Ruben Arturo Martinez -- Lakers fan, jazz lover and Uncle
Buck to his family -- died at home in Rosemead, California, surrounded by loved
ones on April 30, 2020. Only 56 years old, Ruben died after
a long and valiant battle with chronic illnesses over many years that included
diabetes, kidney failure and peripheral arterial disease.
Ruben was predeceased by his beloved parents, Maria Luisa Ibarra and Joe Martinez.
Left to cherish his memory is his life-partner Linda Birch,
brother Robert Martinez and sister Laura Cortez. Ruben loved his family, and
adored being an uncle to his nieces and nephews: Marci Donovan, Anthony Cortez,
Lauren Reed, Patti Martinez, Gabriel Martinez and Bobby Martinez. Being a grand uncle to Bella, Nora, Adhara and Lucas increased
his pride and joy in family beyond words. All good looking, smart and talented
individuals -- well, Ruben knew it was no coincidence they were like that and
related to him.
His Los Angeles cousin Louie Morales visited him often, cheering Ruben with the gift of this time and stories.
Ruben enjoyed traveling. As an adult, he frequented Mazatlan, Sinaloa. As a child, he visited maternal grandparents and relatives often in Ciudad Obregon, Sonora. Rich in family connections, his aunts and uncles in Mexico were numerous: Antonio Ibarra, Felizardo Ibarra, Irma Ramona Ibarra, Felipe Ibarra, Rosario Ibarra Felix and Elda Ibarra Maas. They, in turn, produced an empire of cousins for Ruben: Jorge Ibarra, Concepcion Ibarra, Leticia Ibarra, Yolanda Ibarra, Mireya Ibarra, Margarita Ibarra, Elda Beatriz Maas Ibarra, Jorge Maas Ibarra, Carlos Maas Ibarra, Felipe Ibarra, Irma Dinora Ibarra, Ana Luisa Ibarra, Claudia Ibarra, Elda Ibarra, Antonio Ibarra, Cynthia Ibarra, Rodrigo Ibarra, Raul Felix Ibarra, Rosario Felix Ibarra, Yolanda Ibarra Dabdoub, Fatima Ibarra Dabdoub, and Raul Ibarra.
He was godfather to Marci Donovan, Fatima Dabdoub and Gabriel Martinez.
Besides being a sports enthusiast and lover of good food, Ruben
was a brilliant master of the grill, known for his stellar barbequing abiities.
As a dedicated pet owner, he enthusiastically tended to the needs of his gentle giant American Staffordshire
Terrier (Magic) and his independent fluffy white Chow Chow (Linda), and cared
for a blended family of cats including Elvis, Eva, Gus, Jack, Worthy, Coyote,
Starfire and Domino and two turtles named Byron and Shelley. Also, there was a
period he kept fish, although no names were assigned.
His best friends in Mexico with whom he often stayed were Alberto “Beto” Aguilar, Eduardo “Lalo” Aguilar, and Arturo “Turi Boy” Aguilar.
A graduate of Cantwell High School (Class of ’81), he
excelled as a basketball player and was a great friend to many, especially Mike
Corral, Dave Murray, and neighbors Sam and Steve Hasakawe. After graduation, he
worked in administration for Los Angeles County Superior Court for several
years before working in retail sales.
A Memorial Mass for Ruben was held October 2, 2021, at St. Anthony’s Catholic church in San Gabriel. We think Ruben was there because the lights went out for a bit. The service was lovely, led by Father Austin who had comforted and ministered to Ruben in the past. Afterwards, friends and family gathered for a Celebration of Life. The decor? Lakers colors, of course. The food? Petrillo's pizza. We cried but we also laughed this day as we connected and cherished fond memories of Ruben who is forever in our hearts. Until we see you again Ruben...