Remembering you, especially on this day and missing you, especially during this time of year 
                        With love from all of us 

Happy Heavenly Birthday, Bob.

My dear friend Antoinette,

A beautiful tribute from your heart. You both certainly shared a wonderful life together and the memories you created will remain in your heart forever and those memories will keep you moving forward in life until the day that you are back together again with your Bob.

Love your littlest and cutest friend,
Jennifer

Ann, such a beautiful tribute to Bob. Happy Anniversary
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Today marks the day that we said "I do" 47 years ago. 

It was the beginning of a journey through a roller coaster ride of surprising ups and downs. The moments of laughter pushed aside the moments of concern and looking back, I'd say that we did pretty good. It was our journey and it was everything that a life together is and then some. Planning but not knowing where the pathways over the years would lead us became the memories of good, bad, and everything in between. But, as we did after exchanging our wedding vows, we'd walk side by side out from our ceremony and into the world to experience our future together. Saying "I do" is a small phrase that carries a big commitment in order to make those words turn into an "I did" then into a "we did" ... which could only have been done with love at the root of all things done together from raising our family to running our business. The journey was a special one because it was ours and I will cherish those memories forever. 
       Love and miss you Always

I am so sorry to hear this. What a great guy he was. My condolences. I worked for the mentos. They truly treated me like family. Its heartbreaking to hear this. I pray for his family.

Love, Mia d.

Dear Annie, Joey, Natalie, We are so very sorry hearing of Bob's passing. When I heard of this sad news yrs of memories flashed through my mind. I remember when you first met an started dating. fell in Love, married and raised a beautiful family. Bob always thought for his family an Annie you were right with him to help. Two head strong people worked hard an made a successful life for themselves. You are in our prayers. We Love You. 

Anttoinette, Joey and Natalie, so so sorry to hear the passing of Bobby, my he rest in peace with the Lord....





                                             Rosalie

                                                Louis and Anthony
                                                     Mancano

This was my first weekend down to Ventnor since Bob's passing. It wasn't until I stood outside the store that it hit me. I cried and then got a rush of so many amazing memories. For so much of my life I looked to Ann and Bob as my second parents. I worked in the store for many years and learned some of life's most important lessons. Bob taught me the importance of dedication and hard work. Bob taught me that you get out of something the effort which you put into it. Working at Mentos was my first job and with Bob's guidance it shaped me into the professional that I am today. There was never a day that Bob did not walk me home when I worked late even though my house was just across the street. He and Ann prepared gourmet meals for me every night at work and made sure I was taking breaks to eat. I felt their love and support even years after I stopped working at the store. Visiting every summer I would look forward to Bob's hug and making him smile and laugh. The shore will never be the same for me. I can't wait to embrace Ann and Natalie again and send my love to the whole Mento family. 

Bob Mento hardest working guy I ever knew did everything 100% he was ahead of his time like 40 years ago he called Nick said look out the window he started his car up from inside house and watched neighbors coming out to move their cars laughed all nite and let’s not forget the parrot in the window. Lot of laughs, lot of memories!
RIP Bob........Mary Ferroni & Family

The day that I got the news that “Bob” had left us, I was in shock and I couldn’t believe it. I would have never expected him to leave like that. Even after my dear mom (Ann) gave me the news about his cancer when I saw her in Ventnor. Inside I was like oh my god I can’t believe he has cancer, but knowing how tough and hard headed he was I never had any doubt that he would beat it. I thought that I would see him with his grin of a smile laughing and saying “huh, you see guys I told you it was nothing.” But I am honored and blessed that the Mento’s family took me and considered me as their son, although it was a misunderstanding with a customer. And when. Ann told bob that day I could never forget his face with this weird look saying “how can this Mexican be my son.” Me and Ann laughed so hard and from that day she became my mom and Bob my dad. I love this family and wish them my blessing, Bob and the whole Mento’s family will be in our prayer. Including the Khoa family. Love you guys and sorry for your loss.

Bobby was one of the most generous men i knew. His friendship and patronage to Mifflin St. Cuts Barbershop will be forever missed by my Cousin/Partner (Joseph Fareri) and myself. Bobby was a one of a kind old-school guy. His loss if felt, and will be sadly missed. His willingness to fight was second to none...you are missed Bob.

A letter to Bob.

     It’s been a month since you passed so suddenly. I didn’t want to rush but I took the time to reflect on the time we had together. So, let me share my life with you…as my father-in-law. Some would think it’s a 50/50 chance you get along with your father-in-law in general. I heard how you were a hard egg to crack. Honestly it made me pretty nervous to meeting you for the first time, especially when I don’t get rattled too easily. It must be because I really had strong feelings for your daughter and I really wanted it to work. Well after the 1st meeting, I left thinking exactly what everyone told me. I didn’t really get a reaction from you, feeling you were trying to gaze into my soul to read me as a person, Yes! just like you were playing a hand in poker. I decided that being myself and just show you who I was as a man and show you I would love and take care of your daughter. I always listened to your logic on things, your ways always made me look at things at different angles. Through our conversations I’ve learn plenty from your wisdom. I believe you are one of the smartest people in my life. I find it funny that we agree on most issues. I will try to apply those teachings moving forward. You taught me a lot about life. Thank You!
     Everyone knew how a hard worker you were. You had integrity, your word was bond. You were able to have a handful of successful businesses. Powering through every obstacle and hurdle to implement your plans. You would have made things work no matter what because you had a “GabbaDost” (Hard Head)….well I think that’s how I think you would have spelled it. But I will remember you for the little things. Life is in the details. I am a true believer in that, without details life would be generic. So here are details that I will remember about you. How proud you were of your homemade “McGyver” inventions. When we built the dam in the freezing creek up the mountains. Slurping clams and oysters at the shore and Berlin mart by the dozen. Jealousy of you inventing and playing “Crystal Caves” with the kids (for those who don’t know…its farting in bed with the sheets over your head, I still don’t get it but the kids loved it!). How much enjoyment you had telling me the same stories. Your nicknames for everyone. You calling me “Yan can Cook”, hopefully you liked my cooking, I knew when you did because you would freeze it as soon as I finished. How you taught my sons and daughter how to play Craps at the age of 4. Your amazing luck when you pick horses just by their names and end up winning on a bet. Those were just a handful of things I will remember, there are a lot more! Just know you were LOVED by my family especially my kids that adored you. You will always be their “Poppy”!
      At the end of it…I have a clue but you are so hard to read if you approved of me as your son-in-law. So, I’ll have to tell you what I feel. I heard from somewhere that being called a father/dad is one of the noblest title you can get. I only understand now because I am a father myself. We provide, we protect, we hand down wisdom, we share and we teach. You did all that! I hope you are at peace. So with much love, I want to say I am so proud to be your son-in-law! Thank you for being a part in my life and letting me be a part of yours. Rest In Peace DAD.

I looked up to Uncle Bobby in many ways. For his fight and strength. For his hard work and determination. For his thoughtfulness and ability to give to others. For his love towards Aunt Annie.
Sending all the love and prayers! Xoxo
Love, Bianca

Bob (or cueball) as Anthony affectionately called him was a super hard working man. There was nothing he couldn't do. If he didn't know how to do something, he wouldn't stop until he figured out a way. Through hard work and determination he successfully made the best water ice and ice cream that the Jersey shore has ever tasted. He was the true definition of a successful business man. He was also a proud family man. He lit up a room whenever he was around his grand children. He gave to others around him and showed his generosity in more ways than one. We as a family are so glad we were able to spend valuable time with him at recent family events. We are proud to call him an uncle, a brother-in-law. His smirky grin with a bit of sarcasm will forever be missed. We love him and will forever miss his silly spirit. Love, Anthony, Lisa, Bianca and Nicolette. xoxo

Love and miss my Papa Smurf!! You were more than a brother-in-law to me, you were my brother who I am forever grateful to in many, many ways. Thanks for your wisdom, determination and work ethic like no other. Until we meet again. . . R.I.P.❤️. We will be sure to take care of Antoinette and family! Love and miss you

Ten things that I learned from Bob, my father: 

1. Trust in God first, yourself second, others third. 
2. Failing in the short term is acceptable. Losing in the long term is not. 
3. If you have a real friend, be a real friend back. 
4. Be responsible. Be reliable. Be reputable. 
5. Never intimidate or bully. Never be intimidated or bullied. 
6. Train like a champion, think like a winner, root for the underdog. 
7. The bigger a person tries to act, the smaller that person really is. 
8. Be a participant, not a spectator. 
9. When life "gives you lemons" just cut them into pieces and put them into the best lemon-flavored water ice that you can possible make ... then enjoy. 
10. The show must go on. Always. 

Bob, my father and I were so sorry to hear youd passed on. My father had nothing but good things to say about you, which shows how good you really were because as you know that's rare. I really enjoyed talking to you and working for you. You will be missed my friend.

We are so sorry to hear of Robert's passing, he will be missed by our Office, he was a very happy go lucky guy, our prayers go out to you and your family. 

March 27, 2020 By Ronnie Grant

I have known Bobby for close to 50 years. It started one night when I was racing my car and Bobby asked me to help him with his car, it was called Pretty Twice. From that evening we formed a friendship and trust that has lasted to the day Bobby left us. We bought tow trucks together, I had Ron's Towing (The Happy Hooker) and Bobby had Bob towing, later becoming South Philly Towing. We worked day and night, all weather helping each other out. We went to the Shooting range together. When we would get back from a long day, we would ask Annie to bake us two chocolate cakes and we have a quart of milk each.
After a while I decided to follow my passion in Aviation and left the towing business. One night I was driving home on I-95 when I hit some metal and flattened 3 of my tires. I had to jump a fence and walk for a while to find a pay phone. I called my neighbor to come and get me, three and a half hours later I finally made it home, only to find my car parked on the corner. The first person I thought of was Bobby, I called and asked if he got my car and he said, not me, you must be hallucinating. Many weeks later he finally confessed he was returning home from a call and said hey that's Polecats car picked it up and dropped it off. He thought it would be funny. To this day he called me Polecat, I don't even remember why.
I have never met anyone that worked harder than Bobby, or anyone I trusted more, I would trust him with my life. He has come to my rescue more than once over the years. Annie maybe we should plan a Chocolate cake night with milk lactose free of course

Ronnie Grant
Ronald Grant, Ocean View, NJ

I am deeply saddened by the passing of my dear friend. Bob and Antoinette have been my neighbors for many years. Bob was a kind and generous person and treated me like a "second" daughter. He always had my back, always there for me and always made me laugh. Clarion Street will not be the same without our Street Captain. Sending Antoinette, Natalie and Joey a big hug. I will miss him lots. Rest in Peace my friend.

I would not have had the career I had in the casino industry if not for Bob and Antoinette Mento. Bob taught me the importance of having a strong work ethic; to be reliable, to show up on time, to take pride in my work no matter what the job. He opened his home to me when I needed it. I will never forget those summers. I looked so forward to summer break when the store would open and I could come back to Mento's! He was my Gumby, always bent out of shape and I will always be the rat! I was so happy when he would ask me to make him a sundae or when he would trust me to do something for him. I am so very sad for Anne, Joey and Nat and everyone who loved him dearly. Sending love and prayers always.

It is so hard to believe that Bob who was larger than life is gone. He had a heart of gold and was a great guy. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with Anne and her family.

Antoinette, Joe and Natalie. So sorry to hear about the passing of Bob. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May he rest in peace. 

Rip to my dear friend and someone who was like a father to me. I will never forget our time together and many laughs we shared. Until we meet again!!

Anne and Natalie, I am saddened to hear the news of Bob passing. I will be praying for you both along with the rest of your family.