ForeverMissed
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Rus Stedman 47 years old , born on November 21, 1960 and passed away on June 24, 2008. We will remember him forever.
Posted by Randy Stedman on December 26, 2015
My brother's birth date was November 22.
Posted by Donna Stedman on October 18, 2010
He was a wonderful husband, partner, friend. His wit and wisdom were just part of what made him so easy to be around. We had 20 lovely years together, far to few but
they were filled with laughter, love and adventure. So many memories that will be with me all the days of my life. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with me. Rest in peace and play nice with the other children.

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Posted by Randy Stedman on December 26, 2015
My brother's birth date was November 22.
Posted by Donna Stedman on October 18, 2010
He was a wonderful husband, partner, friend. His wit and wisdom were just part of what made him so easy to be around. We had 20 lovely years together, far to few but
they were filled with laughter, love and adventure. So many memories that will be with me all the days of my life. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with me. Rest in peace and play nice with the other children.
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Christmas Morning as a Jew

Shared by Jodi Lampert on December 25, 2011

What's very weird is that  --  for us  --  this can seem like the longest day of the year.  Not much to do.  No one, even on Facebook!  Gee...  and suddenly, I was thinking of Wry.  I was one of the people on the AOL Screenwriting message boards, way, way back when.   And I loved that guy!!

The thing is, I can't believe this all happened.  We're taking three or four years, now.  In fact, when I somehow  --  randomly  --  found out, I kept thinking, 'Jim Morrison.'  He's punking us.  Wry was someone I talked to on the phone randomly, e-mailed more consistently, and seemed to love, pretty intensely.  I was shocked  --  finding this out, now seeming so long ago.  We always had this joke that we'd never actually met, although there was an AOL lunch or two I'd attended, that he threatened to show up at.  The joke was, that it was better this way, because now I can always imagine that the guy in Walgreen's is him, since we'd never met, face to face.  Weirdly, I find myself doing it, every so often, still.

Funny.  Not so funny, I've had breast cancer this year which seems to have had a pretty good outcome.  Maybe that's what I was thinking about today, that I'd liked to have told him about it, because he would have made a good joke.  Even though it was maybe a year after the last email we'd exchanged, I still never had a thought about why I'd never heard from him.  It was that random.  

Was expecting to hear Bruce here, and the Michael Jackson just threw me.  Not sure what I was looking for, today, but just wanted to send him and you a hug.  Jodi hugssssss