Devoted husband, to the late Mary Elizabeth (nee Schmidt), 1955-2004, and the late Joan (nee Cline) Vester, 2006-2012, died peacefully April 6, 2021 following a life of devotion to God, family, and many people lovingly placed in his life through God’s blessings.
Bob is survived by his six children, Lisa Habel (Michael) Laura Randall-Tepe (Gregg), Paul, Julie Chimenti (Patrick), Tressa Leahy (Jeffrey) and Ted (Shelley); five Vester step children, John (Susan), Linda Greenberg (Glenn), Walter (Maria), Russell (Petra), and John (Sarai), 31 grandchildren and step grandchildren. He is preceded in death by his brother Jack Schoettinger and many dear relatives, friends, and colleagues.
Bob was born in Norwood, Ohio to Marie and Arthur Schoettinger. He was a gifted student and enterprising lad. After graduating from St. Xavier High School at age 16 he entered the Society of Jesus where he took first vows in 1943. He received a Master’s Degree in Philosophy from St. Louis University in 1949.
Bob’s calling evolved. He began a business career and was later introduced to Cincinnati business woman Betty Schmidt. They married November 27, 1955. Together they raised six children in a loving Hyde Park home.
Bob was a perennial top performer in his sales organization and retired early to start his own business which he sold in 2002.
Betty’s sudden death in 2004 left Bob a widower. He found love again, and married Joan Cline Vester October 21, 2006.
Salesman, entrepreneur, parish volunteer, advocate, sailor, poet, tennis player, and violinist, are titles he carried. Some he earned with talent and hard work and others by virtue of his charm. Bob was eternally optimistic. Despite compounding physical limitations during his last decade, he remained cheerful and sharp minded to the end.
As his final gift, Bob has donated his body to UC.
A Memorial Mass is planned for May 15, 2021, 10:30a at Bellarmine Chapel, on XU’s campus.
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Remembrances can be made to: Jesuits, Midwest Province, 1010 N. Hooker St. Chicago, IL. 60642 or the charity of your choice.
