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This memorial was created in memory of my dear sweetheart. I wish i could convey the hurt and ache i feel without my Roger. He was my "true soutmate" and will be forever. We became "one" on Sept 26th 1970. The Lord took him home on Sept 11th 2015. My love for you will always be with me.....always......and forever.......

May 11, 2021
May 11, 2021
My dearest Whim, today you turn 75. I went to the cemetery this morning and sat there crying....I miss you so much. I’ve told the Lord many times that I want you back but He wanted you with Him. I will love you forever and one day I’ll see you again. Missing you always....love Er
December 22, 2020
December 22, 2020
Oh Whim I miss you!!!! I want you with me. My heart will never be the same without you. It’s almost Christmas and I remember the years of Christmas times we had. I love you forever!!!!!!
September 11, 2020
September 11, 2020
Oh my dear sweet Whim....it’s been five years since you went to heaven with Jesus. My heart is broken today. I miss you beyond words, my heart aches to have you near me. I miss you so......
May 11, 2020
May 11, 2020
My dearest Whim...today you are 73 and you are in Heaven with our dear Savior. I can’t express how much I miss you. My love for you will never end here or in Heaven. I miss you everyday. I long to lay my head on your chest to hear your beating heart...I love you Whim
April 15, 2020
April 15, 2020
My dearest Whim, I miss you more everyday. It’s been 4 years 7 months since the Lord took you home. My heart aches and when I go to the cemetery and wish our lives were together it makes me so sad knowing that we can never be again. I miss you....I miss you my heart is broken
January 16, 2020
January 16, 2020
My darling Whim...I have been missing you more and more. You have been gone for 4 years and 4 months now. Sometimes it’s so overwhelming the need I have to be with you again. I miss everything about our life. I will love you forever.....
December 25, 2019
December 25, 2019
It’s Christmas 2019 and I miss you more than ever my Whim. There are days that my heart aches to have you with me. I will love you forever....♥️
September 12, 2019
September 12, 2019
My precious Whim, you’ve been gone four years now. It seems like just yesterday you were with me. I sat at the cemetery talking with you, telling you how much I miss not being together. I will love you forever and ever. My heart aches to be held by you again. I love you....... I love you
May 12, 2019
May 12, 2019
Happy Birthday my love.....I took a beautiful rose and placed it on our tombstone. The kids were remembering things of the past that we shared. You have been gone 3 years 8 months now. I wish you were here with me all the time. I miss you more and more each day. I will love you forever and always....
April 11, 2019
April 11, 2019
It’s been 3 years and 7 months today that you left my side and went to Heaven to be with our Lord. I miss you every moment....I wish you were here with me Whim. My heart will never be the same without you. I’ll love you forever......
March 11, 2019
March 11, 2019
Today you have been gone 3 years and 6 months. I miss you all the time Whim. I tell the Lord that I want you back....my life will never be the same. I will love you for all of eternity.....
February 11, 2019
February 11, 2019
Good morning my dearest Whim, I am sitting here crying from my eyes and from my heart. I miss you so much. Yesterday our son Chad came and helped me here at home and then we went to visit you at the cemetery. He gets out of the car and kisses our tombstone. I miss you so much and my heart breaks for what we don't have on this earth anymore. I know you are in Heaven. I love you more each day...….
January 11, 2019
January 11, 2019
My dearest Whim, I have thought of you today with sadness of heart...wishing you you were here with me. It’s been 3 years 4 months since you went to your Heavenly home. I miss you everyday and the grief never seems to end. I’ll love you till my last breath and then I’ll see you in Heaven. I love you my Whim......
December 11, 2018
December 11, 2018
Hello my sweetheart. It has been 3 years 3 months since you went to Heaven. I go to the cemetery daily and I miss you all the time. I miss you holding me close....l love you
November 14, 2018
November 14, 2018
It has been 3 years and 2 months since you left my side and took your flight to be with with Jesus. I miss you so much Whim and my heart aches for you everyday. I send my love to you with a heart full of sadness
October 12, 2018
October 12, 2018
My dearest sweetheart, it’s been three years and one month since you left me and went to our Heavenly Father. I cry at times remembering all the years of our life together. I miss you all the time and wish you were with me. I love you Whim Paysen....♥️
September 11, 2018
September 11, 2018
My dearest sweetheart. Today it's been three years since you went to be with the Jesus. I have cried so much today. I miss you more and more as the days, months and now years go by. I have you deep within my heart forever. I adore you my precious Whim...…..I just miss you so much
August 12, 2018
August 12, 2018
My dearest sweetheart, I write this with tears and heartache. How do I keep going without you>>> life for me has changed so much. I miss you more and more each day. You have been gone 2 years and 11 months and my love for you has only become stronger. I miss you...…………….
July 22, 2018
July 22, 2018
It has been 2 years and 10 months since you left my side. My heart aches and I will never be the same without you. I think of what could have been, I think of the times we would be holding each other. I miss your touch......I miss you...………………….
June 11, 2018
June 11, 2018
My dearest sweetheart, my heart longs to see your face, to touch you and feel the warmth of your heart against mine. I love you with an everlasting love that will never leave or fade.....i miss you
May 11, 2018
May 11, 2018
Good morning my sweetheart!! Happy Birthday to you Whim!!I miss you so very much and dream of the times we had together. Mere words cannot express what lies in my heart today. I love from the deepest part of my heart.....♥️
April 11, 2018
April 11, 2018
My dearest sweetheart, today it's been 2 years and 7 months since our Savior called you to your Heavenly home. I miss you ALL the time. My life has changed so much and i sometimes don't know how to deal with the loneliness and grief never leaves. I love you........forever
March 13, 2018
March 13, 2018
My dearest sweetheart....my heart ♥️ will forever miss you...I sometimes don’t know how to cope without you ♥️ How do I continue to live each day and not be able to touch you, talk to you...i just miss you
February 12, 2018
February 12, 2018
My sweetheart, it’s been 2 years and 5 months since you left your earthly home for your Heavenly home with Jesus. I miss you so much and long to feel your touch again. I love you and always will. You are my heart ♥️
January 11, 2018
January 11, 2018
My dear sweetheart, it has been 2 years and 4 months since you left my side. My heart mourns and grieves you not being with me. I remember so many things of our life together and wish that you were here with me. I just miss you.............
December 12, 2017
December 12, 2017
Today it's been 2 years and 3 months sense you left my side. The grief doesn't stop, but I have learned to live with it. You were my heart and I miss not laying my head on your chest, the kiss on the cheek. I just miss you........
November 11, 2017
November 11, 2017
Today it’s been 2 years and 2 months since our journey changed. The Lord wanted you with Him. I miss you so.........I long to lay my head on your chest to feel your heartbeat. My love for you will always be..........
October 11, 2017
October 11, 2017
To my forever missed Whim. Today you have been gone 2 years and 1 month. I miss you all the time and I know one day I will see you in Heaven where you have been in the presence of our Lord. I love ❤️ you always and forever......
September 26, 2017
September 26, 2017
Good morning my love. Today we would have celebrated our 47th wedding anniversary. I'm sure we would have made a trip to Celina and had a nice dinner by the lake. I miss you all the time. Sometimes it's the saddest part of my heart, missing you. How do I move forward without you by my side. I will love you always and forever ❤️
September 11, 2017
September 11, 2017
To my sweetheart, today you have been gone two years. It just doesn't seem like you've been away this long. I made my trip to the cemetery and I laid my head on our tombstone and cried. I have missed you more than I have words could say. I love you my Whim......❤️
August 11, 2017
August 11, 2017
Today you've been gone 23 months. I'm sitting here at the cemetery missing you so much. Our life was so full of love life and laughter. I miss all that we had. I love you always and forever my sweet Whim.....
July 11, 2017
July 11, 2017
My dearest Whim, it's been 22 months since you have been absent from my life but not my heart. The Lord wanted you to be with Him and I had to let you go. I mourn for you everyday, my heart cries and wishes I could see your smiling face. I go to the cemetery everyday to be with you. Sometimes I just shake my head in wonderment thinking how could it be this long that you have be gone from my life. I love you forever and forever. I will see you when Jesus calls me home, I will see your smiles and I will feel your love again. I miss you..............................
June 11, 2017
June 11, 2017
I miss you.....today it's been 21 months since our dear Savior called you to your heavenly home. Chad was with me today at the cemetery. It's always bittersweet when I go and it's another month that has gone by without you. It was around this time in the evening when you began having trouble, and within minutes you were gone from my life. I will forever and always miss you. I don't think there are enough tears I could shed that would express my feeling of loss and grief. I love you my sweetheart, I love you...............
May 11, 2017
May 11, 2017
Happy Birthday to my dear sweetheart. Yo would have been 71 today and you have been gone 20 months. It sometimes seems like a bad dream and then I realize that you are in Heaven with our precious Savior and I know you are enjoying the the beauty that is there. I miss you all the time. I love you more and more, I miss my husband
April 11, 2017
April 11, 2017
I am sitting here crying today. It's been 19 months since you left this earth and went to our Heavenly home to be with Jesus for ever. I miss you so much Whim. Words fail me to express my loneliness living everyday without you. People that have never lost a spouse, it's hard for them to understand how grief can take over your whole life. I miss you.............I will make my trip to the cemetery and sit with you for awhile. I'll love you for all of eternity.......................
March 11, 2017
March 11, 2017
My dearest sweetheart, it's been 18 months since you left me, it's the early morning hours and as I sit here remembering the moment when you left this earth and made your journey to Heaven. I watched you as you drew your final breath. My life has never been the same. I go daily to be with you at the cemetery, my heart aches and mourns daily for the life we shared together. I so long to lay my head on your chest and feel the warmth of your embrace. I love you and I miss you all the time. Your the love of my life always.......
February 14, 2017
February 14, 2017
My dear and loving sweetheart, it's been 17 months since you left my side. I mourn, I ache and cry tears of sorrow. I miss you all the time and I wonder what Heaven is like and how happy you must be to be with Jesus. I long to see your face and see your smile. I send my heart to Heaven and hope you can see how much I miss you.........
January 11, 2017
January 11, 2017
Oh my dear sweet Whim, today it's been 16 months since Jesus wanted you to be with Him in Heaven. I remember we were sitting outside in the gazebo.I watched you take your final breath, I was devastated.I was at the cemetery this morning talking with you and sharing my heart. I will miss you all the days of my life, I miss your touch and embrace, your smile and our times together. Loving you was easy, missing you is my heartbreak.................
December 11, 2016
December 11, 2016
My dearest sweetheart, today it's been 15 months since you left me, since our dear Savior called you home to His eternal peace. I miss you so much, my heart is sometimes lost without you. I go everyday to visit with you and wish I could see you again. It's two weeks until Christmas. I search in my heart for the wonderful memories of our Christmases together. When our children were small and then grew up and left home. We always tried our best after they left to make our Christmas a happy and good one. You so enjoyed the holidays. I didn't put up a tree, it's just not the same without you. I don't want to celebrate without my Whim. I love and miss you every moment of the day. My heart grieves for you over and over..........
November 11, 2016
November 11, 2016
My dearest Whim, it's been fourteen months since you left me and made your home in Heaven. I was at the cemetery today and I talk to you as if you were with me. I miss you so bad sometimes and my heart aches for our special times together. I miss holding hands, I miss your embrace. You went to Heaven around 7:00 P.M. and I was with you and watched you take your final breath. I'll forever hold you in my heart, with tears and sadness.......
October 12, 2016
October 12, 2016
My dear sweetheart, it's been 13 months since you walked into the spender of heaven. The glories that you must be seeing cannot be compared to anything here. I go to visit with you daily and it's hard to even realize that you aren't here with me. I miss you more and more
September 26, 2016
September 26, 2016
My dearest Whim, my heart is so sad today. We would have been married 46 years. I miss you so much and I think of our life together. I close my eyes and think of what we would be doing today. There are times that I don't know what to do without you. I'll go to the cemetery to be with you and share our love. I miss you with tears and sadness...........
September 11, 2016
September 11, 2016
My dear sweetheart, It has been a year since you left me here on earth and went into the waiting arms or our Savior. I sat at the cemetery remembering when you passed away, I watched you as you took your final breath. My heart is forever sad and lonely without you. Our son Ryan was with me today and it was hard for him. Your children love you and think of you so much. I will never ever forget you and I will always hold you within my heart where no one else can touch. The Lord holds both of our hearts and souls, for that I am so very grateful. I will meet you in Heaven when the Lord says it's my time. I love you Whim Paysen........................................
August 11, 2016
August 11, 2016
My dear sweet Whim, it's been 11 months since your journey in Heaven began. I made my daily trip to see you. I miss you so much and my love for you has always been in my heart. I miss your smile and our moments together. I will see you one day soon......
July 22, 2016
July 22, 2016
Goodmorning Whim, today a year ago we closed on our home in Warsaw. We were finally able to not have so much to do and we could enjoy our new home in Silver Lake so much more. I miss you and i'll be at the cemetery later today. My heart aches for you.......
July 11, 2016
July 11, 2016
My dearest Whim, today makes 10 months since you and I had to part. My heart so longs to see you and to hold you close to my heart. I remember when I would lay my head on your chest and you would embrace me. We had a love that will never die. You will forever be in my heart........................
June 19, 2016
June 19, 2016
I want to wish my sweetheart a "Happy Father's" day in Heaven. I miss you so much, words fail me to express how much I long to talk with you, to lay my head on your chest. I love you tenderly and forever......
June 11, 2016
June 11, 2016
My dearest sweetheart, today it's been 9 months since your journey to Heaven began and mine here on earth being without you. There are some days that are so hard and I cry from deep within my heart. I miss you with every waking moment. I look at your pictures and long for a moment with you the way it "use to be". I will carry on until the Lord says it's my time. I miss you so much and my love for you will never be gone from my heart.........
May 11, 2016
May 11, 2016
Goodmorning Whim, today is your 70th birthday and you've also been gone 8 months today. If I could for one moment be with you just so I could just have a tender moment of our love. I miss you ALL the time and my life isn't the same anymore. You would have been excited to be able to go out for lunch and just spend the day together. We no doubt would have gone to Celina, the place of your birth. I miss you.......you'll always be in my heart.......
April 11, 2016
April 11, 2016
My dearest sweetheart, today it's been 7 months since you walked into the arms of Jesus. I was at the cemetery today and cried missing you so much. My heart forever aches for your smile your touch your laughter. I will miss you forever and I know one day that I will see you again. If I could let you see inside my heart......
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May 11, 2021
May 11, 2021
My dearest Whim, today you turn 75. I went to the cemetery this morning and sat there crying....I miss you so much. I’ve told the Lord many times that I want you back but He wanted you with Him. I will love you forever and one day I’ll see you again. Missing you always....love Er
December 22, 2020
December 22, 2020
Oh Whim I miss you!!!! I want you with me. My heart will never be the same without you. It’s almost Christmas and I remember the years of Christmas times we had. I love you forever!!!!!!
September 11, 2020
September 11, 2020
Oh my dear sweet Whim....it’s been five years since you went to heaven with Jesus. My heart is broken today. I miss you beyond words, my heart aches to have you near me. I miss you so......
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