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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Sarah Stuhlmuller, 31 years old, born on December 9, 1981, and passed away on November 28, 2013. We will remember her forever.
November 28, 2021
November 28, 2021
Hi there Ms. Sara J. okolowich-stuhnuller

Today remember your wit and determination as a human being
While Linda and Steven and John are still with us, Richard - Dad wet on to be with you, a beautiful star, u touched soo many lives, cannot believe it is 8 years,
Rest easy my dear, ur journey here was great and your legacy will live on ❤️
December 9, 2019
December 9, 2019
I spent most of my day remembering the joy I felt the day you were born. You were my precious gift from God. Our journey together was a challenge yet it was the most rewarding experience of my life. Thank you for making me the person I developed into through the gift of Motherhood. You are always in my heart.
December 9, 2017
December 9, 2017
Well, what can I say about the worlds greatest hero, Thank you, Linda, Richard, Steven, John for a wonderfull and beautiful friendship over the years, I love and miss all of you and. And Sarah, for a wonderful 31 years of fun, joy, silliness and laughter, you will never be forgotten, you will forever be missed!
November 29, 2016
November 29, 2016
I loved waking up to your smiling face each day. You may not be physically here but I can still see your smile. You are forever in my heart.
from your Sweetiepoo, (words by John, typing by Mom)
November 28, 2016
November 28, 2016
Sarah, today as I remember you, I think of how you helped make me who I am. I am reminded of the Martina McBride's song "In my daughter's eyes". I was beyond happy to be your Mom for almost 32 years, but it was YOU who brought out the best in me. You are forever in our hearts. Love, Mom
November 28, 2016
November 28, 2016
I've been friends with Sarah since elementary school. She was always a very positive person.
November 28, 2016
November 28, 2016
Tribute to a wonderful woman, friend, daughter, wife, athlete and teamate, you will never be forgotten, your smile is contagious, you personality is addicting, and your full of joy, always striving for excellence, pushing the limits and setting an example. Although you are not physically here, your spirit forever lives with your friends, family, and loved ones
December 9, 2015
December 9, 2015
Sarah,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. John misses you and thinks about you everyday. You should have had a lifetime together but he holds every moment you did have close to his heart. I hope you are smiling down on him today, you were lost to all of us way too young.
October 7, 2015
October 7, 2015
I only learned about Sarah's passing today, October 7,2016 from my niece Angela Consolino. I was Sarah's bus driver going to Islip Carreer Center from Bellport High School on a Hermon E. Swezey bus. She was the sweetest girl on that entire bus. I am so very sorry for your loss. Her innocence was priceless. She was so kind to everyone. Only a few children I drove touched my heart but Sarah was definitely one of those children. I am so saddened to hear about her. God bless your family. In loving memory, Lois
December 9, 2014
December 9, 2014
Remembering you with love, Sarah, on your birthday. You were a precious gift from God in our lives and you live on forever in our hearts. Love, Mom & Dad & Stephen
January 7, 2014
January 7, 2014
Our family thinks of Sarah everyday. We know she is a angel in heaven Sarah was one of the kindest sweetest girls we ever knew. We will cherish all the memories we have of her.
January 5, 2014
January 5, 2014
Although I didn't know you well Sarah, I watched you grow over the  years from the day you visited my religion class so many years ago until your passing where I sat near you regularly in church. I was so happy for you and John that you found each other. I'm so proud of him that he continues coming to church where I continue to pray for him. I miss you.
January 3, 2014
January 3, 2014
sarah was a great girl a great friend to me and ben she will never forget this
January 3, 2014
January 3, 2014
I picture you singing "Hark the Herald Angels Sing" and "Angels We Have Heard On High" with all the heavenly angels as we celebrate the birth of Jesus. Sing out, Sweetheart.
December 25, 2013
December 25, 2013
Merry Christmas in Heaven

Hearts still are hurting because you're not here
Send them a sign to know you are near.
God's newest Angel look down from above
Smile down from Heaven on those that you love.
December 23, 2013
December 23, 2013
Today I received a sympathy card from some friends. I love what it says so I'm sharing it. The cover has a picture of a sky full of stars.
"Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy". I'm sure when John looks up at the sky he sees many stars but the brightest star of all must be his beloved Sarah shining down on him and all of those who love her.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
For Sarah
Curls of blond and eyes of blue
Your husband John really misses you
She left her John so sad and lonely
Because she was his one and only

Father, Mother, Brother too
All so sad from losing you
Family and friends will miss your face
You are with God in a special place

You came to visit in his dreams
Were really present so it seems
A hug, a kiss to Sweetiepoo
He got to say goodbye to you

Up above at heaven’s gate
For dear Sarah there was no wait
In 2013 on Thanksgiving Day
One more Angel went to Stay
December 15, 2013
December 15, 2013
For my Son John who lost his beloved Sarah,
Don’t cry alone my child, your heart so filled with sorrow
Reach out your heart to those who care and welcome your tomorrow
I know today will make you sad, her memory so new
But hope in time those memories bring smiles to comfort you

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November 28, 2021
November 28, 2021
Hi there Ms. Sara J. okolowich-stuhnuller

Today remember your wit and determination as a human being
While Linda and Steven and John are still with us, Richard - Dad wet on to be with you, a beautiful star, u touched soo many lives, cannot believe it is 8 years,
Rest easy my dear, ur journey here was great and your legacy will live on ❤️
December 9, 2019
December 9, 2019
I spent most of my day remembering the joy I felt the day you were born. You were my precious gift from God. Our journey together was a challenge yet it was the most rewarding experience of my life. Thank you for making me the person I developed into through the gift of Motherhood. You are always in my heart.
December 9, 2017
December 9, 2017
Well, what can I say about the worlds greatest hero, Thank you, Linda, Richard, Steven, John for a wonderfull and beautiful friendship over the years, I love and miss all of you and. And Sarah, for a wonderful 31 years of fun, joy, silliness and laughter, you will never be forgotten, you will forever be missed!
Recent stories

Sarah The Wedding Guest

November 26, 2016

1988. I was a school bus driver and Sarah was assigned to my bus. It was always a pleasure to pull up to the house and see Linda and Stephen waiting with Sarah, all with a smile waiting. As the school year progressed Sarah became more and more outgoing, always sweet, and so kind, soft-spoken and gentle. In February I got engaged and was planning the June wedding. Sarah would hear me chatting with Linda and took an interest in the wedding, soooooooo guess who got invited! When I walked down the aisle my eyes immediately found Sarah at the end of a pew, with Linda by her side. Sarah was dressed so perfectly, in her very best dress....and was so very beautiful. I've never forgotten that vision, and although the marriage did not last, I always had sweet memories of that moment in time. Sadly, we did not keep in touch. I only recently learned of Sarah's passing and am deeply saddened. God must have needed one more perfect angel. Rest in peace, darling girl.....you touched so many lives and will never be forgotten.

 

Heaven's Very Special Child

February 9, 2014

I came across this poem today and want to share it.

A meeting was held quite far from earth.
"It's time again for another birth"
Said the angels to the Lord above.
"This special child will need much love."

Her progress may seem very slow,
Accomplishments she may not show,
And she'll require extra care
From folks she meets way down there.

She may not run or laugh or play,
Her thoughts may seem quite far away.
In many ways she won't adapt,
And she'll be known as handicapped.

So let's be careful where she's sent.
We want her life to be content.
Please, Lord, find people who
Will do a special job for you.

They will not realize right away
The leading role they're asked to play.
But with this child sent from above
Comes stronger faith and richer love.

And soon they'll know the privilege given
In caring for this gift from heaven.
Their precious charge, so meek and mild
Is Heaven's Very Special Child.

Sarah did run and laugh and play.  She loved life to its fullest and had many accomplishments.  She was not the same as many others, but who in this world is not unique.  She was our special child who presented us with challenges along the way, but did she ever bless our lives!  Sarah you were a precious gift to all you met!  We love you and miss you every day!

January 3, 2014

Sarah had just had her hair cut and I loved the way she looked so I took her picture.  Of course, Sarah had to embellish it with her favorite things in her signature style.

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