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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Ruth Pender, 75 years old, born on May 30, 1937, and passed away on December 9, 2012. We will remember her forever.
December 9, 2023
December 9, 2023
Hey old lady lol, We haven’t forgotten about you ❤️. You are so loved and tremendously missed , Still wish you were here with us on this journey we call life but I know you are soooo at peace and that’s all I could ask for ❤️ Continue to rest so beautifully , until we meet again my love
May 30, 2023
May 30, 2023
Happy heavenly birthday grandma Ruthie you are truly missed
May 30, 2023
May 30, 2023
Hi mommies I love and miss you so much I still cry for you O how I wish you was still with us. Love you my heart cry for you
May 30, 2023
May 30, 2023
Happy 86th birthday. We miss you so much. We was just talking about you last week. Continue to rest. We love you.
May 30, 2023
May 30, 2023
Happy Birthday Ruthie I miss you so so much it seems like yesterday when you left me for the first time. My heart still hurts for you. Keep Sleeping Peacefully Ruthie I Love You!!
December 9, 2022
December 9, 2022
Year 10. We miss your beautiful face everyday . From the laughs , to the knees knocking (lol), to them kale greens on thanksgiving , to you just being here everyday ❤️❤️❤️ . although it still hurts for you to be gone we are all happy about TWO THINGS….your at peace & your reunited with loved ones. Continue to sleep peacefully. I love you grandma ruthie
December 9, 2021
December 9, 2021
Today makes 9 years….don’t know if i want to celebrate you or cry… you truly were the glue that held your family together cause it ain’t been right since you left…..Forever in my heart ❤️ Forever in my thoughts ❤️Until we meet again……….,
May 30, 2021
May 30, 2021
Happy 84th birthday babe ..STILL LOVE ...STILL MISS AND CELEBRATE YOU TODAY AND EVERYDAY❤️
December 9, 2020
December 9, 2020
Hey Ruthie it's been 8 years since you left us. We miss and love you. I'm kinda glad you not down here with all this Rona mess. Anywho wish could hug you. We gonna continue to celebrate your birthday no matter what. I love you. Continue to watch over us.
June 1, 2020
June 1, 2020
I miss you so much. I wish you were here to celebrate your birthday with us. I just want to hug you and sit at the table and talk to you. We didn't let this viruse stop us from celebrating you. Love you. Talk about you all the time. Trell said he wish he had more time with you. We all wish we had more time with you. Continue to rest in peace.
May 30, 2020
May 30, 2020
Today is your 83rd birthday and oh how I wish we could be celebrating it with you. You are deeply missed. I am continuing bringing the family together. I know that's something you would have wanted. I hope you received the balloons we released in your honor. I love you.
May 30, 2020
May 30, 2020
Happy 83rd birthday hunny i still think of you often ..missing you wishing i could have one more conversation or hug or tell you i love you one last time❤️
December 9, 2017
December 9, 2017
My heart never felt so much pain
The sky came together and dropped lots of rain
I thought my life was coming to an end
All I know is I will never give in
You were the reason I became who I am
You hold my life in the palm of your hand
You showed me right from wrong
But the day you died everything went wrong
You knew me oh so well
The day you died my heart fell
I will never forget you until I die
Maybe someday we will meet up in the sky
I know the lord took you cause it was time
But he should of let me say the right goodbye
I think of you from day to day
Wondering what you would think 

Miss you
June 1, 2017
June 1, 2017
Somehow, I think you came to visit me one night while I was sleeping. You whispered and said that you were proud of all that's been a blessing for me. You said to keep bringing everybody together and that you were happy to be back with Albert, Ronnie, and Peanut. You were sadden but happy when Tony came. That conversation lasted awhile and oh how it left me wanting to talk more but you had to go. Just knows I missed you dearly and wish you were still here. Love
May 30, 2017
May 30, 2017
Happy 80th birthday beautiful still missing you as always
December 9, 2016
December 9, 2016
I love and miss you today and everyday♡♡♡♡
December 9, 2016
December 9, 2016
Today and every December 9th, since you've transitioned on... my tears still fall with passion like rears conceived in stars. Someday they'll be full of brightness and energy only seen from afar. If only I could hear your comfort to put a smile upon my face. How I miss your warm embrace.
December 9, 2016
December 9, 2016
I miss you so much. I still use your hand mixer that yoy gave me to make my cakes and pies. I talked about you to my friends. This are not the same without yoy. I love you so much.

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December 9, 2023
December 9, 2023
Hey old lady lol, We haven’t forgotten about you ❤️. You are so loved and tremendously missed , Still wish you were here with us on this journey we call life but I know you are soooo at peace and that’s all I could ask for ❤️ Continue to rest so beautifully , until we meet again my love
May 30, 2023
May 30, 2023
Happy heavenly birthday grandma Ruthie you are truly missed
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May 30, 2023
Happy Birthday Ruthie I love and miss you sooo much. I will never lose the only rare photo I have of you holding (the milk man baby) as you called him. We don’t have many pics of you holding your great grandchildren but I’m lucky to have captured that moment. I hope you’re having all the Newport's and Pepsi your heart desires with a little game of bingo. Until we meet again I’ll cherish all the memories and love you forever.

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