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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Robert Jankowski, 46 years old, born on September 4, 1965, and passed away on October 8, 2011. We will remember him forever.
October 8, 2023
October 8, 2023
A candle to light as a reminder of hope and light. We will see each other again someday brother ! We all miss you and our crazy sugar Ray our little brother. There’s a broken chain in our family without you 2 here. I remember this day the day your body was found. Deanna and I prayed and fasted for closure because our family was hurting not knowing where you were. I guess you finally found the peace you were so desperately searching for. You left a wake of sorrow behind and then Raymond after you. We love you and can’t wait till we all can laugh and hug once more. See you when Jesus comes back
September 4, 2023
September 4, 2023
Dearest big brother,
We still miss you. The sorrow doesn’t go away. It’s difficult to look at family pictures of us and realize you aren’t with us any longer… a flood of sorrow returns.
I hope you know how much you are loved and missed.
Until we are together again.
I Love you, Nanna
September 4, 2023
September 4, 2023
Brother !! Another year without your voice or face ! How I miss you ! It never gets easier with grief between you and Raymond we are just the sisters now. Very tough. At least we all will be together again.
October 8, 2022
October 8, 2022
Been so long since I saw your face my big brother! How I miss you and Raymond. Soon we shall all see each other again and dance on the light of Gods love. I think of you very often when I see a dirt bike or a beautiful river . I sure love you Bobby
October 8, 2021
October 8, 2021
My dearest Brother,
How I miss you and think of you often. Things in our world have grown continuously cold. Even though my heart longs to see your face again and I can’t wait to embrace you in my arms, I know you are in a better place.
Until we are together again, know I love and miss you very much.
Love your sister “Nanna”.
October 8, 2020
October 8, 2020
I love Robert Ray Jankowski ❤️You are so missed on this day, your birthday and everyday for that matter. A certain song or flash of a memory takes me back to your face and smile. I love always and forever! Rest In Peace until we see you again
September 4, 2019
September 4, 2019
It’s September 4, 2019 and it would be your birthday today. You would have been 54 years old. I wish you were here celebrating your special day with us...instead it’s missing you. I will hold on to the memories of growing up with you as my big Brother, my protector and my friend. You always remembered everyone’s birthday and always knew how to make us feel extra special, you were a gentleman and are greatly missed. Xoxo love you, Nanna
October 8, 2018
October 8, 2018
A light unto your path my Brother. I know you are resting but we miss you just like we lost you yesterday. Time does not make it easier or make the pain less. I need a place to tell you how I love and miss you when your bday or the day you left us comes around. Thank God we have a second chance with Jesus..Be ready to see us when that day comes. Love you always and forever
October 8, 2017
October 8, 2017
My brother, our brother how we love you still ! These days pass slow but years fly by ..6 yrs ?? How could you have ever know how much you were loved ! If you knew surely you would of stayed ! I just want you to know we are still missing you and never forget you are a piece of our life forever gone .. which makes us incomplete!! Always and forever our hearts ache ..
September 5, 2017
September 5, 2017
Another birthday for you brother ... yesterday you'd been 52 !! Wow how I would love to see your face and hug you so tight !! What we wouldn't give to see our gone ones again. Lovin you, missing you and still feel the hole you left just like as if it was today. We went to river yesterday and celebrated you and your love for the water . Forever!!!
October 8, 2016
October 8, 2016
Brother Bob ... today is always tough for us no matter how many days or years have passed !! We all reflect back to when you went missing and how we all felt !! Our hearts miss you Bobby ! We love you so ..... until we all meet again brother .... may you rest. Always and Forever lovin you bro.
October 8, 2016
October 8, 2016
My precious brother...it is October 8,2016 and today is the day you left us. The Bible says you are at rest/asleep and know nothing. When you awake Jesus Christ will raise you first then he will call us who are alive in Christ up to join Him. We will then see you again.i can't wait for that day when we all will be reunited with our Hevenly Father. Until that time I pray for peace for all of your family who miss you terribly. xoxo Nanna
September 4, 2016
September 4, 2016
Still lighting a candle for you brother.... We all miss you so very much on another one of your birthdays. Time never makes it easier and the pain is still as real. At least you are at peace like Nana said .... You are finally resting.. Waiting for the day to see all your family again. We are gathered again in your memory. With all our love to you my brother!
October 8, 2015
October 8, 2015
Brother it's another year now you've been gone ! Still the same .. Missing you as always wishing I could hug you one more time. Can't wait to see you again ❤️
October 8, 2015
October 8, 2015
The last time I saw you. We had pizza and beer! You were such a gentlemen. Insisted on pumping my gas. Opening my door. And still called me your aunt fee! Miss you Bobby! Xoxo
September 6, 2015
September 6, 2015
I remember the day you were born, you were such a sweet baby. You are dearly missed an never forgotten. You were taken away to soon.
September 5, 2015
September 5, 2015
...it is now 2015. Its your birthday and you would have been 50 years old. I miss you. I went through old papers last night and found a number of letters you had written me. i could only read a few because my heart hurt. My brother, the world has gotten REALLY BAD. Although you left way to soon, I am glad you are not here to see the turmoil in our country. I will hold on to our Lords promise that he will come back and get us so we can be reunited in heaven. Until then, xoxo. Nanna
September 4, 2015
September 4, 2015
Brother Bob ... Another year with out your face or voice to lighten our lives!!! How we love you still and no time ever mends a broken heart ... Only scabs over the wound you left us. This world is a cold place already and it gets harder when you loose people you love! Miss you so very much and our family still mourns your loss of our broken chain
October 8, 2014
October 8, 2014
My big brother ..3 rd year you have been gone and time heals nothing! We love you and miss you just like the day you disappeared .i don't think you knew how much you leaving would hurt your family or how special you really were to us! Your pictures and memory are what we hold on to so tightly, until Jesus comes gets us. Love u forever and a day
September 6, 2014
September 6, 2014
I don't have many story's to tell I don't really know my dad but I'm looking forward to reading all of your guys so this way I can get to know him even if he is not with us no more even they little things like the kinda food he likes and if I'm like him any thing really I just wanna know
September 5, 2014
September 5, 2014
Light a candle to sparkle for your memory my brother... soon God will takes us all home and we will celebrate and rejoice to be all together again....I sure loved hearing your voice and seeing you smile...I know you are at peace finally ...miss you like the desert misses the rain..forever..... your sister
September 5, 2014
September 5, 2014
He was always the gentleman, pumped the gas, and opened doors. When little he called me Aunt Fee, couldn't say Freddie. So sweet. Miss him. Happy birthday
September 4, 2014
September 4, 2014
Rest in peace, my brother until we gather together again, in the clouds.

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October 8, 2023
October 8, 2023
A candle to light as a reminder of hope and light. We will see each other again someday brother ! We all miss you and our crazy sugar Ray our little brother. There’s a broken chain in our family without you 2 here. I remember this day the day your body was found. Deanna and I prayed and fasted for closure because our family was hurting not knowing where you were. I guess you finally found the peace you were so desperately searching for. You left a wake of sorrow behind and then Raymond after you. We love you and can’t wait till we all can laugh and hug once more. See you when Jesus comes back
September 4, 2023
September 4, 2023
Dearest big brother,
We still miss you. The sorrow doesn’t go away. It’s difficult to look at family pictures of us and realize you aren’t with us any longer… a flood of sorrow returns.
I hope you know how much you are loved and missed.
Until we are together again.
I Love you, Nanna
September 4, 2023
September 4, 2023
Brother !! Another year without your voice or face ! How I miss you ! It never gets easier with grief between you and Raymond we are just the sisters now. Very tough. At least we all will be together again.
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September 4, 2020
My brother! How I’ve missed your voice and seeing your face. How I would love to reach out and hug you again .. a long tight hug, so you know how much I love you !  Soon my brother, we will all be together with Raymond and the rest of our people. Until then sleep... in peace 

My big Bubba

September 15, 2014

wow! Not sure where to start...below are a few of the stories about my Bubba Bobby

* Nick names - he always had special names for everyone....mine was "Nanna" then progressed to "Nanna Bananna". I am told when I was born and mom brought me home, mom introduce me to Bobby and Vicky as thei news baby sister "Deanna". Bobby couldn't say Deanna but said "ah, our lil Nanna". 

He called Vicky "Bicky", Brandy "Brandy Marie", Lynette "Sissy Woo" and Raymond "my Buddy", "Ray Ray", "Sugar Ray", "Lil Brother" or "Krazy Ray"

* Motorcycle story - one day Bobby showed up on a Kawasaki motorcycle and asked me if I wanted to go on a ride. I anxiously jumped on and we rode out to Rio Linda where we grew up at one time. He asked me if I wanted to learn how to ride it. although I was really young I said yes and he tight me how to shift gears and before I knew it I was driving the motorcycle ....with my big Bubba on the back laughing like crazy. 

* I discouraged anyone from cutting school  .... when we would cut schoo(Bobby, me and Vicky ) we would catch a bus and go downtown. We would just hang out and look around in the shops. When someone would stop us on the street and ask where our parents were and why we weren't in school, I would act blind and they would say they were taking me to meet up with our mother. Our poor mom, we were a handful growing up.

* I remember Bobby mowing yards for money. He would go around the neighborhood and make money by mowing yards. He loved would go up to this store and buy sunflower seeds. He loved sunflower seeds. He loved to ride his bicycle and skateboard. He was really good at doing tricks on them. 

* there was a time I had been watching a Self defense maneuver on TV. What to do if someone come up behind you and grabs you. It showed how to grab the arm and flip them over your back. Bobby loved to do this thing where he would bip bop you upside the head. Well he came in and stared doing it to me so I grabbed him by the arm just like they shied on TV and flipped him over my back. He landed on his back on the living room floor. I'll never forget the look on my moms and Bobby's face. Bobby was laughing histerically. They couldn't believe what had just happened. I was surprised myself. 

* something our big Bubba used to do....when Raymond was little and starting to walk, he would be running around and mom would ask us to watch him while she was busy doing other things. After chasing Ray around the house we were tired of trying to keep up with him. Our house had this coat hook on the back of our front door. Raymond was wearing overalls so Bobby got this brilliant idea to hook Ray up on the back of the door by his overalls. We were all laughing which caused Raymond to start laughing and he began moving his feet like he was running. This of course made us all laugh even harder.  

My brother Bobby was a very loving man with a big sense of humor. He loved his mom, brother and sister dearly. He always told us he loved us and ALWAYS sent us a card on our birthdays....sometime self made. He was a very creative man. I miss him so much and can't wait to see him again in heaven. I love you, signed, Nanna banana

 

our brother

September 5, 2014

When we lived on McArthur street  across the freeway from Connies drive up....he took me Ray and maybe Lynette ..with him in Moms car to the store and it was raining... I clearly remember the song "I love the rainy nights" was on and I was sitting on my knees in the big ol' front seat and Ray and Lynette were standing up in the seat...we went past this muddy field and Bobby turned around and drove in that field and did 360's in the mud all around ..we were scared at first but he turned up that song and we were all laughing and holding on...over and over ....I will never forget those things...he was a crazy but a GOOD big brother and he loves his bubba and sissy's. Fun time, until mom saw her car I'm sure ...hopefully the rain washed some of the mud off.. I remember the muddy winshield and he had the wipers on...

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