Thank you all for your stories and how Bobby touched your lives. It is through our memories that those who pass before us live on in our hearts and minds.

I have so many stories that I could share of Bobby and many of you have heard a lot of them over the years. The one thing that Bobby and I shared though was an unconditional love that transcended even this world. Most of you know that life circumstances were such that Bob and I had not lived in the same house or even the same state for over a decade. What we did do though was continue to love one another on levels most will never understand or comprehend. Our love was the purest form of unconditional love that one can have for another and even if we weren't living in the same home we had a bond of togetherness from the time we met when he was 18 and I was 20. That love transcended even our physical time together here in this world. I know you may not hold our same beliefs. That is okay. Everyone has to hold their own beliefs as to what is precious to them. Before Bobby passed we talked about heaven and what it would be like and who we would like to see of those that have left before us. Both of us said his Mom and Dad. :-) 

We also talked about him providing me with some kind of sign to let me know he was okay if he could possibly do that. He has also been the one constant; the love I always knew would protect me and continue to shelter me with his strength and understanding. He promised me he would if he could.

Bobby left this world at 1:30am on 6/11/14. At 8:00am the very next morning the dogs wanted out and I went to let them out and in the yard in front of me were two crops circles. I immediately went and got Jeremy and asked if he somehow did something to create them. He said he had not done anything. I have always been fascinated by the idea of crop circles. This seemed like a totally likely way for Bobby to let me know my weeks and days and months of worrying about him and being afraid for him were over and he had entered the spiritual world and he was letting us know. He knew I had to let the dogs out in the morning. He knew I would look over the yard as I do every morning. There in front of me were these circles of love showing Jeremy and I once again the strength of his love and compassion to provide for us this positive sign to help us endure the pain of our loss and guidance for the future. 

To some, maybe I am crazy grief stricken woman using some unexplainable growth of weeds to explain some spiritual phenomena. As I said we may not hold the same beliefs. :-) Here is a picture of one of the circles and a picture of my belief. :-) You decide for yourself.

Julia (Julie) Basham