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January 2, 2014

Papaw has been enjoying the wonders of heaven for over a year now, though in that beautiful place, there is no time.  My finite mind cannot quite understand how or where heaven must be, but knowing that Papaw lives on there makes it more real to me.  Rarely does a day pass that I do not think about him.  I know that if there is a way for those in heaven to draw us that way, Papaw would do it for his family members.  My purpose is to make it there someday and see his smile and hear his laugh once again. 

His Laugh

December 31, 2012

Papaw loved to laugh; everyone who knew him says they miss his laugh.  I can remember him laughing at things we grandkids did and he had lots of laughs with his coworkers at Amonate Coal co.  He would come home and tell stories of the pranks they played on each other.  I can still hear that big belly laugh when I think about him.  I can only imagine how he is chuckling and laughing as he meets and greets all those in Heaven!  I know he is reminiscing and laughing with those he knew on earth, and he is enjoying getting to know those he didn't know on earth.  They are laughing together around the throne!

Giving

December 2, 2012

Papaw was always fixing something, whether an oil furnace or something broken at home.  He  would not hesitate to get out of bed in the middle of the night to repair someone's furnace, nor would Christmas dinner stop him.  "They don't have any heat" he would say, and off he would go. 

Papaw's heart was a heart of gold--giving was his greatest delight. He loved to give his garden produce to anyone who needed or wanted it. He received so much joy from giving--truly he lived the Golden Rule.   He freely gave of his time and energy to those around him; he would have sacrificed it all for his family, and, in many ways, he did. 

Singing

November 28, 2012

Papaw sang all the time; I grew up listening to (and consequently memorizing) the songs that he and Granny sang together.  Singing and listening to music were a major part of Papaw's life.  He loved to take Melissa and I and go to hear his favorite group, The Primitive Quartet.

In my mind, I can still hear Papaw's clear strong voice singing songs such as Blessed Assurance, He Whispers Sweet Peace and The Lights of Home. He is experiencing the joy of seeing the One about whom he sang and his beautiful voice has joined the heavenly choir!

Sometimes when misgivings darken the way and faith's light I cannot see,

I ask my dear Lord to lighten the way; He whispers sweet peace to me.

Chorus

He whispers sweet peace to me! He whispers sweet peace to me! 

When I am cast down in spirit and soul, He whispers sweet peace to me!


 

The Missing Plate

November 28, 2012
Plates A plate don't look like very much Just china, dabbed with paint and such, But all the same they kinda keep A family record, so to speak. A record of long happy years And then just plum lonesome ness and tears. Start out young, married people do By setting out plates just for two, And before you know it, it just seems to me, They start laying out plates for three. And after that, you watch the rate It soon increases to six or eight. At first two plates ain't very bad Cause folks don't miss what they haven't had, But after plates have once been set The hardest task discovered yet Is taking those plates up one by one, Until you've gotten back to where you begun. Two plates, when six or eight were there, Noise and clatter everywhere -- Children empty to their toes And short on manners -- goodness knows, But now they are all grown and gone, And there sit those two plates all alone. No,  a plate don't look like very much Just china, dabbed with paint and such, And there's love woven into every flowered wreath And every nick and corner cherished beyond belief, And the hardest task under the sun Is taking those plates up one by one.  --Author unknown It's hard to see your missing plate, but we look forward to sitting down with you at the Marriage Supper of the Lamb. --Submitted by Jerry and Connie Cyphers

Biking in Burkes' Garden

November 27, 2012

Papaw would do anything for his grandchildren.  Just before he died, a memory came back to me as vividly as if I were reliving it.  Sometime in my late teens,  I wanted to bike the circle in Burkes' Garden.  Mom and Dad felt it was too dangerous for me to do alone, so Papaw loaded my bike up and took me over there.  He followed me all the way around the circle as I biked and enjoyed the scenery.

Papaw was never happier than when he was with his grandchildren; his face just lit up when we would come around.  I'm sure he is enjoying getting to know his one grandchild and two great grandchildren who preceded him to heaven. Nothing would make him happier than for all of his children and grandchildren to join him there. How beautiful heaven must be!

November 17, 2012

Papaw was a great handyman, always making or repairing something for somebody.  I often "helped" him when I was small, learning the difference between a Phillips and a Straight or a gasket and an O-ring.  Papaw once was welding something and I was nearby.  A hot piece of metal broke off and was falling toward me.  He put out his bare arm and stopped it; later, he would often proudly show that scar as he told the story of saving his youngest grand-daughter from getting burned.

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