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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Roland Schlie, 88, born on May 2, 1925 and passed away on March 29, 2014. We will remember him forever.

Roland married Marjorie Mae Sonnabend on October 21st, 1950.  Marjorie's memorial is located at Marjorie-Schlie.forevermissed.com

May 2, 2017
May 2, 2017
Happy Birthday Dad. I'm down in Florida today on the beach, where I know you loved to be. I got to see a rocket launch yesterday and it reminded me of when you, Dave and I waited to see a shuttle launch, only to have it delayed by the Florida weather. It was still fun to be there with you and Dave.

This time Marcus and I did get to see the launch, and since it was a Spacex launch we got to see the first stage return to the landing site a few minutes later. Marcus and I watched it at the same intersection that you and I were at when we saw the space shuttle land that one time. I'm really glad I got to have those moments with you and I will treasure them always.

I love you, Daddy.
October 21, 2014
October 21, 2014
Uncle Ral always sent the sweetest notes and cardsto my mom, Willie. He always included an old family photo which she loved. The last time he came to visit her, he gave her a photo album with all those favorite family photos. She looked at the photo album countless times. My Mom would never admit to having favorites, but Ral had a special place in her heart.
June 25, 2014
June 25, 2014
Our family’s memories of Roland, or Pa Schlie as we called him, all center around Cape Hatteras. We were fortunate to spend several summer vacations with the Schlie family at that beautiful location. Pa Schlie had it all figured out. After years of camping at the national park, he was a wealth of knowledge and expertise. He knew the best place and time to fish, where to get the best crab and the best barbecue. He had all the right gear and was glad to show us newcomers how to enjoy ourselves. He was quick with a good story and loved to tell of his many trips to Hatteras and how it had changed over time. Pa Schlie created a family tradition and a lasting legacy. We will always have a connection to Cape Hatteras through him.
May 2, 2014
May 2, 2014
Happy birthday, Daddy. I was looking forward to spending your birthday with you for the first time in what must be 20 years or more. But you are with Mom for your birthday, now and forever more.
May 2, 2014
May 2, 2014
I only got to meet your Dad for such a short time, but I truly enjoyed the experience! He was funny, kind and thoughtful, and so intelligent. Thank you for thinking of me! I am now Letha Reynolds Benner, married now for 5 years to an old high school friend, and moved back to my home town of Newark, Ohio!
April 21, 2014
April 21, 2014
I will always cherish the wonderful memories we've shared as a family at Cape Hatteras. Thank you for starting the traditions that we will continue to treasure for generations. You were the camping and fishing expert of the Outer Banks and your legacy will always be remembered. We love and miss you Grandpa.
April 9, 2014
April 9, 2014
I miss you, Daddy, there was so much more we wanted to share with you. I know you are at peace now.
April 9, 2014
April 9, 2014
Wish you could be here to spend this spring and summer with us. Miss you.

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May 2, 2017
May 2, 2017
Happy Birthday Dad. I'm down in Florida today on the beach, where I know you loved to be. I got to see a rocket launch yesterday and it reminded me of when you, Dave and I waited to see a shuttle launch, only to have it delayed by the Florida weather. It was still fun to be there with you and Dave.

This time Marcus and I did get to see the launch, and since it was a Spacex launch we got to see the first stage return to the landing site a few minutes later. Marcus and I watched it at the same intersection that you and I were at when we saw the space shuttle land that one time. I'm really glad I got to have those moments with you and I will treasure them always.

I love you, Daddy.
October 21, 2014
October 21, 2014
Uncle Ral always sent the sweetest notes and cardsto my mom, Willie. He always included an old family photo which she loved. The last time he came to visit her, he gave her a photo album with all those favorite family photos. She looked at the photo album countless times. My Mom would never admit to having favorites, but Ral had a special place in her heart.
June 25, 2014
June 25, 2014
Our family’s memories of Roland, or Pa Schlie as we called him, all center around Cape Hatteras. We were fortunate to spend several summer vacations with the Schlie family at that beautiful location. Pa Schlie had it all figured out. After years of camping at the national park, he was a wealth of knowledge and expertise. He knew the best place and time to fish, where to get the best crab and the best barbecue. He had all the right gear and was glad to show us newcomers how to enjoy ourselves. He was quick with a good story and loved to tell of his many trips to Hatteras and how it had changed over time. Pa Schlie created a family tradition and a lasting legacy. We will always have a connection to Cape Hatteras through him.
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Life at the End of Grand Avenue

April 27, 2014

Roland was the last of the children born at our family's dairy farm in Elgin, Illinois.  His youngest brother David was born at the hospital.  

He started school at St. Johns in Elgin in first grade where I was attending at 5th grade.  Four years later I moved on to River Forest and Roland joined me there 4 years after that.  There was always 4 years between me and Roland and 3 years between Roland and our youngest brother David.

Many winters we spend ice skating and skiing at Lord's Park in Elgin.  Many winter mornings Orlyn, Roland and David would be in the care of their older sister Wilma and we did not make her job easy. 

Roland came very close to death when he was 7 years old and his appendix burst.  He had lengthy stay in the hospital recovering and the nurses would give him a quarter if he didn't cry when he got a shot.  Amoung the nurses caring for Roland was his older sister Erna.  He missed over 2 months of school and was skinny as a rail when he finally got out.

We worked out in the fields most summers.  We younger kids would ride and direct the horse while the older boys would handle the cultivator.  We also spent a lot of time picking weeds, milking cows and doing many of the other chores the farm required. It was tough work and we would count the days until we could go back to school and get some relief.

We did enjoy threshing time because of the festive nature.  Many different people would come together to share the work and share meals.  A large steam engine powered the threshing machine and everyone could hear the noise and see the machine work.  Roland enjoyed this a lot and the machinery.

Our farm had several dogs over the years.  Roland's favorite dog was "Jumbo". (Picture)

For many years we three younger brothers were known as "Big Schlie", "Middle Schlie" and "Little Schlie" until first Roland and later David both grew taller than me and made the title "Big Schlie" a little misleading. (Picture)

For several years we both played in the band, Roland on the Claranet and I played the Trombone.  Sometimes we toured with the band on a bus in Michigan, Wisconsin, Misouri, Ohio, Indiana, Iowa and other parts of the midwest. (Picture)

Many Sundays we would hitchhike the 30 miles back to Elgin from River Forest for Church and a home-cooked supper, with our laundry bags on our backs.

The years I missed Roland the most were the years I was at River Forest and Roland was still at St. Johns.  Even though we were in different grades we still saw each other regularly when we were at the same school.

In 1943 I graduated college from Concordia Teachers College at River Forest and Roland graduated from River Forest high school. (Picture)  

Roland joined the US Navy and I began my teaching career in Misouri.  Roland began engineering school at George Williams College in Chicago and later moved to Duke University.  Then I moved to New Albany, Indiana to teach at my first call and met my future wife, Dorothy.

While I was teaching in New Albany, Roland surprised me by showing up unexpectedly at my door.  He was hitch hiking back to Elgin from Duke on break and his route took him through Louisville.  The people around thought I was a little cuckoo because of my exited reaction upon seeing my brother out of the blue.  It was easy for guys in Navy uniforms to get a ride during the war.  (Picture)

My sister Wilma and I were able join Roland for his graduation from Duke in May of 1946. (Picture)



 

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