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The last updated picture I have of my older brother Rob

Then The Skeem My Brother Helped Me With

February 19, 2021
by Tina Glover
The skeem my brother helped me with in the late 1990's.. It was like something you would watch in a movie or something because it involved me and my ex who kidnapped my daughter because I was a teenager at the time of my daughter's birth... Well needless to say he set him up to come down to think me and him was getting back together whichever we was not though.. So my brother said sister to make him think this is for real you stay at my house wait until I give you the signal then it's on... Okay so I waited for a couple day's then my brother got his wife to take my ex out in town for awhile while I stayed at my brother's house to help my brother watch my daughter then my brother said sister call mom tell her to put the car in the wind now come get you and my niece and get your butt back across Burke County line so we packed my thing's and my daughter's thing's up after I called my mom to come get us... So my mom made it to Dallas, North Carolina to get me and my daughter in about 25 minutes then she showed up my brother packed us up in my mom's car he said don't worry about me sister I love you and my niece and there's nothing I wouldn't do to help you... so tearful goodbyes until court was over then it wouldn't be this way... so yes I was relieved when we made it to that Burke County line I knew I was home free thanks to my brother who helped me out with this plan to get my baby back.... Thank you my brother that will always be something I'll take to my grave with me... 

Robert's Fights With The Neighborhood Kid's

February 19, 2021
by Tina Glover
My brother Robert and Joe would always take on the neighborhood kid's their last names was Jenkins... my brother Robert would always meet the Jenkins boy's at the stop sign at the end of our dirt road beside of our house... and I would always watch my brother's take on these kid's back then cause it was entertaining back then and sure my brother's got beaten up bloody bruised up by these kid's some times but so did these kid's because my brother's gave just as good as they got back then and so many busted lips and blacked eyes over the year's but at the end of it all they was still friends... I know it sounds weird and crazy but it was cool they would fight like that and still remain friends...

Robert's Story

February 19, 2021
by Tina Glover
Well what can I say about my beloved brother and bestfriend Robert better known as Soggy Bottom Boy/Hot Rod Rob..Well he loved his daughter's but one daughter would pass away taking away my brother's heart that day. Because when I looked into my young brother's eyes that day in the hospital right after his wife gave birth to my niece Amber.. That was tears that I wish I could've wiped away from his sorrowful eyes filled with hurt that day and when that happened my brother was forever changed because he changed into a man that started down a long road of becoming a man who drank his pains away hoping he would find it at the bottom of a bottle or beer can... It only brought him to a bad road that wouldn't end not until he married his last wife then my brother was making amends with himself and his family and trying to be the best dad he could for his daughter he had with an exgirlfriend they had a daughter together.. My brother was still battling his demons when his daughter was born but he was in her life he tried to be the best dad he could be but he didn't have no one to look up to because our biological father wasn't one no child should have to make a role model out of because my dad was an alcoholic who got my brother's drinking alcohol at a young age then us all being a witness of our dad being physically abusive to our mother then my dad being physically abusive to my siblings and not me because that made my sister hate me because what my dad done by making me his pick but I honestly didn't have no control over that... I was a kid... I look back on my childhood memories and wish I could tell my brother Rob I am sorry we had a bad father but I was afraid that my dad would hurt them or my mom so I kept it a secret all these year's now the truth has set me free at last my beloved brother finally at last... I'M FINALLY FREE FROM THESE CHAINS THAT'S BEEN BINDING ME TO THESE HURTFUL MEMORIES... But Rob I'm sorry brother... But it's not your fault because you think you didn't meet up to standards because you didn't have a role model father to show you the way until mom married Carl then we had a real role model father in our world to show us the way and the christian way of life....

The Fights And Play Fights Between Siblings

December 8, 2020
by Tina Glover
Well my brother Rob would be play fighting with our brother Joe... But sometimes they wouldn't be playing you know how siblings can be... And my brothers would also go down to the end of the stop sign and would meet a neighbor hood boy's who would always wanna fight my brothers well my brothers didn't back down they took on them Jenkins boy's and yes sometimes they would come home with bloody lips and black eyes but them Jenkins boy's was beat up to so I guess both sides one I guess back then... But also my brothers would pick up the broomstick and take off after each other and sometimes putting holes in the walls and doors of our house and you talking about making our mom and dad mad boy did it... 

The Big Riding Around Town

December 8, 2020
by Tina Glover
Well one time my older brother Rob and his buddy Chris Baumgardner hopped into Chris's Toyota truck and drove around our small hick town of Polkville, North Carolina in reverse could you imagine seeing that cause me and my family did it's a heck of a memory... 

Another Memory Early 1980's

January 24, 2019
by Tina Glover
Well, one day my older brother had a new car which was a Camaro and my brother used to race his car back then and he would also win some of those races... But let me tell you his big idea about taking his new Camaro to a mountain up in Casar, North Carolina which had all the trees cut down by logging companies back then and then long and behold he gets a crazy idea of taking his new car up that mountain that day so as I know and others will know if you have been around logging roadways that they are very narrow with no turn arounds so yes he took me and my other brother and his friend up that mountain that day and I was so scared when he was trying to turn around when the dirt was kind of loose making his car slide a little bit and was on the edge of the dirt road with the car tires and so needless to say I was so scared that we was gonna go off of the side of that mountain we was on but we made it down that mountain but all my brother say it will be fine sis clam down so I tried my very best to clam down... 




Another Memory Early 1980's

January 24, 2019
by Tina Glover

Well, me and my brother he liked going on our family vacations up in Cherokee and Lake Lure up in the North Carolina mountains... And even my brother's friend Dwayne Humphries went with us and they would go hiking and walk the long trails and climb the big boulders in the creek... and we always went to Linville Caverns where they had blind catfish in the water below which was cool and also scary but it was kind of neat to and I remember one time my older brother grabbed my tiny hand said come on sis I want let nothing happen to you and he was my protector and when I was scared to go into caverns so I went on with him to see the blind catfish which was the best thing ever because our childhood was one that you will never forget that is for sure... But this is one way I can keep my older brothers memory alive because he deserves that much... And that is what I am trying to do... 

Another Memory

January 24, 2019
by Tina Glover
Well, my older brother was a ladies man when he was in school and even after school.. Because he met his first wife Tracy Page Vaughn back in school then they got married had a baby girl named Amber in July of 1989 which my niece had a pinhole in her lung and when she was given oxygen it caused her lung to collapse killing her not long after she was born like seven hours after her birth she had passed away.. And at that point in time I seen the heart in my brother breaking into while he was still in shocked mode and being devastated from the loss of his brand new daughter then after all the arrangements was made for his daughter's funeral my brother started making his self distant to a lot of people and his ex-wife now which was his first wife back then and their marriage didn't last long after the death of their daughter and he buried his self more and more into working and trying to take the pain away with things that you should never have been doing back then I never seen that side of him before and I just wanted my brother to be okay I wanted him to go back to being happy not being so sad and depressed this was a time that I was seeing my brother hurting for the first time which made an impact on me for the rest of my life because I didn't know at that time with me being so young that things like that could happen and what the effect would be and how it would affect a person mentally, physically, verbally but I found out the hard way when I seen my brother suffer with it for a long time over grieving from his daughters death...



Memories From Early Child Hood

January 24, 2019
by Tina Glover

Well, his childhood was one that was fun, loving, happy filled with life and spending time with his younger siblings... But his childhood was hard at times when having a parent suffering from being an alcoholic while trying to live a life which would meet everyone's standards without making anyone mad at him or them or him getting hurt in the end of the may haves and the may not haves in his life... While doing some of his fine artist work because Rob was so happy when he would apply himself to his drawing and artwork which started in school and he followed that dream for a while until he finished school and then he started his own roofing company and doing tattoos on the side because his artwork was amazing to see visually... Even better to have one of many of his tattoos on your canvas/body... But my older brother was the one I always looked up to because he was smart, funny and super cool you know having an older brother who showed you things and how to follow your dreams and love, live life fully to the very end because we are brother and sister but he was my best friend in life and now I miss him showing me how to work on automobiles and how to remodel all old model trucks and cars these are some of the things was shared when we was kids and then also my older brother became part time writer of poems but he done a lot to keep himself busy because he was never on the slow down mode he had to be busy all the time which was a good thing... But now I have all these memories until the day we meet again on gods golden shore...