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Update August 19, 2021

Please note that the que referenced below is actual a car que, not on foot.  You should line up in your car at 1:45 in the lanes at the admin building.  Please see this map. https://www.cem.va.gov/CEM/cems/maps/IndiantownGap...

Update June 29, 2021

The internment service has been scheduled for August 20 at 2pm at Fort Indiantown Gap National Cemetery.  The service will run from 2pm to 2:30pm.  There will be a military honor guard.  I have been told that this is a military operation so timeliness is critical.  If you are attending this service, please arrive at the cemetery office at 1:45pm.  They will form a que to direct people to the service site.  Do not arrive early or late as you may be directed to the wrong service. The address for the cemetery is:

60 Indiantown Gap Road
Annville, PA 17003-9618

The website: https://www.cem.va.gov/cems/nchp/indiantowngap.asp

Also, please see the posting below for information about the memorial picnic on Saturday August 21, 2021.


Update June 9, 2021

Covid made memorial services in 2020 a somewhat impersonal and distant proposition.  During the on line service we stated that there would be another point when we would try to gather following Covid.  We are following through with this.  We are holding a joyful day of remembrance at H.M. Levitz Memorial Park in Grantville PA on August 21st from noon until 5pm.  The park was chosen by my Mom with guidance from my 6 year old niece Noni.  Noni officially certified the park playground and trails as kid approved.   The plan is for this to be a day of remembrance, joy and fun for all ages.  My Dad would have wanted it that way.  Additionally, an internment service will be held in August at Indiantown Gap.  The date is still being finalized but we are trying to hold it on August 20, 2021.

The family of course would love to see you in person, but please do not feel obligated to attend either of these gatherings.  The comments placed on the memorial web site and the many cards and other condolences that the family received made it very evident how you all viewed my Dad.  If you do choose to come to the picnic at the park, please bring a joyful attitude, a smile and your best Ron stories.

While it is not required, it would be helpful to know if you are planning to attend.  Please email Jamie at jdegraph@netscape.net if you will be attending or if you have any questions.

Some more info:
H.M. Levitz Memorial Park
28 Park Drive
Grantville, PA 17028
Pavillion 2
Aug 21, 2021 from Noon to 5pm
Food provided
There is no electric at the pavilion
Park Website
https://visitlebanonvalley.com/business/levitz-par...

The park is about 5 minutes from Indiantown Gap National Cemetery and about 15 minutes to Hershey.





Thank you all for your prayers and support.  The recording of the streaming service can be found here: 

Memorial Stream Link 

(In the time of Covid, we are relating on line as much as possible.  The family invites you to add to the gallery and stories areas of this site or in the tribute section at the bottom of this screen, as a way to socialize our remembrance of Ron)

Ronald L. Dugan, 84, of Hershey, passed away Friday, October 16, 2020, at his home with his family by his side.

Ron was born in Nicholson Township, Fayette County on June 30, 1936, the son of the late Lindley and Mildred Mallory Dugan.

Ron was a 1954 graduate of Centerville High School. He served in the U.S. Air Force where he began his career in computing when this field was just beginning. He used that knowledge to help establish the data processing system for Pennsylvania American Water Company from which he retired after 42 years of service. He was a member of Spring Creek Church of the Brethren, Hershey; and an associate member of New Hope Baptist Church, Port Orange, FL. He was a member of Lions Clubs including the former Sand Hill Lions Club.

He was an avid Steelers fan. Besides being with his family and enjoying winters in Florida, Ron found great pleasure in helping others especially in unexpected ways.

Ron is survived by his wife of almost 66 years, Patricia A. McCarthy Dugan; two sons, Kenneth R. Dugan husband of Jenny of Wyomissing, and James R. Dugan husband of Mihae of Montvale, NJ; two grandchildren, Elizabeth Rowand wife of Eric, and Robinson Dugan fiancé of Elizabeth Maio; one great granddaughter, Adelaide Rowand; one sister, Shirley Staley of Port Ritchie, FL; one brother, Richard Dugan and Miquel of Santa Rosa, CA; and several nieces and nephews.

In addition to his parents, Ron was preceded in death by a brother and sister-in-law, Jerry and Mary Jane Dugan; and brother-in-law, Otis Staley.

A graveside service with military honors will be held at Indiantown Gap National Cemetery, Annville, at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be sent to his church, Spring Creek Church of the Brethren, 335 Areba Avenue, Hershey, PA 17033; or to the Hershey Lions Club, PO Box 243, Hershey, PA 17033. Please be sure to write “Ronald Dugan Memorial” on the memo line of your check.

Donations can also be made on line at https://www.springcreekcob.org/give/

October 25, 2020
October 25, 2020
Carrie, Kitty,Kay and Mary watched the wonderful memorial service today. Ron was a great friend to all of us. We enjoyed our euchue card games(Iam sure I spell it wrong) Wednesday trips to the Dairy Queen for banana splits and conversations. He will be greatly missed. Keeping you and your family in our prayer.
October 24, 2020
October 24, 2020
I feel very lucky to have had a third set of grandparents growing up, and have wonderful memories of visiting Grandma Dugan and Pap in my young and adult life. I always loved visiting Hershey and seeing them at family gatherings and holidays, and feel grateful that they always made me feel like family. Pap - I will miss your kind heart and smile. Thank you for showing my family so much love throughout my life.
October 24, 2020
October 24, 2020
We ,in the Kinnear family, are mourning the loss of a true gentleman. Ron was like a brother to me and we shared so many fun times together in the muddy fields of Hershey at the antique car swap meet. Our thoughts and prayers, in this difficult time, go to the extended Dugan family.
October 22, 2020
October 22, 2020
We have had the privilege of having Ron as a member of our family for the past 40 years, since Jenny married Ken. Our hearts are heavy as a result of his passing: however, we cherish the time we had. His legacy certainly lives on, through the tremendous character of his two sons, that he and Pat raised to be wonderful husbands and fathers. We trust that you will find peace and comfort in time. May his memory be a blessing.
October 22, 2020
October 22, 2020
My husband Jim worked with Ron at AWW and both Ron and Pat became lifelong friends of ours. Ron’s humor and kindness made him special and he will be missed. My heart goes out to Pat and her family. He is in God’s Grace now. 
October 22, 2020
October 22, 2020
From Tom Griffiths
Ron and I were co-workers, but more importantly friends. Lynne and I are so blessed to have had Ron and Pat in our lives for so many years. He will certainly be missed. Prayers for the family.
October 22, 2020
October 22, 2020
We will remember Ron for his gentle manner and friendliness. Jim remembers Ron's funny emails. He will be missed.

Janet and Jim Maynard
October 22, 2020
October 22, 2020
May God Give you Love, Peace, Strength and Guidance as you recall all of the wonderful times throughout the years that you and Ron shared together. It has been a pleasure being a part of your neighboring family.
October 22, 2020
October 22, 2020
Ron was one of the best people I have ever known. Ron and Pat were loyal friends to my Mom Sandy Coomes and brother Tom after my Father passed. We always had good laughs when Ron was around. Praying for you Pat and family during this time.
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
From Ruth Fabery
So sorry for you loss. Praying that God will comfort you and your entire family.
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
From Janet Pedersen Dahl
So sorry to hear about he passing of your dad. Will be praying for you and your family in the days ahead.
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
From Ruthann Anderson
We are praying for you as you grieve...”The Lord is close to the broken-hearted.”
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
From Dan Unger
Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
From Sherri Natalie
I'm so sorry for the loss of your dad. We are praying for you and your whole family.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Gwen Matthews
Ron was a wonderful man with a great sense of humor and so much love for his family and friends. I’m so sorry for your loss, Pat. ❤️❤️
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Claudia Ezem
Oh Mrs. Dugan I am so so sorry for this unimaginable loss! I am praying so hard for you and your family! God bless you. Know that Ron is resting with the Lord!
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Virginia Lukas
Pat, sorry to hear of the passing of Ron. Extending our deepest sympathy to you & your family.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Barb Coomes Klinepeter
Jamie and Family, your Dad
was one of the nicest people I have ever met. He had a huge heart. After my Dad passed away, your Mother and Father were such loyal friends to my Mother and my brother Tom. I will cherish all the memories of time with your Dad. I have some great pictures with him and Tom. He really loved Tom. My heart hurts for you and your Mom, but she’s a strong woman. I’m glad they had a long marriage together and I know how much they love their family. Will be praying for comfort for all of you. This stage of life and losing our parents is a really hard time but I hope you can all remember the wonderful memories of what a great man he truly was.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Dedra Fritch
Yes he was a good man, Pat. A friend to all. You and your family are constantly in our thoughts. Love you all.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Jan Bowman Tshudy
Ron was such a great person, so caring, honest and kind. I loved all his funny stories which Pat always helped to embellish. We always had fun whenever we were with them. Rest In Peace ... We are really going to miss him. ❤️
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Leesa Fields Holloway
So thankful God planted us near to each other in Florida so that we could grow to know and love Ron and Patricia Dugan. What a wonderful couple! Ron will be sorely missed.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Janice Vizthum Rising
Thank you Jamie for sharing with us. We loved ur Dad & he will be missed here in Fl. Sorry for ur loss.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Paula Haas Seebold
Patricia Dugan, We are so sorry to hear of Ron's passing. We are so blessed to have know both of you. You are both wonderful people. Heaven has gained another wonderful angel! Love and Hugs.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Joann Gunkel Braman-Miller
Pat, Larry and I are saddened to hear of Ron’s passing. We have such fond memories of you two and playing Euchre at Treasure Isle. I’ve heard it said that people may forget what you said but they remember how they made you feel. And that is true here. I have the warmest memory of Ron’s kindness from the first time I met him. We will miss him, but always remember him for being a truly wonderful man. Very sorry for your loss. Sending our love and prayers.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From William Walker
Thanks Jamie for these wonderful moments of Ron. I ‘ll miss him a lot. I thank God for knowing him. Much Love to Pat and the family. God bless you all.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Wendy Stacks
So sorry for your family’s loss! Pat & Ron were good role models for all of us! Sending prayers your way!
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Harry Wilson
Oh I’m so sorry to hear of Ron’s passing. He was a very nice man and I remember him well from the old Central School teacher get togethers with Pat.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Deb Brown
Pat, I am very sorry for your loss. I remember how he made lunch for your mom everyday when you were teaching third grade. He was such a kind, thoughtful man...❤️
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Dorothy Rollins
Thank you for sharing with us. Your Dad and Mom have added so much joy to my life and to our church family. I will sure miss him. My love and prayers are with your family
God be with you all.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From June Olivia Chaplin McDougald
Thank you so much for sharing with us. I am so sorry that he passed away but happy to know he's with the Lord and we will see him again someday.
Your family is in my prayers to help you through your loss.
Love in Christ
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
So sorry. May God Bless and Comfort you - Pat - and your family during the loss of your Husband/Father. He was a good Friend to know.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Christine DeMarco Ward
So sorry for your loss.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Carla Lombardo

Prayers for your family
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Jamie Minyon
Very sorry to hear about the loss of your dad, Jamie. Sincerest condolences. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Tammi Golik-Opfer

So sorry for your loss. Sending healing prayers to you & your family.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Mary Jo Ignatius
My sympathy and prayers to you and your family.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Barb Kugler Palatucci

So sorry for your loss, sending prayers
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From David B Carlson
Bonnie and I send our sincerest condolences to you and your family. We pray that you find God's love in the comfort and support of those who surround you.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Linda Czaja
So sorry for your loss. Rest in Peace Mr. Dugan. Prayers sent for you and your family Jamie.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Jan Warner
So sorry to hear about your Dad. Sending prayers for you and your family.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Kathy Singer Donnelly
Deepest sympathy for the loss of your dad !
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Phil Helderlein
You have my deepest sympathies and prayers to you and your family. I am sorry for your loss Jamie.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Timothy Mahoney
Sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Gail McIntosh
Condolences to you and Family. Sorry for your loss
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Robin Coffman McMasters
So sorry to hear of your dad's passing. Wishing you peace and loving memories.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Ernie Scalabrin
So sorry for your loss Jaime. Praying for you all during this difficult time.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Judy Smith-Gralewski
I’m so very sorry. Keeping you and your family In prayer.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Kendal R. Miller
I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Kevin Nast
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.....
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
From Leon Armitano
I'm sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences.
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October 25, 2020
October 25, 2020
Carrie, Kitty,Kay and Mary watched the wonderful memorial service today. Ron was a great friend to all of us. We enjoyed our euchue card games(Iam sure I spell it wrong) Wednesday trips to the Dairy Queen for banana splits and conversations. He will be greatly missed. Keeping you and your family in our prayer.
October 24, 2020
October 24, 2020
I feel very lucky to have had a third set of grandparents growing up, and have wonderful memories of visiting Grandma Dugan and Pap in my young and adult life. I always loved visiting Hershey and seeing them at family gatherings and holidays, and feel grateful that they always made me feel like family. Pap - I will miss your kind heart and smile. Thank you for showing my family so much love throughout my life.
October 24, 2020
October 24, 2020
We ,in the Kinnear family, are mourning the loss of a true gentleman. Ron was like a brother to me and we shared so many fun times together in the muddy fields of Hershey at the antique car swap meet. Our thoughts and prayers, in this difficult time, go to the extended Dugan family.
His Life

An overview of Dad's life after meeting Mom

October 25, 2020
Dad meets Mom
They met at the Drive In. Woo Hoo, sounds racy, but they met while working at the snack bar.

First Date - 16
Roscoe Township Fair – My Dad knew the operator of the Ferris wheel and he had him keep them together for over an hour, only stopping them at the top.

Married – 18
My parents were married at age 18. This should be a surprise to no one. – My Dad was late to his wedding. My mom does insist that this time it was not his fault.

The Air Force
The newlyweds moved to Hummelstown, the town next to Hershey.
Mom was in charge of the US Air Defense – Dad was notoriously difficult to wake up. When he was in charge of waking the base up, it was my mother who would call him repeatedly to make certain he performed this vital duty. He was told he had an aptitude for Radar and IBM; which do you want. He did not want to stare at a radar screen and he did not know what IBM was but he chose it to avoid radar.
The air force sent him to school for computing.
Dad was stationed in Morocco and was separated from his new bride. He always managed to get home for Christmas. One such trip nearly cost him his life, a story we heard repeatedly.

Ken arrives entering the world at Harrisburg Hospital
Dad taught me what not to say to a new mother. He told my mom after seeing Ken at birth that he looked like a drowned rat. While I always thought this was an apt description I did notice that my Dad paid for it for at least 30 years. The mere fact that I, born two years later, know every detail of this story should tell you how long my Dad paid for this one truthful indiscretion.

Out of the Air force and back to Pittsburgh
After four years in the military Dad accepted a job with Westinghouse only to walk headlong into a strike. Needing immediate employment, he instead accepted a job with Pennsylvania American Water Company where he would work until his retirement.

Wonderful son number two
Jamie is born. All was right with the world. Weeks later, Dad was told his new child would die and there was nothing they could do about it. Dad did not accept this and had me rushed to Children’s hospital. Needless to say, it worked out.

Moving and building our house
Dad bought a model home where he was working part time as a sales agent and had it moved to Forward Township. The installation and final construction started in 1960 and Dad was able to finish it promptly in 1984.

Friendships made and friendships brought
There were many friendships developed over the years in Forward Township, far too many to mention. But they did bring one friendship with them from Donora. The White family has been lifelong friends with my mother since nursery school and my Dad since high school. My mom found the house for sale that the Whites liked enough to buy; twice.

Granny
My grandparents, my mom’s parents, lived in Forward Township. When my Granpa died in 1967 Granny came to live with us. Dad never, ever questioned this and did all he could to welcome her and to make her an integral part of our home.

The boomerang effect
In the early 80s Pennsylvania American Water Co moved their headquarters to Hershey. By 1984 my parents were back in Hershey just a few miles from their first apartment.

Daughters in law and Grand kids
Though it defies reason Ken and Jamie managed to get married and had two wonderful Grandchildren who in turn got married or engaged and had one great grand daughter. Dad loved them all and always, always, always let them know it.

Life is strange
Herm White was the first of my parents friends to retire. They moved to be by their Daughter Cheri in Port Orange Florida. One by one my parents, Browns, Jerry and Mary Anderson, the pastor from our church in Elizabeth and his extended friends all moved by Cheri and Scott in Port Orange. When I would visit it honestly felt like I was visiting the street I grew up on.

Life moves on
Over the ensuing years there were many many good times at Giuseppe's Pittsburgh restaurant, beaches and clubhouses. As life goes, we have lost Herk Brown, Jerry Anderson, Herm White about a year ago and now my Dad.

Childhood by Shirley Staley (Sister)

October 25, 2020
 Ron and I were born on Jacobs Creek Road on my grandmother’s and grandfather’s farm at the end of the depression. My father lost his grocery store in Masontown because people could not pay their bills.

Ron and our family spent the next five years with our grandparents. We spent many years at the Brethren church with family and neighbors participating in Sunday School, Vacation Bible School, and Church Socials. We were baptized into the Brethren religion.

My grandfather was the superintendent of schools in Nickelson Township Pa. He was also a gentleman farmer. As children, Ron and I gathered eggs and watched cows being milked. About one fourth of the property had a large garden. Brother Ron enjoyed working with Grandfather Mallory, planting corn, and pumpkins. The back of the garden had a big strawberry patch.

My grandmother and I planted cucumbers, onions, carrots, lettuce, and peppers. My grandmother, mother and aunts would preserve much of this garden for the winter. They were incredible cooks and bakers. They made their own butter jellies and apple butter.

Ron and I played in the attic with the pump organ and many antiques. We also played under the porch and in the sandbox under the grape vineyards.

My grandfather drove an old car on a dirt road and taught Ron and I how to drive at a young age. Ron loved to drive that old car.

I remember us listening to FDR’s Fireside talks on an old radio. This was the end of the depression.

We lived on Jacobs Creek with my grandmother and grandfather and family until we were four and five years old. All holidays including Christmas, Easter and birthdays were great celebrations.

My grandparents and family were loving kind, people and we were fortunate children. Ron and I spent many summers with our grandparents.

Recent stories

Internment Service

August 21, 2021
From the internment service on August 20, 2021

Dad

My dad was not a flashy speaker or a deep theologian well versed in apologetics but he did fundamentally believe the Christian message that the only way to be reconciled to a holy God was through a belief and acceptance that Jesus Christ was his unique Son who came to us to die for our sins so that we could be reconciled and judged forgiven by God. That belief was the cornerstone of my dad’s life.

My dad believed that the core message to love one another should be lived out not just with words but with actions. My dad fundamentally loved people; even ones he didn’t like; he loved.

As my mother just stated, my dad wanted to be interned here at a military cemetery. The military places a limit of one line of 13 characters and a second line of 9 characters including spaces on a headstone or plaque. That works out to be about four short words.

How to communicate a life in four words. That is quite a task. “If you can help, help” - too many characters and it really didn’t say enough. “He loved people” “He lived, he loved” - too cliche and did not communicate what was needed. We went on with these without something we felt communicated his life and wishes for those that come after him effectively.

We turned to the Bible:

In Christian circles it has become popular to encourage young Christians to chose a “life verse”; a guiding verse that is intended to anchor someone in Christian beliefs or how they live life as a Christian. To the best of my knowledge, my dad did not have a life verse, at least one that was written down or even consciously thought out, but he absolutely had a verse that he believed, lived and defined who he was.

1 John 3:18

Let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.

My dad absolutely believed that you are saved from sin through faith in Christ and trust that Christ was who he claimed to be, but he also believed that faith without living out that faith through active practical love of others was not something that was comprehensible and was without real meaning.

This man in the photo with my mom lived out helping others, this man who raised my brother and I lived out helping others, from what I am told, this man who is in this air force photo and even the child before him, lived out helping others. I can absolutely tell you that what energized my dad, what gave him joy and life satisfaction was honesty and loving others with practical help. He believed this was the core message of how a Christian who had been saved from sin by Christ should live and he lived this at every opportunity.

The 11 characters of this verse let us concisely summarize the core of my dad and his wish for all of us and it is the inscription that will be on his burial plaque.

My dad absolutely believed that he will be immediately in heaven with Christ upon his death and not in this urn or grave site but we who are still here seem to have a connection with a place to consider the life of the person we knew. When you are at my dads site, please consider how the trust in the Christian message impacted my dad both here on earth and for eternity and how he lived and wanted us to live this verse.

October 23, 2020
My mom and Pat have been friends since they were in high school. I can’t remember a time when my mom and dad weren’t great friends with Pat and Ron.  They have been like family to my family. My earliest memories are of living up the road from them in Forward Township, PA. I played with Kenny and Jamie… although I remember they sometimes would run away, because girls had cooties. Mostly we had fun. Then they moved away to Hershey. But my mom and dad still kept in touch with the Dugans, they still visited back and forth.

They eventually each bought a mobile home in a 55-plus park in Port Orange, Florida, and resumed their close every day friendship while in Florida for the winters. My dad and Pat did most of the talking when they got together, but I remember Ron liked to interject jokes and wry observations and the occasional story into the conversation.

When I grew up and moved to New Hampshire, I did not see them very frequently. I remember when I did see them, Ron would often have a small present for me and my family, usually something he had picked up at the flea market they loved to frequent on weekends. I remember one time it was a “all-in-one” desk tool. I think it had scissors, a stapler, a ruler? Etc. all in one handy tool. I might still have it somewhere… never knew exactly what to do with it though. But most of his gifts were very much appreciated, like the warm child sized comforters for our N.H. winters, or, on our most recent visit, the small stuffed red gorilla they gave to my granddaughter.

I’ve heard that although you might forget exactly what someone says or does, you never forget how they make you feel. With Ron, the occasions when I saw him often felt like a bear hug. Sometimes quite literally. But I felt his warmth and his humor and his generosity.


I am very grateful for the “almost as close as family” friendship the Dugans had with my mom and dad. I am very grateful for Pat and Ron’s continued closeness to my sister Cheri and her family in Florida, and my sister Cindy and her husband in Pennsylvania. I will miss seeing Ron in Florida. I send my love to Pat and the family.

October 22, 2020
From childhood to adulthood, the Dugan family has always been part of our family. 
Growing up near Pittsburgh, of course we were Steelers fans. With Ron & Herm, we had
not one but two - Pittsburgh Dads!  Plus all of our uncles, cousins, friends....

During college, Ron was my first boss at my first real job at the water company. 
He was also instrumental in helping me start my career at HACC after college.
Ron & Pat opened up their home for me to live with them during my transition from Elizabeth to Harrisburg.

I realize now how reassuring it was to know that Ron always looked out for me. 
He brought out the best in those he knew, and always had a twinkle in his eye.
Forever grateful and indebted.

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