Tom Burns - Upper Darby, Lafayette
Bob's Eulogy
Dear Betsy,
To summarize 58 years of friendship in a few minutes is an effort, but here goes!
Thank you. Bob, for coming to Upper Darby High School in 1956, transforming our average basketball team into a very good one for three years. Thanks for bringing your brains and good looks, noting you were elected our "Best Looking Male Graduate" along with our cheerleader fox, Sandy Sabatino.
Thanks for choosing Lafayette College as I did, rooming together and choosing Chemical Engineering. Thanks for the walk-on invitation in Freshman Basketball, as our team had only seven scholarship players. As a walk-on, I was excluded from the rush Hell Week at our Phi Kappa Psi Fraternity, by our coach, because of practice and games.
Thanks for having a photographic mind, achieving honors in chemical engineering classes and helping me and others with some of the very difficult course work encountered in the four years of study.
Thanks for your personal friendship after college until your passing. I went to California in 1963, after graduating from Purdue. You stayed in Philly, working at Air Products and Chemicals, and attended Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania. Doug Bloom, sitting here today, was a fellow high school classmate and also a Wharton School classmate of yours. Doug graduated from our rival, Lehigh University, where our Lafayette College never lost in 4 years of basketball! Other sports, not so good!
Thanks for having some high scoring games, such as 37 points against a favored LaSalle College, played at the Palestra in Philly. We green shirts got a few minutes in the game, also at the Madison Square Garden in New York City, as the Leopards defeated Manhattan College. What a treat!
By 1980, you met and married Betsy, while working for ARCO Chemical, then the Solar Division. Coming to Woodland Hills, CA with the collies enabled us to continue to visit, playing golf and tennis for another thirty plus years. Always the competitor, Bob, your tennis and golf always improved over the years!
Thanks for opening up your home and vacation properties to our college buddies and our spouses. We started a tradition years ago at the Lafayette Class Reunion, pitting our four Chemical Engineers, Jim Lyttle, Frank Sarubbi, you and me as the spirited foursome in several alumni golf tournaments. We had fun and played fairly well. We continued the golf in local courses near your condo in Leucadia, and most recently in Sedona and Scottsdale.
We will miss the hospitality which you and Betsy provided so graciously.
Bob, you have been a great friend, fraternity brother, and formidable competitor. We will miss you very much.
Tom Burns