November 22, 2015
November 22, 2015
I am devastated to be standing here today talking in memory of my beautiful sister Sarah, its not because I don’t want to talk about Sarah, its because I would rather be talking with Sarah. But unfortunately for me and everyone here today Sarah’s mental health overwhelmed her and she decided she could no longer live with the pain and the torture of the illness she suffered from for so long, so here we are.
I knew I would eventually have to write some memories down about Sarah for this speech and to be honest it has been the hardest thing I have ever had to do because there are so many memories its hard to choose just a few to share, and they also needed to be safe for mum and dad to hear without getting into trouble for later.
Sarah and I were only two years apart in age and we were best friends, worst enemies but also fiercely defensive of each other growing up as all sisters should be.
When I was 10 years old just before I started intermediate I had a visit to my new school, while walking around the school I had a girl come up to me and boldly make a not so nice comment about my sister, I was not to happy about that so I shoved her up against the wall and made it very clear that she was to leave my sister alone or else. Arriving home after school that day thinking there would be some sort of welcoming party for me for proudly defending Sarah I was meet with a very angry and upset Sarah who informed me the girl was in fact her friend and the comment she had made was a running joke between them and now the girl no longer wanted to be her friend. Thankfully she eventually forgave me and years later were able to laugh about it.
A few years later while at youth group one night, a boy at church made a not so nice comment about me, I have never seen such a tiny person explode with so much rage as she shoved this boy that was almost twice her size up against a car and just lay into him. I remember at the time being disappointed it only took one person to get me off him but three people to get her off him. The result was we both got suspended from youth group but we managed to get a high five from mum, poor dad was embarrassed but I think quietly proud that we had each other’s back.
When Sarah first moved out of home to Ashhurst I was really upset as I was the last child left at home and felt a little bit lost without her, Sarah came over one day and took me shopping and bought me my first mobile phone so I could call her whenever I wanted to.
I took my role as annoying little sister very seriously, one Christmas at Mum & Dad’s place Sarah was having a little trouble getting out of bed and we were expecting nana and granddad over for morning tea, so taking one for the team I pulled the plug out of the air mattress and man did she fill the house with a powerful protest including some words that nana had the misfortune of hearing as she opened the front door. Sorry Sarah.
I was fortunate enough to have Sarah as my Maid of Honor at my wedding in 2012, Sarah went over and above her call of duty on that day. Those that know me well know that I have a nervous belly., as we approached the chapel that day it became very clear that I needed to find a toilet and I needed to find a toilet now. We arrived at the chapel and Sarah headed into the toilet with me, I wont go into details but as Sarah emerged from the toilet I overheard her say to Rachel Green “I saw something nasty in the wood shed”
I could speak for hours about the adventures Sarah and I and others got up to over the years but we all have our own stories and memories of Sarah to remind us how special, kind, generous and loved Sarah is.
Lastly, to my sister Sarah, I have a bone to pick with you. Dad has informed me that now that you are gone I get double the dad lectures, so thanks for that, well played.
But on a serious note, I love you Sarah, may you rest in peace, goodbye for now.
I knew I would eventually have to write some memories down about Sarah for this speech and to be honest it has been the hardest thing I have ever had to do because there are so many memories its hard to choose just a few to share, and they also needed to be safe for mum and dad to hear without getting into trouble for later.
Sarah and I were only two years apart in age and we were best friends, worst enemies but also fiercely defensive of each other growing up as all sisters should be.
When I was 10 years old just before I started intermediate I had a visit to my new school, while walking around the school I had a girl come up to me and boldly make a not so nice comment about my sister, I was not to happy about that so I shoved her up against the wall and made it very clear that she was to leave my sister alone or else. Arriving home after school that day thinking there would be some sort of welcoming party for me for proudly defending Sarah I was meet with a very angry and upset Sarah who informed me the girl was in fact her friend and the comment she had made was a running joke between them and now the girl no longer wanted to be her friend. Thankfully she eventually forgave me and years later were able to laugh about it.
A few years later while at youth group one night, a boy at church made a not so nice comment about me, I have never seen such a tiny person explode with so much rage as she shoved this boy that was almost twice her size up against a car and just lay into him. I remember at the time being disappointed it only took one person to get me off him but three people to get her off him. The result was we both got suspended from youth group but we managed to get a high five from mum, poor dad was embarrassed but I think quietly proud that we had each other’s back.
When Sarah first moved out of home to Ashhurst I was really upset as I was the last child left at home and felt a little bit lost without her, Sarah came over one day and took me shopping and bought me my first mobile phone so I could call her whenever I wanted to.
I took my role as annoying little sister very seriously, one Christmas at Mum & Dad’s place Sarah was having a little trouble getting out of bed and we were expecting nana and granddad over for morning tea, so taking one for the team I pulled the plug out of the air mattress and man did she fill the house with a powerful protest including some words that nana had the misfortune of hearing as she opened the front door. Sorry Sarah.
I was fortunate enough to have Sarah as my Maid of Honor at my wedding in 2012, Sarah went over and above her call of duty on that day. Those that know me well know that I have a nervous belly., as we approached the chapel that day it became very clear that I needed to find a toilet and I needed to find a toilet now. We arrived at the chapel and Sarah headed into the toilet with me, I wont go into details but as Sarah emerged from the toilet I overheard her say to Rachel Green “I saw something nasty in the wood shed”
I could speak for hours about the adventures Sarah and I and others got up to over the years but we all have our own stories and memories of Sarah to remind us how special, kind, generous and loved Sarah is.
Lastly, to my sister Sarah, I have a bone to pick with you. Dad has informed me that now that you are gone I get double the dad lectures, so thanks for that, well played.
But on a serious note, I love you Sarah, may you rest in peace, goodbye for now.