The Life Of Sam
Samuel Dumont Arce' was born into this beautiful world on October 23, 1947. To his dear mother Tessie Mae Farley and father, Edwin Solano Arce'. He was one of five children. Darlene Carrol born March 5th, 1950. Alan Arce' born December 25th, 1953. Jeffery in 1956. Kym and Kevin (fraternal twins) Born September 26th, 1959.
He is survived by his sister Darlene, brother Alan and Kevin Arce, his first born son Judson Arce, Samuel Dumont Arce' Jr, his daughter Chrystal Arce', and his adopted children who he claimed as his own flesh and blood, Elijah Arce', Indianara, Natalia, Mara, Naya and Gabriel.
My father was an amazing man. He traveled the world and served our country. He joined the army right out of college in 1970. Fort Dix in New Jersey is where he attended basic training. Then on to Fort Leonard wood for combat engineering. Finally he attended OSC and attained the rank of First Lieutenant. He was stationed in Colorado Springs. Samuel did not re-enlist. He wanted another adventure.
Sam would tell you he traveled the world starting out with just $60. He was a big believer in putting your faith in the universe. That every adventure that came your way would lead you to where you were meant to be. He traveled to every state except Hawaii. He danced all over Europe, China, The Philippines, Costa Rica, Brazil, Peru and many other magical places.
I know my father had immense love and compassion for everyone who he crossed paths with.
Toward the end of his life he fought through many ailments. He had a double leg amputation, kidney failure, heart surgery and diabetes. He never gave up. Throughout these miserable times he never once lost his humor and positive attitude. I commend my father for that. Between teasing the nurses, and making jokes about how without his legs he is Lieutenant Dan's twin. (Forest Gump)
My Father greeted death the way he greeted each day, with love, humor, excitement and passion.
The last week we spent with him was beautiful. Stubborn as always he waited until his Sister Darlene was able to arrive from Virginia. He lasted one week completely off dialysis, insulin, or any other normal upkeep treatments. He ate anything he wanted. Ice Cream was a big one, Ben and Jerry’s for three days. We listened to music, Read poetry, Cried, Laughed, Held hands, Philosophized. Most importantly we left no words unspoken. It was brave and a huge blessing.
My dear dear Papa. He will truly be missed by many. His kind heart surely blessed the world.
Look for his eyes, feel the ocean and the lightening/thunder storms. Listen to the trains. Look to the mountains for he is a part of all of us now.
More than ever before.
I Love you Papa.