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This memorial website was created in memory of Bob Smith, beloved husband, father, and grandfather.

Please enjoy looking through each tab, TRIBUTES/ABOUT, LIFE, GALLERY and STORIES. Then, if your would like to, please add your own tribute, story and or photos to help us all remember Bob. 

Should you wish to make a memorial donation in Bob's name, please do so at:
Ageless Reparatory Theatre,  A.R.T.  https://renolittletheater.org/art-at-rlt 
Osher Lifelong Learning Institute, OLLI  https://olli.unr.edu
Reno Art Museum  https://www.nevadaart.org/give/support
or the charity of your choice as there are so many that are in need of support right now.


Posted by Terry Smith on February 14, 2021
Happiness was been being married to my best friend and sharing over 70 years of wonderful memories together.  So very lucky in so many ways. We enjoyed so many of the same things,. travel, great food and wine, music and theatre. Since teen years Bob loved bridge & tennis, took up skiing at age 40 and enjoyed golf from his 30s into his mid 80s. He was a 2 time past cancer survivor but this last one was so quick and unexpected. He went into the hospital and was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer on Dec. 20th. Not a candidate for surgery and/or chemo, Hospice brought him home Christmas afternoon. For many years Bob was an avid birder and a mixed group of feathered friends kept him company in the large evergreen he was able to view from his bed during those days when it felt good to delay getting up.. We had 5 precious days with him before, with four of his family surrounding him, he left us. He will be forever loved and he will be forever missed.
February 6
February 6
Love you grandpa! Hard to believe it’s been 3 years. Thanks for always being a beacon for me in trying times. I’m sorry you didn’t get to meet your great grandchildren, I’m sure you’d get a kick out of them
January 1
January 1
Dear Terry,
I am wishing you joy and good health in 2024. Happy New Year!
June 27, 2023
June 27, 2023
Hi Terry! I'm thinking of you and sending love in memory of Bob's birthday. I hope you are well, and look forward to another newsy email from you. feliciamelody@hotmail.com Many hugs and much love! Felicia
January 1, 2023
January 1, 2023
Thinking of you, Terry, as a new year begins. I know this has been a rough one for you and so many others. Here’s hoping for a kinder, more peaceful 2023. Sending much love! xojane
December 30, 2022
December 30, 2022
We here at Five Star continue to miss Bob and his smiling face. And Terry, I think of you often and hope you are doing well. I miss our conversations and your upbeat self! I would love to hear from you, my friend! You can email me at feliciamelody@hotmail.com  XOXOXOX Felicia
June 28, 2022
June 28, 2022
Dear Terri,

I'm not sure whether you received my response to your newsy letter so many months ago.

I miss you both very much. Five Star has lost so many wonderful people, through relocation and natural causes. It certainly isn't the same without you and Bob!

I would love to hear from you. You can send me a friend request on Facebook under Felicia Sampson, or email me at feliciamelody@hotmail.com

Much love and hugs,

Felicia
December 31, 2021
December 31, 2021
My husband and I just took down our Christmas tree and all the ornaments collected over the years -- including two beautiful beaded eggs that Bob and Terry gave to our children when they were small. Lucky for us, the kids don't yet have their own Christmas traditions, so we get to keep the eggs for a while longer. They remind us of how amazingly adventurous Bob and Terry were, how curious about the world and delighted by their adventures, and inspire us to be more like them. love, Jane & Bill
December 30, 2021
December 30, 2021
Whenever I think of Bob, I smile! How lucky that we were so fortunate to have him among us for so many years. He was special and is missed by so many!....Love...Evelyn Whisler
November 5, 2021
November 5, 2021
Dear Kieron and Terry - I'm very sorry for your loss. I was always very fond of Bob, which I think kind of speaks volumes given I was a high school kid dating his daughter. He was always very friendly and hospitable towards me, though I sometimes felt that he was going against his first instincts to be so. A lot of us back then felt that Kieron had the best parents. Thoughts and prayers to you both.
June 25, 2021
June 25, 2021
Dear Terry, I imagine this is an emotional day for you. It's Bob's physical birthday; he may not be with you in person but he is around you and will always love you. 

I hope you are doing great in Arkansas! We miss you!

XOXOX Felicia
May 2, 2021
May 2, 2021
I miss Bob. 
With his gentlemanly politeness and intelligence, it was always a pleasure to see him in clinic. I was consistently impressed with his life full of family and theater. I loved looking through these pictures and learning more about him. He continues to inspire, and I feel blessed to have known him. Thank you, Bob. (I’ll miss you too, Terry! Good luck with the move.)
Chiyo
(Dr. T)
April 20, 2021
April 20, 2021
Our bridge group had not met since March, 2020, and Bob was an integral member. We say "our" because we are possessive of the friendship, camaraderie, and joy derived from playing a bridge hand well, as in better than our opponents. Bob and I were often partners at least once each month for over 27 years. We knew each other's capabilities and trusted each other. I considered myself lucky to have Bob as my friend. RIP dear friend. I'll look forward to more bridge with you.
April 3, 2021
April 3, 2021
I had the pleasure of spending 15 years of shared experience with Bob in The Ageless Repertory Theatre. We trod the boards together in many readers theater plays, mostly comedies but some serious dramas as well. Bob had a rich baritone voice with perfect timing and delivery. ART will not be the same without him. He will be greatly missed. Take a big bow, my gentle friend.
March 22, 2021
March 22, 2021
Dear Terry and Family, Sherry and I are so sorry for the loss of your best friend, husband and father. Bob is such a great man and we will all miss him. We feel very grateful for the opportunity to know you both, and your family.  You both have been such great examples to the people around you and you all have touched so many lives.  Know that Bob has gone ahead to get things ready for your glorious reunion. Sending all our love and prayers to you all.
March 20, 2021
March 20, 2021
We will always remember Bob's delight at the MetOpera broadcasts. We would often talk during the intermission and/or on the way back to the garage. He always found something insightful to say about each performance... and how lucky we were to be able to experience it!
At OLLI he always had a smile for everyone, and was truly a gentleman at all times.
May his memory be a blessing!

Alice & Donald Yucht
March 16, 2021
March 16, 2021
Dear Terry & family,

As many of you know, Bob was one of my patients (dental hygiene) for a number of years. I lost touch when I decided to retire. Imagine my delight to find that he was a member of ART when I joined a few years ago. We enjoyed many a play together over the years. Not only was he a wonderful actor, he was also very, very supportive of his fellow actors and very fun!

I so enjoyed this website describing his life. It was obviously created with a lot of love by all of you.

Blessings,
Lynn Carasali

March 16, 2021
March 16, 2021
Dear Terry, I was so saddened to learn of Bob’s death. You and bob were such a loving couple . You just lit up the room with your presence. Bob was indeed a very talented gentleman and he will be greatly missed.

May all your wonderful memories comfort you and your family in the days ahead.
Lovingly,
Marj lewallen

March 14, 2021
March 14, 2021
Dear Terry, I was so sorry to read of Bob’s passing . What a nice man he was. Enjoyed knowing him through Ageless Theater, the Nevada Museum of Art and Ollie. He and you gave much to the community. With warm regards, Helga Miller
March 13, 2021
March 13, 2021
Terry:

Shirley and I were saddened to hear of Bob/s passing. we fondly remember many activities during our 25 years in Reno. In particular the Friday Night specials.

Shirley and Art Di Salvo
March 12, 2021
March 12, 2021
Doug and I celebrate a man who lived life as it should be lived, loving and performing the arts and visiting beautiful places on this planet. We are especially grateful that Bob, along with Terry, shared this zest for life with Kieron, Greg, and Jake. All of them live his legacy through their own love of life, and in turn, they pass it on.
March 11, 2021
March 11, 2021
Oh, how I will miss Bob. His sense of humor,love of music, plays. I enjoyed seeing him at OLLI lectures, Reno Classical Music Festival, Apex concerts and trips to Incline for concerts there. Enjoyed the ART plays, too, and watching him perform. After 70 years of marriage this must leave a big hole in your life, Terry. Hoping to see you again at OLLI when it restarts. Thinking of you and your family and hoping you see blue skies ahead.
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
My heartfelt sympathies to Terry and her family and my wish that they go on and lead the lives that Bob (who was into everything) would want for everyone .By the way,I really enjoyed Bob's acting at the Reno Little Theater. Surprisingly, my son works for Jefferies out of N.Y. and Miami. So very sorry for your loss. Hope to see you at Olli when it reopens.
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
As the Lifestyles 360 Coordinator for Five Star Premier Residences, I had the pleasure of getting to know Bob and Terry. We shared a love for traditional jazz music, and it was such a delight to chat with them. My fondest memory, however, is of watching Terry and Bob dancing together on their terrace. During the warm months of the pandemic, Troy (LS 360 Director) and I visited the residents via the outside of their balconies and patios for a weekly dance. Bob and Terry were out there most every time. You could see the love they had for each other! It warms my heart to think back on those Balcony Dancing days!
March 9, 2021
March 9, 2021
It was good to 'trod the boards' with Bob, dear friend and fellow Michigander. Good times and work well done. He is missed.
March 9, 2021
March 9, 2021
I have so much to say about my cousin Bob that Terry urged me to move it over to the Stories section. But deleting it here would mean deleting a "candle," and that I cannot do. So this little paragraph is a tribute to the giant of a fella that was my cousin Bob, and to all the many blessings he brought me simply by being who he was. xojane
March 9, 2021
March 9, 2021
I was fortunate to be in the OLLI/UNR Reading Poetry group with Bob these last years. He was our leader, organizing, selecting and managing the whole process. It was a labor of love for him, and he kept hundreds and hundreds of poems on file for us, and knew every one of them. I also was fortunate to act with him in a play at Reno’s wonderful Ageless Repertory Theatre. He was having balance problems at the time, but soldiered on, as was his nature. It was such a pleasure to act with him, so professional, and knowing everyone’s lines as well as he knew his own. There are those who make an impression upon us as we go through life, and Bob was definitely one who did. His memorable voice still resonates with me as I remember his poetry readings and theater renditions. Bob lived his life as poetry, bringing love, warmth and compassion to all he did and all those he touched. Such a fine and blessed life you have had with him Terry, and may you be surrounded with the warmth of his memory in all the years to come.
March 8, 2021
March 8, 2021
I played bridge with Bob for nearly 20 years and loved when he was chosen as my partner.  He always played well and never made a comment when I didn't. I enjoyed his involvement with Ageless theater and will miss seeing him perform. 
March 8, 2021
March 8, 2021
I played in a men’s bridge club with Bob for nearly 30 years. We had not been able to play the past year do to COVID concerns and was so sorry to hear about his passing. Bob was a spirited competitor who like in many of his interests was quite passionate about it. He was a very good bridge player who always got a kick out of winning a couple bucks for the other players. He was serious about his bridge but to too serious and we all enjoyed playing with him. We will all miss seeing him.
March 8, 2021
March 8, 2021
It was wonderful reading Terry's tribute to Robert. We have know the Smith's through Newcomers and OLLI activities. Robert was a devoted family man and loved many activities. It was great seeing Robert and Terry at almost every OLLI activity. Robert will be missed.
March 6, 2021
March 6, 2021
I feel anything I write is pale by comparison when considering the magnitude of his life. Many of his friends have passed and the stories we would read would be incredible.
I have always tried to honor him by telling stories of his stellar character. So kind, generous and interesting. What a voice for radio.
His loss leaves a hole that can never be filled in our world, Shari Reabold
March 6, 2021
March 6, 2021
What a beautiful tribute to your wonderful husband. You were both blessed to have had each other for so many happy years.
March 6, 2021
March 6, 2021
Although Bob and I were cousins, we really didn't know each other until recent years. We were too far separated both in age and by geography to have ever made much of a connection. Happily for Larry and me, Bob and Terry came to visit us several times during our retirement years in Arizona. Bob was a handsome and charming man, very engaged with the world, interested in learning about our lives, and willing to share insight about his parents and mine, as well as stories from his youth and from their many travel adventures. We discovered that we were both avid contract bridge players and shared an appreciation of theater and art, his much better informed than mine. I am so glad that I didn't miss out on knowing him. I wish that I could have seen Bob perform onstage. I'll bet he was terrific!
March 5, 2021
March 5, 2021
My cousin Bob, when I was young and visiting his younger brother Doug, seemed more ideal than real, tall, handsome, and at ease in an adult world I yearned to inhabit. He was five years older than I at a time when five years seemed like a lifetime. As the years passed, our lives went in different directions, and what I knew of Bob came primarily from relatives. It wasn’t until we were well into our senior years that Bob and Terry visited us on a couple of their extensive road trips. These visits were for MaryLou, my wife , and I a joy. The five years that had separated us when we were young had vanished, and Bob was no longer a figment of my pre- teen imagination. He came to life as an admirable man who was living his life fully on his own terms with commitment and good will. My youthful imagination had not been mistaken.
March 4, 2021
March 4, 2021
I really enjoyed all the photos. It is a wonderful tribute that you have put together for Bob. Norm & I enjoyed so many good times with you. With Bob's talented voice, I especially enjoyed him in A.R.T. so much. He was always friendly and cheerful. I celebrate his life! He was special and will be missed by so many...Love....Evelyn
March 4, 2021
March 4, 2021
Got to meet Bob many years ago in his home..wonderful host.
Had one of them big ole' tools to remove a cork out of a wine bottle..clamped on the counter top. He took me to the record room...Amazing..Best private collection I had ever seen. We had the same lifelong love of the vinyl.
Thank you Kieron for introducing me to your wonderful fun loving father.
Ben Laseter
Horn Frog Texan
March 3, 2021
March 3, 2021
When I joined Ageless Repertory Theater, Bob was the one person I could lean on for support. His warm, easy approach to almost everything just warmed my heart and made me feel like I belonged. Even though I don't participate in ART any more, (Just had my 2nd heart attack) as I'm not up to moving around much, the memory of Bob Smith will be with me forever. He was truly one of the good guys.
March 3, 2021
March 3, 2021
Harold and I both are so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. He was a fine man, and we enjoyed knowing him and Terry for the past 30+ years. We had many fun get--togethers in various groups, and we know he will be greatly missed by the family. He's probably up "there" starting a new ART group. Our thoughts are with you, and we hope that you will be comforted by the many great memories you have.
With love,
Harold Moody & Nancy Rumburg
March 3, 2021
March 3, 2021
A wonderful life lived well.
Bob and Terry, a perfect match, so many shared interests guiding life
adventures.
The Chihuly exhibit presented at our dear old NMA provided a dazzling setting like no other for the surprise celebration of their 50th.
All arranged so well yet secretly by dearest daughter Keiron.
Many of us able to observe wondered how very actively engaged Terry and Bob remained during their later years.
Knowing Bob was a privilege, always pleasant, kind and knowledgeable in so many ways.
Dear Terry, Keiron and your family, pray all the goodness will fill your memories and give you everlasting joy and comfort.
March 3, 2021
March 3, 2021
A real gut punch for me. Bob epitomized decency and respect for others way more than any person I have ever met. Always I felt his quiet dignity and felt at ease with him. His strength of character was accompanied by a wonderful sense of humor. His love of poetry was evident, he read it better than the authors could, and he was Anne's quiet supporter for a long time. I will miss him.
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
Dearest Kristin
What a wonderful celebration. Thank you for inviting me to puruse all the loving stories. I feel as though I went on an exciting life journey. 
Theatrical, a collector of special people, able to gracefully move through life, kindhearted and loving gentleman, devoted husband and father, and no doubt a doting grandpa. 
I'm sad for you, Greg and the kiddos. After reading all about your papa, I suspect you have a never ending supply of laughs and fun adventure memories. I wish for you strength and calm as you regain your balance.
Know that we love you,
Marti (and the Charming Husband, Bill)
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
I've had a lot of memories with Bob and Terry, so hard to whittle down to a short paragraph. Fun in Elko at Cowboy Poetry for years, & they brought Kieron & Greg, then our crazy trip down the Baha with our RV's & Terry having to leave midway because of her Mom, & Bob traveling with us in his RV. Bob & Terry planned many campouts with our newcomer groups campers. Everything planned to a T! We had Christmas white elephant gifts with the camping group. I still have the one Bob brought to the party one time & I wound up with it. It's hanging in a tree in my yard to this day. He retrieved it from his neighbors trash! It's tin cans wired together like the tin man from the movie. I love it. Fun to remember the good times. Bob liked his good wines, but if we ran out of the good wine, he was okay with whatever we could dig up! When we went down the Baha, he brought a lot of wine along but they wouldn't let him bring it into Mexico & he had to leave it at the campground in the USA as I remember till he got back. Thanks for the memories Bob.
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
Terry, you are in our prayers for comfort and peace as you navigate your life without Bob. What a loss!!!
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
Bob was always the first person I saw when I arrived at the Reno Chamber Orchestra concerts to do my duties as volunteer wrangler. He would be sitting and waiting for us to get the programs ready and open the doors. He was an staunch supporter of all music in Reno. I will miss his smiling face as he eagerly looked forward to whatever musical offering there was to be heard.
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
My dear Terry, just now I have learned the sad news of Bob's passing. May his soul rest in peace.
 I think of Bob as a kind and considerate man of good humor It was always a pleasure to be with both of you. In particular I recall enjoying together the Sunday Chamber Music recitals at Incline.
 Bob was a man of many talents interested in talking about anything and everything. Never a dull moment !
 Terry, my love and prayers are with you and yours.
  Barbara

March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
What a beautiful site! Sharon & I are sorry to hear about Bob. We always enjoyed meeting at the buffet. And we were so blessed to first meet you both at USA Capital where we first became friends! He will be missed...prayers to you and your family. Please try to keep in touch!
Love, Randy & Sharon
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
What a beautiful tribute! I LOVE LOVE LOVE the images and music. He was a dear, wonderful man. I have so much respect for him. What a fantastic life! I really love the images of eating wedding cake. I am so sorry for your loss of father and husband. He will always be in our hearts ♥️. I wish we could have had an in person memorial. Much love to you!
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
Terry,

Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful memorial. Bob was loved by so many for his wonderful gift of making everyone around him feel comfortable, his genuine kindness, and his delightful sense of humor.

You were so blessed to have him in your life, and it is comforting to know that you had him longer than you will be without him.

His love will live in the hearts of many. I will always treasure the marvelous stories he shared and they will live on as a legacy for his grandsons.

My condolences to you and your family.

With love and prayers.
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
Bob was a great volunteer at the Nevada Museum of Art working and cataloguing the books in the library for many years in the old building on the Museum's current site and continuing when the present building was built - a huge task! He was a wonderful volunteer and gave many hours of his time to the Museum. He was honored when he left for his great contribution.
It was always nice to run into Bob at cultural events around town and to hear him perform with Ageless Repertory Theater. Sending my deepest sympathies, Terry, to you and your family.
February 28, 2021
February 28, 2021
Terry,
I am so sorry for your loss of Bob. I did not know you or Bob well, but I know how hard it is to lose your best friend with whom you shared many interests. I too lost the love of my life when Ed died after spending the last 48 years of laughing together.
You have my deepest sympathy,
Kathy Oakes
February 28, 2021
February 28, 2021
Bob was unfailingly kind. He seemed interested in any topic. He could talk with anyone and make them feel included. And he knew a lot. He will be missed.
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Love you grandpa! Hard to believe it’s been 3 years. Thanks for always being a beacon for me in trying times. I’m sorry you didn’t get to meet your great grandchildren, I’m sure you’d get a kick out of them
January 1
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Dear Terry,
I am wishing you joy and good health in 2024. Happy New Year!
June 27, 2023
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Hi Terry! I'm thinking of you and sending love in memory of Bob's birthday. I hope you are well, and look forward to another newsy email from you. feliciamelody@hotmail.com Many hugs and much love! Felicia
His Life

Then til Now

February 20, 2021
Taking his last bow, Robert (Bob) Smith exited stage left on December 30, 2020. One of his great joys was performing in Reno’s Ageless Repertory Theatre, (A.R.T.) for 13 years. His last performance was co-staring in the “The Sunshine Boys” the last week of January, 2020, before Covid arrived and shut everything down. Bob studied 2 years at Carlton College where his claim to fame was being a cast member of the world premier of "The Caucasian Chalk Circle".  Moving west, Bob graduated with a degree in Speech from the University of Washington, Seattle, where he met his wife, Terry Wellington. They were married on September 17, 1950. Both avid theatre fans, a belated honeymoon in New York allowed them to see 8 plays in 5 days. While there, Bob's draft notice arrived and, returning to Seattle, he was inducted into the Army at Fort Lewis and served 2 years. He was discharged in San Luis Obispo, California, where he became a radio announcer at KVEC, also hosting a late night jazz show with "After Hours", by Erskine Hawkins as its theme music (it's the background music you hear)  Bob helped put the TV station on the air and became it’s first newscaster.  After a short stint at UC Berkley he began a life time vocation filling many sales positions with various companies and many moves to different cities and states. Their daughter, Kieron, was born in 1958 in Kansas City, Missouri even though they lived in Kansas City, Kansas.  Bob retired as a stockbroker from Jefferies & Co. in Los Angeles, CA. and, with his wife Terry, arrived in Reno in 1980 having purchased a home in Riverbend. Wine buffs that they had become, they quickly expanded the house with a game room over a small basement and wine cellar.  A boat on Lake Powell consumed their months in spring and fall for many years.  From 1987 to 1993 they leased the house and went on the road full time in a motor home visiting almost all 50 states including Alaska.  Bob found his special place volunteering as the Reno Art Museum librarian for 15 years, originally setting up and cataloging the expanding collection. There was always an annual trip to Ashland Ore. and Bob loved to boast that he had seen every one of Shakespeare's plays, many, more than once. Every fall and winter found them at the Reno Philharmonic and the Reno Chamber Orchestra and Bob never missed the Festival of Chamber Music each year from Christmas to New Year’s Eve. They also loved traditional jazz festivals and took many cruises with favorite bands.  He and Terry were original members of the Osher Lifelong Learning Institute, (OLLI), University of Nevada's expanded learning program for Seniors. Bob most loved the Poetry and Memoir classes but enjoyed many classes and lectures over the past 14 years. Through OLLI, he became a simulated patient for UNR Medical School students for many years and Bob was pleased that he was able to donate his body to the UNR School of Medicine.. He read some of his life stories while daughter, Kieron, recorded him before he and we said our last goodbyes. Surviving Bob are his wife, Terry Wellington Smith, his daughter, Kieron Smith Chambers (Greg), and his three grandsons, Kyle L. Jay (Molly), Preston Alan Tuschall and Jake Mason Chambers.  Bob was a gentleman and his kindness and soft humor will be missed not only by his family but, by the many who knew him.

I'll miss you, Daddy

February 24, 2021
This is the last photo I took of my parents. December 29, 2020. It was the last time my Dad sat up, the last time my parents talked of the birds outside their window. What struck me was the sheer intimacy of the moment. The glue that had held these two lovers, two friends, two people who had spent their entire adulthood together. Over 70 years. The light from outside was shining back in on them. One of my Dad’s photographs of Greece hung on the wall. I knew this was my last moment to observe and capture the first two people I loved in this world. I am still moved. Later that day, I told my Dad that it was a great adventure and that he was a terrific father. I said “I’ll miss you, Daddy” and he replied, “I’ll miss you too". Those are the last words we spoke.
Recent stories

Cousin Bob

March 9, 2021
Bob was my cousin, one of the fun ones. I knew his mother best, my beloved Aunt Trudy, and first became aware of this dashing and already fully adult cousin during visits to her dune-top home on Lake Michigan. It wasn't until I was 16 and visiting California with my mom that I started to pay attention. We visited Bob, Terry and young Kieron in house in Van Nuys, and what I remember of that visit was Terry introducing me to kiwis, which at that time were astonishing to a Michigan kid, and Bob introducing me to Bill Evans, which was like taking that kid to a wonderful new moon full of sophisticated, cigarette-smoking bohemians.

Twenty plus years later, I was back in California, trying to help my mother make a move to assisted living necessitated by the onset of Alzheimers. I had two small children and a job in Pennsylvania at the time, and the task was way over my head, but seemingly out of the blue (I think they were in the midst of one of their RV adventures), Bob and Terry arrived on the scene. Bob set up a card table in my mother's apartment and set about sorting through her paperwork -- financials, taxes, all the grownup business. He was exactly like an angel, and I do not know how I would have managed without him.

It was a delight to surprise Bob and Terry (that's a unit: Bob-and-Terry) in Reno for their 50th anniversary. I wanted to celebrate with them of course, but also to honor them for their unbounded kindness and generosity toward my family. The site was the Nevada Museum of Art, gloriously tricked out with the work of Dale Chihuly, and a perfect place to gather around this pair of art and adventure lovers. Like with Bill Evans' music, my introduction to Chihuly's art came through Bob.

Through the years, we followed Bob and Terry's adventures -- criss-crossing the country to visit friends, charging up the coast for the annual Shakespeare festival, swinging by jazz hot spots -- with the same sense of amazement I had on first encountering Bill Evans. What a life! My husband and I were among those they visited when they came all the way east, and it was like a magical caravan had come to town, full of tales (and photos) of adventure. Preoccupied with our jobs and kids, we were negligent in keeping in touch with extended family, but Bob and Terry's care in visiting us -- and calling on birthdays and always remembering our kids at Christmas with little treasures like beaded eggs -- made the difference. We still have the beaded eggs and now too the beautiful painting of a lobster, red brushwork on silk that once hung in their home, and I'm grateful for this reminder of their love and sense of delight. May Bob rest in just the right amount of peace.

The early days

February 20, 2021
Bob grew up mostly in Highland Park, Illinois. His parents were Mason and Gertrude C. Smith.
In the process of compiling this memorial, a great joy has been uncovering tidbits squirreled away in old photo albums and other boxes rarely, if ever, visited.  We found ourselves with many old boxes of family memorabilia after Bob became the family patriarch and, at 91, the oldest living male he had found on his family tree genealogy searches .
Obviously a precocious little guy, his mother, Trudy, had recorded several things for posterity.
At 2 Bob "learned nursery rhymes and tried to sing a nursery song with quite an idea of tune"
2 1/2  "learned to count to 20 and recognized 8 letters of the alphabet and asked for things in complete sentences with creative word pronunciation.  He could recite pages of stories from My Bookhouse.  When on a driving trip he sang songs lustily with his parents.......Mary Had a Little Lamb, Bye, Bye Bunting, Rock a Bye Baby and The sidewalks of New York."   Bob was reading at 4yrs & for the rest of his life always had a book nearby when there was free time.  
Bob always was the one person in any group that knew all the words to all the songs so was always welcome at singalongs which he loved.  His traditional jazz favorite was "Amazing Grace" and he also could sing all the verses,  

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