- 64 years old
- Date of birth: Sep 14, 1933
- Place of birth:
MILFORD, New Zealand
- Date of passing: Jul 28, 1998
- Place of passing:
WANGANUI, NORTH ISLAND, New Zealand
|Let the memory of ROYCE be with us forever|
This memorial website was created in the memory of our Dad ,very much missed and loved by every one and a great Dad ,ONE OF THE BEST ,Royce Mowbray Thomas,born on September 14, 1933 .me being dads eldest son thought it was up to me to start the web site to keep dads memory alive ,,,
Dad passed away on July 28, 1998. at 5.25 pm in Wanganui hospital ,he was under there care and he died they had no idea how to treat him,
it shouldnt of happened,, ,a great shock to us all ,We will remember him and love him forever,taken much to soon .only 64 years old .we dont have a grave site or memorial at a cemitery to visit,which is hard but by his wishes he was cremated and his ashes spread at sea,as he loved to fish,and loved the sea.he will always be in our hearts and thoughts .
Thank you so much for being my dad and loving me as you did ...ill never forget that ever . ...it ment so much to me ..
17 years later june 22 ,2015 at 12.05am and our mum also died under treatment while at Wanganui hosptial,once again ,it shouldnt have happened again ..... we had to say good bye to mum also ...SO VERY VERY MUCH UNFAIR ...
The cover photo is of the memorial rose that i got for my Dad after he passed away .
The rose is called - IN LOVING MEMORY
I have posted photos of my Mum,Nana ,Granddad and baby photos of myself also..memories for me ..
Posted more photos 2/8/2016 , of Dad ,Mum,Nana ,Grandad Jack etc
"thinking of you Dad another year almost gone now December 22 ,3 days to Xmas ,but its not the same anymore with out you and Mum ,just another day ,,mMums been gone 18 Months today,Simbos been Gone 17 Months today also..Micheles feeling it to Dad she is missing you and Mum so Much ,so if you see this Dad visit her ok ..id like to see you again also,Mums visited me a couple of times recently ,but dosent stay long i wish she would ,i hope Middle C and Simbo are behaving can you give them both a hug for me tell them i miss them and love them very Much ok ..well Dad i Wish you a Mery Xmas and wish were all here ok ,,lots love alwasy me xxxxxxxxxo ooooooo"
"Dads Birthday ,82 years today,i just wish he was here to celebrate the day,each year goes by its never easy and when the important days come around its even harder ,,always miss my Dad every day ,.thinking of you always Dad,,your never forgotten ever ..love you Dad always ..xxxxxxxx"
"Fathers day 2016, thinking of you as always ,wish you were here Dad,iv posted a card for you ,it was 1 i gave you about 38 years ago ,which you kept,as well as others,always missing you and always wonder why i had to be you to leave us so early .love always Mike xxxxxxxxxx00000000000"
"18 years today you left us Dad ,it was the day my world was turned up side down,arriving at Whanganui hospital on Monday the 27th and finding you in a comer was something i found hard to deal with ,watching your life slip away and knowing there was nothing i couild do to help you i felt so empty inside to find you like this , and on Tuesday 28th july 1998 at 5.25 pm ,you slipped away from us and you were gone forever, i wish that day had not ever existed ,you brought me up as your own Dad ,ill never ever forget that ever,my thoughts are of you always and iMum also,the song my DAD BY Paul Peterson says it all .
Love you forever DAD ,,miss you Forever ..your never ever forgotten.ever ."
"Thinking of you always Dad,miss you so very much,,Mum has been gone a year today ,and Simba 11 months,,you are all missed so very much.always in my heart and thoughts ,never ever forgotten .,ever ..give them all a big hug for me ok ..Love you Dad .xxxxxxxxxx"
"THINKING OF YOU DAD ,MUM ALSO..MISS YOU BOTH SO MUCH ALWAYS ,,ANOTHER MONTH WITH OUT MUM ,7 MONTHS TODAY SINCE WE LOST YOU MUM.,,AND ITS MUMS BIRTHDAY TODAY ALSO...,,ANOTHER MONTH WITH OUT SIMBO,,6 MONTHS TODAY SINCE I HAD TO SAY GOODBYE TO HIM..ALSO..MISS YOU ALL SO VERY MUCH .ITS ALMOST A YEAR SINCE I LOST MIDDLE C ,,1ST MARCH 2015 I HAD TO SAY GOOD BYE TO HER AFTER OVER 17 YEARS OF HER BEING WITH MY BEST FRIEND..GIVE THEM ALL A HUG FOR ME DAD OK ..LOVE YOU ALWAYS MIKE XXOOO"
"DEC 25 XMAS DAY ,THINKING OF YOU ,XMAS ISNT THE SAME ANYMORE WITH OUT MUM,AND YOU ,FIRST XMAS IN 58 YEARS WITH OUT MUM HERE ..JUST ANOTHER DAY FOR ME NOW ,EVEN MIDDLE C AND SIMBA ARENT HERE NOW ,,WISHING YOU WERE HERE ,,ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS AND HEART ..MISS YOU VERY MUCH .DAD ..XXX OOOO MIKE"
"HI DAD ,THIINKING OF YOU AS ALWAYS ,ITS XMAS EVE TOMORROW,,DOSENT FEEL LIKE IT THOUGH ,TO MUCH HAS HAPPENED THIS YEAR TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT ,,NOW THAT MUMS GONE ,MIDDLE C AND SIMBA ,ITS NOT THE SAME ANYMORE FOR ME .THEY ALL HAVE LEFT A GREAT BIG HOLE IN MY LIFE ,AS YOU DID ALSO WHEN YOU LEFT US ..ALWAYS MISSING YOU AND WISH YOU WERE HERE .
LOTS LOVE DAD XXXX OOOOO HUGS
I HAVE POSTED A CHRISTMAS CARD FOR YOU IN YOUR PHOTOS DAD ,NEVER FORGOTTEN ."
"THINKING OF YOU ALWAYS DAD,MISS YOU AND MUM VERY MUCH,,ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS AND HEART ,GIVE MIDDLE C AND SIMBA A BIG HUG FOR ME OK ..,LOVE YOU MISS YOU ALWAYS ."
"ALWAYS MISSED ALWAYS LOVED..THINGS HAVE CHANGED SO MUCH ,THEY WILL NEVER EVER BE THE SAME AGAIN,WITH OUT YOU AND MUM, WITH US .LIFE CAN BE A BITCH ,..SO MUCH TO DEAL WITH ....YOU BOTH SHOULD STILL BE HERE WITH US ........"
"THINKING OF YOU ,ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS DAD,YOUR MISSED EVERY DAY .I GUESS YOU HAVE SEEN MUM BY NOW,I KNOW I WILL SEE YOU BOTH AGAIN ..UNTIL THEN YOU BOTH WILL WILL ALWAYS BE SO VERY MUCH MISSED ,AND NEVER EVER FORGOTTEN .....GIVE MIDDLE C AND SIMBA LOTS OF LOVE FOR ME UNTIL I SE THEM BOTH AGAIN ALSO ......"
"Mike Pete Bronwyn Sharon Shelly and Malc, you're Mum and Dad were fantastic parent's and brilliant roll model's for you all. I have read with a heavy heart your messages to Mum and Dad and feel the deep love you all had and have for them both and just how much you are all suffering their loss and absence from your lives. Your all very much like little brother's and sister's to me and because I had as much love and respect for your Mum and Dad as I had for my own Mum and Dad, I'm feeling the deep loss you're all suffering as a result of their sad passing. Just know that they are standing next to you when ever you think of them. Arohanui kia koutou. Lot's of love to you all!!! xoxoxox"
"THINKING OF YOU TODAY,YOUR BIRTHDAY,ALWAYS A MEMORY NEVER FORGOTTEN,81 YEARS ,TO MANY WITH OUT YOU HERE DAD,ALWAYS MISSED,ALWAYS LOVED ,ALWAYS REMEMBERED,NEVER EVER FOR GOTTEN.YOUR IN MY THOUGHTS DAILY ,SO IS MUM,YOU ARE BOTH SO VERY MUCH MISSED.I HOPE MIDDLE C AND SIMBA ARE OK ,GIVE THEM A BIG HUG FOR ME OK ..LOVE ALWAYS MIKE"
"SUNDAY 6TH SEPTEMBER 2015 ,FATHERS DAY ,THINKING OF YOU ALWAYS,YOUR SO VERY MUCH REMEMBERED AND IN MY THOUGHTS ALWAYS AND LOVED FOR EVER.TIMES LIKE TODAY I WISH YOU WERE HERE SO I COULD TELL HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU DAD AND WISH YOU HAPPY FATHERS DAY ..MIKE"
"Thinking of you always Dad,missing you always ,your always in my thoughts,give my 2 little friends Middle c and Simba a big hug for me Dad,its never easy losing a parent.........lv2u always............"
"THINKING OF YOU DAD,I HOPE MIDDLE C AND SIMBA ARE OK ,IM MISSING THEM AND MUM SO VERY MUCH,AND ITS SO VERY HARD TO NOT TO BE ABLE TO SEE THEM OR MUM AGAIN,,THINKING OF ALL THE GOOD TIMES WE HAD ,,MISSING NANA ,GRANDAD ,ALSO ..GIVE THEM A BIG HUG FOR ME OK ..LV2U ALWAYS ..........."
"DAD ,THINKING OF YOU TODAY AND EVERY DAY,17 YEARS 28TH JULY 1998,WHERE HAVE THE YEARS GONE DAD,THINGS HAVE REALLY CHANGED SINCE MUM PASSED AWAY,I GUESS IT WAS MEANT TO HAPPEN,I GUESS BLOOD ISNT AS THICK AS WATER,BUT I GUESS WE KNOW WHY ,DONT WE DAD,I HOPE MUMS OK ,TELL HER I LOVE AND MISS HER VERY MUCH,ALSO MAKE SURE YOU TAKE CARE OF MIDDLE C AND MY LITTLE MAN SIMBA FOR ME DAD,GIVE THEM PLENTY OF LOVE THEY WILL GIVE IT BACK,,IM MISSING THEM BOTH VERY MUCH ITS NOT THE SAME HERE WITH OUT THEM NOW,IT BROKE MY HEART WHEN I WAS TOLD A WEEK AGO TOMORROW THAT SIMBA HAD CANCER THREW HIS BODY..AND HE HAD TO BE PUT TO SLEEP ..WHY HIM ???HE HAD BEEN SUCH GREAT FRIEND OF 13 YEARS AND SUCH GREAT COMPANY SINCE MIDDLE C AND MUM HAD PASSED AWAY HE WAS ALWAYS WITH ME AND BY MY SIDE ..SO THATS 3 LOSSES IN 5 MONTHS..MIDDLE C ,MUM AND SIMBA ..I OFTEN THINK OF THE DAYS AT TANGIMOANA GROWING UP WHEN WE DID LOTS TOGETHER,FISHING HUNTING WORKING ON THE FARM THOSE WERE MY BEST DAYS AS I GOT TO SPEND TIME WITH MY DAD..LOVE AND MISS YOU ALWAYS MIKE .."
"Morning my darling. Well it's 17 years today and miss you so so much.
A lot has happened since you've been gone. Both Nicholas and Manda are now in London. Mandy's husbands birthday is also today so I don't forget it ah. Hope all is well and everyone's had a big catch up. Love you and miss you my darling. Xxxx love to all"
"HI DAD,ITS 4 WEEKS TODAY SINCE I LOST MUM.. THAT WAS SO SO HARD TO SAY GOOD BYE TO MUM,AND SO VERY HARD LOOSING HER ,MY LITTLE MAN SIMBO HAS BEEN A BIT UNWELL THE LAST 4-5 DAYS SO I TOOK HIM TO THE VET EARLY THIS MORNING,,THEY TOLD ME THIS AFTER NOON IT WASNT VERY GOOD NEWS ,HE HAD CANCER THROUGH ALOT OF HIS BODY ,SO AT 4 PM TODAY AND ONCE AGAIN I HAD TO SAY GOOD BYE TO ANOTHER BEST FRIEND AFTER 15 YEARS,,, IN 4 1/2 MONTHS IVE LOST MIDDLE C,MUM AND TODAY MY LITTLE MAN SIMBA ,ITS BEEN SO HARD FOR ME DAD WITH MUM AND MIDDLE C NOW SIMBO ,THATS 3 LOSSES FOR ME NOW DAD,CAN YOU PLEASE LOOK AFTER SIMBO ,MIDDLE C AND MUM FOR ME PLEASE TELL THEM I LOVE THEM AND GIVE MIDDLE C AND SIMBO LOTS OF LOVE AND CUDDLES AS THEY BOTH LOVED THAT VERY MUCH,,THANKS DAD ,,LOVE YOU MISS YOU XXX OOO BYE FOR NOW MIKE ..."
"HI DAD THINKING OF YOU ,THINGS DONT SEEM TO GO RIGHT FOR ME THESE DAYS IT SEEMS IVE LOOSING PEOPLE WHO I LOVE, AND MY BEST FRIENDS ,STARTED WITH MIDDLE C AND THEN MUM,SOMETIMES LIFE CAN BE VERY CRUEL,THE OLDER YOU GET IT SEEMS THIS HAPPENS A LOT ,THEY SAY THE BEST YEARS ARE WHEN YOU GET OLDER,I DONT BELIEVE THAT AT ALL ,IF LOOSING FRIENDS ,FAMILY ,PETS, IS A PART OF THE BETTER YEARS THEY CAN HAVE IT ..ITS BEEN REALLY HARD TO EXCEPT MUMS GONE ,,THERES NEVER A DAY GOES BY THAT SEEMS TO BE A GOOD ONE FOR ME ,,,ANT LIFE A BITCH AT TIMES.. LVU DAD XXXOOO"
"Hi uncle so much time has passed, I remember being a little girl and coming to your farm for lunch on weekends, I loved your home it was like a big mansion to me, with huge lawns and the pretty glass ball sitting there, walking into the kitchen and Bronwyn was always at the oven the smell the of the roast cooking made me hungry, Aunty most times at the ironing board, and I'd wait to hear you coming on the bike, knowing I was about to get picked up for the biggest bear hug"
"HI DAD THINKING OF YOU ,ITS SO HARD TO NOW HAVE BOTH OF YOU NO LONGER WITH ME ,ITS LEFT A GREAT BIG HOLE IN MY HEART ,I CAN NO LONGER SEE AND VISIT MUM ,THATS SO SO VERY HARD TO EXCEPT,WISH SO MUCH YOU BOTH WERE STILL HERE ..MISS YOU BOTH ALWAYS MIKE XXOOO PS I HOPE MIDDLE C IS LOOKING AFTER YOU BOTH .."
"Hi Hun well I guess by now you've met up with mum . I'm really struggling with her passing . Have just taken Michelle and Reid back to Wellington airport for them to fly home . Was a very long night left at 12 got back at 7am . I just don't know what to think . I am devastated that I didn't spend much time with her over the past 6 months and I hd tht pointed out to me , which I didn't need . We had a beautifull service for her , she is so sadly missed just wish I could have done more . I love and miss u both so much , was only 2 weeks ago we said goodbye to Pauline and a week before that Manda and Richard left to join nick in London really struggling with it all , not sure how gonna do this I cried most of the way home from welly told Shelly I'm sick of saying goodbye . So for now adios and we will catch up . Love to all , love you xxxx"
"HI DAD,IT WAS A WEEK TODAY MONDAY,29TH JUNE AT 12.05 AM THIS MORNING WE LOST MUM , IVE A GREAT BIG HOLE IN MY HEART AFTER LOOSING MUM AND AFTER LOOSING MY BEST FRIEND MIDDLE C THOMAS 3 MONTHS AGO WITH KIDNEY FAILURE LEFT ANOTHER BIG WHOLE IN MY HEART ALSO,I CANT GET MY HEAD AROUND WHAT HAS HAPPENED, TO MUM,ITS A BAD DREAM FOR ME ,ITS BEEN A GREAT BIG SHOCK FOR ME TO LOOSE MUM AT 77 YEARS OLD ,I ALWAYS THOUGHT SHE WOULD STILL BE AROUND FOR MANY YEARS ,I SAID TO HER ONE DAY YOU WILL GET A TELEGRAM FROM THE QUEEN WHEN YOU TURN A HUNDRED SHE JUST LAUGHED AND SAID ILL DO MY BEST TO GET 1 ,BUT NOT TO BE ,,,,IT SHOULDNT OF HAPPENED ,MUM SHOULD BE STILL WITH US, YOU JUST NEVER KNOW DAD WHAT WILL HAPPEN AS YOU GET OLDER ,HERE 1 MINUTE AND GONE THE NEXT,,IT WAS SUCH A SHOCK WHEN YOU LEFT US ,IT WAS SO FAST ALSO AND AT 64 YOU WERE STILL VERY YOUNG,AFTER MUM PASSED AWAY IN WANGANUI HOSPITAL AT 12.05 AM LAST MONDAY MORNING THE DOCTORS TOLD BRONWYN THEY WERE VERY SORRY AND THAT THEY MADE A MISTAKE ,BRONWYN TOLD THEM MUM WASNT WELL LAST SUNDAY NIGHT AROUND 9 ISH,SHE WASHAVING CHEST PAINS THE NURSES TOLD MUM SHE HAD WIND AND THEY GAVE HER SOME MYLANTA TO TAKE AND TOLD HER SHE WOULD BE FINE,BUT NOT TO BE 3 HOURS LATER MUM PASSED AWAY.I TELL YOU THIS DAD AFTER LOOSING YOU AND MUM THROUGH WANGANUI HOSPITALS MISTAKES THERE IS NO WAY ILL EVER END UP THERE ,IM MAKING THAT QUITE CLEAR TO MY DOCTOR WHEN I SEE HIM THAT I WANT IT ON MY MEDICAL RECORDS THAT ILL REFUSE TO GO TO WANGANUI HOSPITAL IF IM UNWELL, I MAY AS WELL DIE AT HOME RATHER IN THAT BLOODY PLACE,,IM SO SO VERY ANGRY WITH THE HOLE WANGANUI HOSPITAL SYSTEM AFTER LOOSING YOU BOTH , THANKS WANGANUI HOSPITAL BE CAUSE OF YOU BOTH MY PARENTS ARE NO LONGER HERE...WELL DONE ....A COUPLE OF YEARS BEFORE DAD PASSED AWAY HE WAS IN A WANGANUI HOSPITAL DHB RUN REST HOME HE ENDED UP WITH A BAD INFECTION AFTER A CUT ON HIS LEG AND GOT GANG GREEN AND HIS LEG WAS REMOVED BELOW THE KNEE, HOWS THAT FOR GOOD TREATMENT,,,IT SUCKS BIG TIME..."
"HI DAD,THINKING OF YOU ,MISSING YOU HEAPS ALWAYS LOVE TO YOU ALWAYS FROM RANGI AND ALL YOUR MOKOS THEY ALL MISS YOU ,,DAD LOTS LOVE ,MALCOLM THOMAS ,THANKS FOR BEING MY DAD ....XXXXOOOO"
"HI DAD,ITS BEEN A VERY SAD AND HARD WEEK FOR ME I HAD TO SAY GOOD BYE TO MUM ON FRIDAY THE 26TH JUNE,,SHE WAS MY MUM FOR 58 YEARS,,I KNOW MUM WILL BE SO MUCH MISSED BY US ALL ,MUMS LOVING CAT BRANDY DOSENT KNOW WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO MUM,HES GOING TO BE SO LOST WITH OUT HER,IF HES FEELING LIKE US I KNOW HOW HES IS FEELING,HE LOVED MUM SO MUCH AND SHE LOVED HIM SO MUCH ALSO,MUM AND YOU BOTH GAVE US SO MUCH LOVE OVER ALL THE YEARS ,YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR HEARTS,AND KNOWING WHAT I NOW KNOW AND WHAT IVE SEEN WITH MY BEST FRIEND MIDDLE C THOMAS I KNOW WE WILL SEE YOU BOTH AGAIN.ITS SO AMAZING DAD TO SEE HER ,,,AGAIN..LOOK AFTER MUM FOR ME,AND GIVE MIDDLE C BIG HUGS FOR ME ,TELL HER THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE FOR ME OVER THE LAST FEW DAYS SINCE LOOSING MUM,THEY SAY LIFE IS A JOURNEY AND ITS NEVER EASY FOR ALL,AND ITS VERY VERY SAD THAT WE MUST ALL LOOSE THE ONES WE LOVE IN THE CIRCLE OF LIFE ,,LOVE YOU BOTH MUM AND DAD ,MISS YOU BOTH SO SO VERY MUCH EVERY DAY ...XXOOOO"
"HI DAD,TODAY IS THE DAY I SAY GOOD BYE TO MY MUM,AND A DAY THAT I WISH WOULD NEVER HAVE COME,I HAVE TO SAY GOOD BYE TO MY MUM AND AS I DID 17 YEARS AGO WHEN I SAID GOOD BYE TO YOU ,THIS IS A NIGHT MERE DAD,ITS SO FINAL,I KNOW MUM IS WITH US ALL BUT ITS THE FINAL PART OF THE CIRCLE OF LIFE THATS ALWAYS THE HARDEST TO GET THROUGH ,FOR 58 YEARS MUM WAS MY BEST FRIEND ,AND WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR ME ,I HAVE MANY MEMORIES AND STORIES THAT SHE TOLD ME ABOUT WHEN I WAS YOUNG,,PLEASE GIVE US THE STRENGTH TO GET THROUGH THIS DAY DAD ......WE WILL NEED IT SO SO VERY MUCH,,,,,AS I SAID WATCH OVER EVERY BODY ELSE THAT MUM KNEW AND HELP THEM TO GET THROUGH THIS DAY ALSO ...LOVE YOU DAD ...... I KNOW MUM IS WATCHING OVER US ALSO ,,,WE WILL TRY TO GIVE MUM THE SERVICE SHE DESERVES ,LOVE YOU MUM ALWAYS ,YOU NEVER EVER WILL BE FORGOTTEN AND ALWAYS CHERISHED ,LOVED AND THOUGHT OF ...EVERY DAY ...LOVE YOU MUM ,,THANKS FOR BEING MY MUM ,,,YOU DID MEAN THE WORLD TO ME I KO HOW MUCH YOU THOUGHT OF ME ALSO ,THE YEARS SHOWED ME THIS,,,LOVE YOU MUM XXXOOOO"
"HI DAD,WELL ITS WEDNESDAY MORNING 5.15 AM IVE BEEN UP FOR ABOUT 2 HOUR AFTER 2-3 HOUR SLEEP,IM NOT COPING TO WELL WITH LOOSING MUM ITS BROUGHT EVERY THING BACK TO THE WAY IT WAS WHEN I LOST YOU ,NOW IM DEALING WITH THE PASSING OF BOTH ,I NEVER EVER GOT OVER LOOSING YOU ,THIS IS LIKE A BAD DREAM DAD ,BUT EVERY TIME I WAKE UP I KNOW ITS NOT AND MUMS NO LONGER WITH ME,TRUDY MAC AUNTY DOLLYS DAUGHTER HAS COME BACK FROM AUSY FOR MUMS SERVICE AND MICHELE AND REED HAVE ALSO COME BACK FROM AUSY THEY FLEW IN AROUND 11.25 AM INTO WELLINGTON AIR PORT,BRON WENT TO PICK HER UP ,I KNOW SHE WILL BE A MESS BY NOW,SHE WILL BE HIT VERY HARD LIKE WE ALL HAVE BEEN WITH LOSING MUM,MUM WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR US LIKE YOU WERE,BUT NOW WE HAVE LOST THE BOTH OF YOU ,WE DONT HAVE REALLY ANY BODY TO TALK TO ANY MORE ,SO DAD WATCH OVER US GIVE US THE STRENGTH TO GIVE MUM THE SERVICE SHE TRULY DESERVES,WE LOVE YOU BOTH VERY MUCH,MUMS SERVICE IS AT 1PM FRIDAY IN WANGANUI WHERE AUNTY JOES SERVICE WAS ,MALCOLM ASKED ME FOR PHOTOS OF YOU AND MUM SO HES GOT SOME PHOTOS OF YOU BOTH WHEN YOU GOT MARRIED AND OTHERS ,SOME AT McKELVIES IN BLACK AND WHITE in the 1970s WHEN HE WAS ABOUT ID SAY 7 OR 8 YEARS OLD ,YOU BOTH WERE PICKING BEANS HES GOT ALOT OF MUM ALSO ,ALL MEMORIES DAD OF OUR BEST YEARS WITH YOU BOTH ,,,WELL ITS COFFEE TIME AGAIN SO BYE FOR NOW DAD, LOVE YOU MUM XXXXOOOO THIS MAY SOUND STRANGE TO OTHERS READING THIS AND I TOLD MUM AFTER A WEEK OR SO AFTER MIDDLE STARTED TO VISIT ME , ,MIDDLE C VISITS ME EVERY MORNING AND SOME TIMES AT NIGHT,WHEN I FIRST SAW HER I THOUGHT I WAS SEEING THING ,BUT OVER THE LAST 3 WEEKS OR SO SHE HAS VISITED ME AT LEAST 18 TIMES,ITS AMAZING TO SEE HER DAD,ONE NIGHT I LOOKED UP AND THERE WAS A REAL REAL BRIGHT LIGHT ,MIDDLE APPEARED FROM THE LIGHT AND SHE SEEMED TO FLOAT DOWN ON TO THE PILLOW NEXT TO ME ,IT WAS AMAZING TO WATCH DAD AND NO PEOPLE IM NOT NUTS WE HAD A VERY SPECIAL BOND THAT IS STILL VERY MUCH ALIVE ,,,HER SPIRIT IS REMEMBERING HOW MUCH SEE LOVED ME AND HOW MUCH I LOVED HER,AND AS TIME GOES BY ITS GETTING CLEARER AND EASIER TO SEE HER,AS I SAID ITS SO AMAZING TO WATCH HER DAD,AND IM SURE YOU KO WHAT I MEAN AND I ALSO SAW YOU ALSO AFTER YOU PASSED AWAY WHILE I LIVED IN NAPIER,SO I KO ILL SEE MUM AGAIN ..I FELT SHE WAS STANDING BE HIND ME AT HER HOME ON TUESDAY NIGHT ,,THERES MORE TO LIFE ,THAN WHAT WE SEE,,,ALOT LOT MORE..."
"HI DAD,OUR MUM CAME HOME YESTERDAY AFTER NOON ,THIS SEEMS LIKE A VERY BAD DREAM,I GOT A FEW HOURS SLEEP LAST NIGHT AND WOKE UP AT 4AM,AFTER 4 HOURS SLEEP BUT ITS NOT A BAD DREAM ,...THIS IS REAL AND I CANT BELIEVE IT IVE LOST MY MUM ....I KEEP THINKING IM DREAMING ,BUT IM NOT..THIS IS REAL ,,,MUMS SERVICE IS ON FRIDAY,ITS GOING TO BE SO HARD TO DO THIS,BUT WE HAVE TO ALL PULL TOGETHER FOR MUM,I CANT UNDERSTAND HOW MUM SEEMED TO BE DOING OK AND THEN SHE WAS GONE ,SO SO FAST ,IT WAS ALSO LIKE THAT WITH YOU ,YOU LEFT US SO QUICK AND LIKE MUM I NEVER GOT TO SAY GOOD BYE TO YOU ..PLEASE LOOK OUT FOR MUM AND TELL HER I LOVE HER SO MUCH,,,,,, GIVE HER THE HUGS AND LOVE I CAN NO LONGER DO ,,,,LOVE YOU BOTH ...I KO NOW KO ILL SEE YOU BOTH AGAIN ,AS I DID WITH MIDDLE C ,SHE VISTS ME EVERY NIGHT AND MORNING...ITS AMAZING TO SEE MY BEST FRIEND AGAIN ,,,PLEASE BOTH OF YOU LOOK AFTER HER FOR ME UNTILL I SEE YOU BOTH AGAIN,,LOVE YOU MUM AND DAD ....XXXOOOO FOR EVER...THANK YOU FOR BEING MY MUM AND DAD ...AND LOVING ME ....I NEVER GOT OVER YOUR PASSING DAD IT ALWAYS SEEMED LIKE IT WAS YESTERDAY IT WAS SO HARD FOR ME LOOSING YOU ,,,NOW MUMS GONE ....ALSO ,WHY WHY ...."
"hi there poppy, miss you soooo much. I still have my whistle!!!! nana is now up there with u and bill and aunty dolly and all our passed loved ones, either that or she is on her way. she may make a few stops on the way. all take care of eachother and forever watch over us all. love u xoxox"
"DAD,ITS 2AM MONDAY JUNE 22 ,IVE BEEN UP SINCE 12.10 THIS MORNING,,WE LOST THE WORLDS BEST MUM THIS MORNING ,MUM HAS PASSED AWAY AT 12.05 AM ,,...WE HAVE LOST THE BEST MUM IN THE WORLD,,,,WHY DID THIS HAVE TO HAPPEN AGAIN .....NOW WE HAVE LOST YOU BOTH .....WE ALL LOVE YOU BOTH SO VERY MUCH , IT WASNT MEANT TO BE LIKE THIS MUM ,LIKE YOU MUM WAS TO YOUNG ...SO PLEASE DAD CAN YOU AND EVERY BODY LOOK AFTER HER FOR US ...LOVE YOU MUM AND DAD MISS YOU BOTH FOR EVER ...I JUST WANT TO KO WHY SO SOON ....IM SO SO SORRY MUM I DIDNT COME AND SEE YOU IN WANGANUI ...BUT I ITS TO LATE NOW ,IM SO SO SORRY MUM....THANK YOU FOR EVERY THING YOU EVER DID FOR ME AND LOVING ME LIKE YOU DID IM SO PLEASED I HAD YOU FOR MY MUM, IVE A BIG BIG HOLE IN SIDE OF MY HEART ,,......XXXOOO I CANT BELIEVE THIS HAS HAPPENED AGAIN....WHY....DID IT ..?????? MIKE"
"Hi Dad missing you so very much,the years go by so fast,can you please do me a favor,i lost my best friend and my family member Middle c just over 2 weeks ago ,she had kidney disease which made her very unwell,sadly she was put to rest on sunday 1st of march 5.25 ,2015 ,it broke my heart to have to say good bye to my best friend ,Middle c was 17 years old ,she was born in january the 10th the same year as you passed away,she was my best friend and gave me alot of comfort after you passed away,we had the 1 in a million very special bond,she was a great little friend and companion,was always by my side and slept next to me with her head on my shoulder or on her pillow every night ,never missed,to me Middle c wasnt a cat,,she was my family and best friend and im so lost with out her,if you could please look after her for me that for me that would be great dad,give her a big hugs and lots of love for me every day ok ,tell Middle c i miss her and love her so very much.,tell her ill see her at rainbow bridge,.why is it you always loose the ones you love ???Thank you for watching over her for me dad ..bye for now ,love yo always //.xxxooo mike"
"THINKING OF YOU DAD ITS CHRISTMAS EVE WHERE HAS THE YEAR GONE, I THINK ONCE YOU LOSE A PARENT XMAS IS NEVER THE SAME THERES A VERY EMPTY SPOT IN YOUR LIFE THAT CANT BE FILLED,I BET YOU GRANDAD AND NANA ,AUNTY JO AND ALL THE OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS GET TOGETHER AT THIS TIME ,MAY BE NOT IN BODY BUT IN SPIRIT.WE ARE THINKING OF YOU ALL ,MERRY XMAS DAD. MISS YOU ,XXXX OOOO"
"Love and miss you heaps.xxxxxx"
"HI ALMOST CHRISTMAS THE YEARS GOING FAST,THINKING OF ALL THE GREAT FISHING ADVENTURES,WE ALL HAD GREAT FUN AND A FEW DAYS OF AFTER MISSING THE BUS ,HAD TO GET ALL THE FISH OUT OF THE NET,I THINK THOSE AND MANY OTHER ADVENTURES GROWING UP ,LEARNING TO DRIVE THE LANDY, LEARNING TO FISH ,HUNT ETC,THESE WERE THE BEST DAYS IN MY LIFE,THANKS FOR BEING MY DAD AND BEING THERE FOR ME WHEN I NEED YOU,ITS TIMES THAT I WISH YOU WERE STILL WITH US ,,.ITS NEVER EASY,ITS ONLY THE TIME THAT PASSES ,NOT THE MEMORIES DAD. ITS ALWAYS SEEMS LIKE IT WAS YESTERDAY FOR ME THAT YOU LEFT US ,,,MISS YOU VERY MUCH .XXXXXOOOOO"
"Hi Dad Happy birthday hun, you would be 80 years young today, hopefully you had a wild party, Ill have a bourbon for you. Love and miss you heaps. Love to all xxxx"
"SUNDAY SEPTEMBER 14TH ,YOUR BIRTHDAY TODAY,DAD THINKING OF YOU ,ALWAYS ,WISH YOU WERE HERE,AS ALWAYS ,YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN 81 YEARS OLD TODAY ,WERE HAVE ALL THE YEARS GONE ,ALWAYS MISSED AND LOVED ,ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS .HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD,,,OOOOXXX THANK YOU FOR BEING MY DAD ..."
"HAPPY DADS DAY .SEPTEMBER 7th 2014 ,FATHERS DAY ,ALWAYS THINKING OF YOU ,TODAY IS NO EXCEPTION DAD,YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART,DAYS LIKE THIS JUST MAKE IT VERY HARD SOMETIMES NOT HAVING YOU HERE,MISS U LOTS DAD ,LOVE ALWAYS ."
"Well my Darling 16 years, miss you sooooooo much, . Theres lots of new additions to the family.Nicks in London now we were talking the other night, youd be so proud of him and the girls, Mandas married now and has a wonderfull Husband youd love him. Renee s just the same her children growing up so fast, So wish you were here, miss our chats. Went for drive out to Tangimoana a couple of weeks ago so changed out there, not good for fishing anymore.Was up at 3am this morning and you were sparkling away in the sky you must have partied hard lol.Well dad best away talk again soon Love you and miss you all so much xxx Squirt"
"WELL 16 YEARS SINCE YOU LEFT US ,ANOTHER YEAR HAS PASSED ,SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY,WHERE DO THE YEARS GO,LOTS HAVE HAPPENED IN THE FAMILY DAD,MORE GRAND CHILDREN AND GREAT GRAND CHILDREN,WE ALL MISS YOU VERY VERY MUCH DAD ,I WISH YOU WERE STILL HERE ,WOULD BE SO SO GOOD TO TALK TO YOU AGAIN,YOUR LIFE WAS GOOD ,BUT MUCH TO SHORT,LOVE YOU MISS YOU DAD.XXX0000"
"MERRY XMAS DAD WISH YOU WERE WITH US ,BUT I GUESS YOUR ALWAYS WITH US IN OUR HEARTS ,OUR THOUGHTS ARE ALWAYS OF YOU .XXX LOVE U MISS YOU .ALWAYS OOOOOXXXX"
"Hi my poppy miss u theres not a day goes by that I don't think of you or have something I wish to tell u about,life is good have a wonderful man Gareth u would love him. Family has extended alot plenty more to live u and im sure u would have filled them with hugs ans kisses. Danas daughter Delaney is a angel a mini of her. Damians as handsome as ever. Dads amazing just like u were love u x"
"SEPTEMBER 14 WOULD HAVE BEEN YOUR 80TH BIRTHDAY ,WHERE HAVE THE YEARS GONE.THINKING OF YOU ALWAYS .
MY FATHER GAVE ME THE GREATEST GIFT ANYONE COULD GIVE ANOTHER PERSON ,HE BELIEVED IN ME ,THANK YOU DAD...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD , MISS YOU ALWAYS .XXXOOO"
"HAPPY FATHERS DAY DAD ,WISH YOU WERE HERE ,WOULD BE GREAT TO STILL HAVE YOU AROUND,BUT I GUESS ITS NOT TO BE DAD,MISS YOU LOVE YOU .XXXOOO ALWAYS THINKING OF YOU ."
"WELL DAD ITS JULY 28TH .ANOTHER YEAR HAS GONE ,15 YEARS SINCE YOU LEFT US,SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY,I MISS YOU VERY MUCH AND WISH YOU WERE STILL WITH US,YOUR VERY MUCHED ALWAYS.THERES SO MUCH HAPPENED OVER THE LAST 15 YEARS ,YOU HAVE MANY GRAND CHILDREN ,YOU BE PROUD OF THEM,WELL BYE FOR NOW DAD MISS YOU .XXXXOOOO"
"miss you so much in times like this . so many things we could talk about.love ya xxxxx"
"Hey handsome , having a bit of a low at moment not sure whats going on with me, overdoing things i think, having lots of blubbers lol. All grandkids are good and so are great grandchildren. Nick and girlfriend coming home in December from London for Mandas wedding i cant wait . Be a great get together, wish you could be here with us. Love you xxxxxxxx"
"hi hun, another birthday is being celebrated, damon turns 19 today,the 17th of march. i remember when he was just a baby and you gave him aride on you knee when you were staying with aj and i , you raced round our front lawn in your wheelchair.we have his daughter staying with us and boy you would just love her to bits and she would love you to. miss you xxxx"
"well another year has started, and shanae little boy ryder will be 1 on the 14th february,and she is due to have another baby august. can't wait to meet him or her. somedays are lonely and just to be able to sit and talk like we used to would be wonderful, love ya xxx"
"Hey gorgeous, just done the lawns, sitting have cold drink listening to the old rugged cross, sheds tears everytime. well we haa a good xmas with grandkids etc,even had a drink for you.Hope that you have caught up with Aunty joe, tell her i miss her. Well buddy gona go get tea started .talk again soon,so much id like to say. I really miss you oh so much xxxxxx and hugs to all."
"MERRY CHRISTMAS DAD ,THINKING OF YOU ,MANY CHRISTMAS DAYS WITH OUT YOU ,YOU HAVE BEEN VERY MUCH MISSED BY ALL XXXX"
"merry xmas, beautiful day, family will be here soon, my thoughts are with u. i have a drink for you and if your really good i'll save you some crackle, miss ya heaps. love always shashema xxxxxx"
"Hi Handsome, well its Christmas morning 2.15am another rough night, so wish you could be here, miss you like you wouldnt beleve, wow think Santas just arrived.Merry xmas hun and love to all miss you xoxooxoxoxo"
"hi hun, only five days till xmas day, have all the kids and grandkids coming for xmas, i can't of been good, there's no xmas prezy's under my tree, anyway you have a merry xmas and give my love to all. love you always shashema"
"Micheal thankyou so much for doing this, now we can come and tell dad things .But not to much lol."
"Yeah me again, as sis said you have lots of great grand children, Nicks in London been there nearly 6 years, Mandas in Palmy engaged to Richard Illston doing 2nd year nursing, Renees in Levin and has Hope and Jordan my grandchildren, there gorgeous little Jm is a real character youd love him.
I miss you so much love you xoxoxox"
"Well dad its been many a year past since we said our goodbyes, ive just finished replanting some gladiolis and feeding my Roses as you loved them so much.
You were one in a million and there, ll never be anyone whod take your place. You loved us you cared for us and you taught us so much I thank you and love and miss you so much xoxoxoxox"
"hi its me again, our family has got bigger since you left, my children have all growen up into loving adults, you have 6 great grandchildren. sterling, amarni. illy. paetyn. ryder and nevaeh, i wish u were here to know them. i will always love and miss you. xxxxx"
"Well my Dad, there is a song called' Dance with my father again' everytime I hear it it brings tears to my eyes. There is never and will never be a Dad like you. Not a day goes by that I don't wish you were here to talk with and ask your advise, you are my greatest love and you never forgotten, all my love xxxx"
"well what can i say, not only my dad but my best friend, i miss the visits , the talks , laughter and hearing you whistle as you walked down my drive way, i play your music all the time and your great grandkids even love to dance to it. i wish i could of had five minutes more with you to tell you i love you, you were the best and i miss you so much. love shashema xxxx"
"PLEASE ADD YOUR PHOTOS WOULD BE GREAT FULL TO SEE MORE PHOTOS ,STORIES ETC TO THE SITE ,TO KEEP HIS MEMORY ALIVE FOR THE GRAND CHILDREN ETC,THANK YOU MICHAEL ."
"I KO YOU HAVE BEEN GONE A LONG TIME DAD BUT IT ALWAYS SEEMS LIKE IT WAS YESTERDAY,I WAS TOLD OF THIS SIGHT SO I DECIDED TO KEEP YOUR MEMORY ALIVE FOR EVER,,,YOU WERE TAKEN MUCH TO QUICK AND MUCH MUCH TO SOON A GREAT DAD ...YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE FOR US ,YOU HAVE BEEN VERY MUCH MISSED OVER THE LAST 14 YEARS AND ALWAYS WILL BE .I KNOW THAT YOU ARE WATCHING OVER US ,THANKS DAD FOR EVERY THING YOU DID FOR ME OVER ALL THE YEARS ,THANKS FOR BEING MY DAD ,AND EXCEPTING ME ...MISS YOU VERY DAY AND LOVE YOU SO MUCH ,LOVE YOU DAD .XXXXXXOOOOO"
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