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This memorial website celebrates the all-too-brief life of Roy Paul Ellis Pietrek, age 19.

Born on October 5, 1998, in Nashua, NH to April Dawn Ellis and Paul Matthew Pietrek.

Passed away on December 12, 2017, while attending Grand Canyon University, in Phoenix, AZ.

Roy grew up in New Hampshire, first in Hollis and later in Center Barnstead. He attended Concord Christian Academy. He also spent significant time in Seattle, WA with his father and stepmother, Carrie, 

Roy was an extremely lively and active child who enjoyed creating things. From an early age, he constantly constructed elaborate projects with Legos and Bionicles. Later, he excelled at creating video game levels and videos. He was a crack video game player, amazing people with his skill and ingenuity. From The Italian Job, to Halo, to Call of Duty, Roy was passionate about video gaming. With a father who worked at Microsoft, he was an XBox devotee.

Roy was also known for his love for animals of all stripes. He showered his dogs Teddy, Gunther, Murphee, Marlene, Dempsey, Angus, Hendrix and Schatzi with constant devotion.

He also enjoyed movies and television series. Some of this favorite shows were Modern Family, The Office, and House of Cards.

Although shy at times, Roy made friends easily. He left behind many, many friends who miss him dearly.

He is survived by his mother April, father Paul (Matt), stepmother Carrie Smith, stepfather Thomas Normandin, step-siblings Lexi and Christopher Normandin, grandmothers Martha Weid Pietrek and Samantha Ellis, as well as many aunts, uncles, and cousins.

Please look through the many photos here that celebrate some of the best times of Roy's life.

I am researching an appropriate cause to honor Roy's memory. It will be something to help other young people in similar circumstances as Roy. I will share the details on how to contribute here, once identified.

 

October 5, 2023
October 5, 2023
Love in the form of acts of kindness so far reported in: Canada, California, Tennessee, New Hampshire! Today I worked at the Food Pantry and bought a child named Kyle his birthday cake. On Sunday, I will host the birthday table at The Compassionate Friends - lots of photos, his copyrighted poem "Happiness", a couple of his other poems and his Top Ten Reasons You're the Best Mom writing will be featured. 
October 5, 2023
October 5, 2023
Spreading love in honor of Roy today - 60 friends have been invited to a Random Act of Kindness to honor his 25th birthday. 

"I love you more than anything in the galaxy" --Roy, age 5
May 13, 2023
May 13, 2023
Love is eternal. So very grateful I had the supreme blessing to be Roy's mom. 
December 12, 2022
December 12, 2022
These five years have been so hard. Thinking of his amazing smile today - he is loved and missed by so many. 
"God has you in heaven, but I have you in my heart." (TobyMac)
Grateful to be Roy's mom
October 6, 2022
October 6, 2022
Yesterday was the second annual "Random Act of Kindness for Roy" - in honor of his 24th birthday. He was honored by this list (so far): a child who shares his birthday had their cake paid for, a bike was given to a neighbor, a meal was purchased for someone, a debt was paid for another, a meal taken to a friend. Roy was truly generous and giving and I am grateful to those who participated this year to honor my son-the love of my life. Roy's Mom
October 5, 2022
October 5, 2022
Thinking of Roy today, and wondering what his life would have been like just graduating from college. He would have made all of us proud. He is missed so much by our family as well as all his devoted pets. He seemed to always have a dog in his arms! He was one of the good guys that everyone loved. 
October 5, 2021
October 5, 2021
Roy was born exactly 23 years ago: 10:52 p.m.  His incredible love goes on in his family, friends and in however we choose to share that love with others. 
I bought a child's birthday cake who shares his birthday - a little thing but hopefully it made them feel special and boy did Roy love cake!! 
Your mom loves you forever and then, for eternity. 
October 5, 2021
October 5, 2021
Thinking of Roy today and how his arrival 23 years ago as my first grandchild made me so happy and proud. i miss you every day, as do Schatzie and Hendrix. Life is not the same without you!
October 5, 2021
October 5, 2021
Another Birthday without you Roy. I wish you were here. We think about you ALL the time.
December 12, 2020
December 12, 2020
Celebrating the joy of being Roy's mom today! We are missing him so much but having an eternal view of life and that we will spend eternity together helps. Doing things for others in his name as he was more generous and empathetic than anyone I know. Proud to be his mom!
October 6, 2020
October 6, 2020
22 years ago the love of my life entered the world at 10:52 p.m.- the moment I held Roy for the first time, I knew I had just stepped into the happiest moment of my entire life. I am exceedlingly grateful for 19 years of love this side of heaven. We spent five days together in 2017 for his 19th birthday-we did none of the Parent's Weekend activities - instead we swam, visited with his Grammy Marcy and Uncle Marc and of course, the doxies whom Roy loved. Roy had a dynamic smile, an impish grin, astounding intelligence, an incredible sense of humor and profound love for others..  He is experiencing the all encompassing love of God and I have only survived his immense absence by the same love. I will dream of him until we embrace again in Heaven. As he wrote to me once: "I love you more than anything in the galaxy!"
October 5, 2020
October 5, 2020
Hey bud, happy birthday. We all miss you very much, especially today. Hope your having fun with God in heaven, try not to have to much fun without us, bypass gang for life, love you forever roy. ❤️
October 5, 2020
October 5, 2020
Remembering you and how on this day 22 years ago you made so many people happy with your arrival into this world. You were my first grandchild, and I could not have been any prouder of you. You were the long awaited grandchild your Grandpa Pietrek always wanted, but unfortunately he passed away five months before you were born. I did not get to see you often, as you lived in New Hampshire and I am in Arizona, but I always cherished the times we spent together. I was so happy when you chose Grand Canyon University in Arizona to start your college years, as I was able to see you quite often. Spending your 19th birthday with you was special. You are so missed by not only me, but your Uncle Marc and Aunt Wendy. Your dachshund friends, Schatzie and Hendrix, miss you a lot, too. When you came over they knew they would be held and pampered. I know you are in Heaven, and at peace. 
March 3, 2020
March 3, 2020
been missing you alot today bud, I hope you're at peace, I love you and miss you so much, it doesn't get any easier but knowing you're at peace and no longer battling demons gives me some sort of a smile, I love you so much buddy, until we meet again, sincerely your buddy luke. <3
October 7, 2019
October 7, 2019
My family spent Roy's 21st birthday hosting a party celebrating our many blessings. We were joined by 80 people who love Roy and us and celebrated some joys in our family: Lexi graduated from University of New England and recently became engaged! Christopher leaves tomorrow morning for Army Basic Training for 6 months. Tommy and I celebrate 15 years of marriage this week and we wanted to celebrate with all our family. We are 'supremely blessed'! 
October 6, 2019
October 6, 2019
Happy birthday bro- you know it does feel extremely strange that i'm writing this note, that you're not here with us. Everyone remembers your unique sense of humor, your contagious laugh. I wish you were here man. You left a legacy at the school as well as one in our hearts. You taught me a lot of things, just by interacting with the people around you, treating people with consideration and respect. Thanks so much for always being nice to me and listening to me and everyone else, it meant a lot. I was very fortunate to share in a lot of funny memories and trouble we got into together- I wouldn't trade that for anything. Happy 21st haha I hope it's a fun one. Love you bro.
December 12, 2018
December 12, 2018
1 year gone today. We miss you Roy. That night will never leave me. Hope to see you again someday. You changed me forever and I can’t wait to tell you about it in heaven.
April 19, 2018
April 19, 2018
rest in peace roy i found out thru snapchat 4 or 6 hours after you did it and i couldnt believe it and looking back on your social media i cant believe it was a planned thing almost. i miss u bro
January 11, 2018
January 11, 2018
I remember for a majority of 2017 me and Roy would Skype call for hours and hours on end every single day playing call of duty together until he got into college, he was always such a nice and thoughtful, Roy slowly became one of my best friends, online or not he was one of the nicest and greatest person I’ve ever met, I’m in tears typing this, I love you so much and miss you every single day Roy, can’t believe it’s only been one month since you’ve been gone, it feels like just yesterday we were playing PS3 laughing with our friends, may you Rest In Peace Roy, see you soon.
January 5, 2018
January 5, 2018
My deepest sympathy for you and your family.Shocked and saddened by the untimely passing of Roy..may he find eternal peace.My son's..Alex and Justin Rayno had many fun times with your son.Playing games..and generally just being boys ..lots of joking and laughing..as evidenced by their friendly posts.. banter..and few stories I'm aware of.Apparantly..min son Alex told me some "untruth"(fake news)about Roy..no idea what this was about..I'll find out!!Love and peace to your family.. during this unimaginable time..may you find peace in God..I know Roy was a Christian young man and trust he is at peace with his heavenly father. God bless you all. Lovinly..Joan Veroneau
January 5, 2018
January 5, 2018
Words cannot explain how much I miss you. We played call of duty and Skyped everyday in summer 2016. We still continue to communicate on Snapchat. When I heard you passed I no words can explain how heart broken I was. I miss you so much bro rest we’ll I’ll see you soon.
December 28, 2017
December 28, 2017
Mom and I miss you Roy. We are so devastated by what happened and wish it was all a dream. Murphee misses you too. I hope Marlene greeted you when you got to heaven

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October 5, 2023
October 5, 2023
Love in the form of acts of kindness so far reported in: Canada, California, Tennessee, New Hampshire! Today I worked at the Food Pantry and bought a child named Kyle his birthday cake. On Sunday, I will host the birthday table at The Compassionate Friends - lots of photos, his copyrighted poem "Happiness", a couple of his other poems and his Top Ten Reasons You're the Best Mom writing will be featured. 
October 5, 2023
October 5, 2023
Spreading love in honor of Roy today - 60 friends have been invited to a Random Act of Kindness to honor his 25th birthday. 

"I love you more than anything in the galaxy" --Roy, age 5
May 13, 2023
May 13, 2023
Love is eternal. So very grateful I had the supreme blessing to be Roy's mom. 
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December 11, 2023
I still remember getting the call from Mom that morning. We miss you Roy. We have so many memories but wish you were here so that one memory was erased.❤️

Annual Worldwide Candlighting Service in Memory of Children Gone Too Soon

December 11, 2023
Held in every time zone worldwide, this service honors our children who have gone on ahead.  Roy is SO missed by our family and his friends!
October 5, 2021
A letter I recently found:
"Dear MOM,
I will always remember the time when Marlene played fetch with us.  She is so cute.  She is my favorite yellow lab ever!  I love you and all our pets.  It was SO much fun watching her with you and then playing water fetch with her.
Thank you for everything,
LOVE,
Roy

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