Tribute from Mervyn Puleston, 11 March 2021
We are gathered here today from many different parts of the world to give thanks for Robin’s life and his many great
achievements, for his friendship and his love for his family as a father and grandfather and for his friends. We come now to commend him into the hands of his creator. We are all dependent on many things to make our lives worthwhile, but however successful we may be in other areas of our life it is the people we love and who love us that bring to it the most important quality.
When I think of Robin the three words come to mind for which I will remember him will be humility, humour and encouragement. For someone who achieved so much in his life he was never boastful or proud, and all us enjoyed his wonderful sense of humour. (If you ever read his Poisson D’Avril, written to confuse the more gullible, in the Holy Trinity magazine, you will understand what I mean. And did you ever hear him sing? A good man in an emergency too, so I am told, especially if you have had your luggage stolen on a train, or the guest speaker had not done his job.)
For those who sat at his feet his students, his friends and his family, all benefited from his words of encouragement and wisdom, whether in the laboratory, the lecture theatre, or even the diving pool or the Red Sea. (He was one of those people who, to whoever he engaged with, great or small, old or young, and perhaps especially children with whom he was always so lovely and patient, he gave them a real sense of worth and value, and would be interested in what they had to say, be it a new toy, their rheumatism, the price or fish, or the structure of a molecule.) Robin was a real anchor in so many people’s lives.)
But at the real of heart of his life there was a deep and sincere Christian life lived out through the grace of God. None of us can live a Christian life without the grace of God, (some people, the known and unknown saints, are those who were most attune to that grace, and I would number Robin amongst them.) No one was ever told to hide his light under a bushel. Through God’s grace, Robin was someone who used his many talents and gifts for the benefit of his fellow men. It would certainly be the words of Our Lord “Let your light so shine before men that they may see your good works and glorify your father in heaven” that applies to Robin. He was a true Christian gentleman and a true servant of God and to whom the Lord will surely say “Well done thou good and faithful servant.”