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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Scott Gause, 55 years old, born on June 19, 1958, and passed away on August 30, 2013. We will remember him forever.
June 22, 2023
June 22, 2023
Scott,
You are so often in my thoughts and I will never stop missing you. I'm sure you are keeping mom and dad laughing!

XX00
June 20, 2023
June 20, 2023
Hi Scott,
Happy belated Father’s Day and Birthday. You’d be so proud of our daughter. She’s got a beautiful heart and soul.
Know you are missed
Lynnette
June 19, 2021
June 19, 2021
Happy Birthday!  Think of you so often and it always brings a big smile to my face!
Love and miss you!

Susie
June 19, 2021
June 19, 2021
Hey dad! Happy birthday! We just moved into our house in Taylors Falls! I wish you could see it but I feel your presence everywhere there, and once we get the bar set up, we will save ya a spot at the fun table! Love and miss you everyday!
June 19, 2021
June 19, 2021
Happy Birthday Scott and Happy Father’s Day tomorrow! Taylor is doing great. She’s moved into her first home and is loving her space. I know you’d be so happy for her.
All is well. You’d be so proud of our daughter.
August 30, 2020
August 30, 2020
Hey dad! Thinking of you today and always. Love ya and miss ya forever!
June 19, 2020
June 19, 2020
Happiest birthday wishes dad! Miss ya everyday and love ya always!
June 19, 2020
June 19, 2020
Happy Birthday Scott and Happy Father’s Day
You’ll be proud to know our daughter somehow got the best of us. She’s kind, generous and loves big. She has a wicked sense of humor and I hear your wit in her voice. Time marches on here as it’s supposed to do. But know you are missed by your daughter and so many others.
Save us a spot at the fun table
Lynnette
June 16, 2019
June 16, 2019
Happy Father’s Day Scott and Happy Birthday next week. Between the two of us our daughter is surrounded by a big beautiful family of Aunts, Uncles and cousins that love her. She is held so closely and loved. This same big wonderful group misses you everyday.
Save a place for us all at the fun table
Lynnette
June 16, 2019
June 16, 2019
Happy Fathers Day dad! Thanks for being the best! Miss ya every day and love ya always!
August 30, 2018
August 30, 2018
Hey dad! Thinking of you today and every single day. Im doing good, even on the bad days, as your sense of humor and love always finds me. Love and miss ya so much always!
August 30, 2018
August 30, 2018
Five years, how is that possible? Life moves on, it does, it has to. But I’m sure you know that you are still so missed. Our daughter is coping the best she can and is surrounded by so many people that love her. Give her some boosts when you can!
Save us a place at the fun table
Lynnette
June 19, 2018
June 19, 2018
Happy Birthday Scott! Think of you so often! You are a hard hole to fill!
Love you!
June 17, 2018
June 17, 2018
Happy Father’s Day Scott. Time here seems to fly by. Taylor is 30! I can’t believe our daughter is 30. How can that be? I remember her being born like it was yesterday. Know she is loved by so many people and we feel her loss missing you. Today and everyday.
Save a place for us at the fun table
Lynnette
K G
November 6, 2017
November 6, 2017
I took a life drawing class this past year, and for our first assignment, we were told to draw something from our memory without a photo. With you on my mind that day, I began to draw your face- just the outline, but I couldn't find the means to conjure up even the vaguest of details. I couldn't even remember the placement of the brown speck in your eye. I left the room and cried that day because at that moment, I also realized that I was beginning to forget the sound of your voice. Every year goes by, and I continue to lose more and more pieces. How can so many faces become displaced amidst one person’s thoughts, even the ones we’ve seen so many millions of times?

The images that live in our memory may fail us but I've found that words are much more difficult to forget. You told me to never sell myself short, that I was intelligent, and that my education would take me far. Thank you for your faith in me and your endless kind words.

Love you forever, Kate
August 31, 2017
August 31, 2017
Hi Scott, my post didn't go thru yesterday. Up north connections stink. Just know you are missed! Our daughter is 30 and every day so proud of her. Save a place at the fun table for everyone!
August 30, 2017
August 30, 2017
Hey dad! Just got back from celebrating my 30th in Vegas! I felt ya with me the whole time there! I think about ya and miss ya every day. Love ya always dad!
June 19, 2017
June 19, 2017
Happy Birthday Scott and Happy Father's Day! It's coming up on 4 years since you've been gone. That does not seem possible. Know you are missed. Taylor will always need her dad.
August 30, 2016
August 30, 2016
Hey dad! I miss ya every damn day and will love ya always!
August 30, 2016
August 30, 2016
Hey Scott, I'm sure time doesn't matter where you are. Here time and life marches on. Our daughter turned 29 this year! Time has gone too fast it seems like yesterday we brought her home from the hospital. Today please send Taylor peace and comfort. She is the very best of both us and everyday I'm so proud of her. Send her peace and comfort today. She lost you way too soon. Keep the party rockin and save a spot at the laugh till you cry table. Know you are missed.
Lynnette
June 19, 2016
June 19, 2016
This is the year that my birthday is on Mother's Day and your birthday falls on Father's Day. I always thought that was a weird little coincidence that most likely means absolutely nothing. So Happy Birthday Scott and Happy Father's Day. I think our daughter is doing the best she can. She's strong, sensitive and at a really young age gets what's important. Loss has a way of setting your priorities. Know that you are loved and missed so very much by our daughter. Save a place at the fun table. Lynnette
August 31, 2015
August 31, 2015
Miss you Scott!! There is a big void here without, but I know you are in a great place and feeling good! Love you!
August 31, 2015
August 31, 2015
Always remembering and missing Scott, and quite often speaking of his wisdom and witty humor. Lisa, I hope you and your family are doing well, and I'm sure carrying on his spirit!
June 19, 2015
June 19, 2015
Scott know that our daughter is doing great. She's smart and kind and her sense of humour is spot on you . I think of you often. I know you fought so hard to stay here. But you can rest , I'll do my best to keep Taylor safe. Keep the party rocking!
June 19, 2015
June 19, 2015
Happy Birthday Scott! We at Distributech miss you dearly. There is so much going on that you played a huge role in. All of your great ideas, leadership and humor are sorely missed. Lisa - hope all is well for you and your family.

Distributech Family
September 2, 2014
September 2, 2014
Hey, my friend! I still think of you more often than not! Missing your unbelievably funny sense of humor and friendship. I know you're in a better place and I'm a lucky guy to have had you as such a great friend and mentor! Keep resting in peace, dude!!
September 2, 2014
September 2, 2014
Distributech personnel, always remembering and continuing to miss Scott.
August 31, 2014
August 31, 2014
I know that Scott is doing well. I know that he is fine. I've sent a lot of love out today and in the last few days overall. He was my best friend and will always be in my heart. We had so many good times. I'll remember the joy more than the pain. That's what Scott would do.
August 30, 2014
August 30, 2014
Hey dad! It's been a year, I really can't believe it. You are missed terribly but doing ok. I don't really know what to say except I love ya so much and miss ya always and forever! I only hope you are happy and at peace! Love ya!
April 9, 2014
April 9, 2014
Lisa - I read your post from January, and that is exactly as I imagined yours and his relationship. He worked hard, but was always anxious to get home to you, and assured that nothing would prevent him from being there. I have a very similar relationship with my husband, and I believe because I knew you and he had such a wonderfuly relationship, respect and love towards each other, it struck me harder than him just being my boss. I could only imagine how difficult it would be to continue as one person, when there was always the two of you.

I just wanted to visit this site today, as I've really been missing him. He always made me feel like I was capable of anything and always encouraged me to do my very best. With that, today, I'm feeling really lonely because of several struggles going on with Indianapolis market and just Distributech in general and I realized, even though he gave me courage to perform well at work, I still relied on him so much for keeping my chin up and he always provided me some profound advice, and would end it with something funny, to keep my spirits up. 

More than anything, I wanted to let you know that he's not been forgotten, as his name comes up quite often during work conversations, and it is ALWAYS great things that are being said.

Hope you are doing better, and continue living with the same spirit you and he had together. I don't doubt for a minute that he is still watching over you.
 Michelle
January 14, 2014
January 14, 2014
I don't know who I'm really writing this to because Scott can't read it. I guess I'd like to express how I felt about Scott and our life together. I didn't say anything when he first passed because it was too painful. I think that I can do it now.

We were very much in love, even after 10 years. We would look into each others eyes for about 5 minutes every night before we turned out the lights and went to sleep. We really liked each other's faces and never got sick of looking at each other. Scott had a little brown fleck in the hazel part of his eye. I've never seen anyone else with that. I loved Scott to the core and still do. I know he loved me deeply too, I'm grateful for having experienced such a good, true love. It's what everyone wants in life and I'm happy to have been a part of a very cool union.

Scott was always a good husband and my best friend. It was hard not having him here for Christmas, but the normal, everyday stuff is honestly more difficult. Whenever Jeopardy is on I wish that he were here lying on the couch with me watching it. He was really smart and pretty darn good at Jeopardy. I wish there were a phone that went to heaven because I still have a lot to say to him. I'm sorry that our time together was so short.

Scott taught me a lot about life. He was a truly good hearted person and the eternal optimist. He always saw the best in people. He was honest, fair and loyal. He was generous with his time and money. Any time that he could help someone he would. He was incredibly smart and had a great work ethic.He was always trying to do the right thing. He was a great father and thought the world of Taylor and Katie. He was not self centered in the least and never complained. Even through all the pain and suffering that he endured with the cancer, he never, ever complained. Truly unbelievable.

We had a great life together. When it's my time to leave this Earth, I will be far less afraid or resistant because I know that he will be there to join me and show me around.
October 7, 2013
October 7, 2013
I'm so so sorry to hear about Scott's passing. I am his cousin. I only saw him during our trips to Iowa (from Maryland), but were the same age and had fun. I have a picture of the two of us sitting together in a chair, when our feet barely reached the end of the seat. Sorry for your loss. Kristy Crawford
September 16, 2013
September 16, 2013
So sorry for your loss, Lisa, I was devastated when I heard about Scott. I left a few snippets of stories here to give you a glimpse of what it was like to grow up with Scott. My deepest sympathy for the whole Gause family.
September 11, 2013
September 11, 2013
Lisa,

I am sorry for your loss. Scott worked for me for several years. He was one of my favorites. Always one of the best personalities to be around. He reminded me of Dennis Miller. My prayers to you and your family.
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
The Gause family,
My family and I are sorry to hear of Scott's passing. Twice we are saddened by his loss. We were blessed while he was a part of our family, and comforted that we shall meet again. May the Lord bless you all and give you His peace. In His Grace, The Hunting' s Brenda Randy Ramsey, Shanna Barry Addyson Nelson
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
I am Taylor's aunt Terrie. Scott was my brother in law. I am so very sorry to hear of Scott's passing. I have so many amazing and funny memories of him. One of my favorites is-I said to Lynnette and Scott we can stroll along and window shop for a while, Scott said I prefer to frolic while window shopping and he DID! Your pictures show great love and that is truly what it is all about.
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Dear Lisa and family -
I am so very sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Scott for 14 years. My favorite thing about Scott was his wry wit. He had a way of making a joke that would just sneak up on you and make you chuckle long after.. I love all of the pictures of your family and loved ones. His was obviously a life well lived!
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Lisa, I have known Scott for over 15 years, he was my boss for 10 years. He was a great boss, great person but most importantly, he was a great freind. He was also a funny person. When we would spoke with each other he would always use the word dude. He will truly be misses by all. My heart goes out to you and your family.
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Lisa and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. I had the privilege of working with Scott for the past several years. He was a wonderful boss and a great leader to our region. He will be greatly missed.
September 8, 2013
September 8, 2013
I was fortunate to have Scott as a boss for many years. I learned a lot from him, respected him, and considered him a friend. His insight still guides me in sales presentations. He will be greatly missed.
Tim
September 8, 2013
September 8, 2013
The blow has been hard, the shock has been severe. Only a couple of months I have worked for Scott but he has left an indelible mark on me. Gone too soon! He is missed, he will be missed. May he rest in perfect peace!
September 7, 2013
September 7, 2013
Scott was highly creative, wildly entertaining, with a sharp wit and a knowing smirk that saw right through me. All he let in to his life were made better. We were fraternity brothers. He made me laugh so hard I would cry. Lisa, you must be amazing or your two would not have been together. So sorry for your loss. Signed by The Colonel.
September 7, 2013
September 7, 2013
I had the privilege of working with Scott for a long time.
He and I ran larger sized regions, and spoke often, very often. We enjoyed bouncing our staffing concerns off one another, and for some reason, although the call might have started with deep conversation, we always found a way to end it with a laugh.
I’m already missing those conversations, as well as his “yeah, yeah, yeah”.
September 7, 2013
September 7, 2013
Scott saved my life once. I had the pleasure of working with Scott from Milwaukee as well as in Indy. He always stressed to me to make sure family was first. He always had an answer to a question whether it was work related or not. I will always remember shortly before I left Indy, meeting up with Scott and Lisa at melody inn. There will never be enough good things to say about him. Thanks
September 7, 2013
September 7, 2013
I only knew Scott 3 years from back in the college years at the delta house! He always had the funny great smile and smirk! We always had nicknames for guys and Scott's was Newton! He was a great friend the little time I knew him and will always be remembered by alot of friends from the delt house!!
September 7, 2013
September 7, 2013
Scott was a wonderful addition to our family, and will be greatly missed. l was happy to learn that the 23 Psalm was his favorite verse from the bible and that it brought him comfort and peace, His peaceful passing was a testiment to his confidence in that verse. For those who know HIM you never have to say goodby, just l'll see you later. Love you Lisa.
September 6, 2013
September 6, 2013
I will miss Scott forever. Robin and I are heart broken beyond belief. I will take his attitude, sense of humor and laughter with me where ever I go. Love you, buddy. Glad you had Lisa and your family to love! Wait, come back, we're not done having you with us!
September 6, 2013
September 6, 2013
In my 15 years of working with Scott, I will always cherish his witty sense of humor and the way he cared for his family and the people he worked with. Watching Scott handle his illness the past year was remarkable. He never once complained or pushed his pain onto anyone else. I learned more from Scott than I could've of ever taught him. He will be greatly missed!
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June 22, 2023
June 22, 2023
Scott,
You are so often in my thoughts and I will never stop missing you. I'm sure you are keeping mom and dad laughing!

XX00
June 20, 2023
June 20, 2023
Hi Scott,
Happy belated Father’s Day and Birthday. You’d be so proud of our daughter. She’s got a beautiful heart and soul.
Know you are missed
Lynnette
June 19, 2021
June 19, 2021
Happy Birthday!  Think of you so often and it always brings a big smile to my face!
Love and miss you!

Susie
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June 8, 2019

Hey Dad!

At Naters wedding and we saved you a spot at the fun table of course. His wife is beautiful inside and out! We are all thinking of you and missing you! Love ya always ~me

Growing up with Scott Gause

September 16, 2013

   Great pictures on here of Scott. It takes my breath away knowing he's gone, even if we only saw each other a few times in the last 30 years. My best friend from 1st grade through high school, and the only pic I can find of him is from when he visited me in Omaha and I took a picture and he stuck his finger way up his nose just when I snapped it. Hard to believe we were both yearbook photographers.
   We had so much fun together. Staying up all night at the Gause house laughing til we woke his parents time after time, Ralph coming in and telling us to "keep it down to a dull roar, fellers" the first time, then proceeding with a sterner admonishment each time til we knew we were really in trouble (and Ralph and Sunshine was really tired) usually about 4 or 5 am.
   Drinking milkshakes and building with legos everyday when Scott wrecked on Jeff Ilstrup’s bike and had his jaw wired shut one summer. I won all the arguments that summer-since he couldn’t really talk. Building huge blanket forts in his basement. Playing Little League with Ralph coaching. Playing kickball and dodgeball at Woodrow Wilson. Maytag picnics. Skoshi the wondercat. Beta, the dog who I believe came to the Gause house by way of brother Steve’s frat house.
   Man from U.N.C.L.E and 007 type spy espionage games (the Rat Club) with Dave Currant that would play out over weeks throughout the backyards of southwest Newton. The Rat Clubhouse was a huge shipping container in the Gause backyard. Basketball at the Y. The Topland Rutabaga Band with Judd Salmon (another unicyclist, Judd has also passed on), and Scott on drums. Backyard wiffle ball with Mike Twedt. Every type of card and board game you can think of at Twedt’s-we even learned bridge in junior high. Mike has been gone over 20 years now.
   Tennis ball cannons made with pop cans, tape and lighter fluid. Cox airplanes and Estes Rockets. The toy monorail we built with a Cox 020 engine, badminton racket handle, long hookeyes and a couple hundred yards of kite string-it had to be going 100 mph when one of us missed stopping it with a thrown towel and it hit the pine tree at Woodrow Wilson and disintegrated. Making homemade smoke bombs, buying saltpeter by the pound from Nollen’s Drug and getting funny looks from the pharmacist.
   Golfing daily at Westwood, getting dropped off in the morning and picked up at dinnertime.  Riding unicycles across town to play baseball at Emerson Hough, Sunset or Woodland Park. Riding minibikes in Denniston Knolls. Foosball at the bowling alley and Brad Bucklin’s basement- Scott and I were almost unbeatable. Waterskiing on Lake Panorama-the time I wiped out and the ski ramped off my head and we didn’t know I was cut until I put my white cap on and it started turning red. Riding a Greyhound bus to Omaha to see the Allman Brothers Band in high school.  Riding our little two stroke motorcycles to Clear Lake, much to Ada and Sunshine's worry. Rodger Vonk rode with us, Rodger died last year falling through a roof in Colfax-he was working as a roofer. Hanging out on Rodger’s porch on First Avenue.
   Camping out down by the Skunk River-we were awakened by inmates from the Riverview Prison release center standing there with pitch forks-that woke us right up. Jumping off the train trestle into the river by Metz. Riding freight trains across town. Exploring bums tunnel using railroad flares. Racing around town and gravel roads in the Green Bean-the ’72 Chevy Caprice with the 400 4 barrel. The time he was spinning donuts and hung it up on a post in Maytag park.
   More memories than I will ever be able to recall. First time I ever kissed a girl, took a drink, broke a law, stayed up all night, had a smoke, used a swear word... Scott was either there or the first one I told. Scott was smart, funny, good looking and great company- just like me.

Damn it.

   Let me know if there is anything I can do for the Gause family, my second home growing up was Scott’s house.

 

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