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May 6, 2022
Ryan loved to fix things when he came over. Our front steps were in need of repair. The bricks were coming loose and they were sinking. Ryan would always check them out and add stones where the mortar was cracking or falling out. He made them sturdier for us. For awhile after Ryan passed, I didn't want to get the steps repaired or replaced. Those rocks in between the cracks were Ryan. It made me feel like he was still here. But they were getting worse and he wasn't here to fiddle with them every time he would come over. So they are all fixed up now. And now when I walk down them I know Ryan is smiling.❤️

A Boy and His Golf Clubs

May 6, 2022
When Ryan was about 3 years old he had a set of Fischer Price golf clubs. He loved these clubs. Pretty sure they were his favorite toy. One day, on my way home from the bus stop, I saw little RyGuy on the front porch with his golf clubs. He was swinging his clubs, or so I thought. I was a pretty good distance away, but as I got closer I realized the little dude wasn't swinging his club, he was smashing the bejesus out of the porch. But why? I mean he loved his clubs. When I got up close enough to ask him what was going on and see his cute little face it wasn't a cute face he was making, but an I'm terrified and will smash anything in my path look. He was all flushed and sweaty. His hair stuck to his face. I had never seen him like that, it scared me for a minute lol. Then I noticed a few completely obliterated spiders where he was smashing said clubs. LMAO If you knew Ryan at all, you knew he was terrified of spiders. And the fact that he would use his precious Fischer Price golf clubs to smash them to bits... well there's your sign lol. He also jumped back and away from a sweatshirt with a spider on it as he was opening it on his birthday. When we all went to see The Little Mermaid in the movies he threw a holy fit so terrible whenever Sabastian the crab came on the screen that my Mom had to step out with him and watch through a little window on the door. Even as an adult he would smash a spider as soon as he saw it where it stood. And leave the spider corpse as a message to the other spiders to stay away omg lmfao. Poor guy. Needless to say he didn't lose his fear of spiders as he got older. lol...and his clubs were still good. He had them for a long time and they were multipurpose hahaha. He was also pretty excellent at golf throughout his life. All that spider ninja training ;)

A Never-Ending Story

May 6, 2022
For so long I have been wanting to share some little stories about my baby bro, but I have so many I couldn’t decide which to tell or where to start. It got me thinking. How do you tell the story of someone’s life? I don’t know if there would ever even be enough words…ever. Or pictures. Or songs. No matter how long or short that life was. They say a picture is worth a thousand words. So if you have a thousand pictures are ten thousand words enough? I think not. I feel there will never be enough because you can’t put a limit on something so special even if it was only special to one. Every human being is a blessing no matter who they are throughout their lives or how and when they left this world. A picture can fade even from our memory, but still can add to a story or even tell a little ditty on it’s own. Even just a keepsake can be lost, but can add to the tale. A story in words can be passed on, retold, remembered. Maybe it has to be told though, in bits and pieces. Shared with others in the moments we have with each other. In the moments we have with ourselves. In each and every moment we are reminded of them. Add a song? Even better. Words with a melody, that’s hard to forget and can touch your heart in a way mere words or even just pictures cannot. It doesn’t matter how well you knew a person, how long. If you touch someone’s life in any way than you are one of those precious bits and pieces. A snap shot. As they are for you. If we are lucky we get to be a big chunk. Not just a flick or a movie, but a feature film. But one person could never tell the whole story of someone else. Someone can only be that for themselves, the whole story. You can even write a book and share it, read it over and over or look at a picture every day. It’s still just pieces of one whole puzzle. Only you can tell your own entire story of a lifetime. You are the only one who has all of the bits and pieces, the memories, the moments of your own story all in one place. If a person can no longer tell their own story, it’s up to you, to us, to all the people that hold their own bits and pieces of that persons life, to share them. In whatever way you can. So if we all put in our two cents, our moments, our memories, our bits and pieces, we can tell the wonderful story of someone’s life... together. We can sing the beautiful song of their spirit and play the delightful melody of their soul. Even create a motion picture. Our words the script, our pictures the film and the songs, a soundtrack. When you dream of someone, are reminded of them, hear a song, a laugh, their name, see a sign, tell a joke, carry on a tradition, hear a piece of their story that someone else has shared, are offered a hug exactly when you need it, or even just think of them, sometimes those moments are pennies from heaven. Little bits and pieces of someone’s story they are sharing with us from the clouds above. They are sharing their own two cents…with us. I once heard that when you remember a memory, you are recalling the last time you remembered it, that it changes a little each time. Essentially making it a never-ending memory, whimsical don't ya think?. So when you share a memory of someone you are sharing a piece of their never ending story. I like the sound of that. Be a part of someone’s never-ending story told in a renewed way again and again. Put in your pennies, your two cents…or more. If you haven’t got a penny a ha’penny will do. And never stop telling. It’s invaluable. There is always someone somewhere who will appreciate them all large or small. I say, "Go For It"!

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