Dad and I had gone to Altus Lake to do some fishing.  North shore side...we had been there a couple of hours when i noticed him trying to fish a lure out of the water somewhat close to the bank.  I put some rocks around my fishing pole so i could continue to fish while i went to help dad get his lure back.  after ten or so minutes dad said..Son...didnt you have a pole down there.  i turned and looked and sure enough it was gone.  i quit fishing for the lure and went back to the place i had anchored my fishing pole and looked and looked...dad said he heard a splash and then nothing.  that was one of our fishing trips.

I remember the day we meant the smile on your face that made me feel so at easy the kindness from you that made me feel so speacial . You brought me a little bear and a Oklahoma t-shirt and I and the kids had made a cake and a wall sign that said welcome home you had taken leave from your job at the air force and we sat and talked all bight long like we had know each other forever. And the months ahead you kept coming to visit and the closeness we felt turned into Love and we got marrired . A man like you was a dream for me you acceped my kids as if they were your own and are family grow with six wonderful children and so much love . Over the years our lives was so enriched and blessed that we had everything between you and I . God blessed me with a remarkable loving and kind man that was a dream come true in my life we have had so many wounderful times in our marrage . Now its time for god to take you home with him and its so hard to let you go I miss you so much our time together was to short but I know your at peace in gods hands and the angels are watching over you now . But I still feel you so close to me its very hard to let go but I know god brought you into my live and he wants you back now . I miss you my love my heart is broken and i prayed he would let you stay with me forever but he knew you were tried and needed rest .  I  will always love you and you will be in my heart forever .  God only loaned you to me and I'm gratiful for the wonderful time we have had together but I miss you and love you so much . But I thank God for bring you into my life rest in peace my love . Your loving Wife

      one year at christmas we had two seperate tables in a smaller home i was about 23 yrs or so and momma asked me to sit at the kids eating table and with out anything said i got up went in there and grandma jump my butt and told me to sit at the big table  and with out nothing to say but  yes mamn  lol i told my momma she got me in trouble her and my daddy laughed their butt off i respect that but it was funny thow  grandmas can still do their job    then a little bit after that daddy was saying something to me and i laughed and said i going to tell grandma on you he said ok no worries son   so i told grandma and she looked at him and said son do you think you need to shave and he said yes mamn  and went strait into the bathroom and shaved    daddy looked at me when he got out shaving he smiled and said i owe you one son lolololol   i think he was about 50 yrs old then  lolol