Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer. -Psalm 19:14
  • 58 years old
  • Born on July 23, 1952 in Atlanta, Georgia, United States.
  • Passed away on February 23, 2011 in Washington, DC, District of Columbia, United States.

This memorial website was created in the memory of our beloved Rudolph "Rudy" Arcee who was born on July 23, 1952 and passed away on February 23, 2011. Devoted and loving husband of 34 years of Abigail Carver Arcee; proud father of sons Rudolph Washington Arcee IV and Martin Carver, and daughters Miriam Arcee Booker and Esther Arcee Abernathy Arcee; grandfather of Delilah Arcee, Thomas Arcee, Rudolph Washington Arcee V, Amaya Arcee, Delronda Abernathy, Chester Abernathy, and Hazel Carver. We will remember him forever.

In the words of Rudy’s favorite hero, John Wayne: “A man’s got to have a code, a creed to live by, no matter his job.” Rudy was a man who had a clear sense of right and wrong, and was consistent in what he believed. In his life and his work, Rudy lived the core values that are the Marine character – honor, courage and commitment. Perhaps it was also his proud heritage shining through, an ancient lineage of great warriors singing in his blood.

As all good warriors are, Rudy was strong and gentle. He gave his all to care for his family. Miriam says, “He spoiled me rotten.” And his concern extended to those outside of his family as well, willing to help others in any way he could, almost to a fault. “He would talk to everybody and everybody would talk to him, even if he didn’t want them to”, Miriam says. He was the kind of guy who, standing in a supermarket line, the person next to him would tell him their whole life story. His mother-in-law Mary, whom he affectionately called Maude, says he was the best son-in-law, and they had a wonderful relationship. She also remembers how mischievous he was – he used to purposefully annoy her by using her expensive Depression glass coasters as an ashtray.

Rudy Arcee was the baby of the family who became its patriarch; the restless dreamer
who became its rock. He was the sunny, joyful child, who bore the brunt of his brothers’
teasing, but learned quickly how to brush it off. This spirit of resilience and good humor
would see Rudy through more trials and tribulations than most of us will ever know.

For being a black man in the old days of segregation in the south tried many a man's faith
and determination. For Rudy, these challenges of bigotry awoke something within him, that
tranformed this awkward teenaged boy from Atlanta into a lion of the courts. A crusader
for civil liberties for those with light and dark skin. Rudolph Washington Arcee the
third, was the hero of his neighborhood and that's what he was in life. He wished only to be
remembered simply as a good and decent man, who saw a wrong and tried to right it, saw suffering and tried to heal it, saw descrimination and tried to stop it.

"As tempted more; more able to endure,
As more exposed to suffering and distress;
Thence, also, more alive to tenderness."
~William Wordsworth

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Services will be held on Sunday Febuary 26th at Mt Sinai Baptist Church in Atlanta.

Mt Sinai Baptist Church
422 Merritts Avenue Northeast
Atlanta, GA 30308-2509
 

Posted by Susan Coffer on 8th March 2011
My heart broke into pieces earlier this week when I learned of the sudden, unexpected death of your dear husband Rudy, and I cannot imagine the depth of your sorrow. Please accept my condolescences on your loss.
Posted by Martha Carver on 8th March 2011
Dear Abby Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We are sorry for your loss. Love, Martha and Family
Posted by Jay Allen on 5th March 2011
Sorry 2 hear about Rudy. He was a great guy & we miss him. Weeping may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning. Psalm 30:5
Posted by LaShonda Booker-Washingto... on 5th March 2011
So sorry to hear about Rudy's passing. He was a ray of sunshine on a cloudy day & he will be missed. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away. Revelation 21:4
Posted by Jean Warren on 5th March 2011
"He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he refreshes my soul." Psalm 23:2-3 So sorry for your loss Abby. Rudy was a good man and a kind soul. I know John and I will miss the many fun superbowl parties we shared w/you guys.
Posted by Kay Bola on 5th March 2011
Abby & family, My love and prayers be with you and your family . My heart is filled with sadness. Praying for you with open arms. Deepest sympathy, Kay
Posted by Sunny Waller on 5th March 2011
Dear Abby, It was with a great sense of loss when I heard of Rudy's death. I just wanted to let you know that you have my greatest sympathy, and my heart is truly saddened. Rudy was more than just a wonderful person; he was always so kind and considerate to everyone at office. This made him a very delightful colleage to work with.
Posted by JJ Walker on 5th March 2011
Missing you my friend and football buddy. Redskin games on the weekend will never be the same. Abby, LoRhonda and me are here if you need us. God bless! "Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him."-James 1:12
Posted by Julie Mardo on 4th March 2011
So very sorry to hear about your loss. May God bless you and your family. "Let not your heart be troubled; you believe in God, believe also in Me. In My Father's house are many mansions;if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. John 14:1-2
Posted by Latasha Bently on 4th March 2011
Dear abby, I'm sorry you are going through this right now. It must be very scary. But I just want you to know that I love you and I will always be there for you. You are not alone. Call me anytime you need to talk.
Posted by Holly Adams on 4th March 2011
So very very sorry to hear about Rudy's passing. We will keep you and your family in our prayers. Please, please let us know if you need anything!
Posted by Rebecca Snow on 3rd March 2011
Dear Abby, I am truly saddened by Rudy's death. Rudy was more than just a friend; he was an amazing person. he was always so kind and considerate to us that we always welcomed seeing him at every opportunity. Take care, Rebecca
Posted by Ben Wallo on 3rd March 2011
So sorry to hear the news about Rudy's passing. He'll be missed on this Earth for sure. Much love and well keep your family in our prayers. Faith & Love, Ben J & Family
Posted by Matty Towlson on 2nd March 2011
I'm So Very Sorry To Hear About The Loss Of Rudy Arcee, He Will Be Miss By All Who Knew Him He Will Always Be Remember, Gone But Never Forgotten. May He Rest In Peace. "There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear ... " 1 John 4:18
Posted by Chuck White on 2nd March 2011
Our Prayers go out to Abby and the entire family. We are so sorry for your loss. Always in our thoughts.. Chuck and Sharon White & Family
Posted by Pops Franklin on 2nd March 2011
So sorry for your loss! Knowing god takes some Angels early he will give you the strength to make it through this hard time. I will pray for you and your family! If you need anything let me know. God Bless You.
Posted by Merissa Avery on 28th February 2011
I can only imagine your sorrow by Rudy's passing. Please know that are loving thoughts are with you; may the peace which comes from the cherished memories of love from Rudy & your family & friends comfort you. May God's grace and strength be with you.
Posted by Gregory Henry on 28th February 2011
Godspeed my friend. Our prayers are with you.
Posted by Madge Lola-Washington on 28th February 2011
We will keep you all in our prayers. Freddy is beside himself cuz his best Steeler's fan has gone to up to Heaven. Rudy was a good man and will be missed by everyone.
Posted by Linda Watson on 28th February 2011
Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted. Matthew 5:4 Our hearts and prayers are with you. Rudy was much loved and will be missed GREATLY! He was such a sweet and kind man.
Posted by Richard Patton on 28th February 2011
I wanted to write and tell you again how sorry we are for your loss. There are never the right words to express how deeply sad I am that you have to endure your loss. Rudy will be truly missed by everyone who knew him no matter where they crossed his path in life.
Posted by Rose Booker on 28th February 2011
May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead. ~Rose Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Matthew 5:2-12
Posted by Esther Abernathy on 28th February 2011
Matthew 7:7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. Missing you Daddy each & every day. Praying to God you found you piece of Heaven at last.
Posted by Ricky Arcee on 28th February 2011
I'm so very sorry to hear about your Rudy's passing. I want you to know that my thoughts are with you. Rudy was such a great father and amazing man who touched the lives of many. Everyone who knew him will miss him. Sending you much love during these difficult times old friend.
Posted by George White on 28th February 2011
Dear Abby & Family, Please accept my sincere condolences for the sudden loss of your husband Rudy last week. Rudy was an exceptional friend and colleague who will be deeply missed by all who knew him.
Posted by Miriam Arcee on 28th February 2011
i miss you so much daddy. its just not the same without you. The LORD bless you and keep you;the LORD make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the LORD turn his face toward you and give you peace.
Posted by Thomas Arcee on 28th February 2011
Thinking of you in your sorrow and praying for God's blessings on you and the family. You have our deepest sympathy on your loss. Much Love Abby
Posted by David Haynes on 28th February 2011
All of us who knew your husband are deeply saddened by his passing. He was a great friend and co-worker and we will all miss him greatly. Please extend our deepest sympathy to your entire family. David E.Haynes Cochran Firm
Posted by Marcus Booker on 28th February 2011
He will be greatly missed. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by Cecilia Carver on 28th February 2011
Please accept my sincerest condolences for the loss of your beloved Jason. I hope these flowers bring you some comfort in the days ahead. Sincerely, Cici
Posted by Barbera Brown on 28th February 2011
Words cannot express my sorrow for your loss. I am deeply saddened by Rudy's death. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Barb
Posted by Abigail Arcee on 25th February 2011
The days without you are lonely, The nights without you are cold, But even though you are gone now That burning passion will never grow old. Sometimes I cry myself to sleep at night , Just knowing that you are gone, but it makes Me feel better knowing that you are peacefully at Home. Goodbye my love... Love You 4ever Abigail

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