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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Sandy Massey, 58 years old, born on September 22, 1952, and passed away on May 15, 2011. We will remember her forever.
September 22, 2021
September 22, 2021
Another year has passed and it seems it's only been a day since I last spoke to you. I still hear your words as you whisper to me about my life and the things you wish I would change. I hear you loud and clear but my stubborn mind does not allow me to make these changes. I can't seem to move forward in my life's endeavors because I really need you here to guide me. I hope you have a wonderful birthday and you still remain as you did when you left. You left with a fight but you will remain young and free of all illness and hurt.
September 22, 2021
September 22, 2021
If you were still with us Sandra, I'd love to hear your take on the world as it is today. Always changing, always remaining the same.
May 15, 2021
May 15, 2021
Another sad day for reflection, cousin. Oh well, better days ahead for everyone I am sure if we all keep your memory alive with a good mind and a thankful heart. Shine well and bright for us beautiful Sandy with some supernatural signs here on Mother Earth to let us know that you feel and hear our wishful thoughts to be near you, and other missed loved ones, one day again in Glorious Heaven!! ;)
May 17, 2020
May 17, 2020
Hello again Sandra. It's that time again for me to tell you how much we all miss you here. We hope you are in a happy place with mom and other loved ones who we hold dear to our hearts. I really miss you being around but I don't have to tell you that. I'm sure you know. I just want to say please be happy and know that I will be meeting up with you one day soon. Hopefully not too soon but soon enough. Love you to the moon and back my dear sis.
May 15, 2019
May 15, 2019
Hi Sandra. It's that time again that I have to be reminded that you left this earth. That was the day we lost a very important and much loved member of our family. It hasn't been easy on any of us since you and mom left. Our family has an empty hole that can't be filled and it hurts deep in our hearts. Please know that you are much loved by all of us and that you will never ever be forgotten. Love your sis, Laura
September 22, 2018
September 22, 2018
Hi cuz, you were in my thoughts last night. I'm sure you are doing well.
If you have somewhere to be don't wait for me I'll catch up when the time is right.
September 22, 2018
September 22, 2018
Happy 66th birthday Sandra. Wow, I can't believe it's been that long since we shared our September birthdays together. You wouldn't believe how old I am now. You look as beautiful today as you did when you were here with us. Always glamorous and dressed so well. I wish we could share a laugh or two and a drink to celebrate our birthdays together. I'm sure mom and aunt Fran are busy making you a special dinner up in Heaven to celebrate your special day. I miss you so much and so do Megan and Landon. Things haven't been the same since you left. Take care my dear. See you again next year.
September 22, 2017
September 22, 2017
From humble beginnings to heavenly riches, you touched so many along your "comet-like travels" and have left your family always wishing for just another "star-lit moment" with you, Sandy! God Bless your soul always, Sandy, on your special birthday, and pray you keep shining your unique and inviting "beacon of hope" for all of us to keep moving forward with thankfulness at past times spent with you!! Your cousin, Tim :)
September 22, 2017
September 22, 2017
I'll always remember you my dear friend. Love. Denise
December 25, 2016
December 25, 2016
Tiffany. I was your mom's dear friend in our younger years. I remember you ! I am so shocked to see your mom passed. Can you email me please. I need to know what happened to Sandy. I hope you are well. I can see your young lovely face. I hope you are thriving. Sincerely, Denise.
September 22, 2016
September 22, 2016
Thinking of you on this special day when you arrived on terra firma.
You were golden, you are star dust.
September 22, 2016
September 22, 2016
Happy Birthday dear sister. You are one of a kind and everyone misses you here at home. Please if you can, come by tonight and visit us so we can wish you a happy birthday and give you a big hug. Say hi to mom too for us. We love you. Oh and by the way, you look great as usual.
May 15, 2016
May 15, 2016
Remembering a very special sister today and always. You were a very special spirit in this world. You brought a lot of happiness to your family and friends and will remain the great spirit even away from this earth. I hope you and mom and aunt Fran are enjoying the beautiful sunshine, the white clouds and the flowers and green grass up in Heaven. I know one day I will see you all but until then you will remain in my heart forever.
May 15, 2013
May 15, 2013
My dear sister Sandy, I think of you each and every day. You and mom as I look at your picture on my wall of the two of you embracing one another as you are now in the Heavens above. It puts a smile on my face when I see the two of you hugging one another. I miss you and I love you. Please know that you are always in my thoughts dear sister. Love sis, Laura xoxoxoxo
May 15, 2013
May 15, 2013
Although I see you every day Sandra I still miss your presence, the sound of your voice. Your spirit lives forever in the hearts of those you left behind.
May 15, 2013
May 15, 2013
Two years today you left this earthly plain for a place to soar and reinvent yourself, as I am certain you have done. I know if you could read this mom you would be so content to know that I am living a quieter life by the sea, being in nature each day. We all are loving it here and each time I see the birds chirping away happily I think of you and gram enjoying your spirit lives now.
September 22, 2012
September 22, 2012
Remembering my dear cousin Sandy.
You were a vibrant, talented, loving, caring woman who was taken from us far to soon. May you rest in peace on this special day and always. Love your cousin, Arlene
September 22, 2012
September 22, 2012
Happy Birthday dear Sandy my one and only sister. Today we would be celebrating together with laughter, birthday cake, family all together including mom who is also with you now. We can't celebrate together in person today but you will be in my heart and my thoughts all day long as always. I hope you enjoy your day wherever you are. Love you lots, your sis Laura
May 15, 2012
May 15, 2012
Sandra, a year ago today you left us but only in physical body. You really never left. Your spirit lives on in all of us each and every day. When i look at the sun and listen to the birds chirping in the trees i always feel your presence and know you are not far away. I love you and i miss you so very much so until we meet again, rest in peace my dear sister. Love your sister, Laura
May 15, 2012
May 15, 2012
As the fireflies glow,
and the cold harmattan breeze blow,
the lantern you lit these past years,
will continue to illume our hearts soaked in tears.
You left when we needed you most,
but your foes seperated you from gentle ghost.
Adieu.

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September 22, 2021
September 22, 2021
Another year has passed and it seems it's only been a day since I last spoke to you. I still hear your words as you whisper to me about my life and the things you wish I would change. I hear you loud and clear but my stubborn mind does not allow me to make these changes. I can't seem to move forward in my life's endeavors because I really need you here to guide me. I hope you have a wonderful birthday and you still remain as you did when you left. You left with a fight but you will remain young and free of all illness and hurt.
September 22, 2021
September 22, 2021
If you were still with us Sandra, I'd love to hear your take on the world as it is today. Always changing, always remaining the same.
May 15, 2021
May 15, 2021
Another sad day for reflection, cousin. Oh well, better days ahead for everyone I am sure if we all keep your memory alive with a good mind and a thankful heart. Shine well and bright for us beautiful Sandy with some supernatural signs here on Mother Earth to let us know that you feel and hear our wishful thoughts to be near you, and other missed loved ones, one day again in Glorious Heaven!! ;)
Recent stories

camping

September 22, 2015

I will never forget the night we spent by the fire sitting at the picnic table telling stories, jokes, and most of all, the little plastic frog with a wire attached to a deflating pump. We made that frog dance, jump, stand, you name it we did it. That little plastic frog gave us so much laughter we couldn't contain ourselves. My sister loved to joke around and made everyone laugh. She could entertain anyone at any time. Love her so much and miss her so much. That's a given.

Farewell

May 15, 2012
As the fireflies glow,
and the cold harmattan breeze blow,
the lantern you lit these past years,
will continue to illume our hearts soaked in tears.
You left when we needed you most,
but your foes seperated you from gentle ghost.
Adieu.

Mikuz

So many stories

October 22, 2011

 My mother, Sandra, Sandy, a woman with such a wonderful array of stories. 

I remember being transfixed as a teenager and young woman listening to stories of her travels in Hawaii, how she was swept under the ocean in a tidal wave, and survived, travels on a helicopter with friends, journies in Nepal, sleeping in a no windows hotel in India with monkies all around her,. an adventurer Sandra was, and thus I have followed suit a traveller at heart, an adventurer a lover of culture. 

My mother and i had our differences, yet we shared many funadamental commonalities, in which my mom was adament in instilling in both my sister and I from a very young age. Love each other, respect others, love nature, love animals, always have a voice and be true to you. Be proud of who you are, and who you become and never, ever let anyone walk all over you. 

As Autumn is amoung us, and the leaves change, the crispness lingers in the air, I reflect often on our time together, the things that made her spirit dance. 

Nature, entertaining, great food, cooking, baking, decorating, friends and family,  a one of a kind for sure, never ever replacable, and I am sure a hostess and entertainer in Heaven.  

Love you.

Tiff 

PS Thank you Laura for deciding to have this created. 

 

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