls and as I was the only boiy there I became worried. However, the Lord Mayor shook my hand instead. He asked us whether we wanted the book signed "F J Balcombe" or "Fred Balcombe". We all decided on "Fred Balcombe". Our book was the the Guiness Book of Records.

After the prizes had been given a photographer from the Manchester Evening News asked the Lord Mayor, the Lady Mayoress and the eleven girls and me to go on to one of the staircases to have our picture taken. He asked the Lord Mayor to hold his book while we looked over his shoulder. He took five photographs. Then we went back into the Parlour for orangeade and cakes. I looked at the Lord Mayor's chain and Tracy showed him her father's name in the Guiness Book of Records for 4 DSMs. It was an experience I shall never forget.'  

Murder parties in Amsterdam

December 14, 2013

Richard loved parties! "It is fun!" So we jointly hosted a few parties at his grotesque-style decorated apartment. The backroom of his 180 m2 apartment on Singel 56 in Amsterdam, was a the perfect setting for any party: A large dining table could easily sit 10-12 people, the 4,5 meter high ceilings covered in paintings, mostly 18 and 19th century landscapes and portraits, tigers on the floor, statues next to the big sofa.

Guests all dressed up for the theme of this murder: A 1987 stock market crash murder in Manhattan.  Girls with big hair, shoulder pads, bright make up and boys as Wall Street yuppies and their bosses.

Richard cooked a five course dinner and I asked if I should help but he had it all figured out, "O, it is easy, I make canapes, then a soup, we have beef, and then port and cheese, then coffee and chocolates." Easy, like that, he kept surprising me. All courses with matching wines of the wine auctions at Chambridge. He loved to buy wines at auction, 1954 ports, 1970-s Pomerol, wonderful bottles, one better than the other. He also danced the tango. All in one day, just like that.

He kept surprising everyone with his many talents.

Each guest played the role of their invitation, crashed stockbroker, photojournalist, bored wife in a mega penthouse etc.etc. And I remember, at the end of the dinner you had to raise suspicions, when Peter Biloen said: "I think I did it"

Half way the soup, the moustache of Per was in his soup, one guest more steady in his or her role than the other, we had such a special and fun evening.

 

I like to share this party memory as the holiday season is nearing, Richard loved to meet people, host parties, dance, attend parties and in so many pictures on this site he is in costume. He had a large pile of coustumes in his basement, that if you did not yet dress up you could find things in the box.

 

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Richard lived in Amsterdam from 2000-2002/3 in a large apartment Singel 56-Bel. He planned to stay for a few decades and was slowly renovating, part by part, room by room. In total 180 m2 over two floors, frontroom, backroom.

 

The paintings were good portraits, usually with an unknown sitter. He loved to solve the puzzle. Where, who, when.

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