ForeverMissed
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Robert Ellender, 17 years old, born on October 28, 1989, and passed away on April 21, 2007. We will remember him forever.
Posted by Anne Ellender on October 28, 2021
Our Beautiful Son Robert, 32 today, I miss you so much Son, someone said to me recently " how do you go on living without your son " I didnt answer out loud, in my head I said,, I live for my son, that's the best I can do, some days are harder than others but I guess easier than back then ! A part of me died with you that day, no one understands the pain in my heart Robert and I hope they never do. " Why you "  the most loving and most loved, most amazing son. I will put my arms around you again son, I love you, I miss you , and today I cant hand you gifts but send you all the love a heart could ever hold. Happy Heavenly Birthday Robert.  Xxxxxx
Posted by Anne Ellender on December 26, 2020
Merry Heavenly Christmas Robert, my darling son. How I wish you were here, wrapped in my arms, laughing and joking and just lighting our darkness within. I love you Robert, forever and a day. Xxxx
Posted by Anne Ellender on October 28, 2020
Cant believe today you should be turning 31 ! Forever 17 my darling Robert, Happy Heavenly Birthday Son. God, I miss you. Xxxxxx
Posted by Anne Ellender on June 18, 2020
My darling Robert, I still cant quite take it in, that your actualy gone, will never come home, life was just so wonderfully complete, now there is a hole, a forever void and I will never understand why !!!
I miss you Son and long for you endlessly and always will.  Xxxxx
Posted by Anne Ellender on April 21, 2020
My darling Robert, 13 years !! It's always yesterday ! On this day I relive every single moment, from the early hours of the morning to finaly seeing and knowing it was true, it was you ! WHY ? I will always ask WHY?  XXXXXXXXXX  XXX
Posted by Anne Ellender on October 29, 2015
Happy heavenly 26th birthday my gawjus darling Son. I love you Robert. Xxxxxxxc
Posted by Anne Ellender on October 29, 2015
Forever young, forever missed
Posted by Anne Ellender on April 21, 2015
They say time is a healer Son, well this isnt true, and it never will be the pain of losing you is always there and always will be Robert until I get to join you. Love and miss you so very much. Xxx xxx xx
Posted by Anne Ellender on April 21, 2014
THAT DAY AGAIN UPON US


That day again upon us 
When I wish not to wake, 
But I will rise and carry on 
If only for others sake. 

That day again upon us 
The morning sun will rise, 
But all I can see, 
Are the tears that I cry. 

That day again upon us 
I call it Angelversery, 
But all I long and wish for 
Is your smile again to see. 

That day again upon us 
A candle I will light, 
Flowers I will leave 
But forever I will grieve. 

Copyrite. Anne Ellender. 2010 

I LOVE YOU SON.

YOUR BROKEN HEARTED MUM

xxx xxx x.
Posted by Anne Ellender on April 21, 2014
The hardest day of my life, one that will be with me forever, the hardest goodbye, I miss you so much Robert. Xxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Anne Ellender on April 21, 2014
Loving you with all my heart Son, forever and a day. Xxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Anne Ellender on October 28, 2013
24 years since that joyful day when you came into this world and lit up my life, today we sadly celebrate what should be your 24th birthday, your 7th heavenly birthday, I miss you so much Son, and forever long to hold you close. You party hard Son, make those heavens rock. Love you forever Robert.
Mum. Xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Anne Ellender on October 30, 2012
My Darling Robert, another birthday in heaven ..... 23, just cant imajine it, my forever young darling Son, I MISS YOU. and i always will, Love you with all my heart Son. xxxxxxx
Posted by Joyce Tidy on October 28, 2012
Happy 23rd Birthday Robert,sending you lots of Love on your special day xxxx
Posted by Anne Ellender on November 3, 2011
Want to be with you more than ever Robert, my 17 year old lil man now 22, forever young in the pictures of my mind, and without you here life is just existing this world is sooo unkind. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by leanne orchard on October 28, 2011
Happy birthday lil brother!!!!! growing older as each day that passes, but u will always remain 17 to me...... cant imagine you getting older, i will always remember u as u were... love and miss u so so much, catch my kisses and cuddles up there xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by val hickson on October 28, 2011
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ROB HAVE A GREAT DAY IN THE CLOUDS LOVE AND HUGS VAL LLOYDXXX
Posted by leanne orchard on April 25, 2011
love and miss you every single day Robert, always in my heart xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Anne Higgins on April 25, 2011
Thinking of you Anne Love & hugs , Robert rip xx
Posted by Anne Ellender on April 24, 2011
I die a little bit more every day I am apart from you Robert, But each day is a day closer to being with you Son. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by val hickson on April 24, 2011
LOVE AND HUGS ROB ALWAYS VALXXXX
Posted by Joyce Tidy on April 24, 2011
Forever Young Robert, Loved & Remembered every day, Shine Bright xxxxxx
Posted by Anne Ellender on March 16, 2011
Thankyou Charmaine, that is lovely. xxxxI miss you Robert and want to jion you sooo much Son. xxxxx
Posted by charmaine harrison on February 14, 2011
hey rob, i thought i'd leave a message for you, i only knew you for a couple years at school, u were one of the best people there, u always knew how 2 make people smile and laugh, i'll always remember you... gone yet never forgotten babe :), when i had found out by one of our mates you had gone i didn't know what 2 say or do. i i had one wish it would be who loved u could see u again xxx
Posted by Anne Ellender on February 1, 2011
Forever 17 you will be, Locked in my heart, never again to leave me, Long ing for that joyful day, when again your gawjus smile ill see. xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by Anne Ellender on January 29, 2011
I miss you Son, sooo very much, Love you with all my heart Robert, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Posted by Anne Ellender on October 28, 2021
Our Beautiful Son Robert, 32 today, I miss you so much Son, someone said to me recently " how do you go on living without your son " I didnt answer out loud, in my head I said,, I live for my son, that's the best I can do, some days are harder than others but I guess easier than back then ! A part of me died with you that day, no one understands the pain in my heart Robert and I hope they never do. " Why you "  the most loving and most loved, most amazing son. I will put my arms around you again son, I love you, I miss you , and today I cant hand you gifts but send you all the love a heart could ever hold. Happy Heavenly Birthday Robert.  Xxxxxx
Posted by Anne Ellender on December 26, 2020
Merry Heavenly Christmas Robert, my darling son. How I wish you were here, wrapped in my arms, laughing and joking and just lighting our darkness within. I love you Robert, forever and a day. Xxxx
Posted by Anne Ellender on October 28, 2020
Cant believe today you should be turning 31 ! Forever 17 my darling Robert, Happy Heavenly Birthday Son. God, I miss you. Xxxxxx
Recent stories

12th Angelversary !

Shared by Anne Ellender on April 21, 2019

 I feel angry, so bloody angry, because this is so very wrong, your young life just snatched away!  It should have been me and I would swap in a heartbeat Robert.  Xxxxxxxx

Shared by Anne Ellender on April 21, 2016

My darling Robert, my only Son, there are no words to express my pain i died with you that day, im left just a shell, the shell will heal but forever hold a scar. Xxxxxxxxx