Happy 55th birthday, to my big sister.
I am assuming that you only had 2 birthdays by yourself because our birthdays are so close together.
Aunt Betty told me the other day that she had to share her birthday with us, also. 
I enjoyed a cake for us. Happy Birthday, until we meet again.

Hey guys, I’m Crystal from Florida. Sandy was one of my 1st cousins. Every time I would visit New York, she was one of the first family members I would see (besides the Martins). And every time I saw her she welcomed me with her smile. Whenever she told a story, negative or positive, she always had that same glowing smile on her face. I didn’t get to see her when she was sick – before she left this earth, but I will always remember her beautiful smile. I can picture it now……..

I love you Sandy, please watch down on me & my Dad <3