Sedina!! My best friend, my sister I never had. It breaks my heart to be writing this because I still can’t believe you’re gone. You’ve left a massive void since your passing and I miss you so much Seddy.
Its been 76 days since I last saw you and 52 days since we last communicated and not a single day goes by without me reading our chats nor viewing our pictures and videos together.
You were one of the very first people I met when we joined Valley View University in 2008 and though we were not as close back then,we found a way to keep in touch and from 2013 our awesome brother -sister relationship started.
We shared the best of memories that will live with me forever. From our funny crazy moments driving to and from town, the petty little fights as usual in between; mostly because you were stubborn, (I know she’d scream her ass off hearing this now lol maybe I was stubborn too), the times we spent at your place, my place, both times you were pregnant with Elianne and Nanelle and the joy we shared when you brought them to this world and the opportunity to render my little uncle Kobby duties mostly with Elianne. From the restaurants and your popular food joints like the aboboi and tatale place in adabraka or the roadside rice and stew in adenta to Ci Gusta etc
Sedina, you were a true epitome of Love, kindness, care and generosity to me and you were there when you could always be. As any pain in the ass brother will be, I’d beg to use your car for whatever reason and you’d without hesitation let me have the keys till when u needed it and sometimes fill the tank on top and even sometimes add momo on top because you always wanted me to be okay since I was unemployed at the time. After about 7 years of no stable job after my national service, of course you were the one I called and you didn’t hesitate to go with me, to make sure I was properly dressed for my employment letter and to share in the joy of my new job. All these were some of the priceless memories and I won’t trade them for anything.
I’m very happy and at peace that I got to give you all the roses you deserved when you were alive when I had the chance because you were truly an amazing person to me.
To Elianne and Nanelle, whenever you get to read this, I’d want you to personally know mummy loved you very much (even though you’ve heard or read a million times) and still loves you from the heavens above because there’s no doubt that’s where she is. As much as she would have wanted to be part of your lives and seen you grow up into beautiful women, (which you already are; especially you, 6 year old Elianne) Our hope is always in the Lord for there are those times when God might not come through the way we thought He would, He may seem very far away, and praise is the last thing to bubble up from our hearts because we can’t see His goodness and circumstances scream that He has forgotten us but best believe that God’s timing, will, plan and glory is the best all the time. I’ll do my best to be there for you both as much as I can so help me God.
Sedina, till we meet again REST IN PARADISE. You’ll forever be in my heart.