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  • Remembrances may may be made as follows below:In lieu of flowers, family requests remembrances to be made in Carl L. Bowen's name to The Oak Harbor Education Foundation, attn: Kathy Jones/Jones Accounting. P.O. Box 1801, Oak Harbor WA. 98277  or  to The American Heart Association via phone ( 1-800-AHA-USA1 ) or online, www.heart.org

Carl Lyle Bowen, nicknamed “Rusty” due to his enviable full head of red hair even at the age of 84, passed away peacefully while surrounded by loved ones on Thursday, August 9, 2018. Deemed to be the true bionic man, he put forth a heroic three week battle against complications suffered after a traumatic fall.This superman was born on February 23, 1934 in his least favorite town of Los Angeles, California to Denzel and Margaret Bowen.Growing up near Watts helped him to become a strong, resilient young man. However, he was grateful when his parents finally moved up to the Pacific Northwest near Seattle.

Coordinated and athletic, Rusty participated in an eclectic range of activities including tap dancing and roller skating in his youth to competitive diving, swimming, and gymnastics in college. However, what he truly adored was the outdoors. Rusty’s adventurous spirit was ignited at an early age. Over the years, Rusty became a skilled hunter, avid camper and backpacker, enthusiastic gardener and masterful fisherman.

In 1956, Rusty graduated from Eastern Washington University with a Bachelor’s degree in Physical Education. Along with earning his teaching credential, he also completed the Army ROTC program. After college, Rusty chose to join the Army. He entered as a Second Lieutenant and worked as a hospital administrator in the Army Medical Service Corp. His tour of duty took him to Germany and around the United States.  After his honorable discharge, he transitioned to education. He became a respected PE teacher and successful cross country, track, and swim coach at Chief Sealth High School in Seattle, Washington. Most importantly, this job allowed him to live the outdoorsman life on a regular basis, which included enjoying his own boat and doing commercial fishing for salmon and halibut in his spare time.

After 30 years of teaching, Rusty finally retired. In 1999, he moved up to Whidbey Island, WA. with his soulmate of 48 years, Leah Ann Bowen.This joyful spot became his outdoor stomping grounds for 19 more years. 

Throughout his adult life, Rusty exemplified how to live life to the fullest. With the support and tolerance of his wife, Rusty dabbled in various creative pursuits including photography, guitar strumming, rock collecting, clamming, crabbing, chicken farming,turkey raising, beer making, fly tying, salmon smoking and even garlic pickling. Eating onions like apples and pickled garlic cloves were favorite treats for him and may have contributed to his long life and superman powers.

Rusty will be remembered for being a calm leader, protective and devoted husband, and a supportive father. He was a unique, resourceful, steadfast man who some may say had a tough appearing exterior, but he was truly a teddy bear at heart.

Rusty was preceded in death by his parents, Margaret and Denzel, son Russel, and stepson Michael. He is survived by his wife, Leah Ann, his sister, Patty, his daughters Cathy and Carolyn, his stepdaughters Michelle and Becky, his grandchildren, Justin, Casey, Devyn, Tiana, Jacob and Garrett, his in-laws, Ray, Julie, Bobbie and  Mike, and many other loving family and friends. 

Feel free to leave a tribute below or share a story on this site that reminds you of Rusty; for it is these treasured memories of Rusty that will live on forever.

November 9, 2023
November 9, 2023
It is August 2019.... My self-cut hair is just now returning to the length that dad preferred for his youngest daughter, shoulder length with bangs and sides long enough to pull back out of my face...not the cropped too-short mishap styles that happened periodically after one of my hair-cutting mistakes.  This is the perfect time we usually travel to the beautiful Pacific Northwest. Certainly miss dad and those visits right about now.
April 10, 2022
April 10, 2022
Rusty Bowen was one of my all-time favorite teachers and was an inspiration for me to become a Physical Educator (45+ years, mostly at Mead HS, Spokane). The positive impact that he had on my life is enormous. I actually GOT the teaching job at Mead because of the gymnastics background Rusty gave me! I attended Sealth four years and graduated in 1964 and was so fortunate be in his Gymnastics class and part of the Co-curricular gymnastic team that he created. He was so patient, through and knowledgeable. So much that he taught me I have passed on to thousands of young students and athletes (gymnastic, vb., cross country and track). Rusty's timeless, positive influence glows brightly in many kids he never knew, that were in MY gymnastic classes: when they'd say the experience changed their lives... all because of Coach Bowen. I admired, respected, venerated and treasured Rusty Bowen. He was a major mentor for me and a wonderful example: To be a Teacher first and a Coach second.  His passing is a loss for all... He made the World a BETTER PLACE.
  With Affection,
  Mike Fleming
August 11, 2021
August 11, 2021
As I am now 60…running legends and volunteers that helped at all the races are no longer around but because of Rusty I had a great career of 17 years before I hung it up. Chief Sealth continues to have reunions every summer at Lincoln Park where it all began. Thanks for everything Rusty!
August 4, 2019
August 4, 2019
The beginning of August has always been the sweet farewell to summer vacation, which often included a journey up to Oak Harbor,WA to visit my dad. Enjoying his BBQ'd anything, marveling over his garden, and treasuring his hugs were highlights of our trip, along with taking in the scenery and reconnecting with family. Now, I journey to the beach to try to feel reconnected. Missing you always dad....Love, Cathy
August 2, 2019
August 2, 2019
It’s the Chief Sealth class of 79’s 40th reunion this weekend and I just found out that this great man is not around to share it with him. I was afraid of the HS coach without ever meeting him and almost didn’t even turn out! Rusty made me a runner back in the fall of 76 but won’t be around this year to say hi to! I admit that I would only contact him and Leah Ann every few years but it was always fun to chat with him and catch up. I continued to run for 17 years after that start of x-country season. Loved the sport, loved the Man! Love to you as well Leah Ann!
November 24, 2018
November 24, 2018
I taught at Sealth from 1972 til 1982, and during that time, I enjoyed teaching with Rusty and working with him with the track team. He was a great motivator to the track team, and the students loved him for the unconditional dedication that he gave them. He made not just great athletes, but he made great people. I know that those that he worked with will never forget him for his love for everyone. He was in inspiration to me as a teacher. I will not forget him.
September 3, 2018
September 3, 2018
I didn't know Rusty well personally, but I knew of him from his sister Pat and her husband, my cousin, Leroy. He was one of those people that you could count on. He will be greatly missed by all those who knew him....especially his family.
August 29, 2018
August 29, 2018
I first met Rusty in 1954 when I started dating his sister and in 1956 he was member of our wedding party. He was finishing school and then left for military service. In 1958 our family moved from Eastern WA. to Western WA. and we reconnected and then I began to learn about some of the qualities that Rusty had. If he told something he would do and shook your hand it would happen. At one of our family dinners he asked if I would like to go fishing with him. Sure but I am a greenhorn and no equipment I answered. Oh I have enough to get you outfitted so you don't freeze he replied. The next morning at 4AM we were on the river bank of the green river. To this day, I tend to believe that he tied this 6 pound steel head on my line. It took all his training and 18 months before I landed my next one. I figured I had passed all his lessons when one day, it was so crowded on the river, he invited me to stand shoulder to shoulder with him and fish. He was a great brother- in- law may he rest in peace and have crystal clear water to fish in !!!
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August 23, 2018
August 23, 2018
To know Rusty is to know he LOVED the outdoors so some of my best memories are of the times our young families would go camping together. The trips always included fishing, outdoor cooking, hiking and chatting around the campfire after the kids were settled in their sleeping bags.
Rusty was my big brother and although he was older, I think he figured I could take care of myself. Occasionally, however, a situation would arise and he was there to help and be supportive.
I will always love and mss my brother!
Patty
August 19, 2018
August 19, 2018
I first became acquainted with Rusty through the coaching fraternity when I was the swimming coach and football coach at Garfield High School! Our swim teams competed against each other, and he and I became friends! Later on, we became closer friends through Chuck Terpenning! I had a fishing charter boat I ran in the summers out of Port Angeles! Rusty and Chuck would bring his boat up, and tie up at my boathouse! We had lots of great parties and fishing trips! My wife (Karlista) and I spent some time with Rusty and Leah Ann at their home on Whidbey Island! Rusty was a great friend, and will be very much missed! May God Bless his soul, Leah Ann and his family!  Coach Doug    I forgot to mention, Rusty raised garlic! He knew I loved garlic a s he did! One year, he sent me a box of several varieties he had been growing! It was a wonderful gesture!
August 13, 2018
August 13, 2018
I had the pleasure of taking fishing trips with Rusty, Along with Ray & Jeff Carolus. Rusty truly was a master at it, an exceptional outdoors man who loved a good joke along with a shot of whiskey. I'm truly honored and blessed to have known him.
August 12, 2018
August 12, 2018
Message from Kimberly Shay:
Keston and I went to see Rusty last Saturday. It has been so long. He smiled and chuckled seeing us. We talked some and joked about me always popping his suspenders every time I would see him.
So glad we got to see him before he passed.
Love and Blessings for him to Rest In Peace.
Love and miss you All.
Warm and Sincerity,
Kimberly Shay

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November 9, 2023
November 9, 2023
It is August 2019.... My self-cut hair is just now returning to the length that dad preferred for his youngest daughter, shoulder length with bangs and sides long enough to pull back out of my face...not the cropped too-short mishap styles that happened periodically after one of my hair-cutting mistakes.  This is the perfect time we usually travel to the beautiful Pacific Northwest. Certainly miss dad and those visits right about now.
April 10, 2022
April 10, 2022
Rusty Bowen was one of my all-time favorite teachers and was an inspiration for me to become a Physical Educator (45+ years, mostly at Mead HS, Spokane). The positive impact that he had on my life is enormous. I actually GOT the teaching job at Mead because of the gymnastics background Rusty gave me! I attended Sealth four years and graduated in 1964 and was so fortunate be in his Gymnastics class and part of the Co-curricular gymnastic team that he created. He was so patient, through and knowledgeable. So much that he taught me I have passed on to thousands of young students and athletes (gymnastic, vb., cross country and track). Rusty's timeless, positive influence glows brightly in many kids he never knew, that were in MY gymnastic classes: when they'd say the experience changed their lives... all because of Coach Bowen. I admired, respected, venerated and treasured Rusty Bowen. He was a major mentor for me and a wonderful example: To be a Teacher first and a Coach second.  His passing is a loss for all... He made the World a BETTER PLACE.
  With Affection,
  Mike Fleming
August 11, 2021
August 11, 2021
As I am now 60…running legends and volunteers that helped at all the races are no longer around but because of Rusty I had a great career of 17 years before I hung it up. Chief Sealth continues to have reunions every summer at Lincoln Park where it all began. Thanks for everything Rusty!
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August 16, 2021
It is August....the summer is nearing an end. My hair is just at the length that dad preferred for his daughter, shoulder length with bangs long enough to pull back out of my face. This length usually  ensured a warmer greeting  than when I arrived with a short boy-cut hairstyle,  which happened periodically after one of my self-hair cutting mishaps.   This is the perfect time when we would usually travel to the beautiful pacific northwest to visit dad and Leah Ann. 

Regardless of hair length, Dad and Leah Ann were the ultimate hosts at the "Bowen Inn." Always wanting to ensure we had a nice time, which wasn't too difficult. After rooms chosen and the  tent pitched in the back for our boys, they encouraged us to go out and explore Whidbey Island.

Our days were filled with taking long walks while breathing in the fresh salty island air, listening to the ocean waves retreat from the pebbly  Deception Pass shoreline, glimpsing at Bald Eagles sitting stoically in a tall evergreen tree or watching the Navy jets flying overhead. But, best of all was just chatting while enjoying the deer and bunnies that visited their yard. All this helped us to quickly downshift and sync to the rhythm of Dad and Leah Ann's golden years days.  

  Watching dad in his preferred attire, blue jeans with suspenders, working in his garden  while Leah Ann  tended to the home, singing and dancing as she prepared delicious meals with fresh ingredients they proudly grew or caught is just one memory out of hundreds that are found in the fondest memories section of my mind.

 Dad and Leah Ann, both now freed from earthly bonds, are once again together. 
They are truly missed, but will live on in our hearts and memories forever.

Memorial Poem: Your Are

August 4, 2019
You Are
Beyond the contented beer belches, grunts, growls, and happy chuckles....
You are...
The referee's whistle piercing through cheering crowds and 
the quiet hush before a golf ball flies toward the clouds.
You are...
A guitar strumming a cowboy tune and
a roaring lawn mower cutting grass in June.
You are...
The whistling wind blowing through the trees and 
a flower garden humming with busy bees.
You are...
The sound of gravel slowly crunching under truck tires
and the warm embrace of a crackling camp fire. 
You are....
The ocean breeze resonating with the call of a gull and
the sound of water gently lapping on the hull. 
You are...
The quiet voice inside my mind
reminding me about the value of time. 
You are...
All around me and in my heart, 
so even when gone we are not far apart. 
Love, 
Your daughter, Cathy
August 23, 2018

My favorite memory of Uncle Rusty was from a Thanksgiving somewhere in the early to mid ’60’s. We were all at our grandparents’ home, as was our custom, when much to the delight of us kids, it began to snow. I don’t remember who suggested building a snowman but I remember it was Uncle Rusty who came out with us and helped. In reality, he did most of the building while we helped because we really were toolittle to roll and lift the huge snowballs.I do know that it was the best Thanksgiving snowman I’ve ever seen.

I was also lucky enough to share a few fishing trips with him and I think he made the best smoked salmon ever!

Love you, Uncle Rusty. Rest in peace.

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