4 years January 13, 2017
January 16, 2017
It's hard to believe it's been 4 years without you. Your presence is always with us. Your legacy will live on in Lily. I love you. We love you.
1 year
January 19, 2014
I can't believe you've been gone 1 year. We think about you everyday. Everyday at 7** my heart skips a beat. Lily kisses your pictures everyday and says she loves you. I removed you from Houston National Cemetery on January 9th now you're home with us in California where you belong...with your family like we planned. You said yourself there's nothing good for you in Texas. I also brought Lily to see your grandma, I know you were happy about that. Your mom didn't reply to the offer to see Lily, her loss. Everynight I remember the last thing you said to me =) One day closer...
Babe
October 19, 2013
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I love you and miss you more everyday. Lily is a lot like you :) I love you babe
6 months July 13, 2013
July 14, 2013
There's a hole in my heart that will always be present, a part of me died with James. Out of tragedy I've learned what type of person some people really are. I've gained friends who I now consider family. I've cut my husband's family out of my daughter's life with no regrets. They showed their true colors, they gave no help and proved money and material things are more important to them. In the end Lily and Marc are taken care bc that's what James wanted. I pray my husband forgives his mom and family for how they have treated us. They are truely pathetic, worthless people and it hurts my heart to know James sees their true colors. My family and I get to watch Lily grow up and that's priceless. James will always be with me bc of Lily. I look at her and see soo much of him. A day closer, a week closer, a month closer to being with James again. ♥♥♥♥
Father's Day June 16, 2013
June 16, 2013
Happy Father's day in heaven my love! Lily kisses your pictures and dog tags everyday, she says "love you daddy miss you" Not a day goes by that we don't talk about you. I hope you liked the pictures our princess took for you today. We love you and we'll see you soon!
Post I posted on James' facebook
June 9, 2013
This is a post I posted on my husband James' Facebook that his mom removed (I copied and pasted it to email my bff)...I know the Witch will be steaming that she can't delete this =P
Baby please help me! I don't know why ppl are being soo evil. Now isn't the time to be acting like that. I want ppl to know what I'm dealing with, I know you see it and I know you're pissed. I thought your family was my family as well. I gave them things of yours that they wanted while they were here so they can maybe feel little closer to you. Your mom told me you told her you would do it and all she told you was, "Go take a walk" When your family left our house, our home where I tried to save you and was with you when you took your last breathe...not even 2 days later your mom asked me for a copy of your other life insurance policy and says, "Do you think it's too early to call" WTF?! You left her a $100,000 death gratuity to pay for funeral expenses and anything else. I'm stuck with rent, 2 car payments, insurance, phone and utility bills. I can't even pay all that right now bc I have to make sure I enough to get home to California. Did you see when I had to ask for a grant from Army relief to help for our bills? They helped me but not with all our bills. Oh and I still have to pay for an urn for our daughter. Was any help offered to us? Fuck no. I found your caprice with no help from anyone after asking a few times. Did you know your mom had your chief go to the shop and tell the owner, "Don't give the car to Eve, she's not getting anything" WTF?! She had plans to pick up your car on the 8th which is the day of your memorial. Why are ppl like this?! Now she's calling complaining bc I have the car. SMFH. Give me the patience to deal with this and please forgive me for making a decision not to let them be a part of Lily's life. I have to protect her from evil. I'm your wife and the mother of your daughter, I have to protect her and fight for her and that's what I intend to do. If that makes me a bad person or a bitch, so be it. I'm sure ppl will tell me I shouldn't have posted this, but I know you would say, "Waaaa" I love you, we are one day closer to being with eachother again. ♥♥♥♥ I ask you to forgive your mom for how she is and what she's trying to do, we should be together at this time but she doesn't see it, all she sees are $$$ signs — with James De La Cruz.
Take a walk
May 29, 2013
After James died, my husband's mom Sylvia told me James told her he was going to do it. She told me she didn't "want to deal with it" so she told her own son to "take a walk" What kind of a heartless mother would say that to her own child? She didn't even bother telling me what James had told her. Then not even 48 hours after he was dead she had the nerve to say, "Do you think it's too early to call?" referring to my husband's life insurance. I was disgusted that my husband's mother was trying to profit from his death. James took care of us when he was alive and even now he still takes care of his family, he especially took care of Lily and my husband's mom doesn't like that bc somewhere in her twisted mind she thought she was going to get everything. She even thought she was going to get both his cars. The "grieving mother" thought she hit the lottery SMFH. The trash grew up with nothing and with my husband's death she wanted all he had, all he worked for. She was even fucking dumb enough to serve me with paperwork objecting to me being Lily's guardian, including guardian of her estate. WTF was the ignorant b!tch thinking? I'm her mother, who else would be my daughter's guardian? I know my husband would say "dumb hoe" lmao
Houston National Cemetery
May 29, 2013
For those of you who would like to visit James, he's at Houston National Cemetery in Houston Texas. My former mother-in-law, Sylvia, had my husband's ashes placed there and didn't want us to know. I wasn't able to bring my husband's daughter Lily or my son Marc to his service. Why would she think my husband James wouldn't want us to be there? She's a heartless, evil, selfish woman. I don't feel bad for deciding not to let my husband's family be a part of my daughter's life.
Forever Missed
May 21, 2013
One of my husband's friends told me his mom also has a memorial for James on Forever Missed, if you look at her web url his name isn't spelled right...James JESS De La Cruz...it's JESSE. I guess you can't expect much from someone who didn't raise her own child. SMH
James Jesse De La Cruz
May 21, 2013
My husband is loved and missed by many. James lived for his family, especially his daughter, Lilyana. Lily reminds me of James more everyday. I'm looking forward to seeing the type of person she grows up to be. With the love and support of my parents (the only grandparents she'll know) my brothers and Marc, Lily will know what a wonderful man her Daddy was and how much he loved her. I'll love my husband always and forever, people can say whatever they want bc there are things about James I'll never tell anyone, I won't even tell what time he took his last breath; only myself, my parents and God will ever know. I have the only part of James left, Lily, who I'll love, cherish and protect forever.
XooXoXXoOXOoxxXo,
Evita, Marc, and Lily