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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Ronald McCafferty, Jr., 34 years old, born on September 28, 1978, and passed away on October 1, 2012. We will remember him forever.
September 28, 2023
September 28, 2023
Happy Birthday 45th years old now. Gone for 11 years . Shirley and I like to say Hello and we miss you. We going out to dinner to celebrate your birthday. 
Medicine came a long way since you were called home. You would love Great Granddaughters Milan and Malia. They special girls with needs. They have a wonderful spirit to themselves and never complain about their health problems.
You are missed  yiu never be forgotten.
Love
Dad and Shirley
September 28, 2022
September 28, 2022
Hey Son,

Happy Birthday to you. Shirley and I was talking about you and the fun we use to have. I talked to Kim yesterday about your birthday so she might drop you a line. Hard to believe it's been 10 years since your death. You would be 44 years old. WE all wish you was still here.
God Bless RIP
Your Dad Ron Sr.
November 17, 2021
November 17, 2021
You was my brother and my best friend since we was in diapers. There was nothing we wouldn't do for each other. I will always love you and forever miss you. Love You Forever Your brother JJ.
September 28, 2021
September 28, 2021
Happy Heavenly Birthday little brother!
I wish that we had more time together…I will always treasure the times that we did share. I’ve loved you since the day that you were born and that love will last forever… Rest easy my baby…until we meet again…you’ll be forever in my heart!
September 27, 2021
September 27, 2021
Hi Son,
Well tomorrow is your 43rd Birthday and October 1st will mark your 9th year of your death.
Shirley and I was talking about you yesterday and today. We both miss you, your laugh and our talks. We know you in a better place, with no pain and as it states in the Bible and new body. I pray it is so with you Son as you deserve to Rest In Peace as life was hard on you.
I contact Kim and see if she won't leave you a message or something. Just have to wait and see on this one LOL.
I hanging in there, had much better days. I thank God for Shirley as she been a pillow of strength for me. The Lord Blessed my with her and having you as my Son. You RIP and we will see you in heave when we are called home.
Oh, I have a cat name Butchie. He is a real character. Shirley not crazy about it as she not that found of cats. You would love him.
Take care and I love you Ron-Ron
September 28, 2020
September 28, 2020
Happy Birthday to you Son, today you would have been 42 years old! Looks like you trying to catch me. LOL
Shirley says Hello and also Happy Birthday. We both miss you and wish you were still here. Shirley would have made you your favorite Lemon cake for you.
October 1st is right around the corner now. Will be your 8th year since your death. Sometimes it seems much longer and other times not so long. I miss us going fishing, having our laughs, and cutting up.
Kim and I are talking some now, since your death. She dealing with some things with her daughter Diamond and her twins. I have to stop by and say hello to you tomorrow.
RIP Son, We love you and you are dearly missed.
Love
Dad
August 13, 2020
August 13, 2020
Hey Ron-ron, time is flying by and it's not slowing down. This October 1st will be 8 years since your death. I be 72 years old soon and I miss you everyday. I am sorry that we did not get a chance to have 1 more big conversation. We had many but I still would have like 1 more.
This might make you happy, Kim and I are talking a little now since 10-1-12. She taking care of her daughter twins. I am trying to do things a little different now. I finally came out and told her why we were distance. I held it in your years, but yesterday I kinda blow up and laid it out on the line for her. So who know, too much too soon or to late and too little to get things right. I did my best.
I went fishing the other day and thought of you and the fun we had fishing together and with your grandfather on Lake Erie. Those were the days. Well,
I will not bore you any longer today. Just a note to say hi, as you were 1 year older in September an another year on your death. I Love you Son, Shirley and I talk alot about you. She misses you as well.
RIP
Dad
September 28, 2019
September 28, 2019
9-28-2019 your 41st Birthday and in 3 days your 7th year in passing. Seems so long ago but at times like yesterday.
All I can do now is hold on to my memories and just say, Happy Birthday Son. Shirley and I going to go out have dinner in your memories later today. We miss you, our conversations, trips to Ohio and Ocean City, our fun.
I love you Ron-ron or rather we love you .
RIP
Dad
October 1, 2018
October 1, 2018
Well it is the sixth year of your passing away, Son. I went to my 50th Class Reunion 27 and your birthday 28th. I told all my class mates about you and all said they were sorry and that you RIP.
Rest In Peace my Son, Shirley and I miss you, we still share memories of you and we still talk some many things about you.
God Bless you Ronald
Love Dad
September 20, 2018
September 20, 2018
Hi Ron Ron....I still find myself getting angry this time of the year. I so wish that you were still here with us. I sit here thinking what did I do wrong, why wasn't I there and my mind just clouds up on me.
You have no ideal the hole that was left in my and others hearts because of your death. You would be 40 years old next Friday and these last 6 years has gone slow. Your so called friends cause this your death starting with Robert (Bobby) , Peter and the rest of them. I hope they are happy because they made many of sad hearts and filled with pain.
I love you Son, from the time I saw you born that Thursday night and still now 40 years later. Rest in Peace Ronald I pray that when my time come and I call home I will be able to embrace you again.
Love Dad
September 28, 2017
September 28, 2017
Good Morning Ron and Happy Birthday Son. I wish I could just say this to you instead of writing a tribute. I know you are in a better place, but still, I wish you were here.
Oct 1st is 3 days away now, as it marks 5 years since you pass on. It has been a long 5 years without you. Shirley and I miss you and we still talk so much about life that we share when you was alive.
God Bless you Son and we love and miss you.
REST IN PEACE SON
Love
Dad
June 21, 2017
June 21, 2017
Hi Ron-Ron,
Shirley and I was talking about you these last couple of weeks. Seems so strange known that it will be 5 years October since your death.
We talked about the time you ate the whole box of vanilla waffles and jar of dill pickers at the beach. You got so mad as they were closing the beach at 9pm. You didn't want to go home as had day light.
You are so missed Son. I am so sorry that you are gone. Shirley has been a pillar of strength for me when you died. Gervon help out too, as she stood in like a daughter to me. I have to thank Janet (Boss) for her patience's and talks to me. I thank God for each of them and for HIS help as well. I wish I could hug you one more time Son. You went too fast.
I Love You
Dad
September 26, 2016
September 26, 2016
Well Ron Ron,
Sept 28th 2016 is around the corner now. It would have been your birthday. You had your birthday on that Friday and that Monday 10-1-12 you never got up.
You are always on my mind, heart and I still get upset knowing you not here and the reason why! I try to forget and forgive but you know me. It is extremely hard for me to do that.
Shirley and I talk, laugh about some of the things in the past that we did with you. It fells good but then there a part of me that is sad.
I going to Ohio next weekend, I so wish you were here to go with me. You so loved going to Ohio on the farm, fishing and shooting the guns.
I love you Son and as Shirley , we both know you in a better place.
Love you
Dad and Shirley
September 28, 2015
September 28, 2015
"I can't seem to get my sleep now any old night,
Mr Sandman passes by my door;
Life has changed since you've been there to say it's alright,
You taught me to understand what I thought couldn't be,
Don't mind missing sleep if I can see:
Colours of my life,
You've got love to fill my heart;
I don't need a rainbow
With colours of my life,
Colours of my life.

Colours blend with love to show I'm happy with you,
I can never be the same again;
Now my eyes are looking past the life that I knew,
I'll be shedding black and grey to take on red and blue,
Colours I can feel like touching you:
Colours of my life,
Bloom like flowers in my heart;
Loving you has shown me
Colours of my life,
Colours of my life,
Bloom like flowers in my heart;
Loving you has shown me
Colours of my life,
Colours of my life,
Colours of my life."

Seekers - Colours Of My Life Lyrics | MetroLyrics
September 28, 2015
September 28, 2015
Happy Birthday Ron-Ron!! Shirley and I miss you so much. I often pray for you as a BIG part of me went with you that day. I don't understand why you was call home early but, I know not to question the reason. I thank God for each day you was here. We love you and may you always rest in peace.
October 1, 2014
October 1, 2014
Ron, my love for you continues still. You left us too early. There's not a day that goes by when I don't think of you. The place of your death continues to be a shrine; I always pass that room and hope to find you there.
September 29, 2014
September 29, 2014
Ron I left a note yesterday on your birthday. However it did not take for some reason. So Happy Birthday again Son. Shirley and I miss you and we still share our memories about you. It hard to believe that you would have been 36 years and October 1st will mark your 2 years going home to the Lord. Continue to Rest in Peace Son. We love you Dad and Shirley.
September 29, 2014
September 29, 2014
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CUZ (RON)!!! MAY YOU CONTINUE TO REST IN PEACE!! I MISS AND LOVE YOU.......MAN YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN OLD TOO!! LOL IM GONNA SEND SOMETHING UP TO YOU LATER, MAKE SURE YOU GET IT!!
October 21, 2013
October 21, 2013
Ron-Ron
Its been a little over a year since you were call home to the Lord. Shirley and I miss you so much. Your laugh, our talks, going fishing and going to Ohio. So many things and such little time. Shirley and I went to where you are laid to rest. We said hello and prayed and thank God you are in peace. Love you Son...DAD
October 1, 2013
October 1, 2013
Hey Ron I can't believe it's been a year that you've been gone!! Wow how time is flying by.....I just want to say Happy Belated Birthday and that I Love You and Miss You very much!!
September 28, 2013
September 28, 2013
Happy Birthday Ron! Although I am unable to be with you on your special day- I am always with you in spirit. I love you forever and Zeke and Isis say Hi!
October 30, 2012
October 30, 2012
Ron, Glad to see your no longer in pain or suffering, but the whole that is left in our hearts will never go away. Our father has called you home so that he can take care of you!!! Although we wasn't finished with you The Lord saw your pain!! I will miss you deeply and love you forever!!! Rest In Eternal Peace cousin
October 29, 2012
October 29, 2012
Ronald, you were a friend, nephew, confidant and yin to my yang. We have had so many ups and downs and have become closer for it. I will never forget you and will miss you on a daily basis. RIP!

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September 28, 2023
September 28, 2023
Happy Birthday 45th years old now. Gone for 11 years . Shirley and I like to say Hello and we miss you. We going out to dinner to celebrate your birthday. 
Medicine came a long way since you were called home. You would love Great Granddaughters Milan and Malia. They special girls with needs. They have a wonderful spirit to themselves and never complain about their health problems.
You are missed  yiu never be forgotten.
Love
Dad and Shirley
September 28, 2022
September 28, 2022
Hey Son,

Happy Birthday to you. Shirley and I was talking about you and the fun we use to have. I talked to Kim yesterday about your birthday so she might drop you a line. Hard to believe it's been 10 years since your death. You would be 44 years old. WE all wish you was still here.
God Bless RIP
Your Dad Ron Sr.
November 17, 2021
November 17, 2021
You was my brother and my best friend since we was in diapers. There was nothing we wouldn't do for each other. I will always love you and forever miss you. Love You Forever Your brother JJ.
Recent stories

Drop The Bomb On Me, Baby!

October 22, 2013

This was Ron-ron favorite song when he was little. Everytime the record came on he would start singing it. I can still hear his child voice singing that song. He loved it.

His favorite commerical was the black and white Cherios. When it came on tv, he stop what ever he was doing and run to the tv. He sit there and just starred at the screen. When it went off, he would take off.


One time at Lake Erie, Ron-ron was 9 yrs old. We were fishing with my Dad and his wife. Ron-ron hook on a big fish. He fought that Walleye for about 5 minutes. He got it to side of the boat and his line broke. He started to cry and my father told him that he would catch his fish.
 This is not fish story. My father threw in his plug and 10-20 seconds later he hooked this fish. When he pulled it into the boat, it had Ron-rons plug still hook in its mouth.
Ronald jumped up and just hugged his grandfather like there was no tomorrow. I just looked at my dad and shook my head.  True Story
 So many more but I stop there. What a great kid, smart, looks, I miss my boy.      

October 1, 2013
Hey Ron, I thought I should share this: Tim, Cierra, Tay and I was laughing the other day about the time you was living in Bowie and you decided to ride your bike over to our house. You and the kids had this great plan to go bike riding ( knowing we were fried) but that didn't matter to you anything to be with the kids!! We'll the next thing I know you came in all messed up because you bike flipped and you went rolling!! You laughed it off around us but I know deep down inside you were hurting!! Boy we laughed for days and weeks after that happened......the kids still laugh when they think about it!! How about the time Me you Bobby and Ty was in your basement ( maybe I shouldn't share that too much for this site, but the times we had was always good fun. We love you, and cherish all the memories!! CONTINUE TO REST IN ETERNAL PEACE BABY TIL WE MEET AGAIN

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