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This Celebration of Life website was created in the memory of our loved one, Rose Milbeck and...Darby of course.  Rose was born on August 9, 1947 and passed away on May 21, 2011. Darby passed shortly thereafter. We will remember her and Darby forever.

Rose's Memorial Service titled "A Celebration of Rose's Independence" was held on July 4, 2011.  Many friends and business associates celebrated with Rose's family. She actually has many families come to think of it.  Immediate family, Aviation Family, Coaching Family, Hawaii families (known as various pods) and Friends who she treated as  Family.  Many tears, a beautiful slide show , a video featuring Christine Ortner, her son, Rose and Darby and a remarkable flyover by Janet Nottingham (thank you Janet!). What a wonderful Day!  One notable discussion was around "connectivity".  Rose connected many, was connected to many and loved by many.

Please continue to share stories and light candles and share this site with those who knew Rose.

 

May 21, 2013
May 21, 2013
Rose, you've been on my mind and in my thoughts more so recently, as I'm about to take a big step into an ambitious goal. I know I have your support in doing this--just wish I could talk to you about it. I miss you being on the same plane as me, but I know your energy persists and that you and Darby are smiling and cuddling.
August 9, 2012
August 9, 2012
I know many people are thinking of Rose today on the 65th anniversary of her birth. I am so grateful for her life and the positive impact she had on so many. I think of her so often. I miss her but feel the joy of knowing she and Darby are happy.
May 21, 2012
May 21, 2012
Rose, today is the first anniversary of your departure from this planet and I'm reminded of how much you gave me through your mentoring, coaching and friendship. I'm deeply grateful that Kathleen connected us and that from that lunch meeting with you, my life was transformed. I miss you. I hope you and Darby are whole and happy in the great beyond. Fly high, my friend! I love you.
September 15, 2011
September 15, 2011
Rose, you re-sparked my love of flying. You taught me so much and for that I will be forever greatful. You will be in my thoughts everytime I fly. I know you will be right there next to me and in that, I find comfort. As soon as I pop this kiddo out lets hit the skies together!
August 28, 2011
August 28, 2011
Dear Rose, I am going flying today for the first time without you. I'm going with Paul's instructor, John. I'll be thinking of you the whole time and hearing your voice guiding me as you always did. "Pitch to speed, power to altitude." I miss you so much! Love, Chris
August 9, 2011
August 9, 2011
I've been thinking of you all day, Rosie! And I know you know how much I miss you. Much, much love, old friend. Your smile and your laughter will be with me forever! Peg
August 9, 2011
August 9, 2011
Thanks for letting me know today is Rose's birthday--she reminds me to appreciate each moment, each experience--and to wink at life.
August 9, 2011
August 9, 2011
I celebrate you, Rose, today and every day. Knowing you and sharing life's adventures has been one of the greatest blessings of my life. Love and remember you FOREVER!
July 4, 2011
July 4, 2011
Beloved Rose, you are my dolphin sister and forever friend. We've worked and played, laughed and cried, dived deep and flown high, together. Even now, in the silent stillness of my heart, you are always there. I love, treasure and remember you always. Ke akua aloha pu me 'oe.
July 4, 2011
July 4, 2011
Rose. I said goodbye today the best way I could,in an airplane. As I circled your friends and family gathered below and waved goodbye with the wings I remembered that you used to refer to me as the "Been there Done that Pilot". Today I finally feel that I have earned that honor..
July 4, 2011
July 4, 2011
I got a student to tolerate steep turns; Rose got that same student to enjoy them! What a mentor. I will be remembering her blessed style whether at 41,000' in a Citation Mustang or during short field landings in the back country. Dearest Rose; what a class act!
July 4, 2011
July 4, 2011
Thank you Rose, for the generosity & kindness you showed my mother. She loved being up in the plane with you, and smiled for days after. What a gift you gave to her as she neared the end of her life.  Rose, you are greatly missed.
July 4, 2011
July 4, 2011
A dream come true was made possible because Rose and I shared a common dream.. to swim with the dolphins. The help I received from Rose in my business made my life so much saner and enjoyable. I loved the friendships made through our meetings and trips, so THANK YOU ROSE.
June 30, 2011
June 30, 2011
Dear Rose :

Even though I only met with you a handful of times here at PrintSync, what an amazing comfort you brought with you. Thank you for helping keep Angela in line when need be . Thank you for helping out our team and finding new ways to d
June 29, 2011
June 29, 2011
Rose was a superlative person andcoach. She helped so very many people and did so much good in the world. She was an irrepressible character and a delightful friend. We had an absolutely wonderful time together coaching,laughing, dolphining. Miss you
June 9, 2011
June 9, 2011
For over ten years, Rose was my coach and one of my dearest friends. Her tough love guided me through multiple transitions and relationships. She took me swimming with the dolphins, but the real highlight was when I realized my dream of flying.
June 6, 2011
June 6, 2011
Thanks to Rose I spent my 60th birthday realizing a life long dream to swim with wild dolphins.Rose initiated us all to new experiences and ideas. Thank you, Dear Rose. You are a teacher of teachers!
June 6, 2011
June 6, 2011
Rose, I will never forget you or your love of life and the passion you carried in anything you did! I will miss you and the smile that you always had on your face around me. I have learned from you not only in aviation but in life as well…I miss you.
June 5, 2011
June 5, 2011
Rose joined the Willamette Aviation family with her love of flight and passion for life. Rose gave us more than can be expressed. Her gentle touch guided us for many years. Her absents leaves more than just a personal void. She is missed.
June 3, 2011
June 3, 2011
My dear Rose-I cannot put my head around what I'll do when I need re-direction now that you are not here. You would probably say "ok missy, you know what to do, now go knock 'em dead, the only roadblocks in front of you are the ones YOU have created
June 2, 2011
June 2, 2011
Rose was one of my most treasured mentors and teachers. She helped me overcome my fear of the water by introducing me to the wild dolphins of the Big Island. I miss her laugh and her love of life. Fly high and free, my dear friend!
June 2, 2011
June 2, 2011
Rose was a great mentor/teacher/partner on the journey of being authentic, no matter what, and in the face of whatever the externals seemed to 'dictate'. May she truly fly in limitless joy now--along with Darby of course.
May 31, 2011
May 31, 2011
Rose gave me courage to fly even though it scared me. Her patience had no end. She'd always say, "When you're ready." She never got frustrated with my itty bitty baby steps with flying or my frequent moments of getting startled while flying.
May 29, 2011
May 29, 2011
Rose, I admire your openess to keep learning, your courage to demonstrate in your life what you knew, and to teach others to discover that knowing for themselves. Your presence on this earth will be missed by many. Your gifts treasured forever.
May 29, 2011
May 29, 2011
Rose's guidance, her love and her friendship have changed my life in ways too numerous to list. The 3 trips with her to be with the dolphins are some of the most treasured moments of my life. Her delight and joy in the Dolphin energy was a gift.
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May 21, 2023
May 21, 2023
I went to Thai Orchid yesterday and ordered the papaya salad (Medium spicy), ate and reflected. I haven't been there in forever but thought...appropriate. That was a great meeting place to toss around my shit and for you to throw it back. You must have seen by now that I reconnected with Judy, Golfing of all things. She is still such a delight. She actually recognized me first. Ethan and I were going through some photos of when he was young and came across photos of when you and Darby came to his baseball game - Spring of '09. He was 10. So funny because Ed had just had back surgery '09 - so he thought that it was ok for him to sit on the bench with the kids, I was so embarrassed - you just laughed and Darby loved watching the kids and people and too.  You are truly missed! AW
May 21, 2023
May 21, 2023
Trusting you and Darby are in a state of bliss! I need a bi-annual soon, care to sit right seat with me?? I remember in mountain flying school after we learned “canyon turns”…..you were asked how it was, your rely to the whole class…….” That was FUCKING AWESOME!!!!”…. I’ll never forget that. Thanks for the memories!!!
May 21, 2023
May 21, 2023
12 years have passed and you are still missed. Almost every day I think of what we would be doing and how we would be laughing. Here's to your time on this planet and the joy you brought.
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September 4, 2011

What a great privelege it was to pass this way with you both and have so much time with Darby while you flew.  I never knew such a beautifully present dog, listening to your voice on the unicom, or climbing and bouncing along the poofy top of the flight lounge sofas while watching you taxi out and back, always back.  Throwing her head firmly back down to wait some more when some other plane passed and it wasn't you! Thank you for letting me be with her and give her treats. What an unspeakably great good at work the animals were - thank you for bringing her every day!  With so much love for you both. Always, Rose, always!

Rose and Darby light the way

September 4, 2011

Namaste, I love you Rose, I love you little Darby. Godspeed in freedom and peace, while we old pals wait to catch you on the flip side.  Your laughter and stories, commraderie every day at work, the long hours walking s l o w l y around the building sniffing every blade of grass and watching as you, Miss Darby, perched half airborne from sofa top to counter-sugar laden food top...oh, what wishful thinking to sneak a snack that had no seaweed...  your whole being an expression of being alive with purpose, joy and focused intention/attention. I have missed your delightful, protective and nurturing presence and our long long introspective talks and I will hold you both and Peregrine forever in loving prayer, joy of remembrance and our shared presence in the universe. 

If not for Rose...

August 8, 2011

Rose came into my life when I was floundering and without direction. She not only told me about the wondrous profession of coaching, she lived it out loud. After lunch with her, I knew that's what I wanted to do and I pursued coach training and a coaching career.

I hadn't contacted Rose for a bit because I was finishing the book she encouraged me to write and I wanted to get it published and present it to her on a visit to Portland in a few weeks. It was going to be a surprise and a time for me to thank her for helping me discover the courage to write.

I'm so sorry I didn't get to talk with her and tell her what she meant to me and how she changed my life with her encouragement, belief, positivity and brilliance. I hope she knows.

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