ForeverMissed
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Robert Norman Lemke, 55 years old, born on September 9, 1955, and passed away on January 2, 2011. We will remember him forever.
September 9
September 9
Happy Birthday Bobby. I think about you often. Chloe is turning into such an amazing young woman. You would be so proud of her. I was so worried about her for the longest time, but I think she's coming out on the other side of things. I wish you could have done the same while you were here. She really misses you. I miss you too.
September 9, 2022
September 9, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday Bobby. I dreamt about you last night. Have you seen my dad? He joined you last November. I have never felt grief like that, but the person I also get really sad about is you. Funny isn't it? We did have a lot of fun. Our daughter is becoming more beautiful by the day. If you were here you would definitely tell her to cover up! She's smarter than she knows, but still dealing with some pretty strong demons. All I want is to keep her safe, but her social environment leaves a lot to be desired. Sigh. Please keep an eye on her from up there.
January 3, 2022
January 3, 2022
Missing you think of you VERY OFTEN if Chloe reads this my email is jasrob2307@ hotmail.com feel free to contact me just like its days you are forever missed.......

October 5, 2021
October 5, 2021
Hey Dad. After 8 months of toxicity and pain and fucking suffering, I got out of that relationship I told you about. Those days were some of the worst dude. I'm in highschool. Not ready to get in and out of relationships and be depressed and all this shit I didn't sign up for. I'm so sad but I'm happy at the same time. I don't know how this works but trust me Dad if i knew, you would be the first person I'd tell. I am so miserable with how my body looks because there was not one day at school that I didn't get harassed or assaulted. I know most of this stuff is tmi but I really needed to vent to someone. And you're one of my favorite people so yeah. My room looks awesome I wish I could show you how cool it is with all the lights, candles, beer cans, and plants. Halloween is coming up this month and I had a matching costume with my ex girlfriend so I don't know what to do now. I'm talking to this pretty boy. He's so sweet and small lol. He also recently got assaulted by the same dude I did. I feel like if you were really here you would do everything in your power to protect me. This message is really long. I feeling like I'm bothering you, Even though you're dead. I love you so much and I think about you every day. Especially when the stupid boys at my school at attack me lol. Not in a bad way just that like I wish you were there ya know. Peace out Dad. Let's hope this gets better for me.
September 9, 2021
September 9, 2021
Happy Heavenly Birthday Bobby. I hope you're watching Cody from up there. She misses you and I wish you could share in her struggle. She fights every day to just be happy. She's amazing and so smart and funny! I'm so lucky to have her.
February 15, 2021
February 15, 2021
Oh Bobby, the things you've missed! Our beautiful baby girl has grown so much. She misses you dearly. I only have fond thoughts of you. We sure did have a lot of fun! Chloe has gone through a lot and is still going through it. She's a tough cookie though, (she is my daughter, after all). I hope you're looking down on her and proud of the person she's becoming. She's such an awesome kid. Your mom and Jimmy dote on her. I don't think I've seen a more spoiled kiddo! Miss you.
February 15, 2021
February 15, 2021
Hey Dad, it's been rough. Im addicted to alcohol and have panic attacks every time i see a bottle. It's getting worse every second. I'm just wondering if i got the addiction from you because i remember you were a drinker. Anyways, I'll get through it lol. I have a new girlfriend and they're amazing. They have purple hair and a pretty little nose. I currently have a mullet and 29 piercings. Welp. I hope someone reaches out to me on this website and tells me some stories about you because i didn't learn that much in the 4 years you were here with me. I love you. I miss you. I've also been writing a lot of poems and things like that and my therapist says i'm getting really fucking good lol. I'm proud of myself. But i'm sad you're not here to see me grow into this character. Happy late valentines day dad.
March 23, 2020
March 23, 2020
Hey Dad, I'm going to cut my hair like a boy so I look more lesbian. Also I got a girlfriend and she is the prettiest girl at school, and she's thinking of going bald. She's so unique that if you were here I'd want you to meet her. I'm just making sure that I write to you every other day. I have to go but I love you so so so so so so much!!
March 21, 2020
March 21, 2020
Ayeeee Dad!! So I dyed my bangs black. I wore the cutest outfit today I had buttoned up black jeans with a leather belt with holes and a yellow mustard long sleeve turtle neck. Also my cat just attacked a baby squirrel in our house so in a couple minutes we're going to the Lindsay Wildlife Hospital. I'm eating a tuna sandwich and I haven't had one of those in a hot minute.Oh yeah I also tried to reach out to a lot of people that know you but they haven't responded. Hopefully they will and hopefully I will learn more about my amazing father. Love you Dad.
March 19, 2020
March 19, 2020
What's up Dad! I have therapy in an hour but before I go I wanted to write to you. I see that the views on this website are going up and that makes me think that people are watching me write to you or it's just me coming back here every other day. I know that you didn't necessarily do the best things in life but you did serve for this country and I'm so proud of you for that. I got an eagle necklace in honor of you. I wish you were here to see it but you're probably watching from above. I used to cry myself to sleep knowing that you could never come back, but now I smile when I go to bed thinking of all the fun times we had. I know I was young but I remember a surprisingly big amount of things from my childhood. And I'm not a child anymore I'm 13! Well I'll be writing to you later. Love you Dad.
March 15, 2020
March 15, 2020
Yo Dad today's my birthday and I was just wondering if you were watching me to see how I'm doing. I got some pretty gnarly stuff for my birthday but the best gift of all is if you were here. Every time on my birthday when I blow out the candles I wish for you to come back. I know that can't happen but I really wish it was. I love you Dad and happy birthday to me lol.
March 13, 2020
March 13, 2020
Hey Dad just stopping by to say hi and tell you how I'm doing. Uncle Jimmie got me bangs and my birthday is in two days! Every year it's been really hard on my birthday because you're not here to spend it with me. Sometimes I get bullied at school because of my mental illness but I fight back because I know you'd want me to do so. I got beat up twice for being "crazy". I really wonder how different life would be if you were here. I love you so much and I still have all of the clothes and toys you gave me. You will always be remembered Dad, I love you to Heaven and back.
March 12, 2020
March 12, 2020
Dear Dad, I love you so much and you truly will be forever missed. I remember all the fun times we had before you passed. Those were the greatest days of my life. And now they're over. I've been dealing with a lot of depression and the fact that I'm suicidal and going in and out of hospitals. If you were here I don't doubt for a second that it'd be better. I love you Dad, I really do.
January 2, 2012
January 2, 2012
Dear Robert Norman, One year ago you went to visit the angels and all your family and friends whom have passed before you.....I hope heaven loves having you as much as we enjoyed you. You were such a gas.....I will never forget having my hair done by you with Keithie and we laughed the whole time. Miss you Nor Nor
September 9, 2011
September 9, 2011
Happy 56th Birthday Robert Norman. I hope in heaven you are having as much fun as you did with us. We miss you and think of you often. Say hi to my dad if you see him.....and Keiths Mom love nor nor
September 9, 2011
September 9, 2011
I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU ROBERT ..YOU WILL ALWAYS REMAIN IN MY HEART, LOVE FOREVER YOUR DEAREST FRIEND TERRI LYNN TURNER,...
April 18, 2011
April 18, 2011
I MISS YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!! i think about you everyday and i am so thankfull for having you in my life for the short time that i did...i believe we were supposed to be there for each other you know? yeah well tell elvis i said whats up k love you muc
January 23, 2011
January 23, 2011
My DEAREST Robert, you were my best friend , I will always and forever hold you in my heart,and long after that.You were my world, and you always made things better,you cheered me up when i was sad, and wiped my tears away when i cried, and when we needed each other ,we were both there.I feel like a part of my soul went with you. I Will always love you Robert.just say what again.......
January 13, 2011
January 13, 2011
Robert,you will be greatly missed ,I will always remember your smiling face,your wonderful laugh. You were one of the best friends I ever had. I was so lucky to be a part of your life."they just don't make them like you anymore" you will always hold a very special place in my heart "Love Robyn"
January 10, 2011
January 10, 2011
Robert Norman you were one of a kind. You made me laugh so much and I think back at the times in my life when I was around you. Always a blast. I am sad you passed so young, but now you are with your dad again. Aunt Mary I hope you are doing okay and know that Robert Norman is at peace now. He will never be forgotten. Take care of Jimmie. Love Nor Nor
January 9, 2011
January 9, 2011
"Bon Voyage" to you my friend. I will never forget the good times we had. Thanks for being a part of my life.
January 8, 2011
January 8, 2011
ROBERT,YOU WERE LIKE THE BIG BROTHER I NEVER HAD,YOU ALWAYS MADE ME LAUGH WHEN I WAS SAD,ITS SO HARD TO LET YOU GO AND SAY GOOD BYE,ALL I WANT TO DO IS CRY. BUT WHEN I THINK OF YOU AND YOUR CRAZY WAYS,ALL THE FUN WE HAD BACK IN THOSE DAYS.I HAVE TO DRY MY EYES AND KNOW,NOW YOU ARE FREE AND HOW BLESSED I WAS THAT YOU SHARED THE TIME WITH ME.  LOVE MICHELLE
January 6, 2011
January 6, 2011
my dear friend, you will be missed so much. no one made me laugh like you,I know your with your dad now whom you loved so much...

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September 9
September 9
Happy Birthday Bobby. I think about you often. Chloe is turning into such an amazing young woman. You would be so proud of her. I was so worried about her for the longest time, but I think she's coming out on the other side of things. I wish you could have done the same while you were here. She really misses you. I miss you too.
September 9, 2022
September 9, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday Bobby. I dreamt about you last night. Have you seen my dad? He joined you last November. I have never felt grief like that, but the person I also get really sad about is you. Funny isn't it? We did have a lot of fun. Our daughter is becoming more beautiful by the day. If you were here you would definitely tell her to cover up! She's smarter than she knows, but still dealing with some pretty strong demons. All I want is to keep her safe, but her social environment leaves a lot to be desired. Sigh. Please keep an eye on her from up there.
January 3, 2022
January 3, 2022
Missing you think of you VERY OFTEN if Chloe reads this my email is jasrob2307@ hotmail.com feel free to contact me just like its days you are forever missed.......

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January 23, 2011

The Night We Danced, I will never forget the night we danced, you  looked so handsome,and  you told me that I  looked so pretty.People stopped to watch us dance, and i enjoyed that night like I was in heaven.i WOULD  give anything to do that all over again and again with you. I fell in love with you three years ago ,and everyday with you was an experience. You were funny and sometimes we'd argue but  we knew  just  how much we meant to each other, there wasnt nothing  that i woulndt do for you. When youd wake me up in the middle of the night and ask me to rub your stomach,and then youd fall back asleep, Id lay there and  listen to you snore.We didnt let three hours go by without talking to each other no matter what.  Thats when  I  knew  that something was wrong11 I hadnt heard from you in four hours and you didnt come home for two days.Then I was woke by something on my foot , I woke up long enough to look at my foot and then smile and  then in that same secound i fell  back to sleep. tHAT WAS AT 3;45 am Jan 2, 2011. Now i dont know if that was you  , but  i do know this, thats what yopud always do if you wanted me awake. Robert , losing you , is  the worst most painfullest thing ive ever had to feel. I do know in my heart i will see you again, and we will be togther.AND  Im so sorry that your  mom and brother acted that way at  your funeral, if  i could have changed that i would have. and you know that. AND God works in misterious ways. And there day will come, I  still can hear your voice .And i when i do , i know that im on my way to you.    baby  I love you.  always yours terri lynn turner. say what again,,,,,,,

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