This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Robert Lewis Howard Jr., 42, born on February 13, 1971 who passed away on October 21, 2013. We will remember him forever.
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Leave a tributeHard to believe it's been 3 years. We all think of you often and share the funny stories.
Love Dad & Janet
Happy Birthday and you are always on our minds. So proud of you!!!!
love Dad & Janet
I think of you and miss you every day. To quote Rose Kennedy, "It has been said, 'time heals all wounds.' I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone."
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
I'm writing this from heaven, Here I dwell with God above
Here, there's no more tears of sadness, here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember That I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and he said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on. I need you here badly; you're part of my plan, there is so much we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you...in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears,
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers,unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned,
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over,
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads a head of you and many hills to climb;
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and in pain,
Then you can say to God at night.....my day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
Knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go....from that body to be free,
Remember you're not going....you're coming home to me.
Loved and Missed Everyday, Mom and family.
I am sure you are very proud as father and husband. We are all very proud of you and keep you in our hearts.
Love
Dad & Janet
she helps me bath you (your stone) last visit we both acknowledged how we bathed you as a baby and we're still bathing you!! We love and miss you so much my son!!! Mom,
Love mom, x0
You are always in our thoughts and hearts.
Love Dad & Janet
Birthday wishes to my only son, sent up above with so much love. Forty four years ago today you made me a mom in the happiest way. Losing you was the worst day of my life but the memories I hold will never keep us a part. I think of you everyday especially on your special Birthday. I love you so much Rob my son, I miss you so much my son,,,,, Happy Birthday to you above with hugs and kisses and so much love!!! Mom, xoxo
I think of you every day. You and Heidi were always the first people I would call during a crisis and you always knew what to do or say. I know you are watching over us. We miss you and we love you.
Although it has been a year, not a day goes by that I don't think of you.
At night I remember the fun times of you growing up and how I used to brag to my coworkers of how good you were at work, and more importantly how you raised your family. All the family keeps you in our hearts and during get togethers it is your humor that always comes out. I love you always and am so proud of you and your family.'
Love Dad
Rob's spirit lives on in those who knew and loved him, today marks one year since Rob was called home, today is the day to celebrate Rob's amazing life and the joy he brought to all his family and friends.
Love,
Aunt Linda
An only son is very special to a mom who makes her so proud to have him
A special son is someone who puts forth all traits without hesitation
A son is a loving kind caring person who loves and adores his family
My son entered eternal life one year ago today, Robert you are still making mom proud. I love you, you will never leave mom's heart!!!
Love, missed forever and always, Mom
I miss you and think of you every day. You will be in my heart forever.
One year is quickly approaching since god called you home. For mom me Rob it still feels like moments ago.
There is not a soul on this earth who I am more proud of than you. The things you accomplished in such a short time while here has touched many,through and through. Your memory my son will never part nor will I ever let you go from my heart.
I think of you every minute of the day, I laugh I cry and hold every memory ever so dear. I love you so so much Rob, I miss you so very very much Rob.
Love Mom, x0x0
It has been 8 month's, the tears don't get any lighter just much harder, each passing day feels the same, thoughts of you don't go away. My heart is broken beyond repair I miss and love you more each day. Until we meet again my son you're in my thoughts every second of every day.
Today marks 6 months Rob since you were called home and taking away from us.
I miss you so much.
Love mom,
back from aruba and wanted to let you know we love and miss you. you are always in our hearts
On February 13, 1971 at 7:36 in the morning I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy Robert Lewis Howard Jr, at 8:17 in the morning my sons twin sister Crystal joined him. From that moment on a special bond between them began.
Robert was a sweet baby who rarely cried, loved being held in my arms and made many silly faces. Time seemed to go by so quickly, before I knew Rob was a toddler, he loved watching Sesame Street, Mr. Rogers not to mention cartoons. He enjoyed playing with his Tonka trucks and entertaining his sister.
Robert was sharp as a whip as he began reading books, and practicing writing his letters. He showed signs at an early age of his interest to learn. I knew my first born and my only son was going to grow up and be someone very special. Robert had many hobbies in his teen years, he enjoyed shooting his Beebe gun, hanging out with his friends in the pool but most of all he loved to ride his first bike. This became an everlasting hobby for the next 30 years. Riding his dirt bikes gave him a sense of freedom; he had a love for the sport.
Robert graduated from high school with high honors not to mention many awards. He graduated from UConn college received a bachelor’s degree as a Certified Public Account, got his first job with a CPA firm and became a partner with the firm, anything Rob did he strived for more.
He married his beautiful wife Heidi and brought a wonderful son Ethan and a beautiful daughter Abigail into the world. He cherished his family and loved them very much Rob was a hands on dad who spent time traveling and enjoying time with them.
My son was the most intellectual person whose smile and laughter would light up a room. I have never been more proud of him for his accomplishments and hard work. He had a love for others who were in need. Rob always looked at others with an open heart and mentored many in his field and enjoyed doing so.
This is a very sad day, so many memories and heartache, the day god called him home. I miss and love my only son more than words can explain. I love him so much that I'm not afraid of anything; there is nothing in this world that will ever be as painful as losing Robert my son my only son.
I cannot wait my son for us to be together again, I miss and love you with all my heart my son.
Love your Mom
Love mom,
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Things that Rob taught me:
Work hard for what you want, get out there and make it happen
Go out of your way for your family and friends
Focus on the big picture, and not the little details
Do what you love as much as possible
Stand up and speak up for what you want, need, and believe in
It doesn't matter how many scars you have on the outside or what you are wearing, it is what is on the inside that counts
Always retell stories of "things gone wrong" and laugh
Love your family in your day to day actions and tell them that you do
And lastly, although losing Rob has been the hardest thing that I have ever had to face, I also feel extremely lucky because I had Rob to stand beside me for 22 years, and now I have the best of him in both Ethan and Abby.
I can't imagine having had a better partner or father for my children. We love and miss you everyday. My only regret is that we didn't have more time together.
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At a very young age you were full of life, vibrant and wise, so so smart!! Now I know where Ethan and Abby your beautiful children get it from. Their initiative to carry in your steps and to make you proud, they certainly make me proud!
You are missed beyond measure my son and loved more than words can express, always not only on the special day. ❤ Happy Birthday My son Love Mom, xoxo
I envision you in Heaven being with family that has passed waiting for your loved ones to join you, a journey we all will make, until then, rest in peace.
Gone, missed, but not forgotten.
Love AL
Barn Trip
One of the best memories I have with Dad is when he came to CHF (the barn) with me. He had seen me ride before but had never actually seen what happened 'behind the scenes'. It was a hot summer day, and after an unexcepted rain storm, the short barn lesson turned into a long affair. We stayed in the barn, spending time with the horses, me showing him how to do certain things. I had been interested in photography and I wanted photos of me riding. He had brought the camera and by the time we got home, he had taken over 400 photos in the hours we had been at the barn. Some of the photos were taken so closely together time wise that if you clicked through fast enough it was almost a video. After that barn trip, the camera came every time. He helped instill the fact that photos don't cost anything and you are preserving memories.