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SCOTT SHAFER 1970 - 2010

This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, SCOTT SHAFER who was born on November 22, 1970 and passed away on May 4, 2010. We will remember him forever.

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Kathy Lewis
November 22
November 22
Happy "53rd" Birthday, Scotty boy!! You've been on my mind al day. We always had so much fun on your birthdays. I know you're celebrating with Grandma and
Paw, and your Dad. One day I will join you!! Until then, I will carry you in my heart. I love you, sweet boy!! Mom
Kathy Lewis
May 4
May 4
13 years, how is that possible? How have I lived for 13 years without seeing you, my precious boy? You have always been the light of my life and I know that I will see you again some day. Until that day I will carry you in my heart. I love you, Mom
Kathy Lewis
November 22, 2022
November 22, 2022
Happy "52nd" Birthday my dear son! I've thought about you all day, remembering the birthdays when you were here in my presence. I miss those days so much....life will never be the same without you. I know you're with Grandma and Paw and your Dad. Until I see you again, I will keep your memory alive as long as I live. I love you, Mom
Kathy Lewis
May 5, 2022
May 5, 2022
12 years.....remembering my special boy. How can it be possible that this many years have gone by without you? It seems like forever since I've seen you and I miss you with all my heart. I am so blessed to have you as my son and I have faith that I will see you again. Until that day, I will carry you in my heart always. I love you, Mom
Kathy Lewis
November 22, 2021
November 22, 2021
Happy "51st" Birthday, Scotty!! I sure miss celebrating with you today. Your "bigger than life" personality is missed every day of my life. I know you're with Grandma and Grandpa and watching over all of us. Until I see you again, know that I love you and miss you with all my heart. Mom
Kathy Lewis
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
Happy Father's Day, Scott!! I am so proud of the dad you were to your two beautiful girls. We all miss you and love you with all our hearts. I'll see you soon my son. I love you, Mom
Kathy Lewis
May 5, 2021
May 5, 2021
11 years......It's been so long since I've seen your face and heard your voice. I will forever keep you in my heart. You were the best son any mother could hope to have. You are the most precious gift I've ever been given. I know I will see you again and what a glorious day that will be!! I love you, Scotty boy. Mom
Kathy Lewis
November 22, 2020
November 22, 2020
Happy "50th" Birthday, Scotty!!! My precious boy, I miss you so very much. I know you are celebrating with grandma and grandpa. One day I'll be there too and we will all be together again. Until then I will keep your memory alive every day of my life. I love you, Scotty!!
Kathy Lewis
May 4, 2020
May 4, 2020
10 years.....today I choose to celebrate the LIFE you lived instead of concentrating on your death. You are the very best son a mother could hope to have. Your love for your family and friends is beyond words. You are missed and loved every day. I will always keep your memory alive. I love you and miss you so much, Mom
Kathy Lewis
November 22, 2019
November 22, 2019
Happy 49th Birthday in Heaven my precious boy!! You will never be forgotten!!! I can't wait to see you again and get one of your big hugs and hear your fabulous laugh!! Forever missed and loved!!!! Mom
Kathy Lewis
May 4, 2019
May 4, 2019
9 years ago you left this earth but I will hold you in my heart until I see you again. You are missed beyond words but I know that you are with grandma and grandpa and having a great time. I love you, my son!!
Kathy Lewis
November 22, 2017
November 22, 2017
Happy 47th birthday in heaven my precious boy.I miss you more than words could ever express....you will always be carried in my heart....until I see you again, I love you, Mom
Dave/Sharon Shafer
May 4, 2017
May 4, 2017
Our dear Scott. Not a day goes by that we don't think of you. We all miss you so much. You were always the bright light that kept is in stiches with all your funniness and laughter.
Miss you dear son, love Dad and Sharon
Kathy Lewis
November 22, 2016
November 22, 2016
Happy 46th birthday, Scottie! I know you are celebrating with Grandma and Grandpa. You are missed beyond words.....my heart is broken. I know I will see you again....I can't wait for that day! I love you, my precious child.... Mom
Dave/Sharon Shafer
November 22, 2016
November 22, 2016
Dearest Scott. We know your are having a blast today on your birthday. That's just the way you are. We miss you so much every day. We are doing ok. Just waiting to see your face and hear your laugh again. Kind of like your big hugs too.  Miss you and love you, Dad and Sharon
Kathy Lewis
May 4, 2016
May 4, 2016
Today marks your 6 year Angelversary. It doesn't seem possible....I miss you so much. Thank you for the "sign" today! I know that you are always with me in spirit. Until I see you again, I love you, my wonderful son. Love, Mom
Kathy Lewis
November 22, 2015
November 22, 2015
Happy 45th Birthday in heaven my precious son!! I'm so glad that God chose me to be your mom. What I would give to see you one more time. But having faith in God gives me the assurance that I will see you again. Until that day, I will remember you always and love you with all my heart. I love you, Mom......
Sue Hopper
May 4, 2015
May 4, 2015
Dear Scott,
I just lit a candle in your memory, not that anyone could ever forget you. I did not see you in the later years but from what I have seen, you did not change from the sweet little boy I knew. You would be so proud of your girls. They are both so smart and beautiful. It doesn't seem possible but it's already been five years since you made your journey from this world to the next. Say hello to your grandma and grandpa for me. Your mother struggles every day because you were her life. Anything you can do to make her feel better would be great. We miss you, Scott. Our world is not as bright as it was when you were here.
Kathy Lewis
May 4, 2015
May 4, 2015
Today marks the 5 year anniversary of your death. I never thought I would live to see this day, but we continue on this journey that we've been given. I think about you all the time. I know that you're safe in heaven with grandma and grandpa. I will see you all again one of these days. Until then, you are remembered and loved with all my heart. I love you, Mom
Kathy Lewis
November 22, 2014
November 22, 2014
Happy 44th Heavenly Birthday, my precious son! What fun we always had on your birthdays.....you, and your crazy antics. You are deeply loved and sadly missed every minute of every day. I love you with all my heart......Mom
Kathy Lewis
May 4, 2014
May 4, 2014
Four years ago today, God called you back home. I am thankful for the time I had with you, for the love you gave me. You are the joy of my life and I miss you so much. Your face, your laughter, your beautiful voice.....all these things are immortalized in my mind. Fly high, my angel, and I will see you again some day. I love you, Mom
Kathy Lewis
November 23, 2013
November 23, 2013
As I have survived another one of your birthdays without you, I reflect upon happier days when you were here. Your laughter filled the room and you were the spirit of our family. You were a wonderful son, grandson, and father. I am so proud of the man you became and your contributions to this world. We will be reunited one day for eternity.....oh happy day!!! I love you, Mom
Jerry Jones
November 22, 2013
November 22, 2013
I hate to see a friend going through the pain of losing a child and not being able to do anything about it.
“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.” From a headstone in Ireland
Love you with the love of Christ Kathy
Jerry Jones
May 12, 2013
May 12, 2013
I'm sorry that I'm late in posting Kathy. I was out of the country. My thoughts and prayers are always with you and your family.
Our pain in losing a child will never end. And, as for me, I'm not sure that I want it too.
Kathy Lewis
May 4, 2013
May 4, 2013
It's been 3 years.....I miss you more as each day passes, but I know that I will be reunited with you some day. I feel your spirit around me and your life lives on in your beautiful daughters. I thank God every day for giving me such a wonderful son. You were the best! I love you, Mom
Jerry Jones
November 23, 2012
November 23, 2012
Birthdays are only once a year. The indescribable pain of losing a child is forever. With the Love of Christ
Kathy Lewis
November 22, 2012
November 22, 2012
Happy Birthday my precious son. You are in my thoughts every day and today I will give thanks that God gave me such a wonderful son. You were the best!! I love you with all my heart....Mom
Kathy Lewis
June 17, 2012
June 17, 2012
Happy Father's Day Scotty. This is my third Father's Day without you. I miss you more with each passing day, but I know you and grandpa are watching over all of us with love. I love you, Mom
Jerry Jones
May 6, 2012
May 6, 2012
I too have lost a son. For those who have never experienced this terrible tragedy may say that he’s in a better place and that after a mourning period should be let to rest. It may be true but that loss, pain, and memory will be in our hearts till the day we die. With the love of Christ.
Kathy Lewis
May 4, 2012
May 4, 2012
Two years ago today my life as I knew it ended. You were the light of my life and I was so proud of you. As I live the rest of my life without you, I think about you every day. Your spirit lives on in your two beautiful daughters. I will see you again some day......I love you,
Mom
Kathy Lewis
December 25, 2011
December 25, 2011
Merry Christmas my precious son. This is my second Christmas without you and the pain has not lessened. I miss you more each passing day, but I know I will see you again. I know you and grandpa are together and watching over us. I loveyou, Mom
Jerry Jones
November 22, 2011
November 22, 2011
One of the most difficult things to deal with in life is the death of a loved one. However, the losing of ones child is an indescribable pain. This pain will never go away, but rather it’s multiplied by our lack of understanding.
2 Samuel 12:23 But now he is dead. Why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he will not return to me.”
Kathy Lewis
November 22, 2011
November 22, 2011
Happy Birthday to you, my precious son. 41 years ago today I gave birth to you and today I sit here alone trying to survive this life without you. I will miss you and love you forever. Mom
Kathy Lewis
September 20, 2011
September 20, 2011
My precious son, I miss you sooooo much. You are always on my mind. I love you, Mom
Kathy Lewis
June 20, 2011
June 20, 2011
Happy Father's Day to you, my son. You were a GREAT dad! I miss you and love you so much. I love you, Mom
Kathy Lewis
June 9, 2011
June 9, 2011
Life and death do not separate the great love we had for one another. I love you, Mom
Kathy Lewis
May 14, 2011
May 14, 2011
I miss you more everyday. You are on my mind every moment and all I have now is your picture in a frame. Somehow, that just isn't enough..... I love you!!
Jerry Jones
May 4, 2011
May 4, 2011
You’ll be with Scott again Kathy. Trust in our Lord, for only He can make it possible. God will bless you and give you the strength and comfort that “only” He can provide.
Matthew 5:4 - Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Jerry
Carolyn Jones
May 3, 2011
May 3, 2011
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal,and Scott you have left us with unforgettable memories.
To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even
Kathy Lewis
May 1, 2011
May 1, 2011
Hi Scott. We had a beautiful memorial service for you today. It will be a year next week since you left us. So many people loved you and miss you. Your memory will live forever in our minds. Our memories of you are beautiful. As the song say, "gone t
Kathy Lewis
April 24, 2011
April 24, 2011
Hi Scott, It's Easter and I missed you so very much. I had to hide the eggs by myself. I miss your laughter, your craziness, and your voice. I miss all of you! I love you, Mom
Dave/Sharon Shafer
April 23, 2011
April 23, 2011
Scott,we miss you more than words can ever say.You were always the life of our get togethers,always loving and fun.We so miss seeing you and talking with you, and those BIG BEAR HUGS.Our only comfort is to know you are out of your pain here on earth.
Kathy Lewis
April 22, 2011
April 22, 2011
Hi Scott. It will soon be a year since you've been gone. It has been a year filled with much grief and sadness. You were such a special person who touched so many lives. You are sadly missed by all who knew you. I love you, Mom
L Bellan
April 16, 2011
April 16, 2011
Scott, I didn't have the pleasure of knowing you well, but I definitely liked you! Your sense of humor and smile are what I instantly recall about you. You have your mother's smile, which she has from her wonderful Dad, now you're with him!
Kathy Lewis
April 14, 2011
April 14, 2011
You were filled with spirit and compassion. You were sensitive and thoughtful,loving and loyal. You always had a gleam in your eye and laughter in your voice. I love you, Mom
jamie statton
April 9, 2011
April 9, 2011
I didn't know Scott as an adult but I sure did admire him as a kid. he was older than I was and always went out of his way to make me laugh and keep me entertained while the "adults were talking." I missed out knowing him as an adult, but bet he wa
Mandy Malone Timpe
April 9, 2011
April 9, 2011
Uncle Scotty , we miss you and talk of you daily. You were such a big part of our lives!! Maci talks of you often. Wish you weren't taken so soon!!
Kathy Lewis
April 8, 2011
April 8, 2011
To my beloved son, Scott. You were the best son anyone could ever hope to have. You were my life, my vision, my future. I will never let your memory fade away. I love you with all my heart. I will see you again someday. I love you, Mom
Sue Hopper
April 8, 2011
April 8, 2011
Scotty, you were a sunny little boy and always the apple of your mother's eye. You grew up to be a wonderful man, husband and father. You were loved by many and will never be forgotten. You were just taken from us too soon. God needed a new angel

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Kathy Lewis
November 22
November 22
Happy "53rd" Birthday, Scotty boy!! You've been on my mind al day. We always had so much fun on your birthdays. I know you're celebrating with Grandma and
Paw, and your Dad. One day I will join you!! Until then, I will carry you in my heart. I love you, sweet boy!! Mom
Kathy Lewis
May 4
May 4
13 years, how is that possible? How have I lived for 13 years without seeing you, my precious boy? You have always been the light of my life and I know that I will see you again some day. Until that day I will carry you in my heart. I love you, Mom
Kathy Lewis
November 22, 2022
November 22, 2022
Happy "52nd" Birthday my dear son! I've thought about you all day, remembering the birthdays when you were here in my presence. I miss those days so much....life will never be the same without you. I know you're with Grandma and Paw and your Dad. Until I see you again, I will keep your memory alive as long as I live. I love you, Mom
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Homerun hitter

May 2, 2011
by Kathy Lewis

Scott loved to play softball. He was known for his powerful homerun hits. One time they were playing at the Legion in Jerseyville, Il., and he hit the ball so hard it broke a window in a house way outside the field! He would just stand there with the bat on his shoulder, like he wasn't going to even be ready to hit it. Then he would just smack it and it would go sailing. That's my boy!!

 

Scott's many imitations

April 10, 2011
by Kathy Lewis

Scott loved to imitate different characters. Just to name a few, Buddy the Elf, Pee Wee Herman, Motivational Speaker, and many other Saturday Night Live skits. He did them to perfection, every line down pat. MANY people were entertained by his antics. Scott was known for making people laugh. His generous spirit, his contagious laugh, his zest for life, are all things that make up this wonderful man.

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